₦airaland Forum

luminouz:
Lol,so they are greedy because they still play at their advanced age? Greedy for what exactly? Money? They are rich already.
They love the game and still hope to win more medals. How can that be greed? Or am I not getting something right

They love the game. Right !
But in life, you cannot keep competing at the same level with young people coming up.
Serena exploits at young age forced players like Steff graf to retire after winning 22 grand slams.
You cannot continue to be humiliated every time and that's the reason to quit, retire and pursuit a new noble challenges.
Now, the Pundits are saying Black People don't know how to quit or leave powers when the ovation is loud.
Thus the reason why Footballer cry when retiring because they cannot continue to do what they enjoys.
Now the focus is on the last 4 grand slams she had lost in a row and not 23 she had won over the years.

The truth is that this Orunmila wife carry a diety around like an electric power shock.
Any affairs with the Olori is a death sentence that add some years to Iku Baba Yeye's age and long life !
That' is the reason while this beautiful girls are charming to attract the gullibles "mumu"
Another theory is that any man seduced by this chic will lose his manhood potency immediately and will be transferred to Iku Baba Yeye'.
You can imagine 24 years old beautiful graduates sleeping with 85 years old King.

I do not completely agree with you, despite most of the logical reasons you gave.
For example, I prefer to see a beautiful kids and loves cute babies and young beautiful children.
Beautiful women certainly,by DNA will produce a beautiful kids that I can direct my loves and attention if this woman misbehave in the future.
I cherished beautiful women just like most career men, with due respect, and those beautiful ladies too cherished as much as men desires...
I will also engage my beautiful daughter to not be scared that cute guys don't make good marriage.
After all, everything belongs to God Jehovah !

blackangel0403:
Hi guys, I i need your sincere advice pls.

My sister is a divorcee with two kids she is solely responsible for. Life has not been fair with her.

Finally, God brought a cute man who is based in UK her way, the man is willing to marry her and take her to the states, he has come to see our parents and also took her to see his, they have agreed to tie the nut in December this year.

The guy is currently in Nigeria and has been begging my sister to get pregnant for him, my sister knows for sure he will marry her once she is pregnant but doesn’t want to so that pregnancy doesn’t stop her from meeting other guys pending when he comes to pay her dowry. Note, they met in the club but the man still overlooked it and still proposed marriage to her.

Sincerely speaking, she wants to settle down with him but her problem is that she doesn’t want to get pregnant and stay alone all by herself pending when the man will take her and the kids to the uk, she wants to take in when she has moved to the uk, but then she is scared she might loose him before then as they are already having misunderstandings been that my sister likes hanging out with friends and going clubbing which doesn’t go well with the guy.

Now the guy is having double mind on if he can go ahead with the marriage or not, I have adviced her to take in for the man and by dec her dowry will be paid but she is adamant, pls what is the best option for her in this situation?


Take in for this guy now he is in Nigeria and secure him or wait till December and risk loosing him, note he is a very cute guy and every girls dream, my sister also is tired of life and wants to settle down, if she takes in now, by dec her pregnancy will be 3 months, she is also bothered abt wat people will say on why she took in befor she was married to the guy, my parents also especially my dad will frown at it but dey don’t know that life has not fair with her and she needs a man to call her own. Should she careless abt my parents and what people will say and take in or wait and do the proper marriage before she takes in?

She is 35 years old with two kids, no other suitor insight too.

I deemed it neccesary to write on this issue which I consider as Private and sacred to individuals.
I must confess your Sister should not be carried away by the facts that the guy lives in the UK or abroad.
Infact, in most cases, having a fiance or a husband abroad doesn't guarantee the guy will live to his promise as many beautiful women's heart had been broken for failure of their suitor not coming back.
He may have some challenges abroad in which most Nigerians could never understand such as his immigration status or decent job and other stuff.
Most guys abroad are desperate to get married but are not willing to engage any woman living abroad due to some equal rights or fear of losing those women when they arrived.
As it's quite easier to maintain a wife in Nigeria, some Men in diaspora prefer to have their wife in Nigeria so they can have time to do other things with G-friend and have enough time to hussle well.
Aside, pregnancy does not guarantee the guy will marry or take her abroad to live with her.
It's very common that most of the courtship with Men abroad with Nigerian women doesn’t really worked out.
If the guy is really serious , he will not request for a pregnancy as a prerequisite for marriage within a short time, otherwise why is he getting annoyed on little stuff as you've observed. ?
I live in the UK and have witnessed such things over the years and even many people back home knows such relationship doesn't really work out as expected.
"Once beaten, twice Shy" ,that should be the advice you have to give your beloved Sister and admonished her to wait for her correct suitor !
But it is her choice to take the risk and live with it !
All the best !

DateMynd44:
she gave birth?
thought she's unmarried?

Are you in Congo Republic where WiFi is only in Government House
Serena is married with a daughter over two years ago !

Na Yoruba "Magun Outfit " be dat !
Serious Dead Pit and a beautiful Dead Charm !!

