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What is the difference between man and God? Will man eventually become God?
The bible says we are his heir. What shall we inherit from him?
Revelations 3.21
To him that overcometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne, even as I also overcame, and am set down with my Father in his throne.

We shall inherit his throne? We shall sit on his throne.
Think about this.

Uptownerd:
This is like knowing the root cause of a problem but dancing around it. It's like chasing rat when your house is on fire.

Why would a wise and loving Father kill Satan?
What is the purpose of life? If he did not want us to be tested and tried, he would never have allowed us to live his presence.
How would you overcome? How would you become like him?
Revelation 3:21
To him that overcometh will I grant to sit with me in my throne, even as I also overcame, and am set down with my Father in his throne.

Righthussle:
He knows his son will not die. It's like a magician giving you money that he knows will return to his pocket. Na fake sacrifice.

But Jesus Christ died and more than that, he suffered the pain of all our sins.
And after he paid the price in full, he resurrected. Because of him, we also will overcome death.
You are uncomfortable with the fact Jesus Christ resurrection?

DaddyCoool:
Well, the Bible says He was fully God. See below.
"Fully God" implies "fully all-knowing". No?

A few things here, remember, when Jesus Christ came to earth, he left his glory behind. He did not come to earth as God but as a man. Remember this verse?
John 17:5
And now, O Father, glorify thou me with thine own self with the glory which I had with thee before the world was.
Compare that to his statement after his resurrection
Matt 28.18
And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth.

Tegabadguy:
Forget doctor....since the day i lost my job...na from that day i hate sex

Ahh now I get it. It's going to be alright just keep trying and as for sex, it will come.

Nnamdipapa:
So, you had to go CHAT GPT on me to explain yourself?

You have anything against getting knowledge and growing in wisdom? If you do then I apologize.

Tegabadguy:
yes i have a problem

Have you spoken to your doctor?

Tegabadguy:
i think the last time i have sex was 2022 i swear to God

Oga, I think you have a real problem

SalamRushdie:
You are spectator on earth trust me

Meaningless words. Just stop spreading fake news ok

SalamRushdie:
His company about to be stolen by Bill gates

You guys and fake news

Tegabadguy:
i hate sex ..

Wow. It is not natural?

Bendeco02:
Is like you have comprehension issue

That something is overrated doesn't mean it's not sweet. We have been programmed by our creator that we must need it.

What is 100k for not to have sex again.

You should have said 100k to not have sex for two weeks. I can accept it

So when you say something is overrated, its value is much less than its present going rate. If you value sex more than 100k then it may not be overrated as you say. Since you say 100k is too small how about 500k? Or let's go straight to a million naira. You should rate a million naira more than sex, right?

Tegabadguy:
after reading what you wrote.is like you are taking to me

Really? How so?

Bendeco02:
Sex is just overrated

Someone like me, the only thing that can attract me to a girl after sex is her personality/character.

Once i have sex with a girl, no matter how beautiful or endowed she is, i will just loose interest in her. May not call her again unless she calls

And i can't stay with a particular girl for more than three days. She will just loose value for my eyes

I wonder how i will cope with marriage sha

If sex is overrated, are you willing to collect N100,000 and never have sex again?

Tegabadguy:
how come you known all this ....

Just read and you will know. Knowledge is not hidden.

VikingKing:
You’ve not said what the main problem is, but I will tell you for free: MASTURBATION. And, maybe, sugar. These two are a lethal combo in any man.

Here’s what you should do: see masturbation and sugar as your greatest enemies. Take Agbo Jedi daily for two weeks to cleanse your system and within this time frame, DO NOT MASTURBATE. Also, take long walks to help ease blood flow.

After two weeks, invite a babe and test-run your schlong. You will understand why I said that Masturbation and Sugar are your greatest enemies.

Thank me later.

All you fake online doctors who go about killing people with fake advice. Erectile Dysfunction can be caused by so many things and not the rubbish you wrote. Please educate yourself before misleading others on Nairaland.

