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Is anyone watching? We need an update. Pleeeeeeas.

i want a blackberry.

Nothing compares to nairaland, so much options and cracking of ribs as well, you guys are just too wonderful, please keep them coming, will get the gift on friday and will be with him tru the weekend. I appreciate you all.

We practise abstinence, so, i need other options.
@MMM, What do you mean by one carton of soap for self service?

Suggestion of gift

Wonder shall never end on nairaland. Some people are just foolish. That's the way i see it.

It all depends on the area you are living, i have experienced both the easy and hard way.
Listen, i live in akute,ogun state. God, it was like a battle field, the first time i went there,i got there around 8am and met like 50people, some said they've been there since 6am, at the end of the day 28people was registered and i was number 52. The next time i went there was with a neighbour that have a car,we actually went to another centre arround cos they have two machines,there we took our numer which was 20 and 21,so we decided to go and eat,dont forget that the people registring us were not there yet. Before we came back the number was no more effective,everyone just rushed there wen the registra came arround and they were attendinding to them according to the line up. God, we were so devastated,immediately,she got in the car and we drove down to my mum's office at agege local government, when we got to the centre, we didnt spend ten mimutes there. When we got to akute, we called a guy who was number thirteen in akute cos he is the woman's mechanic and he said he is still there,now we cant vote in akute. So,it depends on the area

abj

I think i totally agree with MrBrownjay on this. I wont say childlessness is not enough reason to quit a marriage. It just depends on the reason for the union. Some pple have a wives that cannot give birth and they go for a second wife, now tell me if that wife is fruitless too, what is her business in the house, she was married to because of the child.
Again,i have a aunt who got hooked by a man and they were so in love that they miss each other at any free time, after she finished her final exam,they tied the not and they didnt plan to have a child until the lady finished her NYSC, isn't it obvious why they got married in the first instance. So,people act according to their priority.
Shalom

@Aysomething, i'll be expecting the title of the film.Please try to remember or find out. I'll do the same though.

So, you guys have been discussing about my darling actor and i never knew.
Thanks for uploading his picture. I believe its only God that knows what man doesn't know and him alone is able to judge.
The truth is known to Yemi, Abi{as u call her} and God. So, neither you {her sister}, you that over heard their conversation can tell me the truth.
On that note, i say Yemi please come back to the movie industry, we love your emotions and hope to see more of you in the industry{that's the only place i have business with you.}

A relationship can succeed wen u understand each other even wen the love isnt so much, When there is love and there is no or less understanding,then such relationship is heading to the rock to be destroyed. My mum will always say she can live with a mad person,all she need to do is to neglect and ignore when the madness arises {that is understanding the person you are with}.

I'm not surprised, when he was asked about when to remarried,his response showed he had interest.
I have no problem with that since its not a sin.
I wish him well and hope he married a virtous woman. So,he can enjoy the remaining part of his life an not regret it

i dont understand what you guys meant by saying she married the man because of his money, for crying out loud, the lady is rich in her own way. She has enough money to take care of herself.
You never can tell what attracted her to the man
sometimes you fall in love or settle down with people you never taught you would even have anything to do with.
Although,i'm not in support of her marriage to a man who have his own wife. The woman will definately be sad.
My point is,it might not be because of the money,though is very wrong. I love her{especially in movies} anyway.

My sister failed only mathematics in her Waec result and now that Neco result is out,she passed mathematics and failed only English. Please,can she combine both since she cant use either result?

Please house, can Neco result and Waec result be combined for admission. My sister did not make maths in Waec but made it in Neco but did not make English in Neco. So, she cant use either.

YES, why should i pretend? When i barely know the people on nairaland.

There no place,organization or group witout a black head.Therefore, wherever you find good there must be bad,even the bible says they wil grow together until they are ripe for seperation. What i'm trying to say is that the fact that some people are usin fake book doesn't make everytin fake. I'm also on face book and the picture on my wall was taken in my room and all my infos are true. So, i believe there are pple like me.
It is facebook and probably fake book.

