kennygee:
Money no dey, money no dey but this show was sold out.

And I heard ticket was 15k.

Oga, you heard wrong. 5k was the least.

Gratefulaheart:
Thank you for the advice. I just can't stop wondering why I wasn't enough for him. Yes things got a bit stressful sometimes, we have busy lives and young children, there has been arguments but we still had nice times and a healthy, good sex life. I'm one minute sobbing, then so angry.

He's still denying! He woke me up during the night and said we should talk. I ignored him and then he started his sob story that the lady is lying against him. I am more upset about the fact that he's taking me for a fool.

This is a man that is in a messy financial situation for the past months and barely meeting his financial responsibility in the home. I have been covering up in the home front. He sold off his car in June and have been driving mine (i bought with my money) around while i hop on bikes. He obviously was using my car to take another woman to a hotel and he still doesn't feel an iota of guilt about it.

I am in a very tight corner and i can't think straight right now. All I can think about is our kids and how I don't want to deny them the right to grow up with their father. But i certainly can't continue in this marriage if he doesn't even respect me enough to admit what he did.

Now imma tell you a story but before I do, I want you to erase the thoughts of getting a divorce from your heads. Forget all this people giving you advises on NL, you can't take advises from someone or people who hasn't been affected by the outcome. He's your husband, that is your home, and those are your kids. No matter the circumstances, you have an important role to play in your husband's life and your kids. I have experienced this but i was shocked by the outcome. I am not going to tell you about the incident, that is going to be a story for another day. Here is what I think you should do. Get your self dressed, look beautiful, I know you are pretty. Go out alone without your wedding ring, to a very secluded place, like a garden, a beach or somewhere with privacy, order yourself the most expensive wine or champagne. Feel relax Call him ( husband) to meet you up there. Breath in fresh air and be happy, do not give him a reason to see you sad. Tell him you've forgiven him, but he should give you a valid reason for cheating. Do not argue, do not complain, do not push things further. Have a good time, go home. If you want to make love, its your choice but remember, feel free and free your mind. I swear to God, your husband will be scared of what you will do next. Because you did the opposite of what you've done, crying and sobbing. Get loosed and turn the table around. Switch sides and be happy. Madam, try what I just said and trust me, you will be happy. Your action become unpredictable, which will make him to second guess your every move. Please do not go through his phone again. Ask him next time and keep your findings to yourself. When someone knows or predict your every moves, you become a JOKE. Happy Boxing Day.

nwanneni:
ok first,i will start with myself.
1)i have a multimillionaire mother,hence grew in affluence
2)i am educated,well travelled,own a very giant property(1) in a 800sqm piece of land.
2)own 2 mercedes benz vehicles and a yaris.(sold one of my benz off due to lack of proper technicians to fix it.
3)i have 4 sisters
I an anaesthociologist in Canada who is far richer,pretty and educated than you.guess what?i am to pick his fiance up at the airport today at 9pm.
She respects him so much for who he is
2 of my sisters are married,one to a billionaire and the other to a millionaire.living like what you can only dream of.
I also have one wayward,singlemom sister just like you.
I have 2 brothers running succesful businesses worth millions of naira.
I am an importer,a very young man too.
I really don't think you are worth the money i keep in high end wines in my cellar.
Do not spread your bitterness to unsuspecting victims ok?die alone with your ideas.
Poverty stricken bastard.
I looked you up and saw how you celebrated buying a toyota matrix really?lol.poor,minimum wage,gutter pig.
You run 3 businesses means what?i have just one whose profits might yield your capital in the 3 in no time.
Enjoy your slum while it lasts,gutter fowl

Oya make you dash me Christmas money na make I take see front... I am nobody, I run nobody business, I have nobody sister and brother, I have nobody's money in my account. I have no level like you and I didn't even flex in xmas day. Just stuck on nairaland enjoying topics like this. Please regard me now. Make I quickly drop my account for somebody because I repeat, I am nobody... Abeg boss, look my side , I am nobody. 4401099802. Eco bank. Terry James. Abeg boss. Press the transfer button to nobody like me and make me to be somebody for a few days. Thank you so much boss.

StPete:


Insult your father not me since you don’t have sense to give your own opinion. Or since when does everyone have to agree with my own opinion?

Sorry about that. I was moved my emotions. O have never insulted my dad in my entire life. Once again I am sorry.

StPete:
This is what you get when you snoop around. Give me one good reason why you checked his phone when you knew you didn’t have the heart to withstand the outcome of your findings?

Right now, you shouldn’t bother your head too much about whether he’s denying or not. As long as he’s providing your needs and taking care of the family, just channel your heart and emotions to something more meaningful. As much as it hurts, it’s safe to say you shouldn’t dwell too much on it. The more you do, the more it hurts and the more it causes rifts between you two. And trust me, nagging him won’t make him stop. It’ll only make him device a more tactical means to cover his tracks.

