We always have that friend who can talk a big deal but when it's time to talk to that girl he likes he always finds one excuse or the other.

Here are common excuses we hear...

1. She's too hot.

2. I have to pee.

3. She's checking something on her phone.

4. Let me take my time. (Till she leaves)

5. She sat down... Hmmm I can only approach girls standing.

6. She's walking... I don't want to stalk her.

7. She looks sad.

8. I'm not sure if she's that hot (After looking at her 3 times and still counting).

9. She's probably busy.

10. She looks like the "small girl, big God" type.

11. I'm not warmed up (Is it football?)

12. She's shopping, I don't want to bother her.

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The first impression is made within seconds, on the walk over to the girl, before one word is spoken.  The way a guy carries himself, moves his body, his hands and arms, positions his feet, stands, maintains eye contact, and interacts non-verbally with girls matters.  You can spit words like a rapper, but if your body is incongruent with what you’re saying, you won't be taking seriously.

Here's some tips to improve it.

1. Have a straight back. Don't slouch!

2. Use a strong, firm handshake.

3. Maintain fierce eye-contact because you're a bold and confident King.

4. Use gestures once in a while when communicating. It helps emphasize points.

5. Take up lots of space.

Avoid:

1. Fidgeting

2. Touching your face.

3. Biting your nails.

4. Shaky or nervous movements.

It doesn't just apply to dating, but other areas too.

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The following will help your conversations flow better.

- Be unfiltered and uncensored. Speak your mind freely without holding back.

- Be in the present moment - not stuck in your head analyzing things.

- Be perceptive. Observe what is happening in the present moment and comment on it.

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so all these points can be present and the lady will still be a WHOORE

Valid point but with experience it gets easier.

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what a job to seek for,,girlfriend material not a wife material lol...

nl guys can be so funny..

No ooo, you won't apply to enter University before you finally apply for that job.

nl girls can be very funny.

There are many signs a woman can give that, unknown to them, signal to the men they are dating their worthiness as long term relationship material.

Here are 4 top qualities, in no particular order.

1. She rarely brings down those around her or talks about the flaws and weaknesses of her girlfriends, ex or relatives: Trust me it won't be long until you would be added to the list. I'm not saying the girl should be nonjudgemental at all times, but we know the difference when it's once in a while and everytime. A girl who is patient and tolerant of her friends would extend the same to you. This will be an excellent foundation upon which the relationship can grow.

2. Triple S (SSS): She is supportive, sweet and submissive. A woman who isn't supportive of your goals and mission in general, will generally lead to you backsliding.

3. She has not had many past lovers and she isn't an occasional flirt. -
This types are bad long term prospects for men, they might make great lovers but not girlfriends or wives. The probability for divorce will be very high. Now it won't be easy knowing a woman's past, so you have to look for subtle signs.

4. She takes good care of her appearance before she met you, and continues to do so after you start dating her seriously.

A woman who stays as good looking as she can, eats right and cultivates good lifestyle habits shows that she respects you, doesn't want to lose you and the care she puts unto herself will spill over into the care of your well being and aspirations.

As a man once said, "appearance can get you an interview but personality let's you keep the job".

ThemanS:
oga dem enter house lock gate o! I no wan loose guard i dey go back tomorrow morning to show them an entirely different me! What do you think?

It's already too late... You've shown that you're needy, desperate and lack options. If you were the CEO of a company would you give someone a job simply because he slept in front of your house? Always have options and show you're a high value guy. The best thing to have done that night was to hook up with another girl in their presence. Jealousy can bring back attraction in any girl, better still just have fun and get laid. Don't worry over one single girl.

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Why do the society think they need to affirm a woman's worth and value? If its so thoughtful, why don't women affirm a man's value and worth by Paying the groom price too? Why can't we appreciate you too? Why can't we simply thank the groom's family for bringing up such a handsome, Amazing and kind hearted man? Or are we just equivalent to a purchase?

