₦airaland Forum

BlueRayDick:
Na so this woman take commot minister despite jumping from one event to the other creating a scene

Who is that?

Lol

monerozi5590:
But do you like kids?

Not really.

monerozi5590:
You must be a very special person then. Your mum, dad, uncles sister and all. Dem go pile pressure on you ehn. Your wife sef no go gree for that kind arrangement.

If you come get too much money na that time you go d hear talk like maybe you don carry your gbola go do ritual and you can't perform your night duty as a man. This kind arrangement go d nearly impossible to work for Nigeria


Very valid but for me my aim of getting married is to have kids. That's me

That's why it's good to have boundaries. I hardly question other people's decisions in real life , and I also warn them not to question mine. I got to a stage, I told my parents, look, you can't decide how I live my life. My life, my choice.

If anyone disturbs me about such I just block or ignore their calls/texts till they accept my choices.

monerozi5590:
Even though some people are trying to normalise it but is not the proper way when a baby is born outside wedlock. I don't think you will like your own daughter to do that. Society frown at it.

For family, for a functional and much better society, it is good to give birth after getting married. Just my take though. I know there are other gray areas.

I never said that though. I said having kids isn't the sole purpose of marriage, atleast to me. In other words, I can get married without having any kids at all.


You also seem to be insinuating a marriage without kids is not valid or not valid enough.

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
False.
Russia didn't fall. In fact they're moving ahead despite the unilateral and illegal economic sanctions imposed on Russia by the West.

They're only able to do that because of China's support. Didn't you understand what I said earlier? Without China's support, they'd be fvcked with those sanctions. China helps them get around the sanctions.

monerozi5590:
For things to be done the proper way, it is.

Proper way? How? Can you lay more emphasis?

raumdeuter:
Options like a younger wife for Pa Rolands 60th birthday

But vasectomy doesn't stop him from having a younger wife na. It's not like having kids is the sole purpose of getting married

raumdeuter:
Those without knowledge of the past will not have a knowledge of where they are coming from and appreciate hw they got here

You want to read the full article on people committing suicide or people complaining about economy? When Eedris sang Nigeria Jagajaga or African China sang Food e no dey broda eh, water nor dey. Mr President lead us well..

The fg needs to stop wasting money hiring SANS to defend them in courts. They need to make you represent them asap.

Russia has really fallen low.
As of today, without China's support, Russia is nothing.

China can stand without Russia, but without China's support, Russia won't be able to stand for long.

Itsrm:
Raumdeuter

Only sacked irrelevant folks. Tinubu is a coward.

Russia has really fallen low.
As of today, without China's support, Russia is nothing.

China can stand without Russia, but without China's support, Russia won't be able to stand for long.

raumdeuter:
Sad

@semid4lyf I think it's time for raumdeuter to go on a 4 years ban. I'm sure everyone agrees with me.

Baba's trolling is getting too much.

raumdeuter:
Sad

You never fail to disappoint.

iamoyindamola:
Lead by example

I'll.

seankafor:
what if cases of death in kids

No need having such thoughts.

But if it happens then life goes on. If kids are a must, adoption is available.

afrodoc2:
The potential irreversibility is something the man has to think deeply about sha. I have heard and seen stories that touch.

What kind of stories?

It's normal to do it only when you're satisfied you don't plan on having any more kids.

afrodoc2:
Implanon is a progestogen and still has potential for those side effects he alluded to. A good number of women on it will suffer weight gain, mood swings, irregular periods, headaches, acne.

It is actually more likely to cause weight gain compared to the combined oral contraceptive pill (COCP).

Vasectomy is the best.

joseph1832:
I won't forget the show in a hurry, even though I didn't get to finish it, because I watched it when I visited a Nairalander in his house. I spent the weekend Friday to Sunday. The show was what we were watching, though I watched it passively.

The Nairalander is FTboi. I, myself and Lezz were there, Obontami came along that Sunday. FTboi is the one who recommended the series. Back then it was on DVD. During the day we watched the series and play PlayStation. In the night, we head to the bar, like Udeme. Lol.

What a massive weekend of beer, beer, and beer, and of course, booty.

I don do things Sha for this Nairaland. Lol.

I remembered ashawo thread because of this post lol.

BlueRayDick:
I'm a boy o.

I no dey fight, I no dey separate fight and I no dey even watch people fighting.

If Men Going Their Own Way was a person, na me be that person.

Mgtow is red pill stuff. I'm surprised you're into redpil.

You can't find any thread on the front page without Yoruba and igbo folks having a go at each other.

