₦airaland Forum

Let him come out and defend himself in the Court. What is the rule of law again?

This type of meeting held when they want to remove GEJ. President Tinubu need to work smart and out smart them.

Where they will lock him/her now? Man or woman cell?

CHoccolaTE:
What type of lie is this?
It's like you are just looking for a way to blame wives for husbands bad behaviour.
Men with cheating wives don't keep them back and beat them. They send the women away, men are not like women that forgive all sorts of atrocities by their spouse. Men dump cheating wives and move on because society doesn't stigmatize divorced men.

. Thank you. I send her away but she refused to go and she said I should beat her. In that situation, what do you think I should do? Going for divorce legally may cost me my property because the court may give her some of my property.

maasoap:
One of my drivers just finished complaining to me now, like always. There is no difference between your case and that of him, he had been married for 20 years.
He said that the only reason he has not taken another wife or not having side chick is because he's struggling financially. My guy is miserable at the moment because they're still at it at the moment for about two days now and he couldn't do shiit about it. The wife doesn't feel shiit, so she doesn't care if my guy eat her food or not, able to sleep through the night or not. And the sex life is almost non existent. Whether they're in good mood or bad mood, the wife is always saying no!

. I'm passing through the same thing. It's more than 3 months now.

Yamleg:
What do you do anytime your wife gets you pissed?
I just need people's take on this.
My wife doesn't often feel comfortable once she realises that she pissed me off.

Not eating her food means nothing to her.
Not engaging her in bed means nothing to her as well.
We can stay together without talking for more than 2 weeks

I'm just tired of the life I have subjected myself to through her. I'm fed up for real... It's been this way since ages.

What more can I do?

. I want to know too

Divorce is not easy and the loyal and committed one suffer most. Just move on and forget the cheating wife. I'm passing through the same thing now. No reasonable man will forgive a cheating wife. Move on and take care of yourself and kids. I understand you on issues of finance. You will take care of your new wife and children but try to do your best for your kids.

woginid967:
Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

. This is most common reason for divorce and women will never tell you that she cheated on her husband.

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Modified to add; Why are these logical gender people quoting me with their nonsense and stupidity na? You people think you have the monopoly of divorce in Nigerian marriages, abi?

I thought you also said marriage is a scam that doesn't benefit men. Why do you get so triggered when women are bold and courageous enough, to end horrible marriages with your gender? Shouldn't you be celebrating that one of your own has been liberated from the scam?

Wailing wailers, una never see something. If you like don't change your shitty behaviours and lifestyles in marriage, your own divorce may just be waiting for you down the road or when you reach UK, US, or Canada.

. If you see any man beat his wife, try to find out the reason, most of time the woman is cheating on the man and the man is acting out of anger. I'm not encourage violence but if you know you can't do without cheating, don't married

I love the man because of his work. He is among the best minister if not the first.

Self center will kill the merger . Politicians are always thinking about themselves. The best thing is to choose president candidate and all key position during merger talk and southern must be a candidate with condition that he will spend only 4years in office and return power to the north. It will be very tough because Tinubu will likely spend 8 years in power. God should choose a good leader for us.

During the coalition, chose your candidate for president, v. P, senate president and all other key position not after the coalition because to chose the key position can still scatter the party.

Codes151:
What happened to police budget? Army have their own budget. What do they do with it?


Money that should be used to empower people. SMH.

. Do you know that state Governor use to collect security vote every month? Billion of naira. What is it for?

Tunji ojo is best minister for now. Please, let him continue doing his work.

Southern part of the country is more pupulated

Asenal 2 : west Ham 1

He is right. A woman can never cheat on her husband if she still love him. A man can chest and still love his wife but the moment a woman cheat, she doesn't love the husband again.

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My friend planted tomato seed and this fruit grow on the farm

1TrippleCee:
Have you tried splitting it ?

It looks like a pod bearing fruit

. No

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TANID:
More Picture Please

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TANID:
More Picture Please

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Please who knows the name of this fruit? My friend planted tomato seed and this grown in the farm.

Tribalism has finished us in Nigeria. Igbo, Yoruba are southern and we have many things in common why abuse each other?

I use God beg you , never marry her. You will regret it if you marry her. I'm talking from experience.

I love his respond. He never expose his secret

I want it.

Choosing to settle for ''A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH A MARRIED MAN OR WOMAN'' for whichever reason is like buying a second hand car thinking it is a longer process and an expensive venture buying a new car.

But the truth be told:

- Second hand cars end up more expensive to maintain than new ones.

- You never know why the owner is disposing it at a throw away price.

- Many second hand cars rarely announce it before STOPPING SUDDELY along the highway!

- Some second hand cars probably killed the former owners.

- Since you have no service history of a second hand car, your life may end up more complicated by buying one.

LADIES & GENTLEMEN:

● NO EXTRA -MARITAL AFFAIR IS TRUSTWORTHY. WHETHER IT IS FOR SPONSORSHIP OR WHATEVER, SOMEDAY IT WILL LEAVE YOU STUCK IN THE MIDDLE OF LIFE'S ROAD WITH BRUISES AND SHAME YOU WON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH.

● INVESTING IN AN AFFAIR IS NOT FAR FROM '' PLANTING RICE IN THE DESERT''. RESULTS ARE PREDICTABLE. KEEP SAFE AND SAVE FOR A NEW CAR-YOUR OWN!
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Who will preside over the meeting? Senates president or house of representatives speaker ?

What concern Yoruba? The two candidates are Fulani.