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Atmmachine:
Ugly house.

No Igwe's palace in Nigeria beats the palace of Igwe Nnokwa in terms of beauty and simplicity and modern design

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Picture or.... You know the rest

beautycrush24:
the current situation is that we're still on standstill by one fool.

People are there pleading with the idiots and they still insist that nobody is moving an inch.

Are there no armies in this region? Or they dont want to come out cos its 'their people' that are involved?

Army to clear trucks or shoot them as terrorist? When the governor puts a call through to the commissioner of police a new tyre will be delivered to the driver... It has happened in Ebonyi some years back.

One of those tyres goes for over 70k.

He would have turned out more stylish if he held that umbrella, himself... Naija and 'bigmanism'

Blurry:
I will rather not do mobile banking.

If your phone is lost...your worries are not just the phone but your bank account balances.

Banking app is not like WhatsApp.. It has security features that the thief must have to login and do a y transfer.... Access, union bank apps and first bank have got security... That even if stolen when open you will need the token to do the transfer

400billionman:
Booharry does not like performers. He prefers mediocres.

Because the only two bankers i know that can save the Nigerian economy from this current recession are TONY ELUMELU and JIM OVIA.

These two men can create something out of nothing.

I keep laughing at the APC when they scream economic diversification while they havent done any tangible thing with agriculture..

The current man is a creation of Ovia... Anything Ovia can do this guy can do.. He reports and gets his input from his boss as much as he reports to Buhari.

BornnAgainChild:
You just showed how senseless you are....wherever did I speak against this new tactics of them that's making you say rubbish here...abi how does my opinion of it been irritating to me affect your mucus brain hmmm??

Abi were your eyes closed to where I stated that I commend them hmmm

Oversabi houseboy

It is not new, they are always embedded in the tick of action.... They don't go after the foot soldiers of Boko... only high value target like commanders... They stays days and week waiting for the target and.... . Embrace them.. Ojuju things

BornnAgainChild:
In as much as I commend this but it looks irritating to me

Those are actually snipers.. Part of the elite squad

HemmanuelRichy:
I will try to make this very snappy.

I have a childhood friend who is so very much in love with his girlfriend of 4-5years. (Whom I have never met) Fortunately, the girl in question got admission to the school I currently am and she was offered the course I am also studying.

My friend called me and told that his Bae was given admission to study the same course I am studying, and he begged me to keep tabs on her. I assured him that I would try. (me wey no get time)

He sent me her pictures and told me to look for her at her where she receive lectures and get to know her better. I assured him that would i will of which I never did due to the distance of her lecture hall. I was optimistic that I would eventually see her one of these days.

Two weeks ago, my friend called me, after exchanging pleasantries he gave the phone to his Bae. I greeted her and congratulated her on getting admission to study the best course on campus. She begged me for past exam questions and handouts, I promised to give her the ones I would lay my hands on. I also advised her not be carried away with guys on campus, she thanked me and promised not to disappoint my friend.

I got to meet another girlfriend of my friend Bola (not her real name) who happened to be the same class she was. I asked her if she knows Joy (my friend's girl friend..not her real name too) I showed her the pictures my friend sent to me on my phone for easy identification. She immediately told me that she was their course rep and the most popular figure in her class.

Fast forward that same night in my course mate birthday party, Bola came to where i sat and told me that Joy was dancing with a guy in the middle of the hall. (It was quite dark and I couldn't really notice the faces of the people dancing)

I stood up and wanted of meet her for the first time, I got a shocker when the guy she was dancing with (I know the guy very well, he is my senior and I was one of his main man in his electioneering campaign team) sighted me and hugged me, he introduced her to me as his girlfriend and shook hands with her I was dumfounded and returned to my seat.

A girl I spoke with two weeks ago.. having a boyfriend already. I was perplexed. I wanted to confirm if she was truly the person, she went outside and I followed her. I stopped her and she responded with a smile. I asked her if they guy was truly her boyfriend, she said yes and confirmed my my fears. I asked her how long they were dating , she said she met him when she was doing her registeration. She asked why I was asking, I told her that I was feeling for my friend. She asked what i meant by that. I brought out my phone and showed her my friend picture. she started begging me and I pleaded that I should not tell my friend nothing.