Can someone give me a backstory of the bad blood between the two groups? Also, does this also occur in other platforms or only nairaland?

Segedinho:
Yeah...major reason why I have tried to work on my withdrawal methods ......

The pills tends to cause some visible reshaping and i don't like eating d chubby ones...


Vasectomy is not all I am in for cos I might still drop just one as time and economy kicks.... .who knows

My original plan was 3 and donate one brokos to charity...😃😃 but T-pain is bringing in new assignments..

You said you have two na. Two is okay though.

You won't have to be worrying yourself about withdrawal methods if you do vasectomy.

You dive in anyhow you like without fear of consequences.

BlueRayDick:
It seems you've never heard me saying this before now: " At any point in time, I always do what will save my life" .

Why I go dey vex for person wey get gun ? Shey I get extra life?

Lagos boys too dey fear.

No wonder tinubu dey hold the whole state for blokus.

Theflint1:
Lol...internet gangsterism easy

Why are you talking about ibime

BlueRayDick:
Nigeria no be France wey citizen slap Emmanuel Macron for face and bagged paltry 4 months imprisonment o. For Nigeria dem go kill you, kill your body, kill your soul, kill your spirit and kill your heavenly race right on the spot.

Well, nobody has tried it yet, so we can't be certain.

Blueray can you give it a try the next time tinubu comes to Lagos so that we can know if what you said is true

Segedinho:
Adulthood fit go stew at 70 o........

I say make I shook mouth put...




I dey think say I gallant 4 withdrawal method until i see one Egbon post of mistake "goal"......I don send my wife straight to hospital 4 councilling and pills 4 family planning today today as we dey talk so...

2 reach b4 person run mad 4 Street😀😀😀

I don't really like how family planning changes the stature of most women. Isn't it better to just do vasectomy if you're done with having kids?
I don't have kids yet but I plan on having one or two, after that I'm running vasectomy straight up. That's safer and better, instead of taking a move that might alter my woman's body stature.

Theflint1:
Maybe, but if you've mellowed and pleaded for a police man that's held you for any reason, chances are you'd mellow with a Wike armed with police and DSS officials. Some of those persons begging might have investments to the tune of hundreds of millions tied down, and it's looking like it'd go down the drain with a swish of the pen from Wike....before mucus comot your nose with begging you sef no go know

I was expecting a swinging hand to land in his face, or even a change of tone when he started approaching them as though to fight, but alas... Nigeria is too lawless for people to stand on business they way they ought to.

I'm in public, and I laughed really hard after reading this.... People are staring at me.

I'm 100% certain seankafer's nose will be dripping mucus in that situation.

seankafor:
He reach to ask

And people dey manage 40k monthly for school that year oh .
come and manage 400k monthly in tinubu economy let's see

Unlimited22:
My well respected elder brother in christ, where did I mention westerners?

Raumdeuter don dey teach you how to turn amala abi

Unlimited22:
We were the third fasted growing economy in the world in 2014. That same year IMF forecast that we'd become a trillion dollar economy by 2024.

And then the powers that be of the world decided that they'd rather not see a Nigeria rising beyond the shackles that had held it down, and they helped us elect a gang of locusts, and here we are today.

Our GDP today is half the figure it was 10 years ago even with an increase in population.

Our best brains are on a one way path outside the country.

Lol.

Anyway.

Africans are solely responsible for their problems. We need to stop finding ways to blame westerners for our woes. Nobody forced any mf to vote buhari and tinubu.

GloriousGbola:
mexicans provided support for cololmbian cartels in the 90s, as they were on the us border. the US DOJ defeated the colombian cartels, but did not defeat the US own internal demand for hard drugs. nature abhors a vacuum, so here we are. and the mexicans make the colombian look like pussycats

as to illegal immigration, it is really just right wing dog whistling
mexicans provide cheap labor for construction and farming jobs .
to put it crudely, it is like saying the abokis we use for labor are stealing jobs.
capitalism means americans will continue to he mexicans for cheap labour while their right wing politicians make noise

Over 80% of Mexicans in the US are there illegally. They do shit jobs no sane American will contemplate doing.

Some Mexicans have been in the US for over 40 years and they still haven't find way to become citizens or have pr, or still don't see it necessary.

And people say Trump shouldn't kick folks like this out??

Tbh I agree with blueraydick. All these shits depend on how you are. How you carry yourself.

Some of us spent years in both secondary school and uni, and no cultist ever fvcked around with us. Rather they were loyal and welcoming to us.