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Do you want her to admit that she would be paying the children' school fees, stocking the house with foods? Sir, without being asked a good wife earning something will definitely contribute to the house no matter how little... There are even some things she will be doing that she wouldn't ask you for money( the children's little little demands, surprising you with stuffs such as gifts, special meals once in a while e.t.c.) And if you happen to be financially handicapped at a point in time, a GOOD wife will help. No matter how successful a woman is, no GOOD husband prays that his wife be doing his responsibilities. Sir, set her up if you want to but not with an EXPECTATION. Without being told, she should know when to help. Taking care of the home is a man's responsibility.

tutudesz:
Abeg leave my babajide O! The guy is very honest with his analysis of events going on in Nigeria

you said my mind. The guy is non- biased.

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Abeg. If you know that your uncles na spiritual setting den dey please don't drag anything with them( you have your life ahead of you, don't let them spoil your earthly journey for you, you letting go doesn't mean you're weak ooo) buh if na physical dealings den dey do then face them. Go& pay your last respect to dad. Property will not make your dad's name famous rather it is you & your siblings growing together in peace & love that will make him happy where he is.

mrover:
Be calm my brother,
As a father myself, i will advice you go back and get clarification.
These medications always have dosages, for adult for instance it may require 3 times daily for 5 days. Now because it's a baby, they will reduce the dosage to say one daily for 3 days. If its tablet for adult of a certain mg, and your kid needs lower, they may ask you to break into two and give lesser dosage.
From experience it's actually the drill, so fright not. To satisfy your curiosity, go back and confirm.
Good luck!

very true

Sue if you have the time. There was a time I took my 7months old baby to a hospital. When the doctor was prescribing the drugs, luckily he mentioned the dosage to my hearing but on getting home, the nurse wrote 5ml to be taken. I had to call the hospital& it turns out the nurse was wrong. Since then I google for every drug to be used on the kids when given & I have a trusted pharmacist that I call to complain or make enquiry from at times even before going to the hospital.

Hitting her is bad but please disregard some comments here telling you that what your wife did is right. Either a man or a woman that is being influenced negatively will kill himself or herself with depression. Such a person will never appreciate the things or people around him or her. The only thing/ person that can change your wife is herself. She should stop comparing herself with others hence appreciate what she has. There are some of her mates as well that their standard of living doesn't measure up to hers. Sit her down& talk to her.May God help her. No let her pressurize you ooo. Walahi if you get heart attack & kpeme on top her inconsiderate demands, na you lose. Keep being responsible.

EmmBim:
Personally I don't know anyone infected with Corona virus but my husband's colleague's wife is a health worker at that hospital in Yaba, Coronavirus is so real,I couldn't stepped out for two days when we spoke with them,if you are still doubting that it is audio,please go to the hospital at Yaba,shortcut,take the back of Neuropsychiatric hospital and get the address,do not allow the securities to prevent you from going inside there,check if you would see the patients,ask them questions one after the other and give each one of them a handshake or hug because Nigeria government have turned your brain upside down to the extent that you think it's also a scam for your parents to have given birth to you.

BIGGIE121:
I don't know why student's have to travel out of their city to go and write an exam that simply last for 2 to 3 hours.

. Accident doesn't only occur through 2-3hours journey alone.

I wouldn't advice you to take him to a boarding school yet. The bad habits need to be stopped & this will be through love & care. The lord will teach you on how to get your son to stay with you because that's the only thing he needs now. If that man truly do love you&your son, he wouldn't be at peace& happy knowing that you are unhappy about your son's situation. Talk to someone you know that can talk to your husband. The lord will lead you.

Go to the hospital for the best advice. If she is medically certified that she can go through it, then I suggest you keep it. One might be uncomfortable with the child bearing space at first but bruh it is actually nothing to worry about. Hustling continues naani.

Tell her the truth before you both get married. And tell your family too.

Yes there is but I wouldn't advise you to listen to the prophet's sayings. Go down on your knees yourself. Secondly, answered prayers isn't by revelations( dream)alone. Be consistent with the prayer. It isn't a day thing.