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NYSC / Re: Edo Peeps Please How Do I Get Here? by thegloor: 10:11am On May 06, 2019
czarina:
I'm not sure I'm still correct though, but let me try.

From Ring road, take a bus going to Ramat park, you may even get directly from Ring road to Agbor park. From either Ramat park or Agbor park, tell them to drop you at Ikhueniro bye pass.


P. S

Don't forget to ask for directions to the bus parks wherever you drop.

thanks alot
NYSC / Re: Edo Peeps Please How Do I Get Here? by thegloor: 10:10am On May 06, 2019
czarina:
Where in Delta are you by the way? You may not need to go a the way to Ring road if you're coming from places like Agbor.

I am coming in from Warri
NYSC / Edo Peeps Please How Do I Get Here? by thegloor: 8:41am On May 05, 2019
I do know my way to Ring road from Delta but that's all. How do I get to IKHUENIRO? Make una help abeg. Either from ring road or Delta directly.

Business / Re: Nigeria Leads In African Start-up Funding With $94.9m by thegloor: 8:32am On Apr 27, 2019
SillyMods:
You will hardly see the perpetually bitter and frustrated souls aka enemies of Nigeria, here.

Am sure you don't know anything about this startups
Business / Re: Nigeria Leads In African Start-up Funding With $94.9m by thegloor: 8:30am On Apr 27, 2019
post=77888878:
Slow and steady our darling country will rise again and fulfill its vast potentials.

#Positivity.

My friend go and sleep, you think your messiah has anything to do with this? He is instead suffocating us with taxes and no support and fundings for SMEs from within the country
Politics / Re: Fact Check: Who Started The Lagos - Ibadan Railway Project? by thegloor: 8:11pm On Feb 08, 2019
989900:


You don't quite get it.

just tell me to explain for you since you can't understand, like president like supporter
Politics / Re: Fact Check: Who Started The Lagos - Ibadan Railway Project? by thegloor: 11:17pm On Feb 06, 2019
989900:


Ode, so if Atiku becomes the president (God forbid), your folks would get employment into CBN and NNPC ahead of his folks?

Will your folks get employed into CBN if Buhari returns?
Politics / Re: Fact Check: Who Started The Lagos - Ibadan Railway Project? by thegloor: 11:14pm On Feb 06, 2019
porka:


How do you commence something from the blues? Is that how projects are done?

The major work in a project is not the ground breaking ceremonies. It takes a lot to get to the ceremonial photo-op (propaganda) stage.

Obasanjo's own contract with the Chinese was canceled by Yaradua. You people should learn to read and monitor Nigeria's development at all times.

Yaradua canceled all the major agreements Obasanjo negotiated then. Many of you even applauded him for that. It took a painstaking methodical efforts for the Jonathan's government to renegotiate the contracts.

Government is a continuum, past governments did their own parts and moved on.

If you people had not been trying to smear others with bogus claims about how your messiah is the best things to happen to Nigeria in 100 years, if he had just continued from where he met those projects and do his own bits, if you guys had not tried to demonize someone or people who put Nigeria on the road to prosperity in favour of someone is spreading poverty around and making you love it, no one would have tried to make any clarifications.

But as you can see, there's no single thing he or his government has been able to do which is not shrouded in controversy.

Tell them
Romance / Re: Health Benefits Of Eating Vaginal Discharge During Intercouse by thegloor: 9:51pm On Feb 01, 2019
Family / Re: Rivers Man And His Wife Who Gave Birth Name Their Twins Atiku And Wike (pic) by thegloor: 1:00pm On Jan 27, 2019
Fuckuignos:
This is the man PDP is presenting to us as their presidential candidate for Nigerians to vote for. If we Nigerians vote this man it means we Nigerians hate Nigeria and we should not complain for anything bad that happen to us as we cause it. Atiku is tested and trusted in looting

Lol

and Buhari is what?
Family / Re: Rivers Man And His Wife Who Gave Birth Name Their Twins Atiku And Wike (pic) by thegloor: 12:59pm On Jan 27, 2019
mtcheeeew
Programming / Here’re Top Five Languages For Mobile App Development by thegloor: 12:44pm On Jan 27, 2019
Selecting the best suitable programming language is the most critical decision that software engineers need to make in the early process. Less maintenance cost and time, app longevity, and the best possible user-experience are features that most of the startups require in their mobile app. There are hundreds of programming options available these days.