Lol. It's ridiculous, isn't it? Why is the rationale for the concept being tailored to one gender? All it symbolizes is female subjugation, no euphemism can change it!

It's the basis for female discrimination, and prejudice.
I paid on your head, you must obey me.
I married you, you didn't marry me.
These are subtle sexist practice that should be removed.

Start with yourself. Pay groom price abeg, sensitize all your female siblings and relatives that they must pay groom price. You can start the female activism movement from your house. Charity begins at home, end of discussion. Update the progress here from time to time okay.

Mrbolt555:
1. They are so full of themeselves!
2. Most of them selling point is just their face!
3. They are boring as fvuck!
4. They are socially retarded!
5. All of them live fake lifes!
6. Their pussy stinks!
7. They think they should be treated like queens!
8. They are full of shìt!
9. They have no life outside Instagram and Facebook(Fake Life)
10.They have fish brain!

Im out!!!

Bro, it's left to you to bring them back to real life. Call them out on their bullshit, make an observation that shows one of their flaws... They will be shocked and you can take over from that moment. It's something most guys don't do, be creative... Those balls have superpowers, use it. No dulling my brother.

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Approach tip of the day �

Lots of questions have been asked on a way to minimize rejections and getting phone numbers.

One simple tip you can use is, instead of asking her for her phone number, fix a meeting or hangout... If she agrees to it then collect her number. That way it looks natural. If the girl is boring and doesn't want to hang out, don't collect the number. This would save you time, energy, missed dates and airtime.

In the words of Olamide, who phone number epp?

AdiNik:
We have dated for only 9 months, last year everything seem rosy and promising even though i was away for about 5 months but visited every month. I have never stopped her on going on a date with another guy, she even went out with a guy last year and they both passed the night together in a hotel. She came back saying nothing happened but the guy tried having his way which she declined reminding him, he promised it was just a platonic meeting and I believed her.
I have always trusted her until recently i noticed she became a lot insulting lately and always asking if we break up at the slightest misunderstanding. I thought it should be to the fact that i have some serious financial challenge and she is been the one footing the bills, she is probably getting bored already or something.
Two night ago a guy called and ask she sing for him, she obliged and sang the John Legend "All of me" While i was there with her.
I asked her who the guy was and she told me, it was nothing but she had promised the guy she was not gonna date anyone until he his back, she said she doesn't want to tell the guy she is dating now just so he doesn't get distracted.
I told her it is okay and we should forget about it but she is always wanting to talk about it and it bothers me why she is so keen on talking about it if i had told her she should forget about it and if she is sincere. I told her i am beginning to not trust her anymore and then she said we should quit. She can't do this no more cos I don't trust her. Just like that....
Am I wrong to have said I don't trust her? Truth is, I love her. Should I just move on or apologize?

While she is receiving vitamin D from multiple sources you're there crying, my friend better wise up. You said she spent a night with a guy and did nothing. Are you in kindergarten?... If it's an open relationship, you still need to put boundaries... With the way you're emotional about her despite the numerous Vitamin D capsules she receives, I doubt if you can really handle an open relationship.

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bro can you believe it!! and after "liking" those ugly gals on social media they get suprised when they meet ugly women who act like a billion dollars...the same niggars who led the uglies believe they are hot are the very ones complaining " ugly girls act like they are hot!!" i swear it makes me red in anger.

For some men that's the only way they know to get laid. Bring down fellow men, worship ladies then feel that ladies would get attracted to them by their gesture. It's all wired into their subconscious, I remember asking a male feminist why he has never for once addressed the issues men face... He didn't have any answer.

mrphysics:
When do people lose in a relationship?

I really want to know when it can be said that one lost in a relationship.

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People lose in relationships when they don't gain anything from it. If a relationship isn't satisfying in one way or the other, then it's a waste of time.

The first thing is to know why you entered the relationship. If what you entered it for isn't being delivered, then there's no point staying in it.