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Your dad might not be arrogant, but he don see say the street nor get memory.

Probably, when chief E was growing up, your dad took so many bullets for him, just to ensure he is okay…now that things has changed, your dad don’t expect him to lick his leg, before he comes through for him.

It’s quite painful that your dad childhood friend, couldn’t even at least prepare a nice bedroom for him, but have to sleep in the living room.

Mind you…your dad does not have an entitlement mentality, it’s just being painful to know that the street nor get memory.

You think your dad doesn’t have a way to source for his contact?? He has probably realized that this his friend is not willing to help…Just imagine for 30 years he was living abroad and couldn’t help his child friend to enjoy the good life with him…some friends sha.


As for me, I’ll never help a fool in this life again….because them go lose guard you when you needed them the most.

What’s the confusion there…you’ve a sure job in Australia and you’re still comparing… you already have the answers.

frank2zee:
Guys please I'm in a confused state right now...
I have 24m naira to migrate to either Canada or Australia.
If I migrate to Australia successfully, I will be left with just 2k AUD to start life with. However, if I successfully move to Canada I will be left with about 10kCAD to start life with.
The problem is canada has very low job opportunities so I might even finish what I came there with before getting a parttime job that will help me pay my subsequent tuition fees, even if from my research parttime wages in canada can't really meet up tuition fees.
Meanwhile there are more prospects that I will get a job early within a month or two in Australia, and the parttime salary in Australia is quite high enough to pay my subsequent tuition fees, but the issue is can 2k AUD sustain me till I get a job?

So I'm just confused on the country to start investing money for travel process.

What if i tell you that old portal has more denial rate than new portal.

Old portal seems to be reviewed by human personnel, while new portal is automated.

Again, with the old portal…you can be easily tempted to add a lot of irrelevant docs/info.

The new portal requires you go straight to the point…and once you miss it, there is likely to be delay…as it needed to be scrutinize by human advisor.

It’s advisable to send webform if your application is taking too long.

Good luck to everyone.

Chapecoense:
Thanks. It looks like using the old portal is way faster than the new portal. Cos a few people here including me that submitted using the new ircc portal are still pending, going on two months 😩

You might be right with your assertion…but what you see is light not smoke…and it might not have anything to do with spiritual poweress, just that you have a good eye sight that has a very high scan rate. Just light high pixel camera that can even detect spirits and flickering of light…which our natural eyes sees as stable.

Svoboda:
Nothing is wrong with africa. In europe and america, you still find some dilapidated buildings. Over here, you'd still find some stone buildings built over a 100 years ago still standing and well maintained. Try some anglican and catholic churches in the east and west of nigeria and see that lack of maintenance isnt an african culture. Its just a matter of priorities.

Before you make comparisons look at the ratio of dilapidated building to that of strong building in the west and Africa.

Mind you, I still stand on my stance , there is something wrong with Africa…Go to a neighboring country like SA, you’ll find out the areas occupied by whites are well groomed and maintained…but go black areas, nothing to write home about.

Now, most slumps in the US and UK are occupied by blacks…where they break rules and live without structure.

I am black, the truth needs to be told. And this is not the matter of inferiority complex…it’s just fact.

Knacking for longer hours na mindset…sometimes I wonder why people use drugs!!!

If your man really cares, he reduce sugar intake and reorient his mind set….

Show us Africa throw back…you’ll see there is something wrong with the black continent 😩

Your quest for knowledge, shows you should be among the 2% in the world that really wants to uncover the mystery that surrounds humanity.

No matter what had been said about POVERTY, one cannot live a fulfilled life, unless he is RICH.

#Apt

Marriage celebration different from marriage itself….I just pray make marriage nor frustrate or bring this one down like he manager….bird of a feather, flock together.

The real Fadas, abi their women nor sweet for bedmatics or the men thing small😩
I most visit Japan…

My dear, take it or leave it…he has not abandoned you, at least he knows you’re safe with his family and he didn’t stopped communicating with you…and you can’t really say he has moved on with someone he barely meant in less than 6 months…don’t use assumption to kill your inner peace, go out and do some socializing…you should not expect him to give you 24hrs full attention….as he is trying to find his feet.

