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Lala247:
Who blives in love at first sight
Does that really exist ?

Why do most nigerian guys fall inlove without even meeting the person!

Is this the norm ?
Can i guy love a girl on just pictures? I personally dont think it possible!

Pls comment below, all opinions accepted

i will say they folllw their heart a lot wish is normal to the western world but a crime to nigerians money wasters

teejaysport:
She told me she had an important issue to discuss with me, when i called her leta in d day she said its nothing at first then leta she said there was something. but instead of telling me what d problem is she kept crying..
She's finding it hard to tell me what it is, she's just crying
Have done all i know to persuade her, have begged, have yelled at her but she's still resolute..
What other means can i used to make her tel me what the problem is?

haahaaahah crying to ladies is nothing, its like raising your hands or closing your eyes they naturally have da ability to cry when they want, just ignore her

ireneidiva:
Nah, you really can't be talking to me. Its your sister that you are talking to.

your low mentality just spoke for itself

bros there is this girl i met on the way to d bank , collected her number i call her everyday but she is aleays giving an excuse not to see me, now she doesnt pick my calls and i like her, what do i do?

rx1121:
Morning my fellow Nairalanders , I just need your advise on this issue going on between me and my long time girlfriend , we never had an argument on any reasonable things than her material talk or needs, she knows I hate it cuz I like doing things for her out of pressure sometimes I even go extra miles cuz I truly love this babe tbh. We break up so many times but she begged and I accept her back but last week she said something bad and I can't take it anymore. She said am giving her ATTITUDE cuz I said "oh that's nice" to her material talk again and she also told me to check Instagram and other social network to see how girls are looking good, this is the girl that once told me that she never worn some of the clothes and other stuffs I bought her last year. I just can't take it anymore and since then I stopped talking to her and now she has been begging me again even tho I can't take it anymore I still need some matured advise. Why I post this issue is because she sent me a touching message even tho it doesn't touch my heart no more. She said I know u have a great heart please forgive me and stop ignoring me, I was like u know I av a great heart then u treat me like shit? Hmm u try lol

P.S : I'm not an attention seeker I just need matured advise as this happen to me for real and it's still fresh cuz it's just a week plus issue. I know many people will say am a fool but I don't care, I only need an advise. Forgive any typing error as my heart is running a relay at the moment.lol

she was already looking for a way to break up with you, dis is just an easy way awt

ireneidiva:
Why should you even wash his clothes?

now i know you girls are sick in the brain, why should she wash his clothes, you are sick

chimkaire:





Make I see any of my brothers wash clothe for geh




Ara chapiakwa ha onu dia

olden days when a man does this it is assumed the woman has tied him down

dpoladapo604:
We have been together for over six months. I love her so much (never fell so much in love) and she's so crazy in love with me too. she's such a wonderful lady I've ever met. she would do anything just to prove and protect our relationship.

Early January this year she came to my place to spend few days. during her visit, I one day took her phone and checked through her bbm I saw her chat with one cleric (Alfa) asking the man to help her about a shocking dream she had about me and also talking about d previous guy she was dating before I met her. I was so confused I couldn't talk till she left but on her way to the park I ask her if she was cheating or something and she assured me that she's all mine.

So the following day after she left I called her and told her that I went through her phone and I observe that she's still having some affairs wit her previous boy friend, she first started talking angrily that why should I go through her phone without her conscience but after few minutes she called back and started begging not to be annoyed by the way she talked regard me checking her phone. after a lot of begging I told her I'm no more annoyed but I warned her not to go to the Alfa because I could observe that the Alfa has other interior motive from the way he was chatting and she promised not to visit him.

