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Ziggylady:
You know nothing about marriage at all,all you know are rants from crazy males on Nairaland against women..

What that man did is extremely bad and will destroy his marriage completely if his wife finds out..He is actually a criminal who deservesrves to be arrested for burglary and arson

besides its on record that Nigerian males in their primitive thought-process are the most insecure male in the world..easily intimidated by a successful woman yet the first to cry 'women are parasites who are lazy'

oshaosha2014:
I will keep saying it till eternity, no woman can handle success or being independent well. They sha will look for a way to rub it in your face and let you know you are nothing before them. This is a typical example.

Valerie47:
This man is a bastard, I just pray she finds out and cut his dic.k

monimekaz:
I used to be this bright child but I must confess I have not achieved anything as an adult .Dreams are turning nightmares .They said we should get skills that certificate is not enough,got some IT skills etc but none is getting me close to my dream .My talent just there wasting ,depression setting and no one seems to believe in you anymore .It is heartbreaking.

Shikini:
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She looks pregnant


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Ralphlauren:
You are wrong.

Auditors have full access to a company's balance sheet, funds in the bank, value of assets, liabilities, debtors, unpaid invoices, etc so they do know when a company is no longer able to fulfil its financial obligations and can inform their client/employer of any looming bankruptcy.

A company that decide on it's own to file for bankruptcy..

Orla234:
There must be something spectacular about her.

That's the only thing that can make a man choose a mother of two over aunty Linda who was a tear rubber. Abi





The denominators were..

Not ready to commit.
Hustler mentality
Private lifestyle
S...ex is relative..
No hurry on the woman's part to have babies



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Uglymugg:
You know you have no foresight right? These cars he buys are an investment. They resell and buy newer models when it's out. Guess how much people are going to want to buy a car Mayweather sat in?

Exactly.

victorian:
In the past when I was so depressed, lonely, sad and hungry. No one reached out to me, even dating then was like, am dating myself. Yes even with my looks, I was damned lonely, guys coming my way were wolves in sheep clothing , they appear as calm as a lamb but later I realised they were wolves, I was dealt with terribly emotionally. I was so depressed, then I didn't have these awesome female friends I now have. Back then I was aloner but the wrong guys were wooing me, just to destroy me at the end. They almost succeeded, I almost tried to commit suicide but the voice of my late mum rang into my head, Victoria don't disappoint me, no man is worth dying for. You are all I have remaining, pls don't do it. I sighed.

I cried, like have never cried before. Then I made up my mind, shelve guys one side Biko, focus on God. Always attend church service, so your mind and soul will be filled with the love and words of God.
My Worship time in church and at home and work is like Heaven to me. As if am in paradise.

Then later good female friends came into my life. Their jokes, their humour, their seriousness at time makes me wonder and marvel on how different all my female friends were. I felt better, happier, at peace and more stable than ever before.

Na me, sef dey give them hope, and strength these days

Especially when they complain about what's going on in their lives emotionally. When they ask Vicky when will u marry your man. I will say Biko, leave marriage one side abeg. I don't have the strength for it. I can't go through what u guys go through emotionally anymore. Have been through hell and back. So just leave me as I dey like this, biko. . When time to have kids come., I will have kids.

Am in a peaceful, happy and grateful state. Can't let no man destroy it for me again. That's the truth.


And I told myself one thing: Nobody, I mean nobody owes me anything in this life. If you believe it and let it stick into your brain, you will be fine.

I say that, so that I don't need to depend on anyone or hope on anybody for anything. Except on God. God is all I need. When man fails, God shows up. That's the truth about me. With such knowledge, I don't feel any sense of disappointment if anybody says no to any request I make. But when my female friends go all the way to d things for me, I feel so touched and most times I hug them and playfully tickle them and say thank you.

So depressed and suicidal people out there, should STOP depending on anybody! Stop waiting for people to save you. Cause none will. Everybody is focused on their daily hustle. So don't depend on people.

Depend and focus on God. Breathe and live in the presence of God. Attend a church that gives u peace and teach u how to be strong during good times and bad times. A church that brings positive change in your life. Accept Christ , talk to him whenever u are confused and sad. He always listens if only you come to Him.

That's my advice o. Cause have been in such scenario before.

Rip to dj

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iyatrustee:
Like play like play, Bobrisky don reduce Denrele's relevance!


Na just that his long natural hair hin for dash me