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dumahi:
This post has again revealed how WICKED most Nigerians are. Someone had the gut to expose himself so much because he is in dire need of help but not a single compassion from many commenters here.

As for you OP, my first advise to you is to STOP cursing yourself. For instance, your moniker alone is self-curse. Again, the title of this thread is self-curse.

I understand you are a very HONEST person due to your Catholic (I bet) background. It makes you to have very honest attitude but you are now honest TO A FAULT if it now leads you to a negative self-image which is very clear from your post.

Know this: Negative self-image is not a virtue. For instance, it's not genuine humility. It is the function of subconscious ingratitude towards your Creator who made you so fearfully and wonderfully! It doesn't lead to repentance rather, it reinforces bad habits SINCE YOU THINK YOU ARE WORTHLESS ("after all, worthless things should be treated dishonorably" is how your subconscious puts it to you CONSTANTLY.

So, what should you do about this situation?
1. Start NOW to change your self-communication from negative to positive. See how: In your privacy, always tell yourself "I am a handiwork of the Most High. Therefore, I am great. I am honorable. I am grateful to my Maker for making me so great" and more like this. As you are doing this, DON'T STRUGGLE WITH YOUR BAD HABITS. Instead, they will go away by themselves. Think of what happens to a drowning person: if he struggles with the water, he gets drowned finally. But if he lets go and relaxes, he gets saved. So, don't struggle with your bad habits. For instance, if that girl comes and you find yourself sucking her as usual, don't worry about it. BUT DON'T BE OBSESSING ON SUCH THOUGHTS. Instead, spend your thoughts on being grateful for how great you are (which is NOT EVEN A LIE, judging from your writing ability). As your self-honor increases, YOU WILL NATURALLY STOP THOSE BAD HABITS. But, be warned: they are going to ease off on their own as you continuously impregnate yourself with POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS.
2. Don't listen to Devil's voices telling you how useless you are via other people (like your boss or colleagues or Nairalanders or Facebookers talking down on you.
3. I will introduce you to an audio that will help you to IMMEDIATELY start transforming your finances by transforming your mindset. You will see that EVERYTHING about you actually depends on your mindset. Let me get the link (I'll be right back).

Are u new here. Child of doom can never change... All advice we gave him since turned deaf ears

Aboki99:
Liars, give us his address for confirmation! Why would any sensible muslim convert to xtianity when as a muslim he or she is only practicing what the Bible preaches that xtians refuse to practice because Paul of Tarsus deceived them?

Muslims pray the way Jesus prayed in Mathew 26:39.

Muslims say "peace be upon you" (Assalamu alaykum) as greetings to people just as Jesus habitually did (see among other several places John 20:21.

Muslims washed their hands b4 they pray just as Moses, Aaron and his sons did in Exodus 30 v 18 to 21: Exodus 40 v 30 to 31 .

Muslims don't drink beer as Ephesians 5 v 18 commands.

Muslim women wear Hijab or veils to cover their body from the head as the Bible command (Gen 34 v 65, 1 Corinthians 11 v 6, Deuteronomy 22 v 5.

So how can I or my children stop practicing all these Quranic and Biblical teachings just to allow myself to be deceived by Paul of Tarsus? Only hypocrites who are deceived that "the Law is gone with the Christ" by the arch enemy of Christ (Paul), when Christ himself told his disciples in Matthew 5 v 15 that "Think ye not that I am come to destroy the Law. I am not to destroy but to fulfil"

I was formerly a Muslim but got converted to christianity 2001.... As a critical thinker

Islam has no direction, i lived in the north the religion has no focus no hope...

Inasmuch as there is no peace on earth, there is peace in CHRIST with the hope of eternal glory

Advocatejustice:
Exactly my point friend!

The same way you don't like the way I addressed you because of what I presumed to be your bad action is the exact same way most of those parents didn't like the way you treat their children because of their actions you presumed not to be morally right.

Just check it.

Steer clear off my mention...

Advocatejustice:
If you will take elders advice, please cease from this your action.

The story will change entirely when you mistakenly injure one of them, no matter what you claimed they've done, by then no one will care to listen to you.

That your parents were brutal child beater toward you at home does not justify your now action.
With all their brutal beatings and the like you still ended up been a teacher in a private school!

That you attended a local school or government school where you were dehumanized does not justify your action towards those kids.

That your religion spits on you here and there and find joy in molesting you through words and deed does not justify your now action towards those innocent kids.

With all these characteristics you've display as a teacher, you really belong to the zoo.

You are not fit and proper for teaching job.

You are not fit to be an elder...
You are very Stupid for this

Na today....

U know how many parents fought me for correcting / spanking their kids for their wayward behaviour..... I just dey pity some parents...

Just today a boy told his teacher she is not serious... Am sure his mother wil be applying balm to his back cause i really did justice to that...

Bro just dey manage for the mean time... In no tym life will settle you.. #believe

Simp

[quote author=PrinceOfLagos post=98365739]There is nothing cool in being single
Stop consoling yourself [/quote
Misery loves company....
Been single is cool... Suck dat up

Life

knowhowk:
. Use "I " not "we " ,Speak only for yourself only . Social Medias News are not Forced on anyone ,You intensionally read them ,Ignoring Social Medias News would do your ailing ear lots of good .

Marvis cousin e pele ooo.... U will be alright

Fulham is dead...

Yourself, your brother and his wife yeye dey worry una

Naxo life be oo

Atleast we go hear word now....

Jakumo:
Schools are closed worldwide, and those previously opened, are being shut due to the second virus wave. Watch the news and be aware.

You are part of the problem.... Any report of children death due to Covid.... You talk as if you are not a Nigerian...
No critical thinking... Wat a waste...
U need orientation

Confused Administration...

Stop associating natural death to covid please.... Stop this nonsense...

Alot of people have underlining ailment... Stop hyping Covid...

Baba twins....
Patronize us for baby tinx....
Mumu boi

Lol

You are greedy....

With all the warnings you still fell for this scam...
Now scammers don use you cashout for this tight economy

All this loan app... Me no dey do...
I rather borrow from a friend

Sex is the only thing most ladies can offer men.... No intelligent discussion only billing

shey suffer no dey tire U?

Dear nairalanders

Dear nairalanders

Today is just 7th... God see me tru

Same feeling when i lost my dad last year November

Same feeling when i lost my dad last year November... Very painful... Its not easy oo

Definition of long life... Only few got to dat age