However, the following five languages happen to be some of the most recognized ones.

Swift

Simply put, it is a kind of primary programming language used in developing apps for Apple’s wide-range of products. In spite of other options, Swift is often considered hot favorite by developers. Launched in 2014 by Apple, the programming language currently manages to remain in the list of top ten. It is regarded as a simple programming language as it is streamlined and agile. Due to these features, it has managed to surpass the popularity of Objective–C. The language is set to thrive in 2019 and the next few years as well due to its ever-increasing usage in developing products for WatchOS, iPad, iPhone.

Swift is open source and operates on Linux. Some of the renowned apps built with Swift are The Weather Channel, CNN, Apple Store, Airbnb, WordPress, LinkedIn, Truecaller, Lyft, Twitter, VSCO Cam, etc. Swift’s speed is often compared with that of C++. Its syntax and language are considered simple.

Chris Lattner is the man behind this programming language that offers better readability and low maintenance cost as prominent features. He was assigned the task to develop the same by Apple. Developers probably prefer to upgrade applications from Objective–C to Swift to ensure that users who opt for Apple’s high-end products get the best possible experience.

Kotlin

Developed by software firm JetBrains and launched in 2011, Kotlin has earned its reputation as the primary programming language for developing Android mobile applications. The language’s versatility with the back-end, front-end development, interoperability, security features, lesser application crashes, readable compact code, and ability to run on JVM are considered as the factors behind its fame. Even after eight years from its launch, the language has managed to attract new developers and retain its position in the top ten.

Between 2017 and 2018, as much as 20 percent of the applications developed with Java migrated to Kotlin due to its features, and of course, due to Google’s extensive validation.

Popular brands like Pinterest, Evernote, Uber, Kickstarter, Basecamp 3, etc. use Kotlin in a variety of applications.

Objective–C


Before the launch of Swift, the primary programming language for iOS powered devices was Objective–C. Developers can use C, C++, dynamic typing, and dynamic run-time with Objective–C. Creating a mobile application using this language is considered easy by most of the developers.

Objective–C has been around since the 1980s and developers who grew around in a world of curly braces, semicolons, and dots feel more familiar with the same. It represents the good old C#, Java, JavaScript, days. Objective–C had played a crucial role in NeXTSTEP operating system during the 80s.

No doubt, Apple has succeeded in replacing Objective–C with Swift for OS X, and iOS powered devices. However, developers still enjoy using Objective–C and implement it wherever possible as it is reliable, well tested, and can connect with private APIs easily.


Objective–C and Swift are used along with HTML 5, C++, and Java for developing mobile games. It is also used in writing software for the desktop PCs. Overall, engineers who work on Apple products at smartphone app development company need to know both, Objective–C as well as Swift.

Python


Often referred to as a high-level, object-oriented programming language, Python has been around since 1991. It happens to be both, robust and straightforward. Due to the extraordinarily simple syntax, it is easy to learn.

Used for mobile app and web development, Python offers dynamic binding and dynamic typing option. The language is easy when it comes to translating code and reading. This helps in reducing the development cost and in keeping the maintenance cost lower.

As it is FLOSS (open source) software, it is included in UNIX, Linux distributions and is also pre-installed in some Windows-powered computers.

Instagram uses Python web framework-Django, IBM has Python SDK for Watson, and Netflix’s AI-powered search engine also uses Python. Even YouTube, Google search, and NYSE’s web transactions system includes Python. It is also preferred by engineers working on data science, server automation.

JavaScript


JavaScript remains to be the undisputed leader when it comes to the list for developers’ favorite language for app development. JavaScript helps in shaping dynamic and highly interactive web structures. It is used in Gmail, YouTube, Twitter, and Facebook apps.

It is considered as a beginner-friendly language as it is easy to grasp and flexible. Thus, experts recommend every professional programmer to try their luck with JavaScript at least once.

JavaScript is not just used for Android apps; many companies have used it in games, server apps, scientific applications, web apps, etc. The language also plays an essential role in the Android OS itself. JavaScript supports all APIs and has powerful EDEs in place.

College students prefer to learn JS because it is considered a general purpose language that is used in apps as well as web browsers.

