Adaego5:
Help! I Am In A Serious Dilemma!!

Please what does it mean when a man tells his woman that he is not connected to her?

I was in courtship with this guy late 2017, we were working towards getting married. we broke up sometime in 2018. Since then, it's been difficult for me to love again. I really loved him and could go extreme for him.

He has tried going into other relationships same as me but non worked. So we decided to give us a shot once more, I was happy and felt whole again.....

He is very principled. Now he is saying that he doesn't feel that connection between us. He said I am everything, intelligent, smart, beautiful, hardworking, a graduate, Godfearing with good home upbringing, from a god background, tall infact taller than every girl he has come across but he just doesn't feel that connection between us. When it comes to qualities, I am better than every girl he has met. He went ahead to tell me of a girl who he felt that connection with but she broke his heart. I am shattered and devastated once more.

Its easy to say move on, but easier said than done. It took me months to move on, i was only able to by trying to hate him. One of the reasons why I really loved him was because he never tried taking advantage of me as I am a virgin.

He never for one day talked me into it unlike some other guys I have met.I have been so good to him, he confessed that no girl has loved and treated him like I did. I have been trying to understand this whole connection thing.... Where am I going wrong. I am not a boring person, there is no boring moment with me. Most guys I have met always tell me that I am priceless and some keep coming back but I find it hard to like them.
I only keep remembering the beautiful memories we shared.
I am so devastated..... I really wanted us to work things out ..

Brooke60:
let me pay 30k. I will pick it up tomorrow

Unknownunkown:

Uniben girls for 500,i bet you're kidding me

Unknownunkown:
Help a friend out in this dilemma .

I have a friend that told me these:

He is in his mid thirty and had his first sex ten days ago and since then till now,he has had 4 different sex with four different prostitutes at two and different days apart.

He wants to stop but he said sex is so sweet that he can't stop but he's having rethink because of this two last incident which happened at a popular asewo joint in Benin.

1)Monday this week, he has paid for the service but he said the who're searched his bag looking for if he has pants in his bag or he was a yahoo boy,but my guy refused to zipped his bag after this. After getting home,out of 6k in his bag, she has removed 3k. He should have gone there and caused troubled but he's very decent in the society. He didn't want any publicity.

2)Today,CD slipped into the who're pussy and the who're was adamant that he must pay 3k. They dragged for a longer time until my guy transferred the amount + 2k (this for the account owner) to the fellow who're account. She said this 3 k is for the treatment of her.

My people, I hope this my friend is not being scam/rip off by Benin girls (they even spoke Ibo so probably, they were Ibo) simply because he's calm and doesn't want to ruin his reputation!?

He's planning to stop having sex at least for now. What do guys think about this

Unknownunkown:
Help a friend out in this dilemma .

I have a friend that told me these:

He is in his mid thirty and had his first sex ten days ago and since then till now,he has had 4 different sex with four different prostitutes at two and different days apart.

He wants to stop but he said sex is so sweet that he can't stop but he's having rethink because of this two last incident which happened at a popular asewo joint in Benin.

1)Monday this week, he has paid for the service but he said the who're searched his bag looking for if he has pants in his bag or he was a yahoo boy,but my guy refused to zipped his bag after this. After getting home,out of 6k in his bag, she has removed 3k. He should have gone there and caused troubled but he's very decent in the society. He didn't want any publicity.

2)Today,CD slipped into the who're pussy and the who're was adamant that he must pay 3k. They dragged for a longer time until my guy transferred the amount + 2k (this for the account owner) to the fellow who're account. She said this 3 k is for the treatment of her.

My people, I hope this my friend is not being scam/rip off by Benin girls (they even spoke Ibo so probably, they were Ibo) simply because he's calm and doesn't want to ruin his reputation!?

He's planning to stop having sex at least for now. What do guys think about this

IamD18:
Only a fool will take you serious.

Just imagine the username. MyTotoTear? Your toto don tear indeed.

PapaNnamdi:
bring me that 350k and I will turn it to 7.5million by Jan 31st

JERRY1925:
Well...trust her decision... She's right