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Divorce is not easy and the loyal and committed one suffer most. Just move on and forget the cheating wife. I'm passing through the same thing now. No reasonable man will forgive a cheating wife. Move on and take care of yourself and kids. I understand you on issues of finance. You will take care of your new wife and children but try to do your best for your kids.

woginid967:
Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

. This is most common reason for divorce and women will never tell you that she cheated on her husband.

Klass99:
I've never been married but the divorce stories below are the ones that resonate with me till date;

1. Anita divorced because her husband turned her into a punching bag and she was constantly lying to co-workers about her bruises. She didn't leave until her 4 or 5 year old son said to her one day, I will slap you ooo, I will slap you and beat you the way daddy used to beat you, when she tried to correct him for some misbehaviour.

2. Katherine left because her husband was becoming pushy and demanding about anal sex and she doesn't roll that way. I am glad she walked because the health issues associated with anal sex are not nice and he most likely would have dumped her down the road, if or when she developed such issues, because she was trying to please him.

3. Juliet left because her husband was a serial and unrepentant cheat. He started bringing women home whenever she was away on an official trip. Their two girls were seeing this, the older one asked Juliet, why do you allow or put up with what daddy does? It's like you are accepting his behaviour and saying to us that it's okay.

Let me just add this one, the day I have to treat myself for an STD and I know I didn't cheat, that marriage must end and it may not end well for that man either

Modified to add; Why are these logical gender people quoting me with their nonsense and stupidity na? You people think you have the monopoly of divorce in Nigerian marriages, abi?

I thought you also said marriage is a scam that doesn't benefit men. Why do you get so triggered when women are bold and courageous enough, to end horrible marriages with your gender? Shouldn't you be celebrating that one of your own has been liberated from the scam?

Wailing wailers, una never see something. If you like don't change your shitty behaviours and lifestyles in marriage, your own divorce may just be waiting for you down the road or when you reach UK, US, or Canada.

. If you see any man beat his wife, try to find out the reason, most of time the woman is cheating on the man and the man is acting out of anger. I'm not encourage violence but if you know you can't do without cheating, don't married

I love the man because of his work. He is among the best minister if not the first.

Self center will kill the merger . Politicians are always thinking about themselves. The best thing is to choose president candidate and all key position during merger talk and southern must be a candidate with condition that he will spend only 4years in office and return power to the north. It will be very tough because Tinubu will likely spend 8 years in power. God should choose a good leader for us.

During the coalition, chose your candidate for president, v. P, senate president and all other key position not after the coalition because to chose the key position can still scatter the party.

Codes151:
What happened to police budget? Army have their own budget. What do they do with it?


Money that should be used to empower people. SMH.

. Do you know that state Governor use to collect security vote every month? Billion of naira. What is it for?

Tunji ojo is best minister for now. Please, let him continue doing his work.

Southern part of the country is more pupulated

Asenal 2 : west Ham 1

He is right. A woman can never cheat on her husband if she still love him. A man can chest and still love his wife but the moment a woman cheat, she doesn't love the husband again.

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My friend planted tomato seed and this fruit grow on the farm

1TrippleCee:
Have you tried splitting it ?

It looks like a pod bearing fruit

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TANID:
More Picture Please

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TANID:
More Picture Please

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Please who knows the name of this fruit? My friend planted tomato seed and this grown in the farm.

Tribalism has finished us in Nigeria. Igbo, Yoruba are southern and we have many things in common why abuse each other?

I use God beg you , never marry her. You will regret it if you marry her. I'm talking from experience.

I love his respond. He never expose his secret

I want it.

Choosing to settle for ''A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH A MARRIED MAN OR WOMAN'' for whichever reason is like buying a second hand car thinking it is a longer process and an expensive venture buying a new car.

But the truth be told:

- Second hand cars end up more expensive to maintain than new ones.

- You never know why the owner is disposing it at a throw away price.

- Many second hand cars rarely announce it before STOPPING SUDDELY along the highway!

- Some second hand cars probably killed the former owners.

- Since you have no service history of a second hand car, your life may end up more complicated by buying one.

LADIES & GENTLEMEN:

● NO EXTRA -MARITAL AFFAIR IS TRUSTWORTHY. WHETHER IT IS FOR SPONSORSHIP OR WHATEVER, SOMEDAY IT WILL LEAVE YOU STUCK IN THE MIDDLE OF LIFE'S ROAD WITH BRUISES AND SHAME YOU WON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH.

● INVESTING IN AN AFFAIR IS NOT FAR FROM '' PLANTING RICE IN THE DESERT''. RESULTS ARE PREDICTABLE. KEEP SAFE AND SAVE FOR A NEW CAR-YOUR OWN!
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Who will preside over the meeting? Senates president or house of representatives speaker ?

What concern Yoruba? The two candidates are Fulani.

sotall:


The worse part is that the odds for Nigeria to win is very small and yet they already one goal down

. Honestly, they cult my ticket with laso and now again. Supper eagle is like blue now

Z 1. Nigeria 0

JASONjnr:
You chose to see it as grace..... I chose to call it luck.

