Seriously some guys are very foolish. I just don't understand how a man can be that weak? I would have long given that girl a very good beating before chasing her away.

**** I'll suggest you give her the silent treatment.

SUPERPACK:
you are just too wicked and irresponsible for her.

please don't insult me.

thesicilian:
Post your obituary on Punch, Vanguard, Guardian and all social media outlets. Then elope to Las Vegas with your main chick.

guy say something reasonable. I'm being serious here.

I've been dating my main chic for over 5years now and I feel this is the best time to propose to her but I'm having a little problem. The problem is that I have 5 other girls in my life too. I even have a child with one of them. My main chic is the type of girl every man dreams of. She's faithful, industrious, accommodating, well mannered, loyal, homely and a very good cook.

My main chic is very aware of the fact that I had a child before we met and she doesn't have a problem with it. But she's unaware of my other 4 side chics. I've been to tell one of them that I'm about getting married and she was so emotional but she later agreed and wished me luck. Now I'm thinking of how to tell the remaining 3 the same thing I told the first.

Please help a brother out my fellow nairalanders.

VikingsOO7:

You're the one clamouring for her to return all what she has eaten(money). And You're admitting money is not everything.

same way you're saying sex is overrated.

VikingsOO7:

Sex is overrated. There is more to life than just sex.

same way money is not everything.

VikingsOO7:
Sex is overrated. Tell him You've made up Your mind- No sex till marriage. If he's still pushing it, kindly end the relationship and stop collecting his money.

and she should equally return all the ones she has eaten. Seriously it's cos of people like you that's why girls continue to take us for a ride.

Oluwalosheleyi:
STAND BY YOUR DECISION GIRL.even if this post is a super story cooked up by you,another girl can still gain from it.but lets just imagine its real,you cant get so attached to a guy,no one is irreplaceable,try to convince him to share your beliefs and if he doesn't change move on,maybe you were not meant to be,what if you marry him and he dies shortly afterwards? shiat happens sis,get ready to let go. I have a similar problem; most girls want to roll in the hay nowadays before marraige or they dont take you serious and I swore an oath to God to refrain from sex years ago and its been so tough but i've discovered i am stronger than i thought.

then she must be willing to refund the guy every penny he has spent on her.

oluwalewis:
GIVE AND IT SHALL BE GIVEN UNTO U.
this issue of sex wouldn't b a debate if u have sth tangible to offer him.
The guy has obviously realised u av nth to offer him except sex,if nt he wouldn't pester u.

except sex, what else do most these biitches have to offer?

herald9:

Erm.. But really, in what ways do ladies contribute to a relationship?

help me ask that confused fellow.

Mustack:

Guy don't decide like that.. I have this girl that i love and i want her as my future inhabitant after i gave my sweet dick but what happen she left me broken into pieces. So girl if he cant wait let loose and run.

then she must be willing to vomit all the money she has eaten. You don't expect to dine with the devil and not pay your dues.

Dshocker:


I went to my oxford & longman dictionary,and both of em are saying the same thing....Wickedness & greediness


Babe you wicked & greedy

God bless you baba. You can't expect to dine with the devil and not pay your dues.

Oliviaarims:
If truly you've resolutely decided to abstain, the need to create this thread wouldn't have arisen. Your resolve isn't strong enough, you're having second thoughts and that's where you've begun to lose the battle.

Abstinence is good. Don't allow anyone tell you that because you're no longer a virgin, you must continue indulging in premarital sex.

then she should be willing to vomit all the money she has eaten from the guy. That way it would be even n

JustHere2Observ:
If you are not ready to have sex with him, then dont. He should respect your decision not to have sex until marriage whether you are a virgin or not, so my advice if you dont want to dont do it.

then she should be ready to return everything the guy has spent on her. Both gifts and money.

CrazyQuinn:
I really don't understand why girls will allow a guy to take care of your needs financially and emotionally

greed and refusal to work to get what they want.

KingCheezyPuff:
That's really disgusting advice
Is that what you would do 2 a woman who denyed you?

deny my foot? When she was collecting stuffs she didn't deem it fit to deny the guy? Seriously you girls are very greedy. Now I'm beginning to see reasons with those who rape people like that.

realkingqueen:
hmmm..I'm speechless to say the the least..I just registered on this site today and I stumbled on this thread..my two years in Nigeria have been something else but this is the height of it...so y'all supporting the rapist and his friend mean to tell me that there is something in this world that justifies the deadly and monstrous act called rape..so receiving a gift from a guy automatically means you're gonna pay him back with sex..wow!..I can't believe this is the way Nigerian guys reason,this is totally shocking and to make matters worse some girls indirectly or directly supported this act!..e.g crazyquinn and co,you girls should not forget karma is a dam cos you can't come here and lie y'all have never received a gift from a guy...and for the guys spending on a girl should NOT be cos you wanna have sex with her,like can't you spend on a girl cos you just like her? I have met guys who got really expensive gifts for me just cos they admire me and a girl can actually have sex with you even without you spending a dime on her!..y'all really need to grow the f**k up and stop this stupidity,stop supporting evil,sex is supposed to be consensual for crying out loud!! to the rapist since when you spend on a girl you expect sex and the said girl refuse to have sex with you why not stop spending and break up with her and the evil friend who couldn't stop his friend from raping a girl,you are the worst human being I have ever heard of,you guys are really lucky this happened in a country where corruption and injustice is the order or the day,if you tried this in other countries you should be facing a minimum of 20yrs jail time where you guys are gonna be raped over and over again by you fellow guys.IDIOTIC FOOLS