I avoided her like a plague till the party ended.

This incident happened on Sunday night and I have been thinking on what to do.

should I tell my friend?

Either you tell your friend this night or the girl tells him but in her own version you will be the guy trying to date her after getting her number from your friend.


You have already committed a blunder by going to her

Jeffy1206:
Ask the bloggers.

The blogger already gave his or her account and somebody, May be, you stated that the priest was there to save life and at that, that of a little girl.


My question, therfore, goes to the person that was defending the father. Majority of those so called priest and celibate are drunkards, chronic womaniser and astute business men with kids.

Lero15:
Google Chrome!!

I ha e downloaded and deleted this browser, severally. Please what is the strong points of the browser. I like browsers last with speed dial and allows opening of as many pages as one want like Opera

Talk2Talk:
IGNORAMUS... ITS A PITY THAT U RE ALSO FOOLISH TO BOLDLY DISPLAY HOW EMPTY YOUR HEAD HAS BECOME.
YOUR ARE ASKED A SIMPLY QUESTION AND GIVEN FIGURES TO WORK WITH INSTEAD YOU WENT INTO TOWN TO INVENT FIGURES AND SET QUESTIONS FOR YOURSELF BECAUSE YOU FEEL U KNOW BERRA THAN THE PERSON WHO SET THE QUESTION. AINT U A JOKE!

So he went to town to invent and set questions for himself... This forum never get boring... Mouthy peeps every time here lol

chival:
96

19 plus 21

dachuchi7:
wow,so you believe this crap up there. Something tells me this thrash is just a calculated ploy to tarnish the title of reverend personally and the christian faith in general.
This is pure gutter journalism that is full of junks. Pls do not fall 4 this bullshit.

A very local issue like this can't tarnish the image of the Christian faith but that of the father... Many priest, Bishops and archbishops can't vow before God that they have remained true to the oath of celibacy they took

Jeffy1206:
Bloggers and lies... This story was on fp long time ago where they claimed that the priest was trying to save a life... Or this one different

Does he live in the same compound as the life he was trying to save or he was on a visit when the incident occurred or passing by?

Handsomecole:
They think taking the oath of celebacy during their Priestley ordination is mere word of mouth. It's a spiritual agreement between them and God. As for the lady of all the men the world you chose a man of God. Anyways what can I say RIP to the dead get well soon to the injured.

It is not mere word of mouth but he is not the only priest sleeping with people's wife and future wives that they ought to be leading to Christ.

The former Bishop of warri, a white man, slept with a parishioner.. He is now resigned ar the place, catholic priest are having romps, like it is going out of fashion

mrkayusfit:
The performance of this man has been woeful ever since he was unmeritedly picked by GEJ to replace emir sanusi. The economy is nosediving under his watch and all he has to offer are continuos excuses. I hope buhari sacks him asap and replace him with a competent Cbn governor

You are blaming the wrong person for the disaster that is our economy, today.

CBN is responsible for monetary policies and can ọnly go as far as the President understand their functions and this Buhari doesn't come across as one with in depth knowledge of the functions of the CBN and still doesn't have a team that is independent minded enough to speak truth to power

TaiKuun:
if say over half of them no dey on scholarship ni, them for no pass 30 wey go graduate.

You have a point.

HungerBAD:
Fool.

Walking around like a mad man. And to think he is a Senator of this great Country,makes me cover my head in shame.

Dino the trekker,I have a suggestion for you. Leave Ikoyi and Victoria Island,go take this walk around Lagos Island,Mushin,Oshodi,Ikeja,Ojota or Bariga and then come and tell us the scores.

Go to one of the aforementioned places,and you will know that you are faster than Mary Onyali when it comes to sprinting.

You come Lagos go where them put Air Conditioner for street,come dey swag like peacock.

Clown.

