₦airaland Forum

dammiedot:
Confess to your pastor, confess your sins to God too , the good part is you feel guilty... A lot of pple do this without any guilt like its a way of life.... But ild also advise you do not tell your wife atm .... If you want peace at home

why should he confess to the pastor, when he could confess to God....

[quote author=gunnerman post=31231426][/quote]Hey man, this is between you and God.... Dnt for the Sake of hurting your wife tell her anything about what happened and don't speak to no one about it... .... Pray to God, and he will FORGIVE YOU.....Never feel bad, it was a mistake and dnt allow the guilt to consume you for any reason......

Afteral we are all flawed creatures so why would you destroy your home in the process of trying to be "truthful".... even if you end up telling her years to come, the damage will not be as bad as it is, if you do so now, and you can tell her in parables.... without being too direct or mentioning names... !!!

Satan can hijack the situation and wreck your home if you let this secret out to humans...


This is a SECRET and it must remain between You and God....

As a brother in Christ this is my advice...!!!!.... the fact that you felt bad, shows you have a repentant heart. I pray God gives you the strength to continue to love your wife more faithfully....


REMAIN BLESSED...!!!!!

banki:
please op and the rest stop visiting their site.....
when they were publishing pictures and opening the can of worms of the yaradua cabal that eventually led to Nigerians knowing the truth and supporting jonathan were they biased and bad

each time they tell us something its either true or almost true they even break the news faster.....its either you hate the truth or you have something to hide....

When they told us dame was sick and was rushed to the hospital in Germany people like you said it was a lie her spokesman said it was a lie until she came back her self and confirmed that she almost died

When they told us that elections were likely to be postponed you guys said it was a lie now we have the truth.....

when they told us of the ekitigate you said it was a lie obanikoro even threatened to sue them.. it turned out it was true

BTW youngman,

The Ekiti Gate scandal was not about election Rigging.... It was a result of soldiers disarming fayose's men... I never heard the mention of election rigging there.!!!!!

After watching saharaReporters closely enough and reading their news for years, I am begining to see them as a bunch of unpatriotic Nigerians living abroad, who are hell bent on publishing negative things about our country.

When you meet a Jamaican, they over hype their country despite the fact that there are worst things happening in their country... They never speak negative of their country. They criticize their politicians, but they jointly uphold the image of their Nation and even go as far as convincing tourists to visit the island....

On the other hand, Sahara Reporters have never published any article that will inspire a tourist to visit Nigeria... We do have our challenges, like every other country, including the USA where these bunch of unpatriotic citizens are hiding in...

Very soon sahara reporters will shut down due to lack of patronage, as their news are getting more horrible by the day. It has been infested with propaganda just like the Poolitical party paying their rent....

Their media arm is being used as a judgemental platforms to insult our president whenever they feel like... This is degrading and disrespectful...

WHO GAVE THEM THE GUTS TO INSULT THE HEAD OF STATE?? Can they write trash about Obama or Putin and publish it? If they dnt learn to respect our leaders the easy way, they will learn the harder way....

I am sick of seeing our country being directly dragged into the mud by those socalled "political journalist"..... Can they give us one reason why they enjoy doing this? isn't it better to promote our country in the bright light than to condemn it!!!!

Now its time we call a spade a spade. SaharaReporters are of no Good to our country. If they want to publish anything about corruption, they should do their research first and publish facts about individuals and stop denting the image of our country internationally...





#SAY_NO_TO_SAHARAREPORTERS !!!!!!!

well...

Those who came to snatch other people's husbands nko?

Nokialumia720:
How can someone put an end to it. I.m really addicted.

its not a serious issue bro. With God all things are possible. Through faith and deliverance you can come out of it like I did. Don't listen to what people tell you if its not of God.

Joining social club cannot help you fight spiritual battles. We need to draw strength from Jesus to overcome this habbit.

dayowunmi:
Quitting masturbation is a serious issue, infact breaking addiction to masturbation is more serious than breaking addiction to hard drugs. I suggest u pray about it, try and get rid of all things relating to porn around you in ur phone and surrounding, try to examine yourself and ascertain what triggers u to do it, whenever that trigger is about to begin get ur mind busy with something else, get a diary to document ur progress, one thing that leads to masturbation in most cases is loneliness, try building healthy relationships with people around u, if u are a student, join social and religious groups that will enable u mingle, lastly, see a psychology, am a psychologist myself, but not yet practicing cos am still a student. May God see u through.

its not a serious issue bro. With God all things are possible. Through faith and deliverance you can come out of it like I did. Don't listen to what people tell you if its not of God.

Joining social club cannot help you fight spiritual battles. We need to draw strength from Jesus to overcome this habbit.

EOOJ:
Yea I get ur point but u said it wud b taken away in a second It dosnt still work dat way ooo. Yea in d spiritual realm a battle is being fought on ur behalf but in d physical realm it takes time trust me...

its your faith that quickens the process.

EOOJ:
Very funny but it dosent work dat way ooo

with my experience, God took away the zeal.. its like a smoker being addicted. what makes them wana smoke is the zeal, not because they love it. Take the zeal out of smoking, they will loose interest. when the invisible rope that ties you to the habbit is severed, thats when you are set free. and this can only be done in the spiritual realm.

ask4bk:
Does not work like that. Your temptations will even increase sef. Let's just say that the fear of God will help us control better and not make wrong decisions. And not saying that you won't have lustful thoughts again. Him be electric pole?

the moment you place yourself under the banner of God, your challenges or temptations as you call them, become a source of strength, because you rely on the Power of God to overcome them, rather than trying with your own abilities. Because depending on your abilities will fail you.