Web developers around the world have been using CSS, HTML5, and JavaScript as their holy trinity for several years. Entire applications can be created with the combination of these three. Last but not least, developed by Netscape, JavaScript is not included in the popular Java platform.

Besides the above five, application development company may also use some of the other popular languages like HTML/CSS, Java, PHP, Ruby, C++, Pearl, Rust (Mozilla), and Buildfire.js.

The mobile app development has earned a lot of prominence during the last five years due to the increase in smartphone penetration. Small and large enterprises are slowly shifting to mobile applications as their primary channel to sell products and services.

These days, mobile app developers have their in-house teams that are well versed in developing apps with various programming languages.

Source: https://thegloor.com/programming-language-mobile-app-development/

Car Talk / Important Items To Remove From Your Junk Car Before Selling It by thegloor: 12:32pm On Jan 27, 2019
Take for example if you’re going to sell your car in the scrap market, then the first and foremost thing which you must do is to take out and perhaps sell off every valuable part and component that is still in good condition at a very reasonable price. Then you can sell the scrap car separately. this way you will be making much more money than you ever imagined you could make from selling a scrap car.

So what are those essential car parts that you think would be reasonable for you to sell before leveraging the profits and further selling the remaining part of the car to the junkyard? read further to find out.

GPS

A GPS is not only a functional component but also a very valuable one which you can take out and sell before you make the final sale of your vehicle. Fairly used GPS devices can be sold at an excellent price which means you can make a reasonable amount of cash from it. However if what you have is a portable GPS then it just might not be selling for as good a price as an inbuilt one would go for.

The exhaust system is your car

You have to see to it that the average cost of your car exhaust system will be sold between $500 to $1000 anywhere you decide to sell it. The role of a good exhaust system in a car can never be overemphasised because it helps to control engine noise and simultaneously it reduces the number of fumes that your car releases into the air.

Another reason you can sell it for good money is that the metal components which are used in creating your car exhaust system are precious. Thus if your vehicle has an exhaust system that is in good condition, you definitely must have to remove it and sell it before you finally sell the other parts of the car to the junkyard. Make sure that you sell your car exhaust system by yourself so that you can make a reasonable profit from it.

Fenders of your car

Selling the fenders of your old junk car is another valuable option that will give you really good money. Car fenders are responsible for the protection of the wells of the wheels as well as the undercarriage of your car.

Why it makes a lot of sense to sell the fenders of your car individually is that a lot of car owners are continually searching for old fenders to purchase. So if you are convinced that the fenders of your car are in perfect condition, then you should definitely go out and put them for sale individually. Second-hand car fenders are also cheaper to purchase than new ones. in fact, it is usually difficult to get new ones in some places, so for that reason, you can get a buyer as quickly as possible.

You can sell your car windows, doors, and other electrical equipment

There are many other interesting, and very valuable things that you can sell from your old car owners are always looking for items that are significantly helpful to them so if you have any of those they would not hold back at making a purchase. For this reason, if you take out some of your electrical equipment as well as your car doors and windows you would get a buyer before you know it.

The battery of your car



Another valuable asset that you can sell from your old car is the battery, and it definitely will give you a reasonable amount of money. Plenty people need a second-hand car battery for many different reasons so even when it is dead, you just might be able to make some money from it.

In conclusion, if you’re looking to sell your old car, then it is also an opportunity for you to make some extra cash from the components? Before you take your old car to the junkyard for sale make sure that you take out all of those components or you look for someone who you trust enough and who can give you the best advice on the valuable elements in your car that can give you real good cash when you sell them separately.

Source: https://thegloor.com/important-items-junk-car-selling/
Car Talk / Apple Sack 200 Employees Over Project Titan by thegloor: 1:19pm On Jan 25, 2019
Apple has dismissed not less than 200 employees from its stealthy autonomous vehicle group, Project Titan. Apple had in August 2017 enlisted the services of Doug Field, a Tesla engineering vice president to help with its project.

This week's dismissal can be seen as a move by Apple to restructure the project under new leadership. Those dismissed were not permanently laid off, rather they will be moved to other parts of the company.

An Apple spokesperson acknowledged the layoffs and said the company still sees opportunity in the space:

"We have an incredibly talented team working on autonomous systems and associated technologies at Apple. As the team focuses their work on several key areas for 2019, some groups are being moved to projects in other parts of the company, where they will support machine learning and other initiatives, across all of Apple," the spokesperson said.

