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Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 2:35pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Dyt: I don't know if this is his first time, as I'm not sure if i know this man anymore. The way he initially denied with so much anger that i was beginning to think may be he truly didn't do it makes me conclude he's a pro at this. He only ran out of luck this time. I have been so gullible. I feel like beating myself up. |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Nobody: 2:35pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
yettymuse:frustrated single mom talk! What is wrong in a man driving his wife's car? Please stay away from giving advice in marriage because you are clearly not good at it.if you were,you would have had a husband. 4 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 2:38pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
eniolorunfe:This is what I am thinking - If we do stay together it will eat at me every day for the rest of my life. Things will never be the same again. I will never trust again and I will always be bitter about what he did. My head wants to explode right now. Human beings are wicked o. I wish i could share some of the chats here. He was already calling her "baby", someone that calls me by my real name. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by JoannaSedley(f): 2:38pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Gratefulaheart:Take a break....... Travel for the new year to cool your head a bit cos with everything happening and the guilt tripping you may shoot or knife him. I found out that people that loves deeply ends up getting hurt deeply. I have no business with love as I see marriage as a business contract. Cheat and be cheated on....the world continues. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Nobody: 2:43pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
ednut1:abd tell your kids you divorced their father because of what?a one night stand? So this coconut headed,selfish op,do you know what it means to deprive children of their father?i guess not. Anyways,your life,your problem. |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by LadySarah: 2:48pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Gratefulaheart: Hey babe,calm down.You need to think well before you make whatever decision.Can you at least leave the environment first to cool your head and then think. I said it earlier,cos if he claims you caused it,why not communicate? Collect that car key first and let him trek to meet them. Men ! 3 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Dyt(f): 2:49pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Gratefulaheart: cry all you can it will make you feel better no you not gullible dont take blames for his wrong doings i cant tell you to walk away cos it will hurt more knowing he doesnt even show any act of being remorseful neither can i tell you to stay as you will be lost in the marriage like i said its a tough one stay and most likely detest his guts walk away and even feel more terrible cos he might never look out for you (yeah might be an advantage if truly you are done, but you have lived together, loved him even at his worse, how do you expect to even be yourself 2days without him?) nothing hurts more than having a partner who is so egoistic and thinks you cant ever leave him 2 Likes |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Dyt(f): 2:52pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Gratefulaheart: smh i bet he will be giving her your money too funny thing is these men will come back home when the street has dealt with them leaving the wives to take it all terrible |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Nobody: 2:58pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
nwanneni:for the sake of the end of 2018, let me set the record straight for you silly morafucker with swollen testicles. I see how much you desire my attention on Nl with double sides spittle spewing gibberish about how singled a mother I am... I know how miserable all your older siblings have been frustrated to SETTLE.. Boy! I'm not your regular single mother! I OWN 2 houses and an ongoing building project SINGLE-HANDEDLY! I successfully run 3 businesses SINGLEHANDEDLY and would give your fake ass a run. Wherever I stroll in and call the shot in lagos city, your balls and sweat can't give way. With these few points of mine, your married sisters wouldn't mind trading their Mrs title for my SINGLE MOTHERLY ACHIEVEMENTS. while you savor my list of accomplishments(All done and dusted at 28!), don't forget to boost and double your dose of Vitamin C, letrozole, fenugreek and enough water to boost your male spermatozoa. Mention me again when you're able to crash an egg! 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by ednut1(m): 3:00pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
nwanneni:so divorce means depriving ur kids the father lol. He is broke and chasing after a woman. I am currently in my father's house for xmas opposite us is a man's grave and his wife . Both Died around 2003. From Aids. D man was a chronic cheat. 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Nobody: 3:13pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
yettymuse:ok first,i will start with myself. 1)i have a multimillionaire mother,hence grew in affluence 2)i am educated,well travelled,own a very giant property(1) in a 800sqm piece of land. 2)own 2 mercedes benz vehicles and a yaris.(sold one of my benz off due to lack of proper technicians to fix it. 3)i have 4 sisters I an anaesthociologist in Canada who is far richer,pretty and educated than you.guess what?i am to pick his fiance up at the airport today at 9pm. She respects him so much for who he is 2 of my sisters are married,one to a billionaire and the other to a millionaire.living like what you can only dream of. I also have one wayward,singlemom sister just like you. I have 2 brothers running succesful businesses worth millions of naira. I am an importer,a very young man too. I really don't think you are worth the money i keep in high end wines in my cellar. Do not spread your bitterness to unsuspecting victims ok?die alone with your ideas. Poverty stricken bastard. I looked you up and saw how you celebrated buying a toyota matrix really?lol.poor,minimum wage,gutter pig. You run 3 businesses means what?i have just one whose profits might yield your capital in the 3 in no time. Enjoy your slum while it lasts,gutter fowl 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Adesuwag(m): 3:15pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
