₦airaland Forum

Jacksparrow0712:
What's that?

Jacksparrow0712:
Texanomaly

Desanta:
op I feel you. But I think your situation is even better than mine. My wife died several years ago and all I want is my late wife and nothing else. I 've seen a psychologist, a psychiatrist and even my priest without any improvement. Even with all the friends and relatives around me, I'm terribly lonely. I have had to decline some consultancy jobs, just because money means nothing when the only person you wish to spend it on, is gone. I have contributed to several foundations, orphanage homes, and helped a few strangers, but it hasn't changed the feeling. I have met several interesting people who would have been in to be with, but I already have a scale(my wife), for measuring; and as expected they never make a perfect replacement.

You will meet that person just don't put her on a scale. Let your heart lead you and have fun while at it. Search for a soul mate and not a perfect wife, which doesn't even exist.

FrancisTony:
All thanks to UyiIrediia, AmanfromMars/Muskeeto and Logicboy.

FrancisTony:
What does it mean? Explain how it's portrayed & viewed in your country; America.

By the way, are you still or back to Christianity?

harlos:
Thats good to hear

Its june already, so when are we expecting

anonymousey:
I have called the number and sent text messages. Been waiting to hear from y'all on whatsapp or something.

harlos:
Yeah. Thanks.
In middle of exams right now. I will be done in two weeks time.

How is family and ur young cutie?

RoseDearestLove:
Endeavour.

harlos:
It is longer my friend
*hugs and kisses*

How are you?

plaetton:
Spoiler alert! Spoiler alert !

plaetton:

Now you're talking.
Are you single ?

plaetton:

Ehhm,ehhm, Let me take a raincheck on that.

But I am a successful crayfish seller o.

anonymousey:
Humbled you think my poetry is any good. It's just me trying to boil down the feelings into words others can read. Will try to find the club and do hope to meet some great people and friends. Would you be nice enough to drop a link please? Thank you.

harlos:
Tex tex

theunusualmoon:
...............
So you believe satan exists but not GOD

Ishilove:
@Oraculus,

You're a good writer, BTW. I was captured by this line

"when the loneliness takes a humanoid form and glares at me over my shoulders"

It's so poetic and the imagery, startling... at least for me. Absolutely lovely.

anonymousey:
Hmm. I know what you're talking about. I feel you. I've been there.
I chose success in one area above success in the matters of the heart. I've had to rethink my strategy. I am trying to find a way to meet people and BE HUMAN. I've largely forgotten how to.
My poems have been my only companion day and night. www.thetravelerpoems.
I believe that someday soon I will find that someone that makes it all worth it.
I believe you can too. One way, I think, is to find a place where the kind of girl you'd like to be with gather and go often. Meet people in a relatively neutral environment and develop relationships and friendships. Eventually you'll probably find that one you don't want to live without.
I wish you success on this journey just as I wish myself the same. Remember to smile often and let yourself go. Let yourself live and be happy. There's no point living if you can't enjoy life and that has little to do with what you have as much as how you choose you enjoy what you do have. It could have been worse but you are here anyway but not for long. You'll be happy again. Cheers!

segxi1960:
Ah! And you dey chop pepper and jollof rice so, Lol...

There are quite a lot of restaurants in Nigeria. I have seen Facebook canteen, Yetty Mama, Embassy, Iya Oyo e.t.c

AlfaSeltzer:
there is nothing to understand. It's just another tales by the moonlight from the foreign god worshippers

Nonso23:
You are very inconsiderate.
We didn't ask to be made this virile. The least you can do is accomodate our excesses, that's all

Nonso23:
You must accept oo! no option for you
Afterall he is a virile man

agaugust:
Both are committing adultery, but society will easily turn a blind eye to the man and open eye to the woman for stigmatization.

You go try it when you are married, commit adultery and let your husband know you did it because it's just sex, go try am na
.

segxi1960:
Err... I'd rather cook.