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welcome john to nairaland.
and ladies howcome it is only john you have offered a lapdance to. Last time i checked i wasn't allergic to them

hey bukenzo, welcome to nairaland. nice to meet u.

hmm, wish i could learn something like that, unfortunately, i'm scared of heights so i think i'll sit myself on the ground. Good luck and keep us informed.

aw he's cute(in non gay fashion ) welcome to nairaland, see you inside.

yea..it rocks lizzy panties

funny, rock's lizzy panties real funny

Trooper, Sorry been away for a while.
In my opinion, stall for time. a girl that really loves you will always be patient. the fact that she is putting a time limit and that travel agencies are already contacting you makes me feel that it is all a sham. I've had a few friends that were into all these Yahoo runs(419) and the way things are being played out is begining to seem quite familiar. in my opinion tell her this.
1. Tell her that unfortunately it will be more costly to send the money through western union and that you need to buy the ticket for her from there and send it to her.
2. tell her due to security measures in the US now that the travel agencies there need a scanned or photocopy of her visa sent to them, so she should send it to you so you can forward it to them.
(that will make you know whether she has a visa or not.)
3. if she agrees to all that and she does have a valid visa, then you can take the risk of buying the ticket for her. Please do not send the money over to her under any circumstances.
If she is not for real, she may try and find ways not to do what you asked and picking a fight with you might be one of them, especially concerning sending the money down and the visa thing.

These are just ideas that might help you find out if she is for real or not. GOOD LUCK

_{Ps i hope she is for real}

Seun and Nddy, cooking and cleaning isn't the point, cos let's face facts majority of the women nowadays can't do either. What i'm saying is that external beauty for a lady is alright, at least it get's her foot in the door, but that is all it does. whether she now enters the house depends on her internal qualities ie what she has inside.
If guys where all about external beauty only, do you think girls like hallie berry and the likes would ever get dumped

peace hmmmm......

Hell No, Not that one

Nobody is saying that boobs or ass won't attract us. Lets be serious we won't even get to know a girl if she doesn't Fit out basic requirements(physically). What we are saying is that her physical structure alone does not denote true beauty. Let a girl have the best structure in the world, It is no gaurantee that it will keep the guy if he doesn't find some of the other stuff we are looking for in a wife. tell me a guy that will marry a pretty face that can't cook, clean and do some other basic stuff.

Well, it depends o, If it is your grilfriend and you guys are past all the "forming" stage, you should be able to tell her what is one your mind. If she looks good, tell her she looks good. If she looks *%$.##$^%... tell to you she'll always look perfect but maybe you prefer the other harstyle she did or something like that in my opinon you just say you prefer something else she did at one time to what she has on at this time....they usually get the message. All girls want to be told they look good but i'll expect that if she doesn't look good. you should be able to let her know in a gentle manner, not just tell her "Girl you look crazy". I believe she'll appreciate it in the end even if she might not at that moment.

hmm seems there are a lot of pretty girls in this forum o. Anyway welcome to nairaland

yeah she is isn't she

Ok told you it was a long story. It first started when my friend(D) i was staying with during my nysc service year came home and told me he had just met this girl(R) and she was this and that. At that point i was just out of a relationship that ended badly and i wasn't ready for another one. Anyway he persuaded me to escort him to the girl's house. i eventually relented and went with him. so when we where infront of their house my friend called the girl(R) out. instead her sister(P) came out and told us we should wait a while for her sister(R), that she was cooking. (P) stayed a while and kept us company during that time. i on the other hand was completely bored. her sister(R) came out and well they spoke and we left.
After a while i noticed my friend(D) will always come home and tell me that his now girlfriend's sister(P) said she shoud greet me, which suprised me considering i hadn't said a word to her. What i didn't know was that anytime he goes to his girlfriends place, he will also tell (P) the same thing. Anyway this went on for a while and one day we both ended up in a party together (me & P) so i said to meself, let me get to know this girl that has always been greeting me through my friend (d). The more i found out about her, the more i seemed to like her, like two weeks after the party(i think) i asked her out and she turned me down flat. which of course only made me want her more. Kept on at it till she finally said yes.
Ironically as soon as we started going out my friend and her sister broke up. Funny isn't it, considering they where the ones that hooked the two of us together.
Anyway been together for over a year now and i think i found what i'm looking for



took the picture with ma phone so it might not be too clear.

_{Whew now that was long even though it was very edited.
You'ld think for someone in web i'll learn to resize the pic first}

sorry to say but that is just stupid.

Of course you can find sincere girls in Nigeria difficult as it may be, Well at least i've found one. Hey maybe i got the last good girl in Nigeria.......

hmm mine is a very long story, wonder whether i should narrate it? let me think.

Men do fall in love, but it takes a special kind of girl to make a man fall in love. Cos usually by the time a boy becomes a man he would have gone through a lot of things that may have harderned his heart to the concept of love and it takes a special kind of girl to break down those defences.

hmm see, you don't have to go all technical. actually i was feeling the same way but guy wanted something up quick so i had to oblige. The next version will be more colorful, except if the guy says he likes the first version and wants it like that.

thanx (even though u eventually walked out on me)

hey hasn't the sight of someone taken ur breath away?
hmm maybe i should make you take care of the bills afterall

its lame

hehehehe

Nah i'm a gentleman and i'm loaded let's go eat but the bills on me. you can pick it up another tyme. [as i want to take your hand i whisper] but i hope you know cpr, cos you take my breath away!

No, [quickly fixing my heart] here have mine, keep it well, cos now u have two and i have none. [whispering] but can you give me your address so i could come and check on my heart once in a while

ouch [saying to himself (this dame is tougher than i thot)]
Can u hear that.... an ambulance is coming, you just broke my heart.

hey didn't i tell u my middle name, it's Justin short for Justincredible

Hey girl... drop that zero and get with the hero in other words... you better come with me.

Saturday.... what time? where?

Damn, [walking away dejectedly] at least i didn't get the "it's not you, it's me speech"

so uh.. how 'bout dinner tommorrow nite?