How is that disturbing your peace?

Don't mind him

verb
lucked; luck​ing; lucks
Definition (Entry 2 of 2)
intransitive ​verb
1: to prosper or succeed especially through chance or good fortune —usually used with out
//the hero lucks out and is able to escape
2: to come upon something desirable by chance —usually used with out, on, onto, or into
//lucked into a wonderful opportunity

Morenikeji090:
Nothing like luck.. respect that correction.

verb
lucked; luck​ing; lucks
Definition (Entry 2 of 2)
intransitive ​verb
1: to prosper or succeed especially through chance or good fortune —usually used with out
//the hero lucks out and is able to escape
2: to come upon something desirable by chance —usually used with out, on, onto, or into
//lucked into a wonderful opportunity

How

AntiChristian:
Many people here are hypocrites!

See the terrorist sympathisers calling others what they are!

See them above and below!

Christians support Israel because their book support what Isreal is doing!

Numbers 31:17-18
So now, kill all the boys, as well as every woman who has had relations with a man, but spare for yourselves every girl who has never had relations with a man.

All boys/men are killed.

All women who had previously had sex were killed. (I still wonder what instrument was used to do this- Sexometer or Vaginometer)

Only virgins were spared!

Numbers 31:35
and 32,000 women who had not slept with a man.

How was this known? Will they have to open them up and use a speculum as in HVS test or what?

Yahweh gets a share of 32 Virgins!
Numbers 31:40
and 16,000 people, including a tribute to the LORD of 32.

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1) Capital Punishment Crimes:

Kill People Who Don’t Listen to Priests
Anyone arrogant enough to reject the verdict of the judge or of the priest who represents the LORD your God must be put to death. Such evil must be purged from Israel. (Deuteronomy 17:12 NLT)

Kill Witches
You should not let a sorceress live. (Exodus 22:17 NAB)

Kill Homosexuals
“If a man lies with a male as with a women, both of them shall be put to death for their abominable deed; they have forfeited their lives.” (Leviticus 20:13 NAB)

Kill Fortunetellers
A man or a woman who acts as a medium or fortuneteller shall be put to death by stoning; they have no one but themselves to blame for their death. (Leviticus 20:27 NAB)

Death for Hitting Dad
Whoever strikes his father or mother shall be put to death. (Exodus 21:15 NAB)

Death for Cursing Parents
1) If one curses his father or mother, his lamp will go out at the coming of darkness. (Proverbs 20:20 NAB)

2) All who curse their father or mother must be put to death. They are guilty of a capital offense. (Leviticus 20:9 NLT)

Death for Adultery
If a man commits adultery with another man’s wife, both the man and the woman must be put to death. (Leviticus 20:10 NLT)

Death for Fornication
A priest’s daughter who loses her honor by committing fornication and thereby dishonors her father also, shall be burned to death. (Leviticus 21:9 NAB)

Death to Followers of Other Religions
Whoever sacrifices to any god, except the Lord alone, shall be doomed. (Exodus 22:19 NAB)

Kill Nonbelievers
They entered into a covenant to seek the Lord, the God of their fathers, with all their heart and soul; and everyone who would not seek the Lord, the God of Israel, was to be put to death, whether small or great, whether man or woman. (2 Chronicles 15:12-13 NAB)

Kill False Prophets
If a man still prophesies, his parents, father and mother, shall say to him, “You shall not live, because you have spoken a lie in the name of the Lord.” When he prophesies, his parents, father and mother, shall thrust him through. (Zechariah 13:3 NAB)

Kill the Entire Town if One Person Worships Another God
Suppose you hear in one of the towns the LORD your God is giving you that some worthless rabble among you have led their fellow citizens astray by encouraging them to worship foreign gods. In such cases, you must examine the facts carefully. If you find it is true and can prove that such a detestable act has occurred among you, you must attack that town and completely destroy all its inhabitants, as well as all the livestock. Then you must pile all the plunder in the middle of the street and burn it. Put the entire town to the torch as a burnt offering to the LORD your God. That town must remain a ruin forever; it may never be rebuilt. Keep none of the plunder that has been set apart for destruction. Then the LORD will turn from his fierce anger and be merciful to you. He will have compassion on you and make you a great nation, just as he solemnly promised your ancestors. “The LORD your God will be merciful only if you obey him and keep all the commands I am giving you today, doing what is pleasing to him.” (Deuteronomy 13:13-19 NLT)

Kill Women Who Are Not Virgins On Their Wedding Night
But if this charge is true (that she wasn’t a virgin on her wedding night), and evidence of the girls virginity is not found, they shall bring the girl to the entrance of her fathers house and there her townsman shall stone her to death, because she committed a crime against Israel by her unchasteness in her father’s house. Thus shall you purge the evil from your midst. (Deuteronomy 22:20-21 NAB)

