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LagosNIV:
If she has to come back for an interview, then some issues were uncovered that will have to be addressed before the visa can be printed.

She got there yesterday and was told to go print follow up form 211 G. Please how long does it take for all these

feddy27:
Temyb, God that has started this good work in your life will perfect it! He wants to do what no man can do in your life and that of your babies! Hold on to your faith, trust in Him and watch him perform what your eyes have not seen before! U re in my prayers dearie and kisses to the victorious twins

Nnystc, ur words spoke life this morning. Thank you for this beautiful piece and God bless you *hugs*

Amennnnnn thank you

LadyGuinivere:
@temmyb the Lord that started a good thing in you will complete it.
God bless you and the LO's

Amennnnnn thank you

Porshebabymama:
@temyb, God is still blessing..he's not done with you...continue praising him in the hall way while you wait for the doors of divine healing , favor and the Windows of heaven to be opened unto you...Always remember Praise confuses the enemies, and in dia confused state we receive our blessings..praise without minding who is staring.Faith still works wonders......Congratulations!

Amennnnnn. Thanks a bunch

[quote author=Nnystc post=47485664]Dear,
I thank God for you.
You really are a warrior... Able to keep your head and write these inspiring posts even in the face of a very formidable problem.

In your write-ups i sense unwavering strength and courage (even when it's obvoius that your courage and strength are taking a bashing at this time)
I dont know if you're a Christian or Muslim, but this comes to mind whenever i read your posts... Hebrews 10:35 which says Therefore do not cast away your confidence, which has great reward.

Personally, as a woman that God has fought many MIGHTY and impossible battles for over the years, I must tell you this... This is a very small matter before God.
He can do it. He will do it.

I remember when i was going through a very very hard time during my banking days... Things were so bad that i dropped weight from about 61kg to about 44kg in 3 weeks without even doing any exercise. There was so much trouble involving EFCC, lots of money and lots of police wahala...

I was totally innocent but for some reason i just found myself being dragged up and down... I was single with no one to speak for me, not even a boyfriend, husband or fiance! My parents lived very far away and even if they lived in town, could not even do anything for me.

I had noone. And my oppressors knew it. My account was frozen and i couldnt even feed or move around save for cash sent to me by my parents. My friends went silent and i couldnt blame them. They were even scared because they knew the problem wasnt normal.

Guess what the way out was? I was asked to meet someone at a hotel and my problems would end! Haba!!!

My sister...

One day as i was standing beside the road, waiting for a bus, i was standing near a stagnant and dirty looking pond. You know those ones all over Lagos. Green water on top... Obvoiusly no one had gone there in a long time...

The holy spirit Just put something in my mind. Is that pond really dead? What do you think is happening underneath? And i thought about it, true... There were obvoiusly things happening under that green water... water plants and creatures alive underneath. There was obviously active acquatic life under all that dirty green water. That thought process encouraged me to pray my way out of that situation.

The story of that deliverance was like a Hollywood blockbuster. You wont believe that people were telling my friends to "Tell that girl, whatever God she's serving, let her hold on to Him well well oh. This can only be God"

Thats God's way too. When it looks like all is quiet and nothing is happening, be assured that plenty is happening in a realm we can't see.
My dear, continue to hold on. Those miracles will definitely come.

Sending lots of love your way this morning. It is well with you!

Ps. You're on my prayer list for now.


Amennnnnn. Wooooooow,u have inspired me again. God bless you and all yours. If there's something I know,it is that God never fails NEVER EVER

Hello everyone
To the glory of God Almighty one of my twin was discharged today. Twin 2 would be ready to go home weekend or Monday by His grace. Soooooo grateful to God Almighty for everything,it's been a roller coaster ride but my God has been faithful. Apart from the money that is now over $300000 which I know God is working out something for us in Jesus name everything else has been good.
I tapped into singing of praise as said my one mama here&it worked. Having spent double for my own payment as it was emergency God surprised me. Coupled with the fact that am paying $1800 for a sublet room,God surprised me again today by bringing someone unexpectedly to me.
Still waiting on God for more of His miracles. Thanks to all the mamas and papas that pmed me&gave me words of encouragement when I almost lost it for the 1st 3 weeks without my babies&bills piling me but truly my God has indeed be faithful.
Like Oliver twist am believing Him for more.
Missing home ooo,can't go now cos they are still small&would need to still see Dr's till another extra 2months.