And stop using his weakness against him…like, since you know women finds him attractive, don’t assume he sleeps with all of them…celebrity life nor easy…ask snoop dog wife Wetin her eyes see…but yet remained solid.

TheTravelingOne:
Ok. Sounds like you know my personal situation better than I do. I never said I was a perfect human btw. Relationships take 2. What I would never do is abandon him in a foreign country. We were fine until I came across a girl he took out nor did something with on IG. Since then, it’s been WW3 and rightfully so, this isn’t the first one I found. But it’ll be the last, I’ve learned to think with my brain & not with my heart. Lesson learned. A big big lesson.

Your story is a pathetic one, but I can sure relate…truth be told, the guy is into you…but there are some things he’s not comfortable with about you…and whenever he brings it up, you makes no sense of it.

Again, a man who is passionate about is career finds women who are clingy annoying.

And been groomed in the states…your mentality will be different from his, like in the area of house shores, cooking and probably shopping.

From your description and of him, he is not a scammer, if not…nothing stops him from making the moves for good 4 years and good enough, you said he has is own money.

Again, he might has said what he told you of marrying his elder to out of anger.

My advice…work on yourself, especially does things he has pointed to you…and it seems you assume a lot and monitors his every moves.

Relationship is all about knowing what works for your partner and give some level of tolerance.

I’m also surprised that you guys lived for over two years and he didn’t impregnate you, or even make a move on marriage…there’s something you’re not telling.

***I can attest to the fact that whatever he said is out of anger, 3months is just too early to assume that he has abandoned you.

No man leaves a woman, who stood by him, when he had nothing.

TheTravelingOne:
I’ve never threatened him with anything until I was told he’s not coming back from his 3 week turned to 3 months trip. I’m not a controlling woman (American) if that’s what you are alluding too. I’m rather an old fashion type and I let the man LEAD even though I have my own money. I like to be a woman and he a man. So NO, I didn’t go around threatening him with deportation until I realized I was abandoned in Nigeria.

Elzazzi:
Keep doing that while she gives You stds

Lolz…if the street is military, you got to be a soldier.
So, learn to use your upper, no grounds for loose guarding,

Las las…real men don’t break up with ladies dat beep up, they leave them to date themselves in the relationship while they enjoy the goodies, while stock last 😏

If iphone like dem upgrade to 50pro max, me self go upgrade by converting, simply buying XR lens to 50pro lens.
Na only camera arrangement be the koko…iPhone upgrade stopped at 8, XR and Xs max

Also note…just the way gals adore extremely rude guys, they also worship extremely nice guys.

Difference is:
1. The rude ones can use them…
2. They can use the nice ones …

VinnyBaba:
Nice one, OP. 👍

Let me Add:

Girls love Guys who BULLY them aLot.
Guys that does NOT take No for an Answer.
Guys that when The Girl tell them she is seeing ur Menstrual Flow, He doesn't Care.
He Drags her Nipples out, then Shift their Pant or Tear it and Insert his Raging PREEK into the Veejay.

Girls Inwardly Adore such Guys!

Macmilla:
Let us face facts and stop deceiving ourselves.
What exactly do men gain from marriage?
Tell me one thing you are getting as a married man that you couldn't get as an unmarried man. Just one thing.

Off the mic…nor loud am😏

The writer is not far from the truth…make we not they hype these days marriage.

Most folks are going through hell…I have two close pals who say dem nor wan do again…WOMEN are great manipulators…couple with the fact that if you nor use your head for marriage, there’s nothing in stock for you.

No doubt, marriage is adorable…but the genesis of all mental stress, still remains the fact that most men or women don’t marry who Dey sole desire…A women will always marry who is available, men in old age will just want to fulfill all righteousness.


#las las na God Dey help mumu

atoliman:
no one cares when you are broke. You see how so called friends start avoiding you when they know you aint got money. The only person that send you is your mama. Any bro who is your friend when you are broke is a friend for life.

It’s a rule of thumb…people will only play along when it’s beneficial.

Best composition of the month…high tension for U

iLegendd:
Being a bad boy or abusing a woman doesn't make any sense, but those are the men they're more attracted to and prefer.

Yes, you'll say you're not like that and you prefer good and nice guys who respect and worship you.