Kill Followers of Other Religions.
1) If your own full brother, or your son or daughter, or your beloved wife, or you intimate friend, entices you secretly to serve other gods, whom you and your fathers have not known, gods of any other nations, near at hand or far away, from one end of the earth to the other: do not yield to him or listen to him, nor look with pity upon him, to spare or shield him, but kill him. Your hand shall be the first raised to slay him; the rest of the people shall join in with you. You shall stone him to death, because he sought to lead you astray from the Lord, your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, that place of slavery. And all Israel, hearing of this, shall fear and never do such evil as this in your midst. (Deuteronomy 13:7-12 NAB)

2) Suppose a man or woman among you, in one of your towns that the LORD your God is giving you, has done evil in the sight of the LORD your God and has violated the covenant by serving other gods or by worshiping the sun, the moon, or any of the forces of heaven, which I have strictly forbidden. When you hear about it, investigate the matter thoroughly. If it is true that this detestable thing has been done in Israel, then that man or woman must be taken to the gates of the town and stoned to death. (Deuteronomy 17:2-5 NLT)

Death for Blasphemy
One day a man who had an Israelite mother and an Egyptian father got into a fight with one of the Israelite men. During the fight, this son of an Israelite woman blasphemed the LORD’s name. So the man was brought to Moses for judgment. His mother’s name was Shelomith. She was the daughter of Dibri of the tribe of Dan. They put the man in custody until the LORD’s will in the matter should become clear. Then the LORD said to Moses, “Take the blasphemer outside the camp, and tell all those who heard him to lay their hands on his head. Then let the entire community stone him to death. Say to the people of Israel: Those who blaspheme God will suffer the consequences of their guilt and be punished. Anyone who blasphemes the LORD’s name must be stoned to death by the whole community of Israel. Any Israelite or foreigner among you who blasphemes the LORD’s name will surely die. (Leviticus 24:10-16 NLT)

Kill False Prophets
1) Suppose there are prophets among you, or those who have dreams about the future, and they promise you signs or miracles, and the predicted signs or miracles take place. If the prophets then say, ‘Come, let us worship the gods of foreign nations,’ do not listen to them. The LORD your God is testing you to see if you love him with all your heart and soul. Serve only the LORD your God and fear him alone. Obey his commands, listen to his voice, and cling to him. The false prophets or dreamers who try to lead you astray must be put to death, for they encourage rebellion against the LORD your God, who brought you out of slavery in the land of Egypt. Since they try to keep you from following the LORD your God, you must execute them to remove the evil from among you. (Deuteronomy 13:1-5 NLT)

2) But any prophet who claims to give a message from another god or who falsely claims to speak for me must die.’ You may wonder, ‘How will we know whether the prophecy is from the LORD or not?’ If the prophet predicts something in the LORD’s name and it does not happen, the LORD did not give the message. That prophet has spoken on his own and need not be feared. (Deuteronomy 18:20-22 NLT)

Infidels and Gays Should Die
So God let them go ahead and do whatever shameful things their hearts desired. As a result, they did vile and degrading things with each other’s bodies. Instead of believing what they knew was the truth about God, they deliberately chose to believe lies. So they worshiped the things God made but not the Creator himself, who is to be praised forever. Amen. That is why God abandoned them to their shameful desires. Even the women turned against the natural way to have sex and instead indulged in sex with each other. And the men, instead of having normal sexual relationships with women, burned with lust for each other. Men did shameful things with other men and, as a result, suffered within themselves the penalty they so richly deserved. When they refused to acknowledge God, he abandoned them to their evil minds and let them do things that should never be done. Their lives became full of every kind of wickedness, sin, greed, hate, envy, murder, fighting, deception, malicious behavior, and gossip. They are backstabbers, haters of God, insolent, proud, and boastful. They are forever inventing new ways of sinning and are disobedient to their parents. They refuse to understand, break their promises, and are heartless and unforgiving. They are fully aware of God’s death penalty for those who do these things, yet they go right ahead and do them anyway. And, worse yet, they encourage others to do them, too. (Romans 1:24-32 NLT)

Kill Anyone who Approaches the Tabernacle
For the LORD had said to Moses, ‘Exempt the tribe of Levi from the census; do not include them when you count the rest of the Israelites. You must put the Levites in charge of the Tabernacle of the Covenant, along with its furnishings and equipment. They must carry the Tabernacle and its equipment as you travel, and they must care for it and camp around it. Whenever the Tabernacle is moved, the Levites will take it down and set it up again. Anyone else who goes too near the Tabernacle will be executed.’ (Numbers 1:48-51 NLT)

Kill People for Working on the Sabbath
The LORD then gave these further instructions to Moses: ‘Tell the people of Israel to keep my Sabbath day, for the Sabbath is a sign of the covenant between me and you forever. It helps you to remember that I am the LORD, who makes you holy. Yes, keep the Sabbath day, for it is holy. Anyone who desecrates it must die; anyone who works on that day will be cut off from the community. Work six days only, but the seventh day must be a day of total rest. I repeat: Because the LORD considers it a holy day, anyone who works on the Sabbath must be put to death.’ (Exodus 31:12-15 NLT)

What do you think about all these?

. Jesus Christ has used his blood to redeem us and no need to kill . Accept Jesus Christ and have peace