Nnystc:
Hi temyb
Congratulations on the birth of your twins. This bill is unbelievable, I'm speechless.
Is this with or without discounts?

Pls hold fast to your faith without which we are nothing! Let the peace of God that surpasses human understanding be yours at this time.

My babies bill in the NICU for now oooo,until they leave. A big Amen to that prayer,it's that peace that is needed. Until they are discharged before I would know what it would be the total.
The song that came to my mind when I saw it was O God my my help in ages past.............,it is well but above all seeing my girls grow everyday is joy unspeakable for me,my bundles of joy are my strength oooo

Hello everyone. My twins are doing great but still in the NICU,hopefully they would discharge them very soon.
Saw their bill today&I screamed $290,000 for now. I just looked over it like I didn't see it before I faint but I know It is well.
Sorted out my bill already but I know God would do something. Hoping my mum would come soon,she went for her interview yesterday and was given a white paper to collect visa Monday only for them to call her to come for verification on Tuesday. Please anybody ever had that experience before,I really need someone around me before I port to Houston where my people are.

Hello everyone. I have a question for the V.I
My mom went for her interview yesterday&was given the normal white paper that her visa has been approved but she got a call yesterday evening again telling her to come back next week for another interview or verification.
Please what does that implies,is it that her visa wasn't approved or what

jacksparow:
I think its possible but why not just do it say tmr or even today at dallas and pay to have them mail it to Houston for you?
maybe some others here have a second opinion

They are still in the NICU but coming out soon. Maybe I would do it that way but want to know if I can do it in Houston

Please a quick obe house
Although my twins are still in the NICU but by His grace they are doing very good. I want to ask a question,I had my babies in Fort Worth dallas,I have collected their SSN and BC within 2weeks of the if arrival. Can I do their passport in Houston cos the amount am paying where staying is quite expensive $1800 per month&I would want to move to Houston ASAP where my cousin is.
Since its the same texts can I do their passport in Houston instead of Dallas

Maggie0133:
Good day all, got to Elpaso on Wednesday. Dallas POE was smooth.the first CBP asked how much we had, we told him. We had 8k (DH was particular abt carrying tangible money in cash not minding we had to buy majorly from black market) Was sent for secondary inspection after I told the first CBP I was here to have my baby. The second CBP asked why Elpaso, DH told him we have good reviews from friends that have been there before and good reviews on the internet.asked for our return ticket which we showed. He asked aw much we had, we told him then asked if we have pre-paid any of our bills. DH told him we had Form A that was been processed in Nigeria but was nt completed b4 we left and we have our cards too. One of the officer was telling the other about mayb cos it's cheaper there. I just do like say I no here them as they were mumbling to each other. They asked for correspondence which I gave them, scanned our bags and sent us on our way.

waited for Dallas Elpaso leg. American airline no b am, we sat just by the engines and it was so noisy Nd they don't carry any baggage for free. 2 of our bags padlocks were broken and stuff scattered by TSA. The journey was so long cos we flew with Emirates.

Had my first appointment with the Doctor and it was okay. Naija Doctors need serious upgrade. Wetin do me Sunday Wei I carry leg go hospital for naija Wei dem just dey look me, nobody touch me. They just gave me drugs and sent me on my way.

@temby: twas ur journey experience that encouraged me on this trip. Hope the twins are doing fine and hope you ve been able to resolve d bill issues. May God favour you.

I want to use this medium to thank everyone. You guys are wonderful.

Thanks,u welcome to dallas. Hope it wasn't all stressful. The twins are doing soooooo well&bg God's grace they should be out sooner than i expect. God is sorting out the bills for me by His grace. Thank you

Iyaboonibipe:
Hello House, pls I need a sample of fit to fly certificate addressed to emirate airline. Ill be flying at 35 weeks.

Thank you.

You don't need sample. What should be on your fit to fly is how many weeks u are far gone,your EFD and your Dr stating that u are fit to fly. It must be in the hospital letter head whether public&private but not port&it must be stamped and signed. Make sure u a copy cos they would collect one from you at the point of checking you in

Miracletwinee:
@temyb. Good to know that the babies are doing great. I sent you an email please respond accordingly
Please advice me ooo. I need to renew my visa can I do drop box and wait to be called for an interview or should I just apply and go for interview since I know I might be called for one. We are having a family vacation and the twins will clock 2 while we are away can they be attached to adult on the return leg or they will be expected to buy a seat

Hi miracletwinee, so sorry. I don't understand how this pm works oooo. Have tried it several times. My e-mail address is temy4u@hotmail.com

NikkyK:
Hello Temyb,how are you doing? Pls I want to know if you printed out the fit to fly form from emirates website for your doctor to fill or you got a letter straight from the hospital? Because I saw the form on their website. Thanx for your response.

