₦airaland Forum

Juliusmalema:
Chika don't blame ur father....If my wife gives birth upto 3 girls without a boy...a male child....i won't be happy.....Is not easy not to have a male child.....in a family...

There must be a boy even if it is one....so don't blame ur dad....i will do same....but not rejecting my children just that my happiness won't be full....

because onye ga anochim ma achom.....who will take over if am not there.....

Your wife would only be giving birth to whatever your sperm creates!. So if you want to be unhappy, be unhappy with your testes...

Nigerians are just sycophants! I'm sure no one here watched the video. She didn't hit him at all!! She only struck his phone cos she got mad he was recording and taunting her. Nairaland reduces IQ I swear!

Yet another stupid advice seeking thread from a myopic nairaland male looking for answers from other myopic thinking males. Nairaland is full of inexperienced kids and broke adults!

Overlooked the good qualities of a human being just cos of a tattoo! A f*cking tattoo??!. We have a long way to go in this country.

Biglittlelois:
I think the society we are in especially Nigeria affects mind set alot, not every woman wants to GET married, not every woman wants to STAY married, some just wants to taste and leave, people do what society wants so that they wont be tagged different names, personally i'm indifferent about marriage, only advantage is to have a stable and safe fvck mate, have kids legally et al.

Exactly. Thank you

BlackAfrican:
Na shame if country wey woman dey rule come defeat us o

SMH

tintingz:
The OP might be bias in his report, judging by what he posted alone is not my thing, he might just be playing the victim-card here, I usually hear from both side.

How are we not so sure the OP is not also a cheats or didn't do anything wrong? People usually account thier report as if they are free from errors.

In most marriages in Africa women are forced/compel to forgive thier cheating husband but when reverse is the case it's always no forgiveness.

Cc angelboy01

You're the only mature guy on this thread. Boys talking nonsense! One of em was even born 1993. They just see this thread as an avenue to bash women cos one girl in school rejected their advances

@angelboy01, if you want a divorce go ahead with it but you dare not take a child from the mother! Your kid is just 2 for crying out loud. You want to give your child to your mom when the biological mother is still alive?! It can't happen and the court won't grant such yeye request!. Being a cheat doesn't make her a bad mother. As long as she has never harmed the child in any way, you can't take the child from her! The court won't side you! Stop it!

ZirdoRoray:
A real man doesn't run away from the fight. Instead he faces it head on and conquers. To do this, cross your heart and listen to your head.
1.) Pretend to forgive her.
2.) Keep her as a Bleep buddy and if you start having feelings for her again (because this can happen), keep a side chic to keep your head straight and your head it correct, you will be fucking the side chic almost for free.
3.) Bleep the hell out of your wife everyday but always insists on contraceptives. If she doesn't want to, blackmail into it. Tell her using contraceptives proves she has repented.
4.) Use the opportunity to get the divorce certificate, if she is scared, convince her you love her.
5.) Play on her feelings and Scheme a way of getting money from her to start and profitable business that will take care of both your expenses. Or anyway you think you can get good cash from her without her getting suspicious. Remember you gonna be paying child support for a long time.
6.) When you have gotten enough goodies from her and have a good escape plan, Hire a prostitute and bring the Slut to your house. Make sure your wife catches you in the act. Beg her to forgive, that you're still feeling hurt. Make sure you get away from that scene fast because women can be dangerous in that scenario. Keep pleading with her that you will never do it again. If she forgives you, bring another slut again to your house and let her catch you in the act again or you if you're sharp. You can do this with her close friend and some with a close relationship with her.
7.) By this time she will be seeking divorce.
Bros that's how to get your revenge.
If you really want to forgive her, remember she has probably been fucking her Boss all through the 3 years you have been with her and only got courageous about it when you went broke. Every Human being knows at the bottom of their heart that they cannot have genuine respect again for a partner who once cheated them. You'll always be suspicious one way or another.

Are you 15 years old?! Smh what did I just read?

Gentew:
Waiting for your calls

Do you do drivers license?

samyfreshsmooth:
na wah o


why do y'all see this as something wrong


it's not like he opens her leg and checks it himself

It is wrong and your uncle is a sexual deviant. Tell the old man to stop having depraved thoughts.

samyfreshsmooth:
i dont think you understand the situation


lemme break it down for you


1) she's the only girl amongst 5 children


2) she's naturally wild and pompous (though super fun to be with)


3) shes a lady with a hymen and dignity to protect


4) shes just 21


you get it now

You see nothing wrong with an old man checking a grown womans virginity status?. Really?
Are you listening to yourself??! 21 is still a child?!

When I read certain comments on NL I begin to wonder.......

