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it is easy to make a girl you really love want to stay in a relationship even if you do not have the kind of time she need. the little time you guys have together will be enough to show her that you are sincere and you really love her, you don't have to say anything it will just show in your actions. But when you have a string of girlfriends or ur just in it for sex, you will never have enough time for the girl and it will show.
besides if you already have a string of girlfriends and are not ready to settle down, why the fixation on this girl, or maybe she didn't give it up?
So as far as i'm concerned the girl just got out in time.

hey hot angel, where in texas do you stay.

well i'm connected to an isp through an antenna. so it's kinda broadband

yep you did the right thing

thank you, not as cool as u though

Ah unfortunately good things don't come easy. i'll see if i can get some tutorials for you.

hmm unfortunately i'm not sure i could explaing that. you'll need to see someone to it to really appreciate how to do it, you could try a google search and see if you can find detailed instructions, or alternatively you could send me the pictures with instructions on what you want to do and i could do it for you......
you'll really have to make really good friends with google to learn how to use photoshop well or buy a book

yeah, it kinda takes getting used to anyway what exactly do you want to make.....

Personally, I do not believe in Love at first sight.

Real love doesn't come at first sight in my opinion. The kind of love that lasts doesn't come at first sight. That kind of love grows the longer you have been with someone.

You can love the appearance of someone at first sight, you can get infatuated at first sight but that is it. You are just in love with the appearace. You may find out that in the end you may not like the persons personality. Well maybe if you can tell the persons personality at first glance, but I don't think that is possible.

_{Except when I fell in love with Latoya at first glance, anyway}

Hmm, now this is usually a tough dilemma and more so for the girl who is usually the one that really needs her parents approval than the guy. If you look at it realistically, it is you life and the girls life. Try and make both your parents realize that this is your life and happiness that they are talking about here, because ultimately the decision is yours and the girls. Let me give you a real life example using my parents as examples.

As of the time my parents where getting married, my dad was a Muslim and my mum was a Christian, of course you can imagine the uproar that went up when they announced that they wanted to get married. Neither family wanted it. Anyway they both decided that it was their life and if they two families didn't like it then that was their problem. When the two families saw that there was nothing they could do to dissuade them they reluctantly gave in. right now though, my dad is a Christian but that's beside the point. They have been together over 30 years now and i don't think I've seen a happier couple. In retrospect it is possible that if they listened to  their parents and gave up on the affair, they could have married people they would eventually not be happy with.

Note it is not all parents that when they see you are dead serious about marring the girl will reluctantly give in. Some might even disown you till they die.  So in the end you have to be sure you are making the right decision because you'll hate it if you go against your parents and in the end the relationship doesn't stand the test of time.

But if you are sure that your love is the real thing and you are sure it will stand the test of time and you think you can live with both your parents disapproval, then you can give it a shot. because ultimately your parents will pass away and the all you'll have is you and your partner.

Also remember to pray about it because with God all things are possible

_{Sorry if the whole thing sounds disjointed, been working since morning and my brain is kind of shutting down}

between my company and it's sister company, anything Web can be done. PM for links

Interesting topic <editor: snip>

Long distance relationships, they work and they don't work, it depends on the level of trust the two of you have in each other. Let me give you an example, i was dating this girl a while ago, then i decided to go to the US for a month, just to have a good time, You Know!! Anyway when i was leaving i told her that I'll be gone for a year that i was planning to do my masters and some other stuff, that does she think she can wait for me? the girl said yes, i asked her if she was sure, she said yes.
Well i left and came back a month later, only to find out she had already slept with someone. Can u imagine that, after one month. Anyhows when i asked her why, she said that she wasn't sure if i will come back and that besides her friends where telling her that "does she know what "I'll be doing over there?" anyway to cut a long story short we broke up. she didn't want to but for me, trust was lost.
So in essence for a long distance relationship to work, you have to trust your partner implicitly.

Posted by: nike4luv - oh..hell no..i was once a lawyer lol..ask people that kno me and i kno this very well..read all bout u..act 441 rule 619, do u kno wot it says.i bet u don't i be your lawyer latoya..u don't hav to pay

Guess you can't win them all

Posted by: Latoya - as for my website,its still in the making i just have a generalised one that is meant for me.....

Can't wait to see your website also. Please Post the link when it is finished.

Welcome to NAIRALAND.
I'd love to know some more about you like your name........
or you wish to remain anonymous

<snip> You are not really telling us anything about yourself. Are we shy?

Independence isn't all about money u know, it has to do with a lot of things apart from money.Maybe u should say that Ur financially independent

wish i could have gotten one) too. Anyway I'm really happy for you guys that won. If u need any help with designing a site, I'll be happy to help out, For FREE (frontend only). PM me and i could give you a list of websites I've designed in the past to help you make your decision if the free aspect isn't good enough . Congratulations once again.

I have a partner company that does my backend for me and I'm not sure i could convince them to do it for free, that is why I'm saying front end only.

NOTE
This is only for the winners of the competition (My own little 2cents to helping their dream).

[crying ] i've already offered[ still crying], common nike4luv give a guy a break at least if there's no competition she'll have to choose me, besides ur a girl.......

just to be clear, what is your definition of feminine independence

well if u say so........

Seun You AREN'T Serious HeHeHe.......
u went and spoilt a really sexy picture.
that's a crime against Humanity
U should be sued
Latoya if u need a lawyer, i know a really good one. ME
we can uhuh..[whispering]Talk about my rates later.

not even a little bit....

girls you can say what you want, but we guys know the truth. The day i see a girl that i'm seriously dating pick up the check (not offer to!!!) when she knows i have enough to do it and it won't be a burden on me or take her car along with mine to a date or run into a serious problem and not call me up first. Maybe i concede you girls a point.
But we all know, even if you don't want to admit it, that whether a girl can be "independent" or not, she'll like the guy to be in charge especially if she loves him (from experience).

Ok so i got meself a new laptop today, in preparation for my masters (which i'll be doing in sussex by the way in september) and meeen am i siked about the laptop.
It's a dell xps gen 2 with a cetrino 2.0 processor 1 gb RAM 256 video memory with a NVIDIA geforce Go 6800 Ultra graphics card and (unfortunately, but i'm rectifying it) 60mb hard disk space.
It is really a gaming laptop but since i like games..... and it handles my adobe premiere pro, photoshop, after effects and truespace without breaking a sweat, i really have no complaints.
Would have added a pic but don't have a digital camera yet.

No problemo

okay the, see if you can get a working copy of the software and if after you try it you are still interested then.....
holla @ me

Umm is talking about cracking software allowed on nairaland.........

it is going to be the same link as the one i gave you. You have to download the demo version from the adobe site(which was the link i gave you) then you can then get a crack that will let u break the serial code expiaration and the product activation (simply put "crack the software". "U didn't hear that from me "

Hmm file not found? is it when u try to install it or you have installed it and it is when you try and run it. if it is when you are trying to install it then maybe it is a corrupt file you downmloaded. if it is after install.... i'll need more info.