I don't give 2 shades where you resided initially. You can't dine with the devil and not expect to pay our dues. That's one of the disadvantages of eating free money. I don't encourage rape but you females of nowadays are damn too greedy. You want to eat your cake and have it. You want what you can't have. What stops the girl from rejecting his gifts when she knew very well he wanted sex? As far as I'm concerned there's no case here. Those countries you're referring to are run by demented feminists and that's why things occur that. Why would she be asking for stuffs and collecting money if she knew she wasn't gonna play ball? She's not ready for premarital sex but she has premarital expenses eh? Please go and sleep you mouthpiece of ignorance.

You better start vomiting all the money you have eaten before we start hearing stories that touch. A thread was opened yesterday morning about who witnessed the raping of a girl in his friend's house. Nothing goes for nothing. The girl was equally denying the guy sex the same way you're denying him sex and she was raped. Start calculating everything hour has spent on you and return them back. It's for your own good.

Whoever wants to dine with the devil must do so with a very long spoon. Don't smell a meal you know you won't eat. Be warned.

SUPERPACK:
Another rapist thread spotted.***dodges stone*****
Runs out of thread

you're sick in the head.

A thread was created earlier today by a nairalander who claimed he witnessed a rape incident when he went to visit his friend. He also went further to say the girl in question has been collecting gifts and money as well from the same. First of all, I want to let it known that I condemn rape in any form. But let's look at it this way. Was she forced to go to the guy's house? Was she tied and dragged into the house?

Secondly, why are girls always in the habit of demanding money and gifts from a guy Al in the name of dating? Is it a guys duty to provide her needs? Why do girls feel it's their God given right to make stupid monetary demands? If you know you don't love a guy and you're not willing to have anything sexual to do with him then don't make any demands. If you're do much in need of money, go and ask your father or better still go and get a job. It's not your right to demand money from a guy all in the name of a relationship.

Thirdly, this mentality many of you have where you see a relationship a financial bail-out from poverty has to stop. Honestly speaking it beats my imagination why a girl will choose to be a leech rather than being industrious. If you need a phone go and ask your dad or better still go and find a job and save money to get it. When a guy is being nice you girls will be calling him named like mugu and Maga but when the table turns you start screaming blue murder. Nothing goes for nothing.

Finally, whoever wants to dine with the devil must use a very long spoon. You don't defecate where you eat. You don't expect to collect stuffs and money from the devil if you're not willing to pay your dues.

Pidggin:


The Lord says "vengeance is mine " I know you have deactivated this moniker but I give you two days to confess your sins using the alternate moniker you are now using to monitor this thread

After which I will declare something that you will regret if you don't.

declare what? Shut up there and face front. They smell a meal you know you won't eat.

whizcartel:
lol.... What is the big thing that want to fall on me. and Mr man. what crime did I do that I would face the law and what kind of Intel do you want to gather about me.... Mr Uyi I live in marda barracks if you want to see me. You did the crime not me.

I'm not the rapist. I just hate it when people don't mind their business. Well, you're very free to do whatever you like. I'm not in any way bothered whether a girl was raped or not. That's one of the disadvantages of eating free money.

whizcartel:
uyi26 if you like kill your account on NL.... Run O! But justice would still prevail. I have already gotten a bit of your personal information before you killed your account.

what information are you talking about? Don't allow something big to fall on you because of anther man's headache. I'll personally run an Intel on you to make sure you face the law too. How is it your business? Are the friend, the rapist or the girl? Why can't you guys just mind your business?

From the Op's write-up, no crime whatsoever was committed here. I also noticed some of you here screaming NGOS and Human Rights activists should be contacted. Contacted over what? Was her hands or legs tied and taken to the guy's house? Why would she be collecting money and gifts if she knew she wasn't willing to return the favour? As for his friend, he committed no crime. He decided not to meddle in their business and the last time I checked that wasn't a crime under the Nigerian constitution.

asuo27:
Don't provoke me, today is sunday...

Who's a hungry beggar here?, the guy who just collected money from a woman to take care of himself.

go and sleep you hungry biitch. See mumu. I don't depend on a woman for survival. I've got my own money and pay my bills.

finalboss:
nah you are very wrong he didn't collect it she gve him...there are diff...i dnt wanna quote but you forced me ..... you need scroll up and re-read his post

please leave those two broke frustrated dickk sucking biitches

asuo27:
You previously told us you don't collect things from her and she doesn't collect from you too.

Now you've collected a huge amount from her...that's if she gave you that money.

Ikwerre girl!.

funny enough I've not even spent a kobo from the money she gave me. That's the difference between an independent girl and a hungry beggar.