Erectile Dysfunction (ED), or impotence, refers to the inability to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for sexual intercourse. Here are the major causes:

Physical Causes:
Cardiovascular Diseases:
Conditions like atherosclerosis (clogged blood vessels), high blood pressure, and heart disease can reduce blood flow to the penis.
Diabetes:
High blood sugar levels can damage nerves and blood vessels, impacting erectile function.
Hormonal Imbalances:
Low testosterone levels or other hormonal issues can contribute to ED.
Neurological Disorders:
Conditions such as multiple sclerosis, Parkinson's disease, or spinal cord injuries can affect nerve signals to the penis.
Obesity:
Excess weight can lead to or exacerbate conditions like diabetes and cardiovascular issues, both linked to ED.
Tobacco Use:
Smoking can damage blood vessels, reducing blood flow to the penis.
Alcohol and Drug Use:
Excessive use can impair nerve function and blood flow.
Surgery or Trauma:
Operations on the pelvic area, prostate, or spinal cord, or injuries to these areas, can lead to ED.
Medications:
Some drugs, particularly those for blood pressure, depression (like SSRIs), and some for prostate conditions, can have ED as a side effect.

Psychological Causes:
Stress:
Chronic stress can impact sexual function by affecting libido or causing performance anxiety.
Anxiety and Depression:
These conditions can significantly lower sexual desire and affect the ability to achieve an erection.
Relationship Issues:
Lack of communication, unresolved conflicts, or emotional distance from a partner can lead to ED.
Performance Anxiety:
Fear of not being able to perform sexually can create a cycle where the anxiety itself causes ED.
Guilt or Shame about Sex:
Cultural, religious, or personal beliefs that make one feel guilty about sexual activity.

Lifestyle Factors:
Lack of Exercise:
A sedentary lifestyle can contribute to obesity and cardiovascular issues, both of which can lead to ED.
Unhealthy Diet:
Diets high in fats, sugars, and processed foods can contribute to conditions like obesity and diabetes.
Sleep Disorders:
Conditions like sleep apnea can disrupt hormone balance and affect sexual function.

Other Causes:
Aging: While not a cause in itself, age can be associated with other conditions that lead to ED.
Prostate Issues: Treatments for prostate cancer, like surgery or radiation, can impact erectile function.

Often, ED is a result of a combination of these factors rather than a single cause. Addressing ED might involve treating underlying conditions, lifestyle changes, psychological counseling, or considering medication or other therapies like vacuum erection devices, penile implants, or shockwave therapy. It's important for individuals to consult with healthcare providers for a proper diagnosis and tailored treatment plan.

Bbb007:
Ok you prefer to be a male simp he go*t than being a decent human.
Enjoy your brothels business.

Let's educate ourselves a bit before making comments here. It's not healthy to hate or dislike sex. As humans, we are created to love sex. Your sexual organs are rich in nerve endings. You have hormones that secrete and increase sexual pleasure.
When you no longer enjoy sex, that's a problem.

Here are simple reasons why someone might hate or dislike sex:

Bad Experiences:
If someone was hurt or abused in the past during sexual experiences, they might fear or hate sex.
Mental Health:
Feeling stressed, anxious, or depressed can make sex unappealing or stressful.
Not liking how you look or feeling bad about yourself can make sex less enjoyable.
Physical Pain:
If sex hurts because of health problems, like painful conditions, it can make someone avoid it.
Medications:
Some medicines, like those for depression, can lower your interest in sex.
Not Feeling Close or Attracted:
If you're not emotionally close or attracted to your partner, sex might not feel good.
Beliefs:
Growing up with strict religious or cultural views about sex can make you feel guilty or ashamed.
Being Asexual:
Some people just don't feel sexual attraction, so sex isn't interesting to them.
Relationship Problems:
If you're fighting with your partner or not communicating well, sex can feel like a chore.
Feeling Too Much:
For some, the sensations of sex might be too overwhelming, leading to discomfort.
Pressure from Society:
Feeling like you have to enjoy sex because everyone else does can make you dislike it if it's not what you want.

If you feel this way, talking to a therapist, especially one who specializes in sexual issues, can help sort out why you feel this way and what to do about it.

