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Mamatoppy:
May God punish you wherever you are. The fool never gave me a dime for an abortion.How much did he pay you for this? It will never be well with you and your generations to come. Oloriburuku.

Madam all your curses come back to you undoubtedly .. None rests upon people who are trying to tell you the truth.. It simply will not break the Higher laws!!

Read your write-up and note when you mentioned he wanted you to have a Top..

Wish your baby the best.

Shalom!!

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zeb04:
it doesn’t matter if she is into prostitution or not. If he used a condom all this won’t be coming up.

Pls madam, paste his picture everywhere. Idiot.

Condoms are not 100% effective.
As the woman, you have a responsibility of deciding to carry on with the pregnancy.. That's why there are morning after pills or termination which apparently the guy supported..

She admitted to avoiding a termination despite the guy putting the funds down. She knew he didn't want this baby.. Why did she feel compelled to force it on him??


The tide is slowly turning as the law is beginning to accept the growing reverse-sexism claims such as false rape allegations and child support claims from very manipulative women.

There will be an increase in judgments that favour the men to counteract a gross abuse of the system .

Its the unfortunate woman +/- child who remains the victim once again.


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thorpido:
'He impregnated me and abandoned me'.
Women should take responsibility for their sexual life.Make him use a condom and if he won't,do something to yourself.There are post coitus contraceptives you can use.
Not saying the man has no responsibility but men don't carry pregnancies.

Oga.. Your head dey there!!

You and Crackhaus...

Reading along but can't help laughing



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You, madam need to submit more pieces of evidence to back your "sour relationship and absconded partner" theory......
As the facts laid before us in this forum appear not to support your allegations..
Afterall you came on here to ask for help


Texts, WhatsApp msgs, pictures, chats..

Till then...



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Where's the military intelligence

Movement is further south and in specific states

What's the political gain propelling this assaults.
Who are the guerrilla groups or mercenaries supporting their strategies


BH has floored the NE Naija and MA is spreading its tentacles southward alongst the Western axis

A wholistic view is needed to get to the bottom of the matter, moreso as they have their radio station--an effective communication tool.


This is just not right.


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Gone totally big brother



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Kingbenn:
lovely women with good body and shape, my future wife must have that shape even if she give birth to 11, I hate pot bellies with passion

Same applies to you sir...
Avoid the beer belly



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Mariangeles:
There's something unpleasant about their outfits to the sight ...
The colour choice is wrong for their skin tone, plus, there seem to be so much going on with the style and head gear

Me likey...
It's theme is in keeping with the occasion.
It's blingy without being ostentatious like Cee-C.
They smile with good poise and great physique
The headgear is a little interesting but you need to have a conversation anyway..

Just like the pink in Teddy A's outfit makes me wonder a little.



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E-snitching




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Alex then

Ik without those sneakers... What was he thinking

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Where are the ##teamforeign chicks who kept bashing African men the other time...

Bad behaviour alleged or real knows no colour or race!!



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famzynet:
Madam,your decision is good. I just came back from London. My short visit there made me realise how backward this country is. Think of UK,Australia,Canada, Germany. Turkey is even far advanced than this country. By advanced,I mean better education and exposure for your kids. Nigeria is a mess. I can't wait to leave here permanently.

As much as I can identify with your claims..

A holiday doesn't give you a true insight of living in a country...

The 2 types of experience are so divergent, it's unreal!!!
The cost of living is often unnoticed and the ills of society are often not evident in the tourist traditional plethora of things to-do.

I once had a lady who relocated after holidaying yearly in the same country for 5yrs, still mutter that it was a different kettle of fish. By the way she had schooled there for 18 months for her masters on dad's payroll previously.


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4mykids:
My kids are 8 and 6. I was actually married and went through a bitter divorce last year. Before then we had been seperated for some years.
My kids came out of this union scarred and are very jumpy whenever anyone yells or seems angry...
Thankfully, I was given custody by the court.

I just feel a different environment would help them...help us greatly. Probably help them not look over their shoulders too often.

As I said earlier, they are my motivation for going on so leaving them behind is really out of it for me.

Might be better getting a good job in a West African country.. Ghana or simply another part of the country.

What you're considering is rather momentous...


I'm yet to find anyone who has singlehandedly relocated with children successfully with no sob story...with no family support in place as you are suggesting.