1toRtoiSe1:
GEJ paid FFK.....FFK paid the lady.....the Lady paid Fools

whos the good guy and who is the bad guy?

its business as usual. you guys are just knocking your heads over for nothing

clovislouis:
how did u do it

men it was thru deliverance, and baptism.

BornSad:
Hope you don't go to hospitals, school or even work at all. Go sleep in church.

The closer you are the God, the more enlightened you become, especially of things that cannot be seen by the natural eyes.

OkunrinMeta:
How can you guarantee what you have not experienced.or Are u a former addict that got out that way?

I went through this some years back. and thats when I discovered its more spiritual than physical

PianoWizard:
Like for how many days or months does it take for someone to break this addiction?

with God, it can disappear within a second...

BornSad:
Ogbeni, this one na curse abi na prayer?

Btw, this is how you people go referring gullible people to church without any practical solutions.

seeking the face of Jesus is the only guarantee that can help us overcome our earthly challenges.

Whobedatte:
na after u don give una life to Jesus u still dey watch Lisa ann&nyomii Banxxx videos? shey na that church wey the pastor dey jerrycurl em hair u dey go?

Like I said, You can't please God with your flesh bro.

Nokialumia720:
How can someone put an end to it. I.m really addicted.

the solution is to seek spiritual Help, by attending a church where they truely worship God in spirit and in truth. Its a simple process. Accept Jesus, get Baptised, and get delivered. I guarantee you, you will never feel the urge to lust after anything in this world.

THIS OP MUST BE A SERIAL MAST.URBATOR. !!!!!!!!!! I doubt almost everything written here.

I used to do this act some years back, because I felt it helps me reduce the urge to lust after women... Having sex with random girls is a dangerous thing because of the spiritual consequences, and creating invisible Bonds. It felt good for a while, the only side effect I noticed is that, it could affect your confidence and lead to low self esteem..

I quit it after finding Jesus. Even if I click an adult site, I dnt feel that excitement like I once did back then. The urge to mast.urbate is no longer in my mind.

I give all the glory to God anyway.

adaybayor:
because you are being assertive, someone just told you he has been to othe parts too.

someone told me, maybe a ghost did.

lewis33:
try staying informed to avoid embarrassing urself. osinbajo was in the southeast last week .

how is asking a question embarassing oneself? Dr Embarassment

berem:
Time to vote out this bad government.

We need change!

Change to What So that Chimp from Ota can use his invisible strings connected through the APC to control our government

Didn't China Devalue their currency? did the country burn up in flames?

Tinubu can never get to the federal level..!!!... and I see him loosing lagos to JK..

As an APC member, I have wondered why is PYO only campaigning in the south west, is he scared to travel alone to the South South Since Buhari's disappearance from the front line, I see APC collapsing after 2015, the structure of the party seems to rest on the arm of 1 man... !!! It doesn't really sound democratic to me.


PYO has never stepped foot in any of APC's rally in the Niger Delta, or even the eastern part of the country. He only appeared in Ogun for a rally, and then he made a suprise appearance at Ambode's Ajegunle rally.

WHATS HIS INTENTIONS?

Freelancer00:
Since when do votes on Facebook win an election? U also want to tell me everyone that likes/follows their page stay in Lagos and are going to vote for him? Ambode just opened his Facebook page some weeks ago, u expect him to have 10 million likes already? Until April 11

I can easily buy likes and rig polls on facebook..

Although what I'm about to say might sound unrealistic, but after reading through several articles and political disciphering done our man Barcanista, GEJ should have hired him to do all the political write ups rather than that lame duck named Abati....

Nasir El-rufai doesn't write his own posts on facebook. These guys have what we call Ghost Writers. His political write ups are far more interesting than APC's Liar in Chief, Lai Mohammed.

Barcanista's Criticism comes across as profound, Just and never bitter or filled with hatred.


God Bless Nigeria

arsetalks:
You cannot even spell "liar" hence you have so much understanding difficulty.

Guardian are apologising for their own mistake. Did APC release any picture? You lot are so ill educated it is unbelievable.

The ignorance you and your ethnic and religious bigoted friends have shown on this thread is another reason why GEJ the jerk simply have to go. The educational system is so poor that simple, very basic write up you lot cannot understand.

It is shameful really.

thanks teacher, at least you understood what I meant.... so grow up!!! and educate yourself so you can be free from the bondage of Association of Past Criminals. oops I meant Asiwaju Prostitutes Congress

webincomeplus:
Did you see the part where I wrote "Nigerian politics"? Learn to read between lines.

Politics is Politics, dnt try and create a genre... thats hypocricy

Fodacis:
Na you asked question, na you answers am. how much were you paid for this nonsense? You know quite alright that Ambode will defeat Agbaje.

guy I was a registered APC member... I am not here to speak from both sides of my mouth....

1toRtoiSe1:
you said you checked both candidate's credentials and concluded that jk is more qualified? What CV does JK have other than that of a pharmacist? Can you compare that with ambode's CV which shows he's been in government for a long time? JK has no experience. By the way, you asked a question and gave an answer to it, which shows you are a paid agent.

AMBODE IS A STOOGE FOR TINUBU's CONTINUED RAPE ON LAGOS TREASURY.....

webincomeplus:
Well, in Nigerian politics, being popular doesn't guarantee victory. Many who were way more popular than their opponents have lost even at the level of primaries.

If Obama wasn't popular, would he have defeated McCain? anywhere in this world my friend, popularity add alot to your credentials.. dnt get fooled by election riggers