DaddyCoool:
Wow, you so quickly discovered what people discover only after wasting a lot of time and energy on sex - that sex itself is a big fat nothing. It is things that surround it that are meaningful. Avoid sex just for sex

Sex on its own is supposed to be enjoyed. Meaningful sex or not, our brains and nerve endings were built to love and appreciate sex. Our hormones enhance sexual pleasure.

Disliking or hating sex can stem from a variety of psychological, physical, and social factors. Here are some common reasons:

Past Trauma:
Sexual Abuse or Assault: Survivors of sexual trauma might associate sex with negative experiences, pain, or fear, leading to a strong aversion.


Psychological Issues:
Anxiety, Depression, or Stress: Mental health conditions can significantly impact one's libido or enjoyment of sex, turning what should be pleasurable into a source of distress or disinterest.

Low Self-Esteem or Body Image Issues: Feeling unattractive or uncomfortable with one's body can make sexual encounters unappealing or anxiety-inducing.
Physical Health or Pain:
Pain During Sex: Conditions like vaginismus, endometriosis, or other sources of pain during intercourse can make sex an unpleasant experience.

Hormonal Imbalances: Hormonal changes, for instance, during menopause or due to medical conditions, can affect libido.

Medication Side Effects:
Antidepressants and Other Drugs: Certain medications, particularly SSRIs, are known to decrease sexual desire or function.

Lack of Attraction or Connection:
Emotional Disconnect: If there's a lack of emotional intimacy or attraction, sex can feel mechanical or unfulfilling.

Cultural or Religious Beliefs:
Guilt or Shame: Some individuals might have been raised with beliefs that view sex negatively or outside marriage, leading to feelings of guilt or shame about sexual activities.

Asexuality:
Lack of Sexual Attraction: Some people identify as asexual, meaning they do not experience sexual attraction, which can manifest as disinterest in sex.

Relationship Dynamics:
Unresolved Conflicts or Poor Communication: Ongoing relationship issues can sour one's desire for intimacy, turning sex into a duty rather than a pleasurable experience.

Overstimulation or Sensory Issues:
Sensory Overload: For some, sex might be overwhelming due to sensory sensitivities, leading to discomfort or aversion.

Societal Pressures:
Expectation vs. Reality: The pressure to perform or enjoy sex due to societal norms can lead to disappointment or negative feelings towards it if one's personal experience doesn't match these expectations.

Understanding the root of one's dislike for sex often requires introspection or, in some cases, professional help to address underlying issues, whether they are psychological, physical, or relational. Therapy, including sex therapy, can be particularly beneficial in these scenarios.

Nnamdipapa:
Its a medical condition. Get help.

Oga, sex was made to be loved and enjoyed. Any man who hates sex needs help.

Disliking or hating sex can stem from a variety of psychological, physical, and social factors. Here are some common reasons:

Past Trauma:
Sexual Abuse or Assault: Survivors of sexual trauma might associate sex with negative experiences, pain, or fear, leading to a strong aversion.


Psychological Issues:
Anxiety, Depression, or Stress: Mental health conditions can significantly impact one's libido or enjoyment of sex, turning what should be pleasurable into a source of distress or disinterest.

Low Self-Esteem or Body Image Issues: Feeling unattractive or uncomfortable with one's body can make sexual encounters unappealing or anxiety-inducing.
Physical Health or Pain:
Pain During Sex: Conditions like vaginismus, endometriosis, or other sources of pain during intercourse can make sex an unpleasant experience.

Hormonal Imbalances: Hormonal changes, for instance, during menopause or due to medical conditions, can affect libido.

Medication Side Effects:
Antidepressants and Other Drugs: Certain medications, particularly SSRIs, are known to decrease sexual desire or function.

Lack of Attraction or Connection:
Emotional Disconnect: If there's a lack of emotional intimacy or attraction, sex can feel mechanical or unfulfilling.

Cultural or Religious Beliefs:
Guilt or Shame: Some individuals might have been raised with beliefs that view sex negatively or outside marriage, leading to feelings of guilt or shame about sexual activities.

Asexuality:
Lack of Sexual Attraction: Some people identify as asexual, meaning they do not experience sexual attraction, which can manifest as disinterest in sex.

