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am a pastors son, my parents always want me to be a minister, take over my fathers church, but i dont think thats the life i was cut out for they always punish me when i sing, they have tried multiple ways to stop me from singing, i used to dance but my parents killed the spirit of dancing from my blood, now am hopeless , mum is sick, dad is promising to disown me, i wish i could run from everything, just disappear, , why cant they jst love me for me not who they want me to be?? lemme end it all abeg am unhappy

ken2020:
friends, I have nobody to help me right now, thoughts of ending all my miseries through suicide is the only thimg that keep coming to my mind.but am hoping I will get someone who can offer me money for my kidney. please, if you know a way I can trade my kidney for money or know any kidney patient that needs kidney transplant kindly call me on 09095030419. I just need the money to start life all over again . please don't tell me about the dangers of selling a kidney cos I have read that i only need one to survive......thanks

haVE you thought of joining the police, you are a graduate, instant promotion, there is more to life bro

she is denying me sex, she no longer likes to spend time as usuall she is always critisizing me all of a sudden

:oam suspecting she is cheating, seriously, how to i find out for sure?? am scared

( the woman should be beheaded even the bible says a man should divorce a cheating woman

front page tins

If you give her sex, she will say you are after her body;
if you
don't give her sex she will say you are not man
enough.
If you give her money she will call you a mugu; if you
don't give
her money she will say that you are stingy and greedy.
If you are very caring she will take you for granted; if
you are
not caring she will say that you don't love her.
If you always call her she will say that you are
disturbing her;
if you don't call her she will say that you are cheating
on her.
If you dress very well she will call you a player; if you
don't
dress
well she will call you a dirty guy.
If you are quiet she will say that you are too boring.
If you are not, she will say that you are too lousy.
Help her in the kitchen she will say that this man is a
woman
wrapper; don't help her in the kitchen she will say that
this
man is
using her as a slave.
A guy told me that when she dated his first
girlfriend, she quit the relationship because he was
demanding
for sex. when
he dated the second girlfriend, she quit the
relationship
because he was not demanding for sex.
SO LADIES WHAT DO YOU ACTUALLY WANT? If YOU ARE
A
LADY, I WANT YOU TO TELL US WHAT You REALLY
WANT IN
A MAN. WHAT IS YOUR IDEAL MAN?

thegoodjoehunt3:
There is no need given me books. I take my time to understand why things happens.

Women love being seduced. Playas are good seducers. At the time the lady is being seduced, nothing matters to her than fulfilling that urge.

As soon as he dumped her, he is no more seducing her, that is when she remembered you.

If you were chasing and seducing another girl, you will not feel the pain she caused you. That is why playas do not feel pains of heart break.

It is not that girls love bad guys, she loves being the center of attraction. If she was dating the playa and another guy comes with more game and thrill, she will leave him for that one.

Remember the garden of Eden. Eve (Woman) had it all but was tempted for the one she did not have. That is how most women are. They always want more.

think we on the same page

killjoy:
dats ryt

tell these females to leave our thread alone oooooo

thegoodjoehunt3:
I am not a kid, do not think I am talking out of inexperience.

The nice guy tolerates the nonsense of a cheating lady who does not care for him. She wants to be free and sleep around. However, she needs a shoulder to lean on and someone to treat her nice.

A playa is not ready to do that. He is not ready to stress himself to make her happy. He gives her the thrill and goes to thrill the next.

Then she runs to the nice guy to get the comfort she needs.

It all boils down to devotion. If the nice guy is not tolerant and devoted to her, he would not fall for her tricks.

, hahaha i have seen a girl cheat on me to my face with my player friend, worse part is she knew my friend had a girlfriend. she told me and my friend that she choose my friend over me, this girl denied me sex and gave my bad boy friend sex within one week of meeting him, i have spent time reading and experiencing women way of thinking, thats why u can see a man beat his wife and she still wont leave him. my friend dumped her after one weekend of fun and she still came back to beg me....the nice mugu

i can give you books to read if u want , its not their fault, its in their genes

thegoodjoehunt3:
As for Girls love bad guys and hate nice guys. I do not believe it. No matter how nice a guys is to most ladies, the ladies still want something out side. Note most ladies. Son when they mess up something so real and true to them, most ladies use the we love bad guys to cover up their insatiable want.

its obvious you are new to the dating world , ladies don't admit they love bad guys but if u watch very well, the nice guy always end as a friend or husband, while they date the guy who hurts dem , and come and complain to d nice guys, most times dey cheat on the nice guy with a bad guy, its the way their mentality is. A man is supposed to be able to fight off intruders, not be weak, they evolved like that

Read double your dating, the book changed my life, women always want to please me in a relationship now, before your nice dey learn, I am very sensitive to her every emotions but it doesn't pay bro



Go to ur google search, type in "download double your dating.pdf by David deangelo"



P.s women don't even know what dey want that's why even your mother can't help , so taking advise from females on nairaland is useless ,

You forgot to upload dis one, wizkid is a goat, gat a baby momma with a cute son and a cute rich girlfriend, what mor could a nigga want??

pico4421:
AFTER our survey and research, we have come to the conclusion of what every Nigeria students in higher tertiary education on the needs for a select appliances and devices they should have. read full info at nigeriaschool.com.ng If you have just been admitted into a higher institution in Nigeria and probably the only stuffs you have in your to-do list are cartons of noodles, foodstuffs, clothes, etc?! You need to think again, what are you going to do in school? Think! No doubt, setting foot in higher institution as a student, you will need some gadgets, devices and appliances that will be useful to you all throughout your stay in the school.