Your children are scarred post-divorce, don't add other scars of sudden relocation, poor fit at schools neighbourhood bullies you will not notice initially as you're often away at work, substandard housing and joining neighbourhood gangs.

In addition to these well known vices, what about cases of transactional sex:---often seen but not spoken of in African communities..

Everyone in Church or mosque knows Uncle so-and-so is only helping financially due to the "favours" he gets in the oza room.

Another flavour is county-lining where pre-teens are encouraged to disappear from home to sell drugs in another town. These kids are targeted from poor backgrounds which unfortunately you may fall into if not adequately prepared or with confirmed job prospects..


In all madam, not to sound like a scaremonger:think am wellllllllll... If you are insistent on going, consider getting family support wherever it may be otherwise I hope you won't come on here in a few months bemoaning.

I really wish you well but want you to perform your due diligence.

Suffering and smiling is everywhere, it only varies in the type of scars it leaves :-physical or emotional!!!



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Pastors are still men like you and I.
They can get things wrong
Or may not be ready to put the work in to sustain the marriage for different reasons.

Pastors or preachers expound the word. It's for you to understand the word as it applies to you. Moving from Logos to Rhema..

Thy word is a lamp unto my feet and a light to my path......... ..this suggests.. Its a step at a time..
It doesn't foretell the entire future but a step or a part of the journey at a time as you continue to trust.




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Phut:
Him! Him!! Him!!! You can’t cheat nature. Don’t bring this transgender and fluid gender bull crap to Naija.

Nigerians always blindly copying anything the West does. If they jump into a lake of fire, you lemmings will gladly follow them.

Sometimes I wonder what all these people engaging in anal sex in Naija will do, when rectal prolapse sets in. Na to wear diaper remain. Naija Doctor’s “Ain’t” got time for that.

Well said...

With a rise in Anal cancer as well.
Figures suggest 20% don't realise they have anal cancer whilst 13% die from the disease yearly.
These are Conservative figs from a 1st World country.. I don't want to imagine what Naija's current figures will be like!!!

It's known that previously Naija's cohort of men with Anal/Colorectal cancers tend to be younger than the West.. 18% under 30yrs and rising........ and more likely HPV HIV+ve MSM

Compounded with HIV, poor medical access and facilities, its a poorly publicised time bomb waiting to explode in Sub-Saharan Africa.

Sometimes, the follow follow we set do, should be with sense.. The Oyinbo you dey follow get HPV vaccines given to their preteens to limit this scourge, regularly give barrier protection packs out free with regular sex education and self referral units for STI checks and treatment.

Whilst for Naija, awareness is limited to areas of high SE population, facilities are not equitable and readily available in certain areas.. and My people like raw tinsss..


Hmm

Sister, that guy you're kissing has stuck his tongue in someone's poo passage repeatedly, someone's BV infested vagina with a desert mix of thrush and HPV.. That golden shower may be E Coli and Pseudomonas impregnated...

Need I say more!!!


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My question is... When is your wife falling pregnant..

Call me cynical..
But I feel this parade is not without wife's acknowledgement..

Its either a honey trap.. Which is a little too late as you're married and that's been done with her friends

Or wife is trying to get a "surrogate" to carry a baby for you as she realises her reproductive limitations. In all she is the victim and spotlight is away from her childlessness..




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ahnie:

Here're incentives if you're dating a native doctor's daughter.

Free bottle of 50cl fantastic cola every 4days
Sources (people possessed by spiritual wives,husband,and ogbanjes.

Free flow of meat e.g goats,bats, roaches,monkeys,chicken,okuku'igbo, pigs,dogs,cat
You're a lucky chap if you by any means has deep freezer.

Sources...thieves, ritualists,Yahoo Yahoo, politicians, pastors.

Candles....you might not even bother yourself when nepa strikes...Cox your bae-preneur has supplied you enough variants of native chanderliers....lucky you.

Sources....ogbanje people,succumbus people,pussybus people.



Yards of clothes.......your life don better...Cox you have them in batok different colors...red,white,blue... black.you might even use it to do curtains n pillow case.

Sources.... cultists, ritualists,aladura aladuris.
Ndi mmiris


Drinks ...it comes in varieties..schnapp,ogogoro,drink and die,drink and swell-up...viju milk..learnt the gods don upgrade.

Sources..thieves, politicians,private escorts, ritualists,Yahoo girl's,ndi mmiris,one corner boys.