"We continue to believe there is a huge opportunity with autonomous systems, that Apple has unique capabilities to contribute, and that this is the most ambitious machine learning project ever."

Source: https://thegloor.com/apple-sack-200-employees-over-project-titan/
Technology Market / How To Speed Up Chrome And Release RAM by thegloor: 2:51pm On Dec 19, 2018
If you are looking for ways to speed up your Chrome browser and at the same time free up RAM, try the tips below;

Table of Contents
1. Use Less Tabs
2. Use Tabs Extensions to Minimize Active Tabs
3. Speed Up Page Loading
4. Remove Malware and Clean Up Your Chrome
5. Disable Unused and Unwanted Plugins and Extensions
6. Clear Cache Memory

1. Use Less Tabs
The more tabs you open, the more resources Chrome uses. So one of the best ways to speed up the browser and your system is not to have many tabs open. But no matter how much we try to adhere to this rule, well we do open many tabs (I have over 25 tabs open right now).

2. Use Tabs Extensions to Minimize Active Tabs


One way to manage the tabs issue is to install an extension to help manage excess tabs. One of such extension is One Tab. One Tab converts all your excess tabs into a list. When your tabs are in the OneTab list, you will save up to 95% of memory because you will have reduced the number of tabs open in Google Chrome.

Another awesome extension is Session Buddy. Session Buddy also organises your tabs into lists that you can organise and rename. Session Buddy can also;

Recover open tabs after a crash or when your OS restarts your computer.
Manage open windows and tabs in one place.
Organize saved tabs by topic.
Search open and saved tabs to quickly find what you’re looking for.
Export tabs in a variety of formats suitable for emails, documents, and posts.
You can also use Notes extensions like Google Keep, One Note or Evernote Web Clipper to save the pages so you can read them later.

You Can also install The Great Suspender, a 218kb extension to sort things smoothly. The lightweight extension can reduce Chrome’s memory footprint. Perfect if you have a lot of tabs open at the same time. Tabs that have not been viewed after a configurable length of time will be automagically suspended in the background, freeing up the memory and CPU being consumed by that tab.

3. Speed Up Page Loading




One of the best ways to speed up Chrome is to speed up page loading time. By using a data saver extension, you can speed up the web pages. One of the extensions popularly used is Data Saver by Google which compresses and optimises the web pages you visit before sending them to you. If you want to do without images and scripts in a site, use Text Mode. Text Mode loads only the text on a web page, making it load faster.

source https://thegloor.com/how-to-speed-up-chrome-and-release-ram/
Technology Market / Indian Government Plans To Use Drones For Transporting Organs, Medical Supplies by thegloor: 6:23pm On Dec 03, 2018
India could soon see the use of a drone for transporting organs and any other emergency medical supplies between different hospital under the new policy for aircraft that are being piloted remotely, the official registration process for this began on Friday.

Speaking to reporters, the Minister of State for Civil Aviation Jayant Sinha said the government is examining the possibility of creating ‘drone ports‘ in hospitals to allow this kind of transportation.

“Following the registration which will begin December 1, the required licenses will be issued from a month later to give drones legal status on India. We are working on the necessary steps of our drone policy where we are looking at allowing flying of drones beyond the line of sight in some areas,” Sinha said. The Minister also said the central area of consideration is the creation of drone corridors between hospitals.

“Under the Drone Policy 2.0, drones ports in hospitals can allow the transportation of harvested organs to recipients or the next generation of policy that was announced recently,” Sinha added. “The draft civil aviation prerequisite for Drone Policy 2.0 will be issued for consultation on January 15 at a global aviation summit which India is hosting in Mumbai,” he added.

Sinha also added that significant changes are being regarded in the next phase of the drone policy such as letting a single pilot operate many drones for consignment delivery in some areas. The government in August made know to the public about policy and guidelines for drones that are designed to open up a window of opportunities in the Indian civil aviation sector.

While unveiling the Drone Regulations 1.0, Civil Aviation Minister Suresh Prabhu had said that these regulations would help to keep technology and innovation in the development of drones which have an extended range of applications ranging from aerial surveys, disaster relief and in agriculture to precision logistics. The Drone Regulations 1.0 have been formulated as an “all-digital process” with a ‘Digital Sky‘ platform to put in place a system that is entirely online.