Emereze360:
good evening my fellow nairalanders,my lecturer gave me a 10page assignment to write on "DISCUSS THE VIEW THAT PEOPLE OF NIGERIA NEVER LIVED IN SPLENDID ISOLATION FROM ONE ANOTHER EVEN BEFORE THE COLONIAL RULE " Pls am confuse on how to start it ,ur kindled suggestions will be needed (its my continuous Assessment worth 40%) pls help a brother

Go to the library to access the neccessary materials and stop wasting your time in Nairaland.

luminouz:
Seems so...those extra oestrogens,progesterones and endorphins she had been using before childbirth seem depleted. She still has drive but lacks the cutting,merciless,ruthless,laser-focused mindset to win. She will get it back,I promise you

Ditto for Roger Federer too. !
They ought to retire and become a Pundit analysing tennis matches and still making money, but their greediness and hope to beat records had gone to their medulla obloganta and couldn't see reason to quit now to avoid quarterly humiliation.

The DNA of Black People will not allow them to quit when the ovation is loud, and thus the reasons why Serena will continue to lose in the final of every Tennis Grand Slam.
I've encouraged my 10 yrs old daughter to keep training to meet Serena in the final in 2027 God's willing. ,

Fashola admitted to spending N68 million for creating a personal website and the same house of Assembly haven't seen any reason to query him, yet they want to scrutinise every contract awarded by Ambode.
Tinubu will over play his luck this time around come 2023

As much as I condemn the xenophobic attitude of the Zulu Kingdom of South Africa, I urge Nigerians in diaspora to behave well and stop grand standing and unnecessary display of fake opulence.
I watched a film documentary of some Nigerians guys lowering their trousers to reveal the new boxers worn in order to show off .
This is an affront to annoying those lazy and envious South African who are obsessed with the influx of foreigners to their country.

Why would reasonable people leave an amazing county with beautiful weather, beautiful women and migrate to a country where you're not welcome and the weather is very naughty
I would rather remain in Nigeria and fight for my place!

If you travel to any country without a valid papers, you must be ready to face the consequences for your stupidity.
Grow up and stop embarrassing the country image for your desperate desire to impress your family abroad...

You too the writer will not make heaven, for disparaging Nigerian girls and creating fear on the guys who are interested in dating them.
You're a joker !

Hello Mr Davido, the singer !
Osun State is Not for Sale !
Thus the reason Osun people rejected your illiterate Uncle and an O"level Certificate forger to become a Governor.
Don't throw a stone when you live in a glass house !

This shows Buhari is a clueless leader who cannot act or understand what to do when Nigerians abroad are being attacked.
Buhari is a clueless Fulani who does not possess any diplomatic clue to address the matter.

That is one of the 100 days achievement of 21st century sitting Governor of Northern Nigeria.
President Buhari will be invited to welcome the new 3rd Wife before Sallah next year, Insha-Allah !!

ODUDUWA KINGDOM !!
IPOB HAS SHOWN HOW TO DEAL WITH THE CORRUPT POLITICIAN
WHAT IS YORUBA PEOPLE WHO ARE MAJORITY IN LONDON WAITING FOR
I EXPECT SARAKI TO BE WELCOMED WITH IKEREMADU'S TREATMENT BY NOW
YORUBA PEOPLE MUST BE COWARD !!!

NONNYG:
Statistician, i wonder where you're getting all these figures from

That's the reality for those who live abroad generally.
Most people are stucked and many ignorantly believe that abroad is better than home.
They won't tell you the challenges they face but keeps struggling until they can no longer.

Who said Igbo should not have their own country
When the wonders of the Biafra is enough tourism to behold !!!

When last is Fashola probed. .?
When last was Tinubu probed
Why is Ambode being probed. .

This Man is actually looking like a Woman
Has S(he) any boy friend
Is she dating any man. ?
He should be a gay man behaving like a woman, I guess

Faces of Evil !!!
We all know where they all come from...
Hell awaits you and your brothers who had flooded Lagos and other parts of NIGERIA

It is hypocrisy to say the quality of EDUCATION is the reason youths are not employable ..
Is there any job available in the first place. ..
Who are those qualified to replace those not employable. ..?
Is it not the family or girlfriend of the company directors or bosses ?
Nigeria is doomed with Nepotism and Tribalism.
Period !!!

IPOB women seems to enjoy Yoruba Bananas...

FFK '-for Bianca and his new wife
Governor Akeredolu -First lady
Governor Seyi Makinde -First lady
Unelected Gov.Akinlade -First Lady
Dancing Senator Adeleke -First lady

Who is Next..

When you marry IPOB woman , you consent to Okija shrine to be committed to Igbo cause and to speak evils of other tribes in order to sustain your marriage.

Tinubu will help the SE States soon after installing Joe Igbokwe as Governor of Anambra State and appointing his boys in other Eastern States.

DaddyYeeboz:
There should be a law that SW Governors who have completed their tenure be sent to the SE on special assessment.

A region with Ikpeazu, Ugwuanyi and Ihedioha as Governors is not ready to develop.

The SE will never develop because all their citizen major assets are in Lagos and taxes on those assets will be given to the SE Government as an aid to help clean the erosion-ravaged community.

Ibo indigene was happy to kill Saro Wiwa in order to appease Abacha.
The reason Niger Delta will never vote Igbo. Never !

Stop this ridiculous amount of cannibalisation of endangered species wildlife !
Your unborn generation may not live to see this beautiful animal again!

Nukilia:
Which kind modus operandi be dis one searching his house for evidence of a case of over 16 years
This is not money laundering matter and I think they should search the home of bullion van politicians

You seems not to understand how detectives works.
Pastor Fatoyinbo could have make some incriminating write up to the 2 Pastors in Lagos and Port Harcourt thst Bisola alleged begged her 20 yrs ago over the matter.
Fatoyinbo may have emailed the 2 Pastors to lie and that evidence could be used to confirm the allegations and nailed him.