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As Nairaland representative, I hereby register my presence.

You know, funny enough, I was still joking about this issue with some guys last night.

Spiritual Lovers are real.

I did not believe until I met a lady who shared her experience. She went for deliverance afterwards.

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A lot of people are awake tonight :[















Okocha needs to shut the hell up.

blizard44:
Have a doc on the dail if you must take on me....

I spit more fury than a dragon can.

Keep off.

Ouch! I'm so scared

I only asked you a question and if you can't answer, you can go and boil GALA.

PurestBoy:
Boss these guyz you mentioned weren't rich though they were my senior except Abere who was my mate. Abere was using a red golf den, I didn't meet Peller cos he left I guess 2003 when I was doing my Pre-degree, Sly used to have a guy Blessing(my friend) as PA then.

That was why I ended my comment with 'thank God for Yahoo Yahoo... '. Most of the Lautech 'rich boys' wouldn't have been counted as rich if not for Yahoo Plus...

Well, I don't know how rich those guys were, but I can still recall that there were this two guys, Adams and Ebube (I think) that do go to watch live EPL matches just for the fun of it back then.

Those were the rich kids we knew o

Are U sure this hot water burn, or Ebola ?

At gun point

Texykool is typing a message...

blizard44:
There is one thing about great men - whatever they do becomes the norm.

Buhari, up in that pic, testifies to GEJ's greatness.

Fedora wins it.

#happy-bday-president-GEJ

Mr. Fedora, why is the shoeless one dressed like this?

I was here

sunky2sweet:
U think Lautech boiz got anytin 2 think about, wu is d richest niccur in Lautech? Lamide will b d 1st name u think of, compare him wiv ds dude, ol Lautech boiz knw abt is partying wiv sum locals, d boiz wu made Lautech knwn ve ol graduated, d likes of Abere,kunle deficile,Tade,kudus,Toye,nature,Oriola,Popo, or do we talk of dt dude wu stays @ AK bellow, he used 6cars ryt dia in d estate wivout sellin any, ds dudes ol got lots of investment.....

Sorry, but those guys you mentioned up there were still learners in the days of Peller, Sly Baba, Police and co. I mean, Abere was still using a small red car when I left that school...

Thank God for Yahoo Yahoo and Yahoo Plus

Emperorking20:

Sorry Bros

I vote Naijaboiy
I vote Kulboy
I vote Tosyne2much



Dazz All.

See a disabled girl making a name for herself


While some stewpeed NLers were busy abusing a musician for giving an able-bodied beggar #100 on another thread

I no even know wetin I fit comment

Spider-Boys

Cwaya:
LOL !!


Oga Boss ,
Good day to you, i'm cwaya and i come in peace .
I just need your vote in Mr. Nairaland Contest.
Voting takes place in Romance Section.
Please Vote Cwaya Tomorrow from 10 am to 5pm.
Thanks !!

What's in it for me?

That GEJ prophecy tho'

Lie-Nus

Ahhhh Shoki!

I must beon FP

himkers:

The guy get Ebola for eye

Please how do I comment on Nairaland? I'm new here

Phema:
You are talking about an ideal situation. Ideally, no family should be apart at any point in time. But, this is far from being ideal. And trust me, no woman would want to stay away from her family, especially her children. For her to even think about it, it must have gotten very tough.

So, if you say she shouldn't take the job, then how do they feed? Remember the man has been out of job for months, so I'm guessing their savings must have gone down drastically.

Again, how do they pay rent with zero income? The man can afford to "squat" with friends temporarilly but it won't be feasible for his wife to tag along.

The kids can stay with Grandma temporarilly while the parents sort themselves out ASAP. The wife's job comes with free feeding and accommodation. So she can even afford to save and send some back home for the kids' upkeep. The hubby can also get some cash from her no matter how small to keep his head above waters.

It is really a tough decision, but must be made for the overall betterment of the whole family. . .eventually.

Just being realistic. . .

Thanks, Phema.

But the question is, is there no other job for OP and/or his wife that will pay the same amount? Is the house help thing the only solution. I understand the fact that the situation must have been very hard for the lady to suggest such. BUT IS THAT THE ONLY OPTION?
The fact that OP is asking for opinions means that he may be having second thoughts about it.

Let us exhaust all possible possibilities available.

What I've discovered is that there is no perfect family.

Exactly!

Many of the PDP and APShyte e-warriors don't even have voters card.

Hmm