The said boy should just continue the friendship the advantages out weights the disadvantages.

Hmmm
Encyclopedia!!

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baby124:
Sorry dear. Na her age de fight am. You will be surprised that, that same girl will be a good wife to another man at an older age because she has grown. Some people need to really mature before they marry. Age is not just a number otherwise a 12yr old will be able to marry, make party jollof, have her baby and provide for her family. May God grant you a better woman and may you, while searching for a better woman better yourself.

Not a guarantee that age may change her perspective... Not at all

She has gotten used to her abusive ways which is a dominant way of manipulation.
Most women are manipulative.. Overtly or covertly
If the woman in question feels that she has little to lose, possibly sired children, she turns up the heat on the poor man.

She runs her mouth, possibly winds him up and gets a public display to back up her story and eventually does sth criminal and tries to walk away, on the back of temporary loss of sanity!!

Works both ways

Time to love smartly.. In the event of a few kinks in the armour:- ticks all your boxes except an easy temper........ Identify ways to deflate the situation whilst keeping records with a 3rd party. This is useful in 1st world countries as this would back up your story of being a recipient of domestic violence when she ups the ante and calls the cops!!!


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"Celebrities" should know there comes a responsibility to the public given your status.. Yes enjoy all the perks

But rights/perks go hand in hand with responsibilities

Why exchange words with someone who clearly has nothing to lose in comparison....
Simply say thank you and look for another taxi..

Glorifying the exchange by coming onto SM only just made things worse ..


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What's on her right hand.. Henna or drug-induced vitiligo??

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Unfair comparison I must say
They are in different genres

Odunlade has been on the scene for longer. Having played a variety of roles and therefore appears prolific.
His comedic tendencies which are hugely entertaining cover for a lack of depth at times.

Chatta in my opinion brings a depth to his performance that sets him apart. He might not be as prolific in different roles or castings but his role in movies always come across as deep and engaging. Diction both English and ?yoruba is also quite good.

Both are Stellar performers.. Nollywood is blessed to have them. In addition to many wonderful performers.



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AJ we support you recouping and coming back to take back your titles!!

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Intwesting
Intwesting..

Like to read more opinions


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RichBoy247:
Pa James works and get paid. How does his flooded house concern politicians whose houses too are flooded in Lekki? Actors, Musicians, Sportsmen, e.t.c. are workers whose welfare are in their own hands. If an actor, musician or sportsman uses his money to carry big Oloshos and buy big cars without investment like Daniel Omokachi who used his money to marry a North African Princess who vanished all his monwy and dumped his sorry a-ss, whenever things turn around for bad, such a person has himself to blame not government. Government pays government workers not actors, musicians or whatever.

Well said sir

But Govt owes the people a clear guide plan of suitable areas to build on and also enforce those planning laws. In addition, provision of basic amenities like good drains, roads and recourse to basic building engineering advice..

But that's not available presently,probably much less so at the time PA James built that property!!



Tenement rates amongst other charges such as Land use charge should be directed to help serve the populace by building basic amenities and improve public education rather than diverted to other capital projects.

To the gentleman who had mentioned building in water... What do you think happened with Banana, Orange Island or Eko Atlantic city..
I understand your sentiments but people who have built in proposed drain sites have done so due to poor enforcement by the authorities.
Government is also guilty of this contravention.

There are no govt initiatives to help limit erosion in the riverine areas which will get worse as Land reclamation goes on with poor drainage coupled with pollution.

Maybe sth Sanwo - Olu or other governors should look into...



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Axis313:
I think I am one of those few

Remember all....



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Quite artistic
Reflecting her African roots quite well....

How many pillows would she need though to help support that structure whilst trying to sleep...

Or is it a cap she can take off at will.


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Another Brazilian butt lift
Toke is getting more company??


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HBD sir...
Wishing you many happy returns, prosperous years ahead..
Have an exemplary legal career, if I'm not mistaken..

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2nd pic... Ace �


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Kudos on the prize


Wish you greater progress on that research arm
And hopefully find a lasting cure



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Stylist??

Herself and her friends...

Lemme swerve out b4.....





She looks good in the red dress tho...


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Have to say...

Good..naaa..... Excellent choice in styles to suit her body frame.
Excellent carriage
Good skin
Creative use of kente...
Was intrigued by the artful combination of the fascinator and head scarf

Blue certainly brings her complexion out..


Kudos to her.