Relationship Dynamics:
Unresolved Conflicts or Poor Communication: Ongoing relationship issues can sour one's desire for intimacy, turning sex into a duty rather than a pleasurable experience.

Overstimulation or Sensory Issues:
Sensory Overload: For some, sex might be overwhelming due to sensory sensitivities, leading to discomfort or aversion.

Societal Pressures:
Expectation vs. Reality: The pressure to perform or enjoy sex due to societal norms can lead to disappointment or negative feelings towards it if one's personal experience doesn't match these expectations.

Understanding the root of one's dislike for sex often requires introspection or, in some cases, professional help to address underlying issues, whether they are psychological, physical, or relational. Therapy, including sex therapy, can be particularly beneficial in these scenarios.

excanny:
You don't know anything in life yet. You've not been used and manipulated enough.

Well, it's clear you have been a victim of several manipulations. But that's not enough reason to live in fear. Learn from your mistakes that's all

alezzy13:
I don't think they are like your every day customer, mainly because there's a contractual agreement between tenant and landlord.

Unless there is firm interest (marriage type) and not mere infatuation, such relationships should be avoided at all coats.

My point is that it is not unethical but it may not be a smart move. The contractual agreement even protects you as the landlord

excanny:
So after dating your customer, you think you will still get your complete money again?

There are other women nau. Why get yourself in shit?

It depends on what you want at that time. If you meet the girl of your dreams, even if she is your customer, shoot your shot

excanny:
Very wrong both ethically and financially.

Most importantly you will lose your rent money which is far more valuable than a female.

There is nothing wrong with dating a customer. I mean ethically. Your tenant is only a customer. You are selling her a service. I could date someone who buys electronics from me. Ethically, it's ok but financially, that's something else

nyabinghi:
Tit for Tat,the Jewish Pigs on nairaland are pained.

I am happy you see you problem with the killing of civilians. Hope you feel the same when the table is turned around. You guys celebrated Oct 7th like it 2as your birthday but are you laughing now?

God1000:
Now Donald trump is happy nobody invaded the congress to disrupt the process, but he instigated the January 6 2021 capitol riot during the certification of Biden's victory


He's such a hypocrite and egregious man



Look at Kamala Harris, the woman he defeated alongside house speaker, she even presided over the session, this is pure class and maturity, someone who values and put country ahead of party

To you, life began in 2020. I am sure you know nothing about the "Not My President" riots of 2016. The only difference between that and January 6th was the location. Thats all.
Rejecting the 2016 election results remains one of the greatest acts of political brilliance in the history of America.

Nnamdipapa:
I am very emotionless my friend. This individuals watched Fox News from morning till night and always tried to instigate an argument every single day. Am I supposed to condoned that? I have have been stopped at anything international airport by certain Trump supporters who tried to start and argument? Was that my fault too?

You trying to chum up as an emotional deficiency on my part is at best, gaslighting and you know that.

Trump is multi-convicted felon who belong in jail. I can show you court records if you want but it would do you no good at this point.

You told me that you dumped friends and family because they don't agree with your politics and at the same time you are not emotional.
The 2 statements are impossible. It takes a very touchy and emotional person to cut off those he loves because they don't agree politically with him.
I come from a family where we don't always agree politically but we don't let that affect our love for each other. We are grown men and we can't get touchy anytime someone is on the other side

Nnamdipapa:
Just one.

Over the years, I have had to argue a lot about this dude that I feel it is a waste of time to discuss him to be honest. I cut off relationships with friends and family members because of his politics

Let's sit back and watch the next four years unfold for the US.

All good. But let's just learn to stick to the facts and not our emotion. You lost your friends and family members because you failed to put your emotions in check. It's not the best way to live. But as you said, let's sit back and watch.

Nnamdipapa:
I can give you 1000 links to verifiable sources of the orange buffon.

So your single argument here is that the pandemic response team would have save more life's but evidence shows they were incompetent and no evidence to show that they would have saved more lives.
In fact if the H1N1 Influenza (Swine Flu) of 2009 was as deadly and as infectious as COVID 19, it would have kill far more people despite the response team so there again Trump was not wrong.
I asked for intelligent response not just any link remember.