So last Tuesday she came to my place and I tried to go through her chats on bbm and to my biggest surprise my lady was asking the man to pay her the money she spent on abortion to her (omo I was so shocked) I couldn't blv my eyes,I saw a part where the man was asking if she love him and she said no...dat thats why she couldn't keep his pregnancy. I kept it for good days till when she was about to leave this morning. The question I threw at her was "did you really did abortion?" she was shocked and started swearing with the holy book...I asked her to bring her fone and I viewed the Alfa's pics and asked if dis was d same Alfa I asked her not to visit and she said no he's the not him. I showed her the pics I tuk from that chat....she was shocked and accepted she slept with him but she did no abortion saying she only want to use that to get money from the Alfa. I asked her why....but she kept saying she didn't know how it happened. she was just begging and crying. the reason y I was so pained is that I warned her not to go to him but he go against my warning. I love her but I'm not comfortable with her. after too much begging and crying I told her I've forgive her.

Please is it advisable to go on with this lady?...I'm confused because I'm still in luv with her I can't just let her go but something keeps telling me that I may regret go on with her. AND IS IT WRONG FOR PARTNERS TO CHECK EACH OTHERS FONE?

use your brain she is a lying bit h use your brain ,

louiskay:
And na because your generation don fail nairaland oooo
old cargo

more children talk

farano:
1. I never knew what love was until I met you.

2. Would you marry me?

3. You always know how to make me smile even when I'm down.

4. I love you so much.

5. I feel so protected and safe when you're around me.

6. Your scent turns me on.

7. I can't believe how lucky I am to have you.

8. My friends are jealous of me for having such a perfect relationship with you.

9. You're so sweet and caring.

10. I enjoy your company more than anyone else in the whole world.

1. tell me baby take this money and get yourself any clothes that you want
2. baby i learnt a new sex position lets try it
3. baby go hang out with your guys lemme stay home and cook your meal
4.baby lemme do the lundry today
5. baby lemme suck your dick to ease your stress

farano:
1. I never knew what love was until I met you.

2. Would you marry me?

3. You always know how to make me smile even when I'm down.

4. I love you so much.

5. I feel so protected and safe when you're around me.

6. Your scent turns me on.

7. I can't believe how lucky I am to have you.

8. My friends are jealous of me for having such a perfect relationship with you.

9. You're so sweet and caring.

10. I enjoy your company more than anyone else in the whole world.

non you dont even know what men like

NO

iamord:
its childish of him to use such a line! and should not be taken serious. you don't need to come . unless it's something urgent .

actually that is a very matured answer, imagine the girl i love asking me suspiciously i want to take her to my country, she looks like a suspicious person.....dat question is enough to piss me off

SemuhleB:
When it comes to Witchcraft etc one can never take enough precaution.

There was a South African lady who went to Nigeria and never came back. Rumours were that she was eaten. Anyways best thing would be to talk to your boyfriend about it. Maybe he does not know about the effect it had on you. Also don't go to Nigeria just incase

you have a low mentality, how many of my friends have died in south africa, were the police is very corrupt, we are all humans not canibals

cocostrawberry:
I am quite disturbed at the moment. Something my boyfriend said has been playing on my mind over and over

So my boyfriend of 6 months has been trying to get me to Nigeria for sometime now. So one day I asked him why is he so in a rush to take me to Nigeria. ... His reply was he wants to use me for rituals


Now at first I took it as a joke that he was teasing me however he never said he was and perhaps he was actually saying the truth.

Am I being paranoid?? Or do I actually have reason to be concerned. Why say something like that in first place?

Is this Nigerian humor that I perhaps am not getting?

Am very confused. I wanted a Nigerian perspective on this that's why I am asking here

do you know if he wants you to meet his parents?? you are just being paranoid, if he wanted to use u for rituals will he tell you?? if i love a girl i would want her to follow me to nigeria to see my roots, pls dont let him get the hint that you are suspicious you might change his mind about yourself

seggzz:
I have a very beautiful virgin girl but cannot cook as I do. There was a time I asked her to prepare a pepper soup meal. She didn't know the procedures and she had to ask me the cooking procedures. And I was ashamed with the way she wanted to prepare the meal. I pushed her away and I prepared it myself. She was surprised that I can cook that good after she tasted it.