“The First national unmanned traffic management platform will be the ‘Digital Sky’, and it will carry out the ‘no permission, no takeoff’ for remotely piloted aircraft,” Sinha said. Users will be asked to make a one-time registration of their drones, pilots and owners on the platform, which will allow for the online filing of a drone’s specific flight path and its use.

The regulations are intended to allow visual line-of-sight, daytime only and a maximum of 400 feet altitude operations. The regulations list different categories of drones, and all of these except the ‘Nano‘ type weighing less than 250 gram and those that are owned by the government and the intelligence community, are to be recorded and issued with a ‘Unique Identification Number’ (UIN).

And as per the regulations, “for flying in controlled airspace, the filing of a flight plan and obtaining Air Defense Clearance/Flight Information Centre number shall also be necessary.” These define the “no-drone zones” around airports, Vijay Chowk in Delhi, state Secretariat complexes in state capitals, strategic locations, near international borders, and even vital military installations, among others.

The FAQs that was released by the Ministry specify that the delivery of items using drones is ‘not allowed as of now.‘ however, government agencies can use drones to make deliveries. Minimum training requirements of drone pilots and the manufacturing standards have also been specified in the regulations.

Source: https://thegloor.com/indian-government-plans-to-use-drones-for-transporting-organs-medical-supplies/

Crime / Re: Gideon Prosper Facebook PAYPAL SCAMMER by thegloor: 9:19pm On Nov 15, 2018
Bloody scammer. 9ja tire me
Phones / Re: Xiaomi Officially Unveils The World's First 10GB Smartphone by thegloor: 7:12am On Oct 25, 2018
bashir1451:
My brother that phone may b a scam oooo

Oga no vex o but research well. Xiaomi is well known because they offer premium specs for mid range prices. Aside oneplus, xiaomi is a flagship killer, they give Samsung and Apple problems as their phones have almost same specifications and performance but their prices are much lower.

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Phones / Smart Phones With 3GB RAM Under N56,500 With Free Shipping To Get On Jumia by thegloor: 2:57pm On Oct 23, 2018
Below are some smartphones below N56,500 with free shipping you can get on Jumia. Free shipping can be removed from the products at any time though, and only devices with Android 7 and above are considered

Umidigi One

The device offers a massive LPDDRX 4GB RAM with 32GB storage space. If you want more storage space you will have to sacrifice the sim two slot for a memory expansion card. For a budget device, you get the Helio P23 Octaore Processor clocked at 2.0GHz and Power GT71 MP2 dual core GPU clocked at 700MHZ. Smooth.

Gionee S11 Lite


The Gionee S11 Lite is a 5.7 inch device nicely built to be attractive, offering the HD+ 18:9 aspect ratio full view and immersive wide angle viewing. While keeping the top and bottom bezels, the device manages to be slim. The Gionee S11 board houses a Qualcomm Snapdragon 430 Octacore Cortex-A53 processor clocked at 1,4GHz, and also Qualcomm Adreno 505 GPU. For multi-tasking and memory hungry apps, the 4GB RAM is up to the task while onboard storage memory is 32GB, expandable to 128GB using a memory card by sacrificing SIM 2 slot.

REDMI 5 Plus


Xiaomi’s Redmi 5 Plus (also called Redmi Note 5) is an excellent device for anyone who wants to get a nice feel of what a snapdragon device feels like for a low price. The device boasts Adreno 506 GPU and Snapdragon 625 octa-core processor clocked at 2.0 GHz which provides nice speed.

For multi-tasking, you get a 3GB RAM to keep things going smooth and also 32GB of storage space to hold your apps. The dual sim device has 4G connectivity, but you will have to sacrifice sim two slot if you need more memory.

Elephone P8 3D


Elephone has long been known to make elegant devices, and the P8 series is a testament. The P8 3D as its name suggests is capable of showing 3D display. The 4G device has a fast 4GB RAM for multi-tasking and memory hungry and powerful apps so your device shouldn’t lag. Also, there is the MediaTek MT6570 Octa-core processor running at a speed of 1.5GHz and supported by ARM Mali-T820 GPU.