Am fine. No I didn't print out the website own. Just get your Dr fit to fly&photocopy it cos they would collect 1 from you&they might ask as u are boarding again in dubai incase u have a very big Tommy.

ijeomaobi1:
Temyb,

Abeg got my fit to fly June 24.for Emirates to fly July 3. Is it too late ? Pls reply so I change date sharply from hospital oo

Get another one for July 1st,emirate can be funny o. They don't accept from the port. It could be private or public hospital

Maggie0133:
Hello mummies and daddies in the house. Hope you are having a wonderful weekend. Please I need to make enquires about Emirates fit to fly. Is it fit to fly from Doctor that's required or port health.

Timely responses will be do appreciated as my travel date is close.

They don't collect from the port. I flew emirate almost 3 weeks ago&they requested for fit to fly from your hospital. If u bring port,they wouldn't carry you&the hospital fit to fly must be a recent one. Make sure u photocopy it too cos they would collect one from you while checking in.

hotmummy2015:
I sent you an email. It will be well

Thanks. Have seen it

@ all thank u soooo much for the advice. Looking at all options good&not going against the law. Gofund is a no go area for my husband as I don't even like the idea of putting up my babies pictures soliciting for funds. Before u know it all sort of things would come up. God bless u all for every single advice given here. My utmost joy is seeing my babies grow everyday and all improvement ad been awesome because God has been faithful.
Please all those who pmed me,I don't understand how this pm thing work as I have tried to reply but it's not going at all but my e-mail is temy4u@hotmail.com
The lady that asked for details of the hospital. The delivery for V.D is $4,200 while C.S is $5,800 and additional baby is $1200 but this is when there are no complications. For Dr u can wall into their physician or Dr office and ask for same day appointment or Google any Dr u would like but the fee range from $2000 to $3000

blaize777:
Don't let dem use ur head monthly plan is ur right.not any 6month
I was told dat in my hospital.

I know but the way it is,the hospital is private not government. Would still try and talk to them. It is well,am hoping for the best. The twins are still there though

blaize777:
Babe I don't know how u re going about urs mine total for baby hospital and icu for 10days was 67k and 11k dollars dat total of 78k.i went der I acted drama for dem both shouting and crying did it on two occasions first tym I try it came down to 14k plus last wk I went again it came down to 11k plus now.i now did a monthly plan .see most of dem hipe der moni on purpose esp for we self paid. Just imagine a bill of 78k now 11k put 2 n 2 togeda dey know wat dey re doing.dey keep saying dis our last discount but @ d end dey still give pls insist u cant afford it dey will definitely do something it was a traumatic one 4 me but hang in der for us ok.i even told dem wat is happening in nig now most pple re losing der jobs funny enof dey re so aware of nig wahala now.b4 I leave I will try to ask for more discount again even d 11k is still much for us.lastly wen u do monthly plan don't allow dem peg Amt for u.insist u will pay wat u can afford monthly.asin take an amt dat is favorable to u

Alright Thank you. Would do that but I got to know that my hospital is private and not government. There have different policies&I have twins still there. It is well,hoping for the best

nefertitiram:
No be me o!

@temyb the above is for you.

Thank u,in fact the $150 is just for 2 weeks oooo&they are still there. Believing God for the best

[quote author=nefertitiram post=46868307][/quote]I would never abandone bill,that is the last thing on my mind. Infant social service are already on my neck. They are monitoring the babies like fly. They are like why don't I want. Am just scared of a whole lot of things. They are even telling me that those children are their children so any small thing they are taking them. Why don't I want medic-aid bla bla bla. I tiya o,I can't tell them to discharge my babies. That one is offence

Miracletwinee:
[quote author=temyb post=46856618

You are highly favored my dear. I will suggest that you explore all other options apart from the Medicaid. It should be your very last option in fact I feel that leaving the bill unpaid is still better than the Medicaid. If the bill is left unpaid it will be sent to collection after sometime. When you go for renewal the worst is to refuse you and ask you to go pay your bills but if you take Medicaid how will you pay back? Why don't you send an email to the NIV section of the embassy stating the situation at hand and ask for their advice on the issue of Medicaid. They will likely tell you not to take it. Print out their response and take it to the financial person in the hospital. When you get there just begin to cry and roll you know Naija style now? Just make sure you form very well for them. Ask them to even discharge the children since you won't be able to pay and you don't want to do something illegal. I know they will definitely not discharge but you may be surprise that they may end up giving you an affordable bill on humanitarian ground since you are self paid. My one kobo it might or might not work.