Moreover, I still asked her to cook egusi soup and stew with turkey differently. She couldn't cook it well even after some assistance, the egusi soup tasted salty. And now, I do most of the cooking anytime she visits me. She confessed that she usually enjoy my food, but I'm not happy with her.

Ladies and gentlemen, what should I do to this virgin lady?

so what are you now gaining from the relationship?? i dont get

seggzz:
I have a very beautiful virgin girl but cannot cook as I do. There was a time I asked her to prepare a pepper soup meal. She didn't know the procedures and she had to ask me the cooking procedures. And I was ashamed with the way she wanted to prepare the meal. I pushed her away and I prepared it myself. She was surprised that I can cook that good after she tasted it.

Moreover, I still asked her to cook egusi soup and stew with turkey differently. She couldn't cook it well even after some assistance, the egusi soup tasted salty. And now, I do most of the cooking anytime she visits me. She confessed that she usually enjoy my food, but I'm not happy with her.

Ladies and gentlemen, what should I do to this virgin lady?

so what are you now gaining from the relationship?? i dont get

Lagusta:
Is that a warship Looks more like a yaght to me

Now compare that rowboat with this.....

though it was just me, the ship looks old, last time i saw one of those was 1st world war

lolss, i have finally seen it, the girl is looking at the right

i go buyo,how much for a 14yrr old virgin......*runsway* *seunandmodspursues* *dodgesbottlefromnairalanders*

christaddicted:
* flying Kite
* playing soccer with crown cork (canter)
* we fight war using rubber band & bullet made of tiny folded paper.. Kia dat tin dey pain o.. If dem shoot here, o boi u go run go hide cry or na house straight to cry.
* e.t.c

*Modified*

* playing with switch as in off & on repeatedly... Bulb blow, wait for Popsy to land from work.. Na me go report say "bulb just burn na na".

* u won't be my friend if u don't allow me to play with ur toy car.

*Go to school with one pencil, come home with six pencils.

*Too many tins me do na uncountable.

lolsssssssssss dude u lived my life

put hole in our palour door so ii can watch tv whenever dey drove us to go readour books

Blackett:
It's also not by force to create a thread that reeks of "dumbassedness", if that is a word.

thanks its your mentality, leave my thread alone

Blackett:
You're a learner. . . Asking the public what your woman means when she says she's not in the mood. Cat got your tongue?

smh not by force to comment, pls let the ladies comment, thank you

Blackett:
You're a learner. . . Asking the public what your woman means when she says she's not in the mood. Cat got your tongue?

smh not by force to comment, pls let the ladies comment, tnks you

Blackett:
What in the fvcking world. . .

If a lady tells you she isn't in the mood, ASK her what she means by "I am not in the mood" jeez. What a waste of space.

its obvious you are still new to the game,

What do you guys mean when you say you are not in the mood sometimes your body will be ready , heart beating faster, nipples hard, e.t.c. then you hear the old line AM NOT IN THE MOOD, pls ladies explain better cos we men and guys are clueless and tired of hearing that line.

matured comments only pls

cyara:
I came back from church boiled rice and spaghetti with an egg, dished out my food and quickly pulled off my clothes and balanced to eat. I had already eaten a quarter of the food when I noticed something black beside my meat. I pushed the meat aside to find out what it was, low and behold I saw a giant spider beside the meat. I almost threw up.

So nairalanders what strange things have you seen or mistakenly eaten in your food?

wallgecko inside the tea i was already drinking, cant remember thaaa...............*puking*

ireneony:
at the end of the day, men cannot live without us.
Men rule the world, but we rule men.
We are the key behind men's destiny.

Paraphrase my statement to get a better understanding.

rule who?? men who just want you for your body are the ones you rule.....men let you think you rule them but you wont see whats coming.....i can remove and add any lady i want to my life,

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