Nnamdipapa:
"Facts" told me one incompetent slowpoke mismanaged the Covid 19 crisis in the USA leading to avoidable deaths.

"Fact' is also telling me the same incompetent bufoon is about to assume the mantle of presidency and we all know his antecedents.

I will easily school you with facts and statistics if you want to go that route.

I have cancelled all my vacation plans to the US the next four years.

I am going to ask you a question and I want you to answer it as intelligently as possible.
Outline your facts and sources to show that the actions of trump lead to more COVID deaths.
I argue the opposite, it was his actions that led to the fastest and best vaccines in the world.
Now outline your intelligent arguments

Nnamdipapa:
I like your thoughts brah! keep them coming as the next four years will be pretty interesting.
I got my popcorn ready to watch the cinema unfolded.

I am not a prophet neither are you. I deal with facts and not wishful thinking. I am a very practical man, we don't need emotions in predicting global policies.

Nnamdipapa:
Nope. Because of Trump policies that will negativity impact EU.

EU collectively is stronger than the US and this is 2025 brah!

Lol
The entire EU GDP is 19.4 trillion dollars that of US is 27.36 trillion.
Unemployment is higher in the EU. Poverty is greater in the EU.
Please how did you take your measurements, I am really interested?
Do you think the EU profited from Biden's policies?
My brother, you have so much to learn. Just my thoughts.

AllenSpencer:
Who else would have fought for Blacks if not same people that abducted them? You made it sound like they had an army that would have stood up for them. They never would have gotten freedom if the Whites never decided to. How were they suppose to get freedom of same people did not decide to?

You still failed to address my point. What was deprived from Asians that could have stunted their growth? Were they enslaved, segregated or was their generational wealth destroyed or taken away from them? What exactly did they go through that could have stunted their development cos you have been emphasizing about Asians for so long that I cannot still figure out. Asians have not faced 0.1% of what blacks have faced. Blacks are the natives for all immigrants. They faced the worst and got freedom that all other immigrant came to benefit from.

Jews were being compensated for their prosecution, Europe was compensated for world war. Japan was funded for redevelopment. Even your master, France demanded compensation from Haiti. All these countries and people could have moved on. Why should they be paid and funded.

My question now is that, why is that of Black Americans different? Could it be because of their colour? No! They just didn’t deserve it!

You mention 9k in debt? That’s a poverty stricken family. They have no house or investment, and no kids attending top school.

You don’t know the US. Those statics you presenting are falsified data to sell slavery. 9k in debt? Is that medical debt or grocery debt.

Why I said you need to be an eye witness. Stop following those data. 90% of Americans are praying for a 9k debt.

Are you listening to yourself? Your very adductor fought and shed their blood for you. Where else has this happened in human history. If you don't feel any sense of gratitude for this then you are not human. This is one of the most touching and less emphasized stories in human history.

To you second point I already answered. For decades up till last year, thousands of Asians were by law deprived of their position in university admissions even though they merited it. And much of those positions given to blacks (talk about privilege). What can stunt your growth and development more then depriving you of education.
Do you think the Japanese Americans kept in camps during WW2 did not have stunted growth?
Please do your research and you will find more answers than these.
If your point is that only blacks have suffered racism, you are wrong. If your point is that only blacks were slaves, again you are wrong. Like blacks, Asians can't really point to generational wealth. Most of them came to the US poorer than the blacks.
You claim Jews are compensated? No one have been compensated more than black Americans. We both agree that blacks, 14% of the population take 27% of all welfare. That's close to 6 trillion dollars since the welfare program began. Please do you understand what 6 trillion dollars is? That's many time more than the GDP of Africa.
Jews were given a barren piece of land called Israel with hostile neighbors while black Americans were given their freedoms and 6 trillion dollars. Talk about compensation.
And japanese Americans where never compensated for the wrongs done to them.
Again you are doing the same thing here. You claim my stats are wrong when I talk about 9k household debts. Can we both treat each other with some respect here. When ever your disagree with my figure please provide yours.
If we can't do this, it's ok we end the discussion. I want to learn from you just as I want to share my knowledge so let's respect ourselves. We can't complain about the white man when 2 black men can't treat each other with respect in a discussion. Please provide your counter stats.