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seseannie:
Tnx for your responses bt I was nt snopping on him. I came back n he complained of hunger I went inside the kitchen to cook n I saw the condoms. I knw some men cheat bt at least they respect their partners throwing away the condoms would have been a better idea

seseannie:
Pls advice me house. I and my boyfriend of 2yrs have fixed a date for our introduction nxt month. And I jst gained admission for my masters programme in another state. I travelled on sunday so that I can start the registration process only for me to come back today n see two used condoms in a nylon inside d kitchen. So many things running in my mind now. I am thinking of quietly quitting the relationship or should I confront him?

chichomchin:
i and my ex hadbeen dating for two years, during d festive period she refused seein me,well, i complained she said i was melodramatic.. on d 7th of january she broke up wit me (smiles) , her only reason was i was too good for her and she cant accept me as her husband( like say i d plan to marry am dat day) i told her she will com back to beg me ... well i replaced her 2 days later with a hotter chick she knows.. on vals day i used a pic of me and my gf on ma dp... She called me just before midnite begging.. me,i no send at atall. shes been begging ever since, i dont cheat and i wont break d new girls hrt shes been nothing short of a Blessing ..







she NEVER CHI CHOM CHIN

missjenna:
This is a very serious issue.
I experienced similar when I was growing up. My dad was a business man while my mum was a graduate without a job. My dad was very hardworking and he would always leave the house early in the morning and come back home at late evenings all in the bid to cater for his family

I noticed that as soon as my mum got a job, he kind of became lazy. He wasn't going to work early as before and he began taking unnecessary breaks from work.
This lead to problems in both his business and marriage.

I just used this story to express my thoughts. Husbands, when they see that their wives have a source of income tend to feel that a burden has been lifted off their shoulders and they kind of relax, which isn't supposed to be so

erico2k2:
WHEN YOU GET MARRIED, YOU WILL DISH OUT THE CONCEPT OF MARRIAGE IS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER MENTALITY *FACT*It comes with a whole loads of responsibility that you cant skip as you will with ur GF *fact*

classicB:
He said this after a prolong chat that am not a wife material. He said I dnt display the attribute of one, what I.dnt understand is that must a gf act as a wife even when she isn't? Just to prove she's a wife material

Psalmwise:


#She will cry#
#You have voilated me i never wanted to do it.
#I have only done it once and it was my previous bf that did it
#He forced me to do it....now you did same[i][/i]stcheeew (while it was happening u were saying ouch ahh ooh dada pls continue ..its paining me..ahh ..no swtpaining)oniranu
Lets us make a blood oath




NB: Nah person tell me oo


Psalmwise THEJOLLYGOODFELLOW

iPopAlomo:
So him go cook finish... you go chop inside and him go still wash the plate...?!

you're not qualified to be a side chick material... talkless of girlfriend material...

classicB:
Thank you all. Am not a lazy girl I just dnt want him to see everything he listed as my duty

texybaby:
Dear op ....its not just a wife duty Its in u...thats one thing my ex misses me....if I reach his house at nyt cs of d distance I travel..I wont even wiwi in d toilet...till I wash it in d morning...I wont bath till I clean d bath...even d kitchen always un organised...if u cam stand like staying in dat room untidy...then tufiakwa....abeg its just hygienic u stay somewhere clean bikoo...no b say I like work ooo...but I wont look at d place like that....plsss x guy is right adjust n stop giving excuses for been filty

i dont understand d girl o, is house work hard?? i like a clean hygenic lady abeg.....dey will just carry the work like its like building a house.....there are better ways to make a man want you ...not house work and sex....imagine me telling my gf i woul give her money till we married or i wont kiss her or when nigerian girlz go wise??

Trinxie:
Ehyah, sorry...I don't know much about guys tho buh it seems like the guy sef get wahala He wan chop all the entitlement of a husband finish. U're a girlfriend not wife...buh u have your own ijogbon too. At least when you're leaving his place u can just try to make things look neat like u were not in his house at all(like clean up a little). The habit should follow you everywhere has a lady whether bf's house or not.

buygala:
I had been friends with this girl for two years... we went to SSCE and JAMB lessons together, and were practically inseparable. ... She had a boyfriend who understood the nature of our relationship, so he wasn't jealous or anything...

Anyway, The girl, at one point started giving me a million green lights, which I totally ignored. .. I was in love with my pastor's daughter, but she hated me like shiit.. though I was still harboring hopes she would finally see the light and 'let me in'...

So, a day after our Jamb exams, this my friend mustered courage and directly told me that she loved me, and that she was ready to leave her boyfriend in order to be with me... I told her that I like her too, but not enough to date her... I told her of my unrequitted crush on my pastor's beautiful daughter... She cried so much that she made me feel as guilty as a murderer... immediately she left, I locked my door and cried too.... I was so heart-broken that life could be so unfair... why couldn't I like my friend the way I liked my pastor's daughter?

kika23:
So you would slap me?

brito:
If he talks too much, ladies listen if the guy you're dating is talking too much pls be careful. women naturally talks a lot that's how God created us but if a guy talks like a woman there is a problem. If you both are arguing he may want to shut you up by beating. Every man want his gf or wife to respect him by keeping quiet when he's talking, that seems impossible if he's talking . LewisO hope you don't talk too much cos its a no, no for me.

PrettyEmy:
Are they guys who can actually accept to date a girl without sex and will still stay faithful?
Please be sincere, I really wana know this