He took the walk to the people that threatened him not to come to lagos.... It wasn't Olamide and Lil Kesh that threatened him

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Mr. President looks sickly

gebest:
i never condemed ebible, all am saying is dat is d soft copy while d oda is d hard copy where nothing battery problem or mechanical or electronical problem.

Phone batteries have become better than that a two hour use on the pulpit won't do any dent to the battery.

A synch E-bible o ky requires a sign in to have access to all your notes, bookmarks and share from any other device including that of other members of the church.. .

Print Bible has no special advantage over the E-bible, in fact it is the reverse

Emeka71:
The thing is morally wrong because as a pastor; he is not leading by example; do you know that the E-bible mis-quote some words to suit the devil?

The Bible in eformat is same as the print.. what or who gave you this notion.. . King James is king James irrespective of the format.

gebest:
i have bibles that ve spent over 20yrs, notin like rat or cockroaches eatin dem. In ur own case, well blood is thicker than water, same family.

The ebible will outlast that your records.. . For Christ sake, the ebible is o line and your entry and bookmarks are saved online and can be retrieved with any other device.. I mean it is synced so available in all your devices at the same time.

For instance I take note in the church on word processor and save to Dropbox where my wife and every other person have reading access to it from their devices

dollyjoy:
Refiner please stop lying biko


But if it is true,then he doesn't deserved the pastor's tittle.g.


I think God is too merciful self, the kind of rubbish people do in the house of God these days is alarming

Don't advertise your ignorance like a virtue. The Bible was originally in clays and paperous before the invention of ink.

And with the invention of electronic writing, it is more sensible El and economical to have the Bible in electronic format.

In my phonei have over 15 versions of the Bible in one app..my sword Bible

DevGuru:
UPDATE!!!

I must confess that Nairaland is a wonderful online community. In these trying times of mine, the only thing that has kept my head intact is the company I have here reading all comments. I would have revealed much more information about us especially for the sake of those who have expressed their doubts about the veracity of my story, but I can't, because I wouldn't want to provide some pointers for anyone on this forum who might know any of my wife's relatives or mine. Although I got several diverse opinions, all comments still depicted the kindness in the the hearts of the commenters. Even those who called me stupid for not being too hard on my wife did so because they feared I could lose my life - a high level of kindness which I appreciate a lot. Even the opinions I did not follow on this thread still served a purpose of enlarging the pool of options from which I was able to make a choice. I expect much more expressions of disappointment towards my folly (for deciding not to go for a divorce for the sake of my child, the unborn and the fact that my faith forbids me from marrying another woman if I choose not to live with her anymore).

On the morning following my last update, my wife's depression continued but I tried to act like a loving husband towards her. I could read in her face that the more I tried to be kind towards her, the greater the emotional torment she passed through because she found it hard to believe that I could forgive her. Maybe she even thought I was planning a brutal revenge, but this time, not against her alone but against her sisters. She could not imagine the extent of my actions if I was to execute her thoughts. In the evening, as we were having dinner, she started talking softly to me while looking at the food on the table. I had to tell her to speak louder because it was like she was talking to the food. Then she voiced out as tears rolled down her cheeks saying "I've informed all my siblings about our conversations that got leaked to you and they are not talking to me again". I asked her why they were not talking to her and she said they all must have been confused and I understood that to be because they did not know what my next move would be. Married adults of ages between 35 - 45 were running helter-skelter because they had just ruined their sister's marriage. Their ONLY hope was in my forgiveness. The Lord had suddenly delivered my 'enemies' into my hands and if I chose to wield my sword, they might have to relocate away from their home town because the extended family would know the shameful story that threw their last born out of marriage. I told my wife that seeing her crying for the misery of her sisters was annoying to me as it meant she was further betraying our home. Then I picked her phone on the dinning table to check whether the records were still there... lo and behold... everything was gone. Even the app itself had been uninstalled. I smiled and asked her why she cleared the calls and the app, she replied (crying further) "I just can't listen to the evil voices of myself and my sisters". I smiled again and asked "What about the app? You don't want me to ever hear anything again? She replied "No, I just wished to clear everything that could bring bring back the memory". Then I opened my laptop and navigated to a folder where I had copied all the conversations. I played one and she was shocked to hear it even louder than it was on the the phone. Her fears had just been confirmed... "Why was he pretending that he had forgiven me..." - just my own thought anyways. But truly, I had forgiven her, I was just trying to follow some wise counsel from Nairaland. She couldn't wait till the end, she left me with the food and walked to the bedroom. I slept on the living room couch that night.