Thank you so much miracletwine, I have cried my eyes out in front of these people,I don't want to fall into depression. Have asked them to please give me payment plan,they said their policy is 6months. I have sleepless night as I am,in fact to them I have plenty money I want to pay that is why I don't want medic-aid for my kids. I am just tired

Please how I need clarifications on some things. Have cleared my bills and have gotten zero balance account but my question is about my twins still in the NICU.As at yesterday their bill is about $160,000 and I think they would be there till about 2 weeks although they are doing very well. The two are off oxygen and are even trying to get them to breastfeed and bottlefeed. My question is concerning the payment plan for the NICU,the hospital said they can't go beyond 45% discount and u have to pay within 6months. I have been talking to them&even their financial manager. She said it's the hospital policy&that is why they said I should apply for medic-aid for the twins under low-weight birth and preterm babies as they are citizens.
Am so disorganised right now as I know I can't raise that amount in 6months since am not dasuki or dangote. Have paid all my bills but the NICU for the babies is giving me sleepless night. I spoke with a Nigerian woman who just moved here,she had quadruplet last 2years in JPS,she said she paid all her bills but got medic-aid for the quadruplet as one even has a major operation as a premie. Please what is the best option I can go for

Went through DFW last 2weeks precisely. Not really big tummy and the only question asked was where is my hospital correspondence. Which I gave them and I was stamped in 6months

KLC2016:
Good day Fam,

Please do they allow one carry stock fish in plane?

If yes....Please those that have carried stock fish, grounded egusi, ogbono and pap....how did u package them?

Thanks a lot and God bless

Yes they allow but I would tell u it's better u pack all these things u mentioned in a particular bag and declare it. No hide it in between clothes. Am in dallas right now&I came in almost 2 weeks ago. I had a small travelling bag that had crayfish,stock fish,egusI,dry pepper,ogbono,pepper soup spice,noodles,palm oil and Maggi. I declared everything even the cbp were laughing at me that Nigerians ooo,that did I bring fufu and okazi. It wasn't stressful but most of all ask for favor.

[quote author=passionantchica post=46580969]Lol at 'married an Ijesha man..."

God be praised!
Don't worry, God who has colored your journey beautiful, will make it beautiful even to the end.
It will only get better, just keep speaking positive words into the situation.
Blessings.
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ABI now. Yes oooo. I have chose to remain positive

[quote author=Miracletwinee post=46560779][/quote]They removed my cerlage accordingly to them,it can cause an infection because it's now a foreign body since to them am leaking which unfortunately didn't show on the scan.
Lesson learnt in all of this. It's not their fault,if I had left Nigeria on time,my eyes wouldn't see all these. Funny enough,my husband warned me. I wanted to wait till 31 weeks
In all I just thank God. Am OK,same with the babies. As long as there is life,there is hope. Even my own bill srf has almost doubled.
Taking each day as it comes

God has been faithful oooo. My twins are no more on oxygen support. Saw them today and the nurses were like they are doing way too fast than their age. Before nko, I married an ijesha man not oyinbo man.
I had to scream it to them to stop calling me for medic aid am not intrested. It was later their over head boss stylishly called me to one side and it's true,I shouldn't collect it. That they are just forcing me but I should make sure I don't. At first, they were like no payment plan bla bla bla just to make me collect but when me and the over head financial boss spoke she was like sure we can work things out.
Am just trying to relax well. Please any mom still planning to share apartment around fort Worth dallas. Want to be closer to my babies. Twice in a week is not enough for me,
God has been faithful oooo,I appreciate God

princey83:
instead of crying, take your worries to God in prayer. My advice is not to use medic aid though. It would come back to hunt you.

Yes my mind is definitely made up. No medic aid. They have been calling me,I had to tell their financial manager to stop calling me for it. Thankfully the twins are not on oxygen again. Hoping to have them with me in 2weeks time. They are doing soo well