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Designer123:
One of my guy in Canada said Nigerian women there are mad at him because he is dating a white Canadian.

iClef:
I wanted to yell at you, but I'm not that kind of person.

Let me tell you something and please, tell it to all women. "Men and women are different."

Starting from the day a man speaks with you, never you cheat on him. Men don't forgive cheating and NEVER will — it's our pride. If they say they have forgiven you, trust me, they are pretending.

Even if you carry Jesus along to come apologize to a man after cheating on him, he will not forgive you. For the sake of God, he will say he has forgiven you and starts acting normal for months or years or even marry you, but dear, he has not forgiven you.

One day, the marriage will crash with just a minor misunderstanding, but the underlying truth is: your cheating when the two of you were dating caused it.

After a woman has cheated, she should know no amount of tears or plea can make a man forgive her, but the man will pretend to have forgiven her.

Even if you forget everything I have told you above, don't forget "Men DON'T forgive women who cheated on them, but they'll pretend to have."

After a woman has cheated on a man, she should end the relationship IMMEDIATELY because it has already ended even though they are still having sex with each other and professing how much they love each other.

In the guy's mind, he is single and you're his f*ck buddy. One day, it will be finally made official when you'll see his new girl or hear he has wedded another women when you traveled to see your parents or someone.

At the end, you'll either start from scratch, commit suicide, or try to ruin his marriage.

Men are not fools, so women shouldn't be fooled after cheating on a man.

If you cheat on me, even Jesus can't make me forgive you, though, I'll still keep you as a friend and pretend to have forgiven you.

Telling a man to forgive a woman who cheated on him equals to telling him "you're an idiót." No real man wants to be an idiót — except being an idîot is hereditary to him.

A woman sees sex as "just sex and fun," but the original man of that woman sees it as DISRESPECT, DISREGARD, AND LACK OF FEAR FOR HIM. How will you feel if your child has no fear and respect for you as a woman? The same way you feel is how a man who has been cheated on feels.

Show me one man who wants his woman to disrespect, disregard, and don't have fear of him and I'll show you a weak man who will die early during marriage — which the death is caused by the women.

High BP and depression awaits any man who forgives a cheating woman or a nagging woman.

Two things a woman should NEVER do to someone like me is cheat or nag. Your beauty, money, intelligence, Godly pretentious behavior, fat ass, big breast, etc. won't save you.

So, I'm angry with you for saying he should forgive her. Men don't forgive a woman who has cheated on them, but men will always pretend to have forgiven.

Though, weak men with low self-esteem and are poverty-stricken who can't get another woman will forgive. When this same weak man becomes rich, he will remember how you cheated on him years ago and divorce you, starts sleeping with small girls or a get a second wife. You'll be in his house, but like a slave. You won't know where his anger is coming from.

Na that time you go tell your pastor to come counsel the two of you. After several attempts by the pastor to make you people become one happy family again to no avail, you too will start sleeping with the pastor and one day the pastor will be caught.

At the end, the cheating you did in your 20s to your boyfriend, now husband, has crashed your marriage, your pastor's marriage, and the image of the Church.

You see? So don't cheat on your boyfriend and if you accidentally cheat, end the relationship because the wrath awaits you in the future if you continue.

One woman's cheating habit can break a nation. A cheat never changes even though he/she vowed to have changed — it's just a word or fake remorse. No be today yash dey for back.

A word is enough and I speak from wisdom bestowed on me from above and from experience.

Thank you and all the best.

Patotelli:
It happened just last week as the government out hold on all tertiary Institutions. I traveled for some business hustle. At around 4pm on the Sunday I called my babe and we chatted for some time then someone coughed in the background which I asked who was that she replied a friend, I said ok..