Your uncle is a very sick and sexually depraved man! Checking his daughters virginity?! Does he want to eat it??. This is another form of abuse. Women have suffered in this world

This old man again with his crappy threads

majorbravo:
I am actually suprised at the number of people on this thread that actually think its safe to wash their meat.

Any professional chef that washes meat ought to be fired.

Use google if you aren't aware.

https://www.fsis.usda.gov/wps/portal/fsis/topics/food-safety-education/get-answers/food-safety-fact-sheets/safe-food-handling/washing-food-does-it-promote-food-safety/washing-food

https://www.nhs.uk/live-well/eat-well/never-wash-raw-chicken/

That is the US and UK. Have you ever been to a Nigerian meat market??

Please Nigerians, wash your meat o. Science also advices we shouldn't bath everyday, do you follow suite?! Smh

Viergeachar:
Woman wrapper.
Remember, women hate 'nice' men.

Shut the f*ck up!

I'm a human being with empathy. Go ahead and be calling yourself a "man" when you lack sense!

Nigerian men are very selfish creatures! I'm a Nigerian man and I'm saying this!. You all want a woman to do all the chores, take care of the kids and also contribute to the finances!! Kuku kill her all in the name of marriage, I really don't see how marriage favors Nigerian women except when there are kids.

What most Nairaland guys bring to the table is d*CK and a meagre salary

I always advise my sister's to please marry a foreign man, I'm glad they're not even based in Nigeria. The lady I eventually get married to is going to know my mom raised me right

You should have used "mall for Africa". Peace of mind

Yet another stooopid thread on nairaland! Nairaland is a gathering for stoooopid people! Yesterday, a fo.ol made a thread about how to identify a lesbian, today another chap makes a thread about how single mothers are some kinda "disease" just cos his relationship with ONE didn't work cos she wasn't even ready for marriage! Smh

I'm sure if she was a white single mother you'd marry her. We Nigerian men need to do better!

DontCallMePale:
You have to be pretty ret@rded to have sat down to write this up and you'd be even more ret@rded if you take this post seriously. I swear on god this website is full of the dumbest people you'll ever come across.

So true! Very dumb people on nairaland

This is by far the dumbest thread I've come across on nairaland. Very very very stoooopid thread. I feel like banging my head on the wall!. What the hell did I just read??

Lol my boarding school was for ajebutters. I didn't suffer. Went to ABTI academy (now known as AUN academy) in Yola, adamawa state

Investor_bj's very good friend I wonder why he left Malay for the US to continue fraud.

Karma Sha. See you in 5years+ bro

Lol Ragnar lothbrok?.

sanpipita:
The poster shared a health tip basically making in a woman's duty, what if a man is single? who will do it for him, many Nigerian men die off cos they can't take care of themselves, ppl should learn to take their personal wellbeing serious regardless of gender.

You're the only one who clearly understands what the lady was pissed at. Thank you

We men always expect ladies to do irrelevant stuff for us like we're handicapped! . It is now a lady's duty to checkmate YOUR health! YOUR health not hers, YOURS!! smh

dominique:
Why do Nigerian men support actions by deadbeat dad most of the time. Do they think it's ok to neglect one's flesh and blood? The deed has been done, the mistake has been made now it's time to face the consequences, they start slut shaming the babymama as if she got pregnant by herself. If you don't want to be "trapped" with pregnancy, use necessary precautions. That shouldn't be so hard should it? I'm so
glad those deadbeat parents are now being given the treatment they deserve by the children they abandoned. No child is going to grow up one day and start looking for you if you've not been present in their lives. Such parent deserve to be be disgraced

Dont be surprised at all. Many Nigerians have/had deadbeat dads... that's why many Nigerians have behavioral issues. They're in support of wizkids actions cos it's a norm to them.

Lol nairaland is filled with self loathing misogynists. They hate news about successful people especially if it's a woman

50k earners , it'll be better

histemple:
Who gave birth to these men and failed to train them well?

It is not the sole duty of a woman to train her kids!!. Did she impregnate herself?!. Now I see why we have many bad fathers in Nigeria cos they have this mentality that it's a womans job to raise kids. Smh

Why do people believe she didn't write that?. Many people aren't good at expressing themselves with oral words but are very good at writing.

Scam website. Once you make a payment you get locked out of your account. Don't patronize...

What rubbish is this?!. Who's the mod that pushed this to front page?!. This thread is meant to be deleted

BlueRayDick:
But he told me he will pick up items today. Na wa o.

Lol he told me he'll pick up items by 2pm yesterday. Anyways let's give it till Friday...

Temihatz:
Kindly give him more time to sort these items. I believe it is going to take some time because of the volume of our orders. #Justmyopinion

okay.