Search yourself first,if your not the reason why he is cheating on u.If you are "blameless" in that aspect,then go on your knees and pray to God.Aside that,make your house a home indeed,let him find joy arround you and he will want to be arround you.
Note:
Its not very easy especially when the man has started cheating,more reason why you need God,with him all things are possible.
Dont forget Divorce is never an option.

I no know wetin i do wey make you love me so. That is why i go praise your name.

Cry if you have to cry,it one of the way of reliving yourself. Alway tell yourself you will get over it someday and you will get better.

@Ruq,if she never wanted to have you,she would have aborted you. Please,learn to appreciate her at least for the pain she went through for bringing you to the world and focus on the future.
@poster.
Mum,i've always thought you were so wicked and cruel to me until this stage in my life, that i look at my life and see how discipline i am.
At 22,i'm already a graduate.
At 22,i'm still a virgin and want to keep it 4 d right person, under the right ceiling.
At 22,alot of men/guys want me not just as girlfriend but as wife cos they say i possess what they want in a woman.
Mum,you planted all this in me and now its germinating. I have nothing to say than to say "THANK YOU MUM.

I believe your mind is corrupted that's why u tink the mind of the people{female} you are talking to are corrupted. I have male friends and i have never thought the have any hidden agenda in their mind. Even if they think that way when you start talking to them,they will change their thoughts as they know you more,that's if truly your mind is not corrupt. Stop living a boren life,without women,your life is boren and i'm sure you dont enjoy such that's why you are here.

If he says he has never chase a woman before,where are the women that has been chasing him? I tell you,they have loose their dignity and he has not been treating them well enough to still be with him. I tell you,if u continue to run after him,he will use and dump you as well. Whenever he sees what he loves and want,he will not only chase but run,die 4 it. Be reserved and ignore him,if he misses u he will come looking for you.

Please my people,we are nobody to judge,prescribe,recomend or decide who goes to heaven and who does not. Infact,the way this God works marvels me sometimes and he cannot be predicted. I can only work out my own salvation with him. If you ask me,he<GOD> deals with people seperately.There are instances in the bible.No wonder he looked at two brothers and he said one have i hated and the other i love. No wonder,David committed sins and after he has praised and worshipped him,he forgives immediately.
I pray i wil always be his elect in Jesus name{AMEN}

I dont understand you bro,the fact that you are helping your girlfriend,does it mean you shouldn't pay attention to your own life? If you can afford sponsoring her without it affecting your career. Good for you, i can bet it with you cos i'm a woman too,if the lady turns out better than you are in future,she will make sure she humilates you and you wont stand her. Work things out for yourself and by the time you arrive you will brace her up if u truly love her.

This chaircover can be funny with the truth.What she said is true,while i was reading the post,i felt like "for God sake pregnancy does not a woman paralyse but at the same time,if a man can do these things,i tell you the woman will feel loved and appreciated.Its not about the chores but the feelings it laid on the spouse.
God bless our men

Thanks Ziddy,i'm really working on my personality, i'm just letting the poster know that the mind of her sister, that she doesn't mean to hurt them. Its just her personality,which i agree its not good atall.

Maybe your friend is not submissive, money is very powerful and its the root of all evil, when there is money you tend to misbehave. It takes the fear and love of God to be under controll even with your money. Also,friendship is very important between the husband and wife so that the husband wont feel inferior. If you see your wife as your friend,there will be tolerance and mutual respect and you wil work and do things together,regardless of where the money is coming from.

Everyone has spoken well, without wasting time,just yield to what you are been told and stop giving your cloth to the woman to wash as soon as you can. I tell you,if i'm your wife,i can do something worst.

There was a typographical error, i was talking about a woman's sensitivity. Besides i dont knw how to edit my post. Someone pls help with that. I'm using a phone to browsd