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AuroraB:
She didn't say 'no' entirely.
She needs to get well first and think over it.
The man should exercise patience

na so.. You that is talking, how many of those guys that you told "i will think about it" did you ever think off??
which ever way you want to analyse it, the summary is that he was rejected.

Cutecharlz:
Mine happened way back in the university days. I meet a lady we decided to date. Things went down well not until she started receiving dirty advice from ur room mate to rip me huge some for some material things. She came to my house and claimed she was pregnant for me....as a Jew man I as so scared and terrified that I will be a father at my second yr in univ. I seemed her opinion on what to do and she came up with d&c thing.. I enquired hw much it might cost and she said 10k "imagine 10k in the year 2005 which was my one month feeding money"...I gave her the 10k and after a week she came back and we continued the relationship again. I was so nice and bought good things for her; so bcoz of my good gesture she finally opened up that she wasn't pregnant and just needed money for some bags and material stuff...I felt jilted and betrayed coz if she had asked me to get the items she used the money for, I would hv gladly done so....
After say 5 months she called me that she is pregnant and it was for real, I quietly acted ignorant...she bugged and disturbed me abt it and I simply told her to use the 10k she ripped me off the previous time to sort herself out. That was the end of the relationship.... Ones beaten twice shy.....

so what happened next?? Was the pregnacy yours??

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=dodgerblue]by blood. No[/color]

Alright, nice arguing with meeting you... i'm Tapout by the way And if u ever happen to visit 9ja, be sure to holla at me... Maybe we could grab some deep fried big fat oilly puffpuff together while familiarizing with each other

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=deeppink] no. Im Black American. [/color]

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=deepskyblue] i was kidding.

The moniker was after the American cheeze puff snack chip, then i found that there was a nigerian puffpuff. So either or i guess[/color]

na wah o,Of all the snaks in America... I thought It was culled from the usual puffpuff i know that is heavy laden with oil. And how can u not know of 9ja puffpuff, r u mexican?

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=deepskyblue]Good.that mean i win [/color]

this lady/girl, I can see u sha like to argue. besides I haven't gained anything physically, spiritually or Financially while arguing and trying to convince u, so No wahala carry the trophy and go biko
How did u even come up with such a moniker

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=deeppink]the whole sex wasnt rape,just the strokes after she told him to stop. To be clear cuz i see what u tried ta do there[/color]

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=dodgerblue]i undestand. And i have agreed the whole sex wasnt rape[/color]

[color=dodgerblue]but her pride and fears are irrelevant, after u put up yer hands or say no or stop,its rape.
There is no yes that covers it all. There is a thin line between Sexual consent and rape. [/color]

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=dodgerblue]its not that simple. And im not being biased. If u dont understand mine explaining in my last post ,i dont think u will ever understand [/color]

I clearly understood your last post, and like i said, her consent from the onset covers everything. did u read where he said they had MouthAction and after that she laid down for him to get on top?? and I'm also pretty sure she helped him wear a condom.

besides according to the guy, she is a proud lady and i know how they act. she was probably concerned with the fact that the guy might spread the news at their workplace, hence she decided to initiate a damage control step ahead of time.

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=deeppink]course not. The whole sex wasn't rape,only the strokes after she told him to stop.
I know its disheartening and a hard 2 believe that pleasure can turn 2 rape that quick. But it's so ,it stopped being consentual [/color]

look, her consent from the onset covers everything... we both agree to rob a bank, in the process of robbing the bank , the police turns up. you take whatever amount you've been able to carter, drop your weapon and say u aint robbing again......tell me, WILL IT STOP THEM FROM NOT BLOWING THE HELL OUT OF YOUR SKULL?? if your answer is NO, then we can agree ur just being biased. if your answer is YES, then its obvious u need a medical attention asap!

SweetPuffPuff:
[color=deeppink]these comments .
Apparently people dont know what constitutes as rape.
A no,a stop and u do it anyway = rape. Doesnt matter if she was having it at 1st. She said stop,it was no longer consentual[/color]

lets say he stopped when she told him to, does it erase the fact that she had sex with him??
i was wondering how i will read comments on this thread without reading comments from a bunch of biased human beings

Dimples129:
Because she said no... and he admitted that HE too wanted to come so he ignored her request. He has confessed already. She is an idiot, yes but this was rape.

Dimples129:
If I say stop and my man continued then it is rape because I no longer consent to my body being 'used' short of a better word.

And you will have to wait till you have an orgasm b4 you tell him to stop?

Dimples129:
Is she selfish? Yes!
Is she a biatch? Yes!
Is she a fool? Yes!


Is this rape? Hell YES

how??

Tessie01:
my dear Just let go of him and protect your ego cuz if he truly wants you he would ask for your number again.

mtchew!! so the guy himself that was bold enough to walk up to her and ask for her number doesn't have his own ego abi?? It's not like he even for the number afterall. Keep protecting ur ego, it would surely be there to keep u company when ur 40

neezar:
She's my level gal.....was at Madonna b4 I took transcript to Abuad

Pimples full her face sha but she gat packaging

Guy what is it nau?? Even the dead cant have peace of mind again in Nigeria

Uyiii:
Aside Tottenham's game, I think sanchez is a good buy for manchester united.
he's gonna explore when he gets his footings and of course acclimatize in his new team.

P.s: city's won this season's EPL trophy, let's give it to them already.

when it comes to highjacking, Al-Qaeda dey learn work for were u dey
BTW, I heard griezmann may be leaving atletico madrid soon... How true is it??

Treas006:
Ladies calm down! He is a married man another TinTallTony

Divay22:
Don't mind all this our ladies.... Dude is taken.
It's all showbiz