Don't worry, that's what every sensible woman says until reality hits them and they dump the nice guy that makes sense for the bad boy that doesn't make sense — the ones that smokes weed every 5 minutes.

These were religious women that used to say they'll NEVER marry or date a man who smokes, but today, if you don't smoke, they'll think you're a weak man.

People even thought humans entering inside an object (plane) and flying in the air or being in different countries and hearing each other's voice doesn't make sense 200+ years ago until it started working. Now, these doubters' grand children want to use the most expensive phones — something their grandmothers used to think doesn't make sense.

A woman who says a man's dick is too small and doesn't make sense should spread her legs and see if he won't impregnate her in 60 seconds — which is the most important thing.

So, calm down. Even the invention of money didn't make sense at first when people were used to only trade by barter, but today, most women are spreading legs in exchange for that paper that didn't make sense back in the olden days.

Lecturers usually think their students skipping class to go shoot comedy skit doesn't make sense and they'll suffer in life. Today, some of those skit makers' monthly income is more than the lecturers' annual income. Who's making sense now? Life isn't fair, so don't expect everything to make sense before they'll work.

There is someone you're working harder than today, but he/she makes more than you by working less. Does that make sense? No. So, don't live your life thinking everything must make sense.

Portable and Speed Darlington don't make sense to most people, but they make more money than Brymo that makes sense to them.

Use your head, dear — we're all closer to our graves, so it's better you do what doesn't make sense but works before you die poor trying to make sense or impress people.

samcolee:
Imagine having neighbours who understand life y'all join money to sub starlink maybe 38 people you'd be paying 1k per month for unlimited data

Real matters bro…Nigerians will think along this line, the network is very stable even in rainy condition and the speed is awesome…I know soon the price will fall below 440k as the adoption is becoming popular.

Addiction is a bastard…it’s rubs people who are destined to make money of their glory…you’re destined to make money, that’s why you have the income somehow to keep up the addiction.

Now, think about this…
Once you stop, how much money alone will be in your savings?

The choice is yours my gee…before you stop any addiction, you have to find something to fill the void, because the story of the seven demons occupying an empty space is real…as depicted in the holy bible.

Find a way to beg your creditors, because you must be in debt with any bad addictions…you can’t dodge it.
If you check very well, it’s the urge to pay off your debts that’s the moral behind you still betting with Any available funds.

Finally, know that you’re destined to make money and you’re a generous giver…that’s why the enemy is preventing your shine.

I have been there…I know how it feels, when you’re trying hard to fight the demon.

One reason I love urhobo gurls…no matter how you compliment them, it hardly gets into their head….them go just Dey do everything possible to make sure you maintain the compliments.

With starlink and smart tvs becoming more popular and cheaper…people will definitely abandon all these paid tvs…and even start offering free Wi-Fi to neighborhood.

The future will definitely be interesting…

poiZon:
U dey play, Tinubu will do 8yrs which will be 16yrs of APC, then if he handover to Shettima, forget it, na another 16yrs loading.
Bookmark this...

Lolz…Apc BaT wouldn’t win 2027.
His policies are not adding up…everybody Dey hear am…there would be mass revolt.

#just watch

I somewhat try to believe your research…1) there is something about dream. 2) there are god on earth been suppressed from rising- reason why most talented people hardly evolve. 3) there is something deep about religion. 4) there are so many unexplained miseries….just take a look at dejavu

tonyblac:
your contact?

tonyblac:
your contact?

I’ve messaged you....07048842729

I’m Interested.

michlins:
Why must people complain. Even when government does something good, you people will find a way to twist and turn it into a negative news.

Same Nigeria people have been complaining how Lebanese and Indian people take up important position in companies in Nigeria leaving us with crumbs and labour works. Now government has done something to mitigate it to ensure that we're given a level playing field to work which will in turn increase the transfer of skills to Nigeria people.

I can not be this sad in life

Thank you for educating clueless people….if they know how Indians are flooding important sectors and importing, junkies into the country daily…the policy is a good one, it will automatically encourage local content and bring in dollars

blacksam01:
Why do ladies always rush and wear ring even before the marriage wedding itself....thought its supposed to b after the wedding.....

Dey play