Swtcherries:
Nobody holy pass, the pastor have stepped down, so why the noise?

Timi is acting like a saint whereas he got her pregnant two times before marriage, that woman must have had a crush on the pastor during her teenage age, I think its a consentual sex, if not why coming out now after all these years to tanish his image? That's after the pastor and the husband had a misunderstanding. Mad couple..

I am not in support of rape but we need to think logically.

ericsmith:




[s]
I guess FOOL is ya chorus miss rapper you must be proud not to consider i deserve a standing oviation. are you not fascinated
So now its a professional that fixed her , its no longer anybody or someone she found solace in ... see how unstable your reasoning as been within the last few hours just becos you let emotion hibernate ur brain.
Me wey get F9 horinzontally 4 junior waec you dey ask confidentiality.. i know you are confident i.e not afraid of rape, but how exactly did you know busola seek a professional, where you there ? e shele 4 ur eye, did she or her hubby even say a thing about healing. you just wana argue to win ..ok you won[/s]

ericsmith:




please don't undermine me, crawl bawo when i can walk, humans can only use 2% of there brain which is relatively low.
According to you "every true rape victim" my focus of discussion was busola who happens to be trending ... take vivid look into her life does her lifestyle ever portray someone that as gone through trauma be it on the long or short run.
According to you "no rape victim can heal on there own" av you seen anyone so far come to attest to helping her heal in the past, both are rape & healing av not been collaborated by anyone till now . its either she healed on her own or she is liein. #these is about busola n her story

Brightology2:
God bless you sir. I even have Timi's songs on my phone but since this event I barely play them, because whenever I see them, I just see husband of a raped wife.

ericsmith:
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Overtime i have come to realised logical reason & emotions are two parrallel lines, i can shut up but please GROW UP
Even if you listen to rape victim 365days in a year ,48hrs in a day you can never understand what you don't feel, keep fooling yourself ,
you need to so know not all rape victims are traumatized .

andrew444:


Am done with you bitter soul

andrew444:


A pained feminist spotted

You can insult me for all I care I have already stated my opinion

I guess you are a rape victim ,my dear God will see you through ,after all I am not the one that raped you

Should I also remind you that she was wedded in church by the same rapist ?

Anybody can come online and claim to be rich and call anybody low life ,I will never come online to brag about that

Today is your lucky day ,you would have gotten the insult of your life

Peace

Adakintroy2:


That's not the only way to heal. She was paid good money by bloggers for this publicity. No one question her motives?
She can get healing and more in court. Everyone is interested in truth not throwing her a pity party.

IamD18:
The disgrace is yet to even start.

This is what happens when you don't think before bringing your family and sensitive issues on social media for sympathy and judgement.

The earlier people understand that Nigerians on social media really don't give a fvck about you, the better for them. They'll only get entertained with your shiiit.

Reactions, trend, attentions, different judgment, sympathy and pity are what you'll end up getting. You won't get justice, but you'll be popularly be known as a rape victim or a false rape accuser.

Believe me, you'll hardly see a Nigerian husband who'll be foolish enough to allow the whole world know that his wife has been raped before, when he can easily report to the authority.

Common sense, Timi and his wife no get!

Social media isn't a court of law where judgement in cases like this are carried out, it's a world where strangers are always ready to catch trip with your shiits.

andrew444:


Sorry if a woman in my life have been raped previously before I met her it's a past tense and I am not bringing it to the public and I will tell her to forget about that ,everybody have their past .

I can't go and be fighting for something I know nothing about all in the name of I love my wife,it's a past tens as we will continue to live happily unless she chooses to be sad inside her mind

bentben:
So I will try to be as brief as possible, because story is very long.

Started having an affair with this close friend of my wife who now happens to be my colleague in the office now... I helped her got the job before we started having se. X. I have been her target, Infact that was why she came so close to my wife, I'm introverted, so that was the only way she could get close. [/b

[b]Yes she's not happy in her marriage, because her husband is promiscuous and don't give her attention . She used me to ease her pain. I consented to the affair because I kind of felt I was assisting her ease the pain in the marriage... I was totally wrong... I goofed, along the line we fell in love with each other... Deeply in love, even  we knew what we were doing was wrong.

Every fuc, king persons in my neighbourhood and office feels I'm straff1ng her, but we were never caught in the act.
The more I try to resist and stop this whole affair, the more the bond, considering we work in same office space.

She wants more attention than I give to my wife her supposedly friend .. She flares up most time when I pick my wife's call... Forgetting we are close family friends and can easily be caught.
She steal kisses whenever she visits, not minding my wife is in the kitchen.
We both have kids... That are friends.

NOW THE BIG ISSUE :

Because of the less attention she's getting from me, considering the fact that I want to play safe, she has decided to start straff1ng our boss who seems to be giving her the whole attention as it seems now.

Our boss his a nice handsome guy.

Myself and our boss are very close Pal, he knew I'm so close to her but choose to get is own pound of the flesh... Even though he claim he wasn't... But I was privileged to hack and  read their chat and got knowledge of their sexcapade...

She still wants an affair with me, she's fuc. k1ng  sleeping with two married people in an office.
I found this very hurtful, shameful, disgraceful and disgusting... Even though what I'm also doing is terrible...
I'm trying to heal and stop this whole affair... I took some days off work to clear my head already.

I'm deeply hurt by her actions, blocked her on all social media handles.

I need matured advice please on how to scale through all this without going back to my vomit looking that we work in same office space and I got to see her every other day.

This story is no fiction... Pls bash me, but don't forget to drop a word of advice for me and probably her.

I'm using a new moniker... I have been an active nairalander... I want to hide my shame.. kindly also ignore my typo... It was done on my phone.

Thank you.

MOD will appreciate if it can get to FP plsssssss.

gidgiddy:


Why are you calling it a sex video when they did not have sex in it? So it is now an indictment for a man to have a romantic time in his own bedroom with his own wife? Are you guys ok?

You people should be calling out whoever leaked this video for invading matrimonial privacy if you were civilised.

Nutase:
You should have tried using the Koran then you will know indeed if your fast was acceptable or if we are indeed serving the same God.
You can't mix oil and water and expect it to blend.
The same God cannot tell you to kill in one religion and also tell you to love in another religion.
Its either you are confused or the 'one god' is confused.

Kathmandu:
Mind how you talk haram to yourself

Kathmandu:
Aren't you doing Ramadan?

Kathmandu:
Thumbs up will mean supporting the violence rather appropriate punishment should be meted for taking laws into their hands but the Muslims need to learn how to respect the traditional worshippers

Henryyy:

Done! Hope you're having a great sunday.

Henryyy:

Babe i think you should edit the bolded out of ur comment.We are invisible on d internet and you'd never knw how sensitive people can be.I am in support of yorubas giving d ibos a dose of their own poison on this thread but this⬆⬆ is taking it too far. Please take it out and mention me after so I'll delete this quote.

IgboAmakaa:

bitterness will kill u ABAkukus

IgboAmakaa:



bitterness is what is killing u

IgboAmakaa:


IS it not exactly what ur people are doing now

Deicide:

which version of islam is this one