The following morning, I continued to read comments on this thread and remembered I was sitting on a time bomb by keeping the whole thing to myself. I went to have my bath and told her I was going out. She was surprised because it was a public holiday. I was already on the road when I called my father that I needed to see him urgently. Luckily for me, he was at home, so I went straight to him and explained all that had happened to him while I played some 'music'. He praised me for taking the matter to him first because he knows we are all closer to mum and revealing such an issue to mum would mean an end - or at most, the beginning of the end. My dad respects my wife's parents a lot and would not like me to take them to their knees on this issue. He spoke with me at length. He said my wife was a good lady but the reason she was so vulnerable was because of her position in the family and that the sisters weren't so lucky this time. He advised me to get closer to my wife so that a natural distance could evolve between her and her sisters. He then begged me never tell my wife that I had revealed the matter to any of my family members because that would be a strong way for me to prove my love to her which she would ever live to appreciate. After all talks, he asked me to call one of my wife's sisters' husbands right in his presence because he knew they (the husbands) must have been told a 'padded' story. I first used the FCMB Mobile App on my phone to load N3,000 before making the call. At the start, he was cold with me on the phone as if a rival was trying to ask for his girlfriend's best food. Later, he admitted that he was aware of all that happened and started all those Yoruba elders' talk... how he had never raised his hand to beat his wife, how he would always walk out, how he and his wife prayed together... bla bla bla. Then I told him I was going to terminate the call and forward some files to him on Whatsapp. I simply picked two of his own wife's conversation with my wife and forwarded to him, expecting him to call back. After about 30 minutes, my Dad told me to call back. I called twice before he answered. He became cold again and couldn't say anything but that his wife would call me soon. After about 1 hour and nothing happened, I had to leave, but my dad told me to carry him along. When I got home, I walked to the bedroom and met my wife on the phone but I did not know who she was speaking with. I returned to the living room and continued reading from my myriad of advisers on this thread.

Then the call came in. It was my wife's sister's voice (not the eldest one)... begging me to forgive and try to forget. She sounded like she was outdoors under the influence of some heavy downpour. I can't express the feeling at that moment but the only thing that I remembered was Proverbs 16:7. (apologies to the wonderful Muslims on this thread...). Even though she didn't believe me, I forgave her. Then the husband collected the phone from her and spoke with me at length... apologising on behalf of the entire family. The major point he kept re-iterating was that I should not let my people know...

All the while, several other simultaneous calls were on. My wife's family members were calling one another while some also called my wife to know the extent of what I got hold of. Interestingly, the first born (who advised my wife to keep a separate account) had also been hinted and had run to their parents to open up to them. She could imagine the level of shame that was coming to her - A PhD holder who is the family's Senior Adviser on every issue. Her parents called her husband to join them immediately as he was their only front soldier who could speak to me. Suddenly, the first born's husband's call came in. He pleaded that he would not like us to revisit the ugly situation but that I was the only one that could save the entire family from the mess by forgiving everyone. He stated that he had been told everything that was done to me and he would like me to honour him and reverse my war order - this was when I confirmed that they had been speaking to my wife. He showered prayers on me while I remained aggressive in my AMEN responses (as if to let them know I was neutralising their spells on me). He promised to call my wife and warn her never to discuss her family issues again with any of her sisters. He also begged me severally never to reveal it to my people as it would mean a reversal to the beginning. Although he didn't give me the impression that my wife's parents were with him - my wife told me this later...