Getting back to school o as to pack up things and finally go home. She came to my place and while trying to make love with her she said oh babe am not comfortable now. Like my conscious is priming me. I stopped and tried to let her talk about it but she waved it off and said she just wanted to see my reaction. Well as man be we continued after we were through she was like 'boo what if I tell you I someone has sex with me what would you do'.i just did as if I didn't hear what she said, I first left her and went to the sitting room to take water from the fridge and during to calm my nerves and be alright. When I came back to the room I asked her what she said the other time she just said oh nothing she's just afraid to say what she wanted to say,right then I know something's up. I entered motivation mood and started hyping her how good she has been to me, how she have changed me to a better person and how positive this relationship has been, how we have been best couples on campus and people envy our Union. Truth be told we love each other I even opened a business for her. She sells ladies footwear's and bags all imported from outside country.. before I know it she started crying that babe pls I'm sorry there's something that happened to me on Sunday and it would end our relationship, I was like nothing you want to say that is new in this world and that has not happened before, that no one is perfect. Well she said her ex chatted her up and was like pls he's down and needed some help that she should come help her out at home. On getting there the guy is was watching movie in his room. Well she's there already and sit down. All the guy was saying wa how he missed her and regretted cheating in her and all that before she could know it the guy pinned her down through struggle and all that the guy had his way with her..
I was so devastated don't know what to do at first because all I was thinking is that after all we've been through and done together our relationship will be a year by may, you still went to be laid by your Ex, asked how many times has it happened in our relationship she said 3 times, the first two when we just started that she still feels for the guy then.but now she don't feel for him again and that will be the only time she visited him since she got serious with me. but as someone who is matured and experienced I just kept my calm because she started crying and throughout the night she cried her eyes out.. I just remained mute till morning. The next day I told her we need a break but it got worse she fell and hit her head on some table.. I had to take her and apply some medication on her..

Why I came in here is for you fellow nairaLanders to advice me on what to do.
1st I love her
2nd she's known to my mom and brother
3rd I've draft out how my life is going to be spent with her forever.
4th can I continue dating her and tell her to cut ties with the guy.

Pls help me, what do I do and not do. What do I tell her and not tell her..

Thanks plss

Firstorderwizard:
I'm on lockdown with my babe now. Before the lockdown, I'm not always available at home (work travels) and my babe visits once in a month. She's observing the stay at home in my hood (her parents are aware though) but the way we are experimenting a lot of things to kill boredom is giving me worry. I don't want her to get pregnant outside wedlock.
Guys I need mature advice on how to play safe the more cos condom and postinor seems ineffective now.
I intend marrying her though.

Lostz:
reduce the sex o. too much sex even affect ones health.... especially the man

justnock:
Use a condom, bro. Always. Don't depend on the 'withdrawal' method. It can fail. Don't depend on her "safe" period.
I don't want to judge you by saying that you are commiting fornication.
Just protect yourself, Biko.

Paxie55:
You are funny.
You can still control your tools if you want to.
I'm in a relationship, and it's even my man that said no sex in the relationship.
You can try getting off your mind from her body and focus your mind on many things Like, how to build your finance, how and where to invest your money, keeping closer to God, draw out your investment plans, read books etc. Let your mind be occupied. My fiancè does these and he doesn't even have time to check ass and all others cos it Will drive him into sin.
Occupy your mind.

Mihaug:
I remember this username from NNPC thread

khingTony:
Adrian no be Liverpool Goal keeper?

abi na Atletico Madrid hire am for Una?

Possiblegee:
Atletico Madrid can’t win the champions league defending like this ,that’s why I don’t want them to go through tho,but let’s see what they have to offer in the next stage

Heavance:
You have finished it, in your opinion.
Football is not your opinion, it's what we see. Football doesn't care about shoelace of a club, your performance over time is what we care to see.
I am not a la liga fan, but I do love Liverpool.
I just tell you as it is.

If teams are playing Madrid week in week out, and that same Madrid has the total Ucl of all epl teams, total of serie A teams too...
My dear, LaLiga is on top of all others.

Mind you, the best of the best only considered playing in LaLiga and Serie A, Man City's money was what started the attraction of others to England.


Go through your list of the world best players, few played in Epl, just few.

Expert17:
LooseVARpool fans will go back into their SHELL with their big mouth, disturbing us, up and down.......

Over rated bunch of players.....VAN DICK can't even mark average players .. The idiot they are comparing with Vidic, Ferdinand, Terry, Konpany

21cents:
no mind them.

imagine simpletons saying laliga is bigger than EPL because Liverpool lost. even when Man City humbled Madrid on their soil. in EPL anyone can win it. in laliga na only 2 teams dey carry am.

Liverpool's game was impressive yesterday as they were on ATMs neck the whole time with attacks and I must commend them for it.

na mumu Adrian go give them ginger with that stupid pass and he couldn't save shit. any ball ATM play laidis go just enta anyhow Kai!!

he needs to be sold.

radautoworks:
Yeah... That's why his senators, Washington and himself have been exposed.

stonemasonn:
if handled poorly