I really would have love to insults you but imma keep my mouth shut for now. What do you mean by what you get snooping through his phone, who is she to him? His fffuckking wife. She has every right to know what is going on with her husband. What If the man infected her with STD or STI or something worse than that? Madam I feel so sorry for what you are going through right now. Also his inability to apologized and make come to his senses. I hate to say this, but you should tell his mum or dad. A man like that will never change, the fact that my wife knows I cheated and I still act like I did nothing wrong? That means I have no value for my wife. Madam, you need to make few changes in your life, if you have a job, focus , take care of your kids, your house is divided and the head of the house ain't ready to fix it. I know how sad you are right now, trust and betray are two worse things to live it. Give your husband SPACE to continue fooling himself, mhen I know its hurt a lot. Some men eh.

Una no just get sense sha.

HonAdeli:
Old story.. it's has been posted here two to three years ago

Show us the Link, or tell us what happened. Nigerians with dia oversabi...

Continue this story my guy abeg. You better no do like other OP.

This Man still had the time to pray with a Muslim president.. wow God bless you sir.

OP. i beg you in God's name, d=finish this episode tonight, please, please. please You don try abeg.

alexistaiwo:
Topher052

Sorry for doubting your identity earlier
I take back my comments

OLORI BURUKU NI EH. WO SOFU EH TELE. Go and look for the meaning and thank me later.

Eketem:



Are you paying the writer? This is unfair, he could be using his time for something that makes him money but chose to entertain us for free. While I complained about some plots in the story I still applauded his creativity. Calling him to disrepute because of grammatical errors that have been present from the beginning is unfair please. If we paid for his time then we can demand accountability

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My Niqqa, you are so damn right, and i think i will stop responding to her messages, because clearly, her vision is quite blurry, if she cant see the bigger picture, then its a wrap from me. you are not paying him for his services, neither are you complementing him. so you knw, SCREW YOU. Op keep on writing abeg, we are ENTERTAINED.

Akinowon123:

people like you is the major reason why this country cant move forward. You accept anything that comes your way, you should at least reason with the point being made by people here. It is so glaring Topher819 aims at scamming people, what is wrong with him coming plain to us that since the op is not responding he could continue or do justice to the story. instead the first thing is to drop his phone number for people to contact him, please contact for what. If he was real, the first thing should be the contiuation of the post then if he needs support he could relate it to us at the buttom of one of his episode. If the new Op said he is gonna stop dropping the story here, it kuku fine by me[color=#000099][/color]

I didnt want to reply at first, but i felt i need to put some words into your brain. People like me is the major reason why the country is not moving forward you said right? what has been your contribution to nairaland as a whole? i want to know. have you created an outstanding trend here for everyone to read and enjoy? people like you, KILL this Country. You will not Motivate, Encourage, Praise someone for the little she/he has done. Lets say he's not the real OP, but he gave us something to read and look forward into. wait, How much have you contributed to the so-called real OP who started the story? my guess is NOTHING. people like you start looking for grammatical errors, punctuation, misspell and abbreviations as the reason hes not the real Op. i repeat, i dont care if he's the real person, just gimme something to read and feel refresh. is he asking for money before he can post a thing? HELL No. so Leave him alone madam.

what is wrong with you people? The OP or Not, this guy is feeding us with stories and some of you are here criticizing him? why cant you be grateful for once? how many writers on nairaland finishes there stories? few, and u assholessszz are complaining about his handle and identity. shitttz this aint right mhe. not even thank you for writing or thank you for your time. do you knw the amount of effort, time and concentration this guy put in his work?. Oga, i dont want to abuse your father and mother, so shutthafuckup and leave him alone. i dont care if he's the real Op. just continue doing what you are doing for the rest of us, who appreciate and enjoy every piece of this story. please stop reading if you have doubts and stop making him regret doing this. you mudafucker will not give us good story, or any meaningful piece, but will be trying to bring one down. NA DEVIL GO PUNISH YOU. Baba, continue feeding ME,( I can only speak for myself), am grateful. YOU ARE THE REAL MVP.

damn..... Bro... i applaud your calmness. fear no go allow me enter that house for days. dont forget about amaka and that gay guy with your police case.. tell us how it ended, please.

what are you guys saying? Tiwa signed a contract with teebillz, 323 Entertainment. Have you guys forgotten that he was once her manager, while they were still married? watch tiwa savage's videos. the logo and marvins logo always appear in her videos. so its a promo thing. not to fuccrk her or wanting her back. that guy is living a lowkey life in overseer, after trying to jump over the bridge and his ex-wife telling the whole world that he's a cocaine addict? or after she slept with tubaba, don jazzy, and now wizkid?. God punish LOVE. who dey follow LOVE laugh.