At night, my wife came to kneel down by my side to make her own pleading. I was very glad because the whole ambience was like the clear sky devoid of any cloudy covering after a thunderous rain. I spoke softly to her and began to re-iterate my ideals to her - it was a good preaching time for me. Now everyone (including my wife) is praying that I do not decide to spill the whole thing out one day. My wife's eldest sister later called me that night to directly tender her own apology - at a time she had confirmed I wasn't going to be hostile anymore.

For me, I believe there's so much left for me to do on my wife. For anyone who has followed the recent events of my life which could have ended in a tragedy but for God's intervention and would love to give me some helpful ideas as I move forward, kindly drop your comments. I'll be very glad to read them.

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No matter your chanced discovery, the fact remains that you evoke neither love nor fear from your wife's older folk and this is not a good position to be... Now you have complicated issue by your discovery.

Whether you want to believe it or not, your wife will always have need for her sisters and they will give her attention only after they have extracted a firm promised from her to be more discreet..... Lets hope for the better.. I'm married and I take no nonsense from inlaws

mira4u:
Oh my God, you are a real man. So mature.

I suspect you are a lady, that's how you people always wants to be treated when found out... His life is at stake and he has taken the wrong turn and you call him a mature man.

An Igbo adage say that when a woman is beating the drum for the man, watch it, he is about to jump the fence of life into that of the dead.

buksaylor001:
I really don't know what to say for now but,I still insist that forgiveness shouldn't have come that easily-given the same scenario ,they will all repeat same.The gang up is worse now cause it won't be recorded.You have already known your wife's loyalty and it will never change.What you would have done with respect to forgiveness was to send her home for sometime let them beg from there before you forgive so that the enormity of the action would be felt.But in as much as you allowed it to lie low,same will repeat or will happen again or has already started without your notice.

Forgiving,does it stop your mum from being a witch in their eye?
Does it replace your lost scrotum?
Does it stop your mum from changing her opinions about you as a wife beater?
Does it change anything?

The fact remains that you have already exhibited before now your weakness as a (wo)man to your wife.She knows how to manipulate you cause she knows you are weak and the family knows that you are insecure(you just proved that).You needed to assert your control on your home by taking a more drastic measure and put fear in the family and siblings not physically anyway but by resolving the issue head on.

You did well by forgiving which you ought to have done afterall but you went the wrong way,don't you have siblings and are you not a man to take some drastic decisions when you are expected as a man?You just make a grave mistake that will haunt you in time to come,mark my words-

He is joking with his life... Forgiveness won't change the opinion of the Woman and her people and neither would it make them stop skimming.... For a while, everything would seem okay then they will open another front, this time more discreetly.

Imagine they all are telling guiding him on who not to disclose the issues to you.


This guy is Terrible. .. You now have an entire clan including in laws all monitoring you, believing that you are buying time to spring a surprise on them all.

Who wants his wife name and by extension his, soiled, nobody.. They will fear the worst would come from him someday

babayinka77:
Thank you so much. This tells me that there is a lot of opportunities in Kwara state for investors who can be bold enough to tap into it.

A once in a while thing is what an investor should take advantage of or is it not the salla holiday that brought them out, for merriment.

What happens to the other 364 days of the year?

Hope they are buying and not just go in and be roaming about, noisily like it is a park.

quote author=ceo247frolic post=47303877]The Shoprite located in Ilorin, Kwara State, had to completely shut its doors after a crowd of people stormed their store for the public holiday today. According to eyewitnesses, when the crowd became too much, they quickly shut their doors to prevent others from coming. However, residents of the state still eager to get in, stayed put at the door awaiting their turn. Lol. See more photos after the cut.


http://www.newshelm.com/2016/07/photos-shoprite-ilorin-shuts-its-doors.html

maafen:
OP sorry for your loss but Glo's 10Gb data is #2,500. That's what am using

Probably doesn't work in his area like it has become in mine... I left my 2500 to do Mtn out of frustration

akanbiaa:
why not buy direct, a network like glo gives 12gig for 3k just dial *777#. SME is no longer profitable.

Glo is a useless network, right now