nwanneni:dude just go and sit down she flawed you 100% You men think you can bully a single mother but this babe shocked you, just be a man and move on. Your post on nairaland is full of yourself and your mouth achievements stop embarrassing men please 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Nobody: 3:23pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Adesuwag:your opinion means absolutely nothing to me,thanks 1 Like |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Gratefulaheart: 3:28pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
yettymuse:OMG! Yetunde, i just took a second look at you peofile name. it's me. You introduced me to Mr Tunde. It's the same car they are using to carry women all around Lagos o. Egbami ke |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by flyca: 3:29pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
nwanneni:To the thrash! 1 Like |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Nobody: 3:33pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Gratefulaheart:Awwwww... Omg!!!!!I remembered!!!! I'm so sorry darling . Kai! |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by robosky02(m): 3:46pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by GboyegaD(m): 3:55pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Gratefulaheart: Try as much as you can to calm down and think things through. If you think your best option is to walk out, just try not to make things messy than it is for the sake of the children. If you want to stay, I suggest counseling for you both. |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Oyindidi(f): 4:15pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
robosky02:Na watin dey hungry me today. |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Cramybird(f): 4:58pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
yettymuse:JEEZ! WTF |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Mursz: 5:26pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Saffi: Best I have read here. |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Nobody: 7:14pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
ednut1:so if your wife cheats,the only thing you can do is divorce her? A woman you really love and who has loving kids for you. And also,say you cheat(mistakenly) and your wife finds out,would you expect divorce straight away? Answer this truthfully please. |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Nobody: 7:22pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Gratefulaheart. This is my advice for you; You can be mad at him,don't talk to him and all. He may come back to his senses and apologise and fix things.do not go the divorce way. Life as a single parent is not easy(i am not talking about money).emotionally for you and the kids and also societal pressure. There are so many things i will want to tell you but i just can't type all here. If you feel like you want to talk to someone,feel free to pm me and i will give you a call. There is nothing as sweet as family,i know what i am saying |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Terryindeed: 8:25pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
nwanneni: Oya make you dash me Christmas money na make I take see front... I am nobody, I run nobody business, I have nobody sister and brother, I have nobody's money in my account. I have no level like you and I didn't even flex in xmas day. Just stuck on nairaland enjoying topics like this. Please regard me now. Make I quickly drop my account for somebody because I repeat, I am nobody... Abeg boss, look my side , I am nobody. 4401099802. Eco bank. Terry James. Abeg boss. Press the transfer button to nobody like me and make me to be somebody for a few days. Thank you so much boss. |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Terryindeed: 8:49pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Gratefulaheart: Now imma tell you a story but before I do, I want you to erase the thoughts of getting a divorce from your heads. Forget all this people giving you advises on NL, you can't take advises from someone or people who hasn't been affected by the outcome. He's your husband, that is your home, and those are your kids. No matter the circumstances, you have an important role to play in your husband's life and your kids. I have experienced this but i was shocked by the outcome. I am not going to tell you about the incident, that is going to be a story for another day. Here is what I think you should do. Get your self dressed, look beautiful, I know you are pretty. Go out alone without your wedding ring, to a very secluded place, like a garden, a beach or somewhere with privacy, order yourself the most expensive wine or champagne. Feel relax Call him ( husband) to meet you up there. Breath in fresh air and be happy, do not give him a reason to see you sad. Tell him you've forgiven him, but he should give you a valid reason for cheating. Do not argue, do not complain, do not push things further. Have a good time, go home. If you want to make love, its your choice but remember, feel free and free your mind. I swear to God, your husband will be scared of what you will do next. Because you did the opposite of what you've done, crying and sobbing. Get loosed and turn the table around. Switch sides and be happy. Madam, try what I just said and trust me, you will be happy. Your action become unpredictable, which will make him to second guess your every move. Please do not go through his phone again. Ask him next time and keep your findings to yourself. When someone knows or predict your every moves, you become a JOKE. Happy Boxing Day. 1 Like |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by robosky02(m): 9:43pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Oyindidi:so watin u come dey wait for abeg arrange make I come over |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Oyindidi(f): 9:45pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
robosky02:The dust dey make me sick, I go prepare am tomorrow |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by robosky02(m): 9:50pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
Oyindidi:are you serouse make I show I dey town ohh |
Re: I Just Found Out My Husband Has Cheated On Me. Please Help by Oyindidi(f): 9:58pm On Dec 26, 2018 |
robosky02:Now? Na bed I dey so, I go soon sleep. Watin you come do for town? |
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