Babyforever:
Better go back and beg her from the look of things you look like the controlling one and it seems you have ego problem.......Don't listen to what all this guys are saying most of them don't have a girlfriend and they want to ruin your relationship......Meet her apologize to her let her know how you feel and you both should work on yourself.... you'll be fine

Are You SAYING THIS? Wait is she your sister?, She sleeps in different boys houses and girls, and she cant listen to her boyfriend for once, you are saying he should go and beg her? Bro....... LISTEN Carefully, you are not married to her, shes not discipline. the moment you do what this one is saying( begging) you become a pussssszzsyy. let a LovePeddler become a LovePeddler. DONT TRY TO SAVE A LovePeddler.

Raheem Sterling: My journey from helping mum clean hotel toilets to playing for England at a World Cup.
Raheem Sterling has revealed his incredible journey from helping his mother clean hotel toilets to becoming an England World Cup star.

Writing for The Players’ Tribune website, Sterling has described his move from Jamaica as a five-year-old and his upbringing in London before rejecting Arsenal to start his football career at Queens Park Rangers.

Sterling wrote: “When I was two years old, my father was murdered. That shaped my entire life. Not long after that, my mum made the decision to leave me and my sister in Jamaica and go to England so she could get her degree and give us a better life.
“I didn’t realise it at the time, but my mum was hustling in her own way, trying to make a better life for us. When I was five years old, we moved to London to be with her, and that was kind of a tough time because the culture was very different from what I was used to and we didn’t have much money. My mum always made sure we had what we needed, but let’s just say it wasn’t The Suite Life of Zack & Cody, know what I mean?

“My mum was working as a cleaner at some hotels to make extra money so she could pay for her degree. I’ll never forget waking up at five in the morning before school and helping her clean the toilets at the hotel in Stonebridge. I’d be arguing with my sister, like, ‘No! No! You got the toilets this time. I got the bed sheets’.
“The only good part about it was that my mum would let us pick anything we wanted from the vending machine when we finished. So you know I was going straight for the Bounty bar every time.”

Sterling’s energy on the football pitch can be traced back to his primary school days, when, by his own admission, he struggled to concentrate.

“I was probably driving my mum mental. It wasn’t that I was bad bad, I just didn’t want to listen,” he wrote. “I didn’t want to sit still and hear what the teacher was saying, mate! What are we talking about today - subtraction? Come on. Not having that. I’d be staring at the clock dreaming of break time. Eat a bit of food, then head straight outside. Running about in the mud, pretending I’m Ronaldinho. That’s all I cared about.

“I was so naughty that they kicked me out of primary school. Well, actually, that’s not totally true. Technically, they didn’t kick me out. They just told my mum that I needed to be in an environment with more attention. They put your man in a little classroom with six kids and three teachers! Not joking. There was nowhere to hide.
“The worst part was the bus used to pick us up and drop us off every day. So I’ll never forget, I was riding the bus one day, looking out the window, and I saw all these other girls and boys walking to school on their own, having a laugh. And that really hit me, and I thought, I want to do that. I want to be like everyone else. There’s nothing wrong with me. I’m just quiet. I just didn’t like to listen to anyone but my mum. That was my problem.

“If I really think hard about it, the moment my life changed was when I met a guy named Clive Ellington. He used to mentor the kids in our neighborhood who didn’t have their fathers around. On the weekend, he’d take us on little trips around London and show us a different side of life. Sometimes we’d just go play snooker. Basically, anything that wasn’t our day-to-day. He genuinely cared about us. So one day he sat me down and he said, ‘Raheem, what do you love to do?’

“Simple, simple question, right? But I never really thought about it like that. At that point, I was just playing football in the street, biking around with my friends, being a kid. I said, ‘I love playing football’.
“He said, ‘Well, I got a little Sunday League team. Why don’t you come out and play with us?’ And that was it. That moment changed my life. From that day, it was football, football, football. Obsessed. Totally obsessed.”

Sterling has revealed how Arsenal were one of the first clubs that wanted to sign him, but that his mother had the final say on his first steps towards becoming a Premier League title winner with Manchester City.

“When I was 10 or 11, I was getting scouted by some big clubs in London,” he wrote. “Fulham wanted me. Arsenal wanted me. And when Arsenal want you, of course you’re thinking you gotta go there. Biggest club in London, you know? So I’m running around telling my mates, ‘I’m off to the Arsenal!’

“But my mum is a proper warrior. She knows how to make it in this world. She’s probably the most streetwise person I know. She sat me down one day and she said, ‘Look, I love you. But I don’t feel you should go to Arsenal’. I said, ‘Ehhhh?’