The device also has 64Gb storage space for apps and files and in case it is not enough, you can expand the memory using a microSD card up to 128GB (uses sim two slot)

For the Full list, Prices, Full Review and direct link to the Phones, check source https://thegloor.com/best-smart-phones-under-n56500-with-free-shipping-to-get-on-jumia/

Phones / Re: What's The Best Android Music Player With The Best UI And Features by thegloor: 8:55am On Oct 17, 2018
Try ListenIt
Romance / Six Ways By Which You Can Successfully Get Out Of An Abusive Relationship by thegloor: 5:41pm On Oct 11, 2018


There are some basic steps you could take to help you get out of that abusive relationship, and they include:

1. Identify and recognise the kind of abuse you are currently under:

The first step is to identify the type of abuse you are under. As simple as it sounds, it can be very hard and exhausting actually to discover the kind of abuse you may be experiencing. There is a saying that goes “Vision blur when we are too close to a problem.”

At times, we may need to step back from the problem in order to identify the issue at hand. When the word “Abuse” is used, one of the first things that come to mind is the physical form of abuse.

There can also be sexual abuse even in a sexual relationship. Don’t be shocked. Once you don’t consent to an intimate touch or physical intimacy with your partner, but you are however being forced to engage in the act, then that is sexual abuse.


If the kind of sex that your partner forces you to engage in isn’t the kind of one you aren’t comfortable in or the type that you don’t want at all, but you are being forced into it, then you are also sexually molested and abused.

Another form of abuse you must identify is the financial abuse. This is by far one of the most difficult kinds of abuse to identify. Most times, it occurs when your partner often forces you to give up your financial control.


Stop making excuses for your abusive partner. It is time to recognise what it is and call it by its name- Abuse.

Once you are fully aware that you have been abused and you are able to identify the kind of abuse you have been experiencing, then you are free to move unto the next step.

2. Understand that it is not your fault:

Experiencing any form of abuse is not your fault. Abuse has never been the fault of the victim nor would it ever be. Once you can understand this, you are on your way to being free. Most people usually resist change until they know they are becoming very uncomfortable in their present conditions. Most times, all they need is a big push.

Sometimes, that big push that they need is in the form of the realisation and the understanding that what they are going through isn’t exactly their fault. One thing you must stop doing as the victim is giving excuses for the behaviour of your abusive partner. No matter how much you think low of your self, no matter how much your self-esteem has suffered, you really don’t deserve the kind of treatment that you are getting from your abusive partner.


3. You must document everything:

If you are in an abusive relationship or marriage and you probably have had kids, then it is essential you document every transaction, every pain, every hospital visit and so on in order to have adequate protection from authorities.

You will need all those documents as pieces of evidence to show how much you and your kids may have suffered under the abusive partner. Even if you don’t have kids, it is still essential you document everything as this will earn you a hearing from the appropriate authorities.

One of the tricks most abusers use is the fact that they almost always look gentle souls to the outside world; however, they are “monsters” in the home. Once you can make the world see them for exactly who they are on the inside, once you can dispel the illusion they give to the outside world then you would be able to protect yourself adequately.

Documentations of these events doesn’t have to be extraordinary. It can always be as simple as keeping a few journal entries that adequately describes the incident of the abuse as well as the date(s) when the abuse, keeping receipts of drugs bought to treat yourself and maybe the kids and so on. Of you can, you can decide to even go further by creating videos and audios that were recorded discreetly while the abuse was going on.



If you have bruises and cuts, and other bodily harms, you can always ask for pictures of the area to be taken before you seek for medical attention. You can as well use the medical records as a form of evidence later on.

Ensure that you keep these pieces of evidence in a safe place and if possible, never let the abuser know that you have something against them. Keep the records in a safe, and when you realise that there is a threat on your life and possibly that of the kids, you can always report to the police and other authorities in order to ensure your safety and that of your kids.

If you ever have to go to the court of law, with all your records and pieces of evidence, you would surely have enough that will enable you to have the custody of your kids and also have a restraining order against the abuser or possible put the abuser behind bars.

4. Always have an emergency bag:

If you realise that you are in an abusive relationship, you need to ensure that you are ready to leave at any time. You can always ensure this by an emergency bag that will contain all that you need to survive for a few weeks or maybe months.