1. Reading Lamps You can tell who is a real student if they have reading lamp! Every students should be ready to study! What better way to show your readiness to study than a reading lamp? We are in Nigeria, and Power supply is very poor. How much is Reading Lamp? It cost from N1,500.00 to N3,000.00. It is cheap and every student should own one! You can buy it at any bus-stop or buy it online at konga.

2. Pressing iron You are address the way you dress. Looking smart is good business! Every student should or probably MUST have a stand-by electric pressing iron for the business of looking smart. You don’t want to go school looking like someone who came from poverty stricken home. Even if your first name is Poverty, do you want to announce it to the world? Sometimes I see some students with ruffled clothes, and I wonder why? I ask myself why? If you cannot afford a a Pressing Iron, why not start borrowing? No, you can afford it and it is CHEAP. You can buy Electric Pressing Iron from N1,500 to N7,000.00 – You can also buy it online and get it shipped to your home


3.. Laptop – Personal Computer/ The Laptop is a MUST have device for every student, and if you are wondering why it is so, give me a second to explain it to you. A Laptop Computer is a multi-purpose device and can be used to research on projects for school or leisure, you can use your Laptop to watch educational videos, or burn important documents. You can also use it to watch films, listen to music or play games – Now that it is legal to rip CDs. you can use it as well. And if you have a printer, now that is a booming business in Nigeria Universities. If you are in a department where you have crazy lecturers that gives term paper every other week, you can start printing papers upon papers for your course-mates. If you are looking for cheap laptops for sale/buy in Nigeria, then the best place is to buy it online, you can buy a Laptop from N40,000.00 (forty thousand naira) to N200,000.00. Unlike before where you need upto N200,000.00 to buy a laptop, you can now get quality cheap computer/laptop for less than N40.000.00

4.An internet enabled smart phone Almost every students own a smartphones, but a selected few rather stick to feature phones which are cool if they can access the internet, but it should be noted that you learn new words every time and what better and easier way to check their meanings than through the internet and/or a dictionary app on the phone? You can also use your mobile phone to access TV, to get latest news… -

5..A Tape Recorder You will hardly see students with tape recorders, if you ask me, this is one of the most gadget every student should have. Some lectures form the habits of dictating without give rooms to catch their breath, the tape recorder can come handy in such cases/scenarios. Although it does not come cheap, you can buy one for N16,000.00 (Sixteen thousand naira), if you are parent reading this, and you have the money, why not invest in your child/children? The returns are worth the price. Trust me! Sony Series MP3 Digital Voice IC Recorder comes with 4GB flash memory and you can buy it online.
Source: http://unnedu..com/2014/12/5-most-important-appliances-every.html

my own list
1. 32 inch led flat screen
2. Home theatre
3. Generator
4. Big foam
5. Enough cash for the dry cleaners,



Dats the ideal life

sonofthedevil:
Can you shut the Bleep up?

I think you should shutup in Jesus name

Ugly ladies getting married, while the pretty ones are doing video vixens and buying designers, and marrying old men,





Its non of my bussiness

The satan praisers, seriously I think their account is ownedd by demons its scary

Wrote dis cos I needed advise , those viewing the thread, should share their thoughts

Hahahahahahahhahahaha, lwkmd, women know what men want that's. Why dey pretend to be loyal and independent . So dey will marry dem, I have fallen victime of this before.....if you know what men want why argue?

lilmax:
man in all things like?

your ideal marriage is were the man works as a slave for you and your children , while u nag , control him with sex and lie that doin chores is hard. Upgrade your mentality

aisha2:
Why should you give him a slap? Is that what " western " women do?
What has paying bills got to do with being badly behaved, rude and uncultured? Even when I go out with friends we spilt the bill based on what we all ate does that mean I will now start challenging them, slapping them and being rude to them?

Young ladies please read and understand the concept and struggle of feminisim before you put yourself in trouble.

If you slap a man he has the right to give you a powerful slap back. If a woman in the west slaps a man he can sue her for assault and get paid loads of money in damages.

If I pay my own bills, spilt cheques and take care of myself it simply means I respect myself and know my responsibility towards myself and don't see a man as my atm.

You marry a man because you love him and respect him. That love and respect shouldn't be based on what he can or can't give you.

can you have my children??

firstEVA:
common stop acting like you know me, my post is about my observation on the Average Nigerian man, not all men, you'll be surprised that my man is nothing like the average Nigerian man

that's what you all say, spoken like a true hypocritical woman

badex11:
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dont quote me

missdebs:
kee ursef

haba

M4gunners:
Hw many did we have b4 GEJ took over power?

at least we have d money to do d best in the world and he must have spent billions of dollars on the wack train

striktlymi:
I hear ya!

Same way I have Genevieve in my apartment begging me to marry her.

ok mr low mentality tnks

diluminati:
GEJ is a joke if you don't know. This is what a country with so much oil money can come up with. Why do some set of nigerians love [size=18pt]MEDIOCRITY[/size]. compare that scrab to this in South Africa, nonsense

https://english.chosun.com/site/data/img_dir/2010/06/10/2010061000521_0.jpg

dat train is crap i remember my guy that came from south africa laughing when they commisioned the nigerian preused train, thr money used is commisioning it is more than the train

striktlymi:
For someone who holds that opinion about ladies, I believe she acted pretty smart not accepting you.

for ur info i nailed her , waited for her to be alone den collected the number so i stil made my point by agreeing with the op

all dese young preachers trying to make a name for themselves