“She said, ‘If you go there, there’s going to be 50 players who are just as good as you. You’ll just be a number. You need to go somewhere where you can work your way up’. She convinced me to go to QPR, and it was probably the best decision I ever made. At QPR, they didn’t let me slip up.
“And you know what’s crazy? I grew up in the shadow of my dream. Literally. I watched the new Wembley stadium go up from my back garden. One day, I walked outside and I saw this massive arch in the sky. It was rising up over the top of the housing estates like a mountain. I used to kick about in this green right by my house, and I could take a shot on goal and then turn round to celebrate and the Wembley arch would literally be right above my head. It was like you were there. I was really like, 'I can play there. I can do it'.”

Sterling defied the doubts of at least one of his teachers to play for England Under-16s, which helped him catch the attention of Liverpool when he was 15 years old.

“Liverpool wanted me, but it was three hours away from home,” wrote Sterling. “And I’ll never forget sitting my mum down and telling her that I wanted to go. I love all my friends from my neighborhood. They’re still my best friends in the world. But at that time, there was a lot of crime and stabbings going on, and I felt like Liverpool was a chance for me to go away and just focus on football.
“My whole mission was to get a proper contract so that my mother and sister didn’t have to stress anymore. The day that I bought my mum a house, that was probably the happiest I’ve ever been.

“If people want to write about my mum’s bathroom in her house, all I have to tell you is that 15 years ago, we were cleaning toilets in Stonebridge and getting breakfast out of the vending machine. If anybody deserves to be happy, it’s my mum. She came to this country with nothing and put herself through school cleaning bathrooms and changing bed sheets, and now she’s the director of a nursing home. And her son plays for England. I’m telling you right now... England is still a place where a naughty boy who comes from nothing can live his dream.”

PenlsCaP:

U dnt have argument pls

AYEEEE. you won.

PenlsCaP:


Lolz.. U are backward.
So only owerri is 3hrs from Benin u dnt know ondo is also 3hrs from Benin.
Are u this daft.. Anyways read again op has revealed the place. "EKITI"

Nope, am not Backward, Calabar is how many hr far from owerri? , Benin is how many hrs far from Owerri?
Am not Daft..
Honestly am into Good vibes only.. i do not want to Bleep you up.. PenlsCap right? we gon see.

PenlsCaP:


Definitely yoruba gals
It seems u didnt attend primary school..
The op clearly said SOUTH WEST in his comment and mentioned owerri..
Or is southwest not yoruba

Op said between ondo and ekiti.
And I'm very sure its ondo.. I have been there because my aunt works there...and pussy is free..gals dnt have issues giving pussy there.

Niqqa, am in a Good Mood, so i'll ignore your dumb ass.. i guess your lame assss forgot to also read where he said its 3hrs from benin and 3 hrs from calabar.. Niqqa, am in a good mood, so i aint gonna talk back.

damtan:
bros....Benin, Calabar?? and you're still seeking more?? contentment is a virtue oooooo.

I dont settle for less.

olac21:
Na Ikere Ekiti my people..don't u disturb yourselves too much

noted

Nigga, youve been wasting our time abi? You got a big mouth...People used to say that you got a big mouth
Now I understand what they talking about
Because what we do is just between me and you
Not something that you run and tell your crew
But you had to tell Sharon and she told Carol
Then the story rolled on just like a wheelbarrow
Carol told Bibi and she told Pam
And Pam was overheard a-talking to her man
Pam was so rookie, what she thought she heard
And somehow my nigga Diddy Bop got the word
He told somebody I knew from fruit town
They called me up and put me down
Now the whole damn story's been changed around
And that's the reason why I ain't ffuuccking with you now
'Cause you never shoulda opened your mouth at all
And I wouldn't a had no reason to make this call.

Greenbullet:
I need a girl in Benin city preferably around ekenwan, 4k per hour for sex, pay before we start also gonna feed you.
Send me a pm, if interested

oga, download tinder or instachat... thats where you will see what you are looking for.. you are wasting yur fucking time here..

igbo girls.... ahahha where in owerri.. but owerri girls like money o, no go fucckk.

Nedfed:

U're bro
It just a 3hrs journey to Benin
But come oooo, wat else are u still looking for? Benin and Calabar are not dff from the town am talking about.

Not for babes.. the nature of my job... i cant stay in one place for morethan 2-3 month.. just drop the location jor.. make some guys for NL go develop the place jor..

Nedfed:



Wia do u reside?
Let me see how close u're to dis place

hahaha. see set up. am not close.. i move from place to places. am currently in benin.. but there are four major places i reside in naija, Lag (sure place) Benin, Abuja and Calabar. so give me the location, let me knw if i can add it to my list of home away from home. please

give men the location naw, oboy man need to go where free kpekus dey for a while, to enjoy free thing.. abeg drop location make i go there for vacation.