It doesn’t have to contain much but make sure that it includes the necessities such as toiletries, a few changes of clothes, enough money, any medications that you or your kids may be on, copies of keys that you may need as well as those records that you have kept securely.

You may also need to keep a valid identity card for identification, your birth certificate, and any other relevant document that you feel you must take along with you. Ensure that you hide this bag in a place that you quickly grab it while running away.

If you have kids, ensure that you pack the same thing for your kids and take them along with you. Remember, you are doing this because an abuser can be unpredictable and the abusive situation can quickly spiral into a life-threatening condition.

Having this emergency bag will ensure that you don’t need to start looking for the things you need to take along most especially when the situation has become a life-threatening one.

5. Always set aside Money:

This particular point is critical most especially when you are in a financially abusive relationship and if you don’t have a lot of work experiences. All abusive relationships mostly come to an end, but it may be disastrous for you and your kids if there is no money for you all to fall back on. You honestly want to be left alone having nothing in you in the middle of the night after you have decided to go the relationship.

If you under a tight leash financially by a partner who abuses you and your finances, then you probably may need to save something small every week. Ensure that all your saving, either huge or small is kept in your emergency bag.



If you possibly have very little job experiences or you haven’t worked a day in your life, it will be wise for you to start learning a few legal job skills which you will need when you finally decided to leave the relationship.

6. Find a way to contact both your family and friends:

Ensure that you find ways by which to alert your families as well as your friends know what you are passing through. If you are in an abusive relationship, then you need people to support, encourage and strengthen you and no one does it better than your parents, family as well as friends.

Each and every time you were abused by your partner, the most appropriate people to let know are your family and friends. They are the ones who will always support you in almost everything.

However, one of the most dangerous tactics used by an abuser is to cut off communications between the victim and the victim’s family in order to make sure that what they say is key in the life of an abused victim.

Ensure you don’t let this happen to you. Make sure you keep communication with friends and family even if you must do so secretly. You will always need their support and help at one point or the other.

Source

Full article on https://healthable.org/six-ways-by-which-you-can-successfully-get-out-of-an-abusive-relationship/

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Culture / Re: Oyaaa! Waffi Men, Benin Men, Port Harcourt Niggies, Yenagoa Men. Pidgin Contest by thegloor: 4:13pm On Oct 01, 2018
Ishilove:

Oh okay. It reads like furo adiye

dah na your own.... anyhow e tey gel gi you sha....
Culture / Re: Oyaaa! Waffi Men, Benin Men, Port Harcourt Niggies, Yenagoa Men. Pidgin Contest by thegloor: 4:11pm On Oct 01, 2018
Ekpekus:
Mehn don turnbow the parole of this marra.. na pidgin langua contest but okpukpuru kpians don change am to argument...
Anyhow Shaw who nor go nor know... Make I perch dey observe from this uptown

The APC d levols jus now
Culture / Re: Oyaaa! Waffi Men, Benin Men, Port Harcourt Niggies, Yenagoa Men. Pidgin Contest by thegloor: 4:06pm On Oct 01, 2018
Ishilove:

Ofurukpe nigga...what does this mean?

ofurukpe... person wey dey off light

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Culture / Re: Oyaaa! Waffi Men, Benin Men, Port Harcourt Niggies, Yenagoa Men. Pidgin Contest by thegloor: 4:04pm On Oct 01, 2018
kikilove:
na d same thing I talk oh. We (warri) nie be pidgin English I nor understand this kolobi pattern when d wan use. But make we dey watch them with gbejero eye

dem call oghwekoko for iroko trees (warri), pawpaw (benin, bayelsa and ph) cari join say them fit represent. lion no get time to follow dog drag bone, dodo sef geh liva pas the levos wey many of una dey yarn say na pidgin. las las na slangs and Jesus favorite figure of speech we go use pass info. Wo nyori nor?

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Forum Games / Re: Nairaland First Crossword Quiz - Winner Takes All by thegloor: 9:08pm On Aug 30, 2018
tired already

2 more to go

Thanks to Feraz and Helenbee for answers to 4, 7 and 11

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Romance / Re: See What A Man's Wife Did After Their House Rent Expired (pics) by thegloor: 8:13am On Jun 21, 2018
Marriages are like airplanes. We only her about the ones that crashed

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