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anthonyuncle:
have a pillow talk with her about it.

if she continues, leave her

I have spoken with her but not elaborately. Just talk to her about independent scenerios of her mind swing and attitudes. Never generally about the issue.
I'm a man of few words but Im willing to create an exception for her.


Normally, I would bounce cos getting girls is the least of my problem. I get girls I want and she knows this.

I'm just being patient with her because I love her, and she's a cool person, and she's only like that because of her family background/father.

If after this, she bleeps up one more time, then I'm off
Thanks

anthonyuncle:
give her some space.

one common issue with her kind is that they have so much pride. but will drop it for the person they feel is worth it.

if you are worth it, she will drop her pride and come for you

Her coming back is not the issue.

She does come back

And then boom, another mood swing and she wants to be by herself again.

The problem is if I have the patience to continue on that line.

Or I should resort to pushing her away totally.

Cos, how long will I put up with the back and forth.

It's mentally tiring to me, and maybe it feels like a game or a sort of healing process for her, that I don't know.

I'm currently with one. Not in an official relationship, but we are in the pre-relationship stage. I already confirm she has Daddy issues.

- Her Dad gave birth to three of them, all ladies. He's a lawyer that doesn't behave like one. He subjects her to emotional stress to the extent of her shouting at him over the call severally while I am with her.

She's the first of three, so she believes she must protect her whole family from the man. Even his mom lost her job, and the man feeds the whole family except her now. Her pops no gree send her money because she refuses to come home and wait for nysc mobilisation.

Meanwhile, if she goes home, her business and all her other side hustle will be null, so the man leaves her to fend for herself because of that.

She's done with school (this year) while I'm still in my finals.

She has all the above trait except having sex to validate her desirability. She's a virgin and doesn't want it popped yet. We do every other form of romance except that.

She has never put me on a pedestal. Maybe cause I'm not her official father yet.

I'm a very ambitious person, and she's pretty ambitious too. I've given her time and attention, got stuffs for her, advised her when she's facing difficulty, and a lot more.

But someone she still asks about my hoes (she knows I have none), tells me men, her scum, posts about men being scum on her WhatsApp, switches moods effortlessly, is always stubborn and wants to argue even though she's wrong.

Once she starts arguing with me when I correct her, I Immediately stop without expressing my full though and let it slide.

This girl seem not to trust me no matter how I try.

She can be very, very manipulative to other men she has been with because I know her scope now.

She can be very stubborn too.

But beyond her flaws, she has her good side too.

She loves me but doesn't trust me(n)


I really like this girl, but I don't want to proceed into anything that will waste my time, and energy cos I'm still young, and I need my energy in other endeavours that'd prosper me.

What is your advice, brother?

blaquebelle:
Wahala
Op these are lies sha. There's more that contributes to someone's personality. You shouldn't generalise like this.

80% of those things hold good for 80% of ladies with abusive parents.

I've been with 2 so far, and I have friends that have been with others.

So if you think it's a lie, get out of the thread and create your own truth.

C'est Fini

I see you posted this in the days of your naivety

https://www.nairaland.com/7178936/every-man-must-read-o

Good to see you are wiser now

Iamdbull:
Dbull on this one!!!




Am really trying to build muscle these days so have been eating lots of protein recently especially chicken half a kilo daily, let's say like 25k just to build muscle

See how muscular I look while on set of a music video below

Your song is nice

Connected1:


Them don show you 99.

An average Nigerian Lady will take advantage of your naivety whether she's 27 and above or below.

Don't be stereotypic with your condemnation on the girls that showed you shege because every one has what they want in a woman.

Many prefer young women and moreover women with children don't ever seperate with the father of their kids, that's a big red flag.

In addition to that, these women above 27 are usually pretentious because they are very close to the wall, so I would say it's all about the individual rather than the age bracket.

If you change your circle and what you want in a woman then you will meet good girls, you can't go after big ass or boobs then expect to be worshipped or treated like a King.

Mbannu.

This is it.


The op opinion is that you'd rather date someone who's interested in dating you because they have no choice but too.

Great advice, but I won't settle for that.

There are tons of young ladies that have their shit together. You just have to match their personality.

If you are looking for a serious girlfriend, it starts with you ideals in a lady, not the other way round.

Personally, as a lady, once I converse with you for 2 straight conversation, I already know if you are my type or not. And most time, it's not age dependent.

It's just about setting a standard and maintaining that standard yourself.

You can't be looking for sex and big boobs and expect to attract serious goal driven young ladies.

Felimax:
I may fall into the same category but not after reading the entire book "Every Woman". Not every woman know about themselves as well and the more you understand her body the better, in fact, it is what makes the difference.

True.
Knowing how woman are wired even to their reproductive system is key to handling and resonating better with their being.

This book, " every woman" was authored by who or can you share me the book on google drive if you have the e-copy?

Windy123:
Hi there, I need details of the jobs if you don't mind.

Closed

Nicoswit:
Alright. Do you have any recommendation for someone interested in learning?

Check my whatsApp on my profile

martinz23:
Please bro can you teach me

You need to know much more about what you want to learn First. Check my contact on my profile and message me

Nicoswit:
NFT stuffs right?

Not really

DeFi is decentralised Finance

Treborblue:
The thing is I won 500k+
I paid a friend of mine I've been owing 17k for over a year now and he never really dragged me for it, I sent him 20k I didn't want to send more than that cause I don't anyone to suspect I have such money and he knows I'm struggling, but deep down I've promised myself to turn up for him when he is in need, I bought a ps3 slim and put 11games on it, as I have always craved a console but ps4 seemed to extravagant and I know I don't have a steady source of income, then I bought a headset and 27kmah powerbank
Then gifted my mum 20k after explaining over 1hour to her the source of the wealth although she believes I won 160k.p.s my dad is late
So now after all that spending I'm left with 440k
I don't want to spend a dime from it
Don't even know what business to do
I've Done alot of low budget business in the past that didn't yield...

Learn DeFi, it will change your life, I promise you that.

This will only be stipend compared to what you can earn in DeFi if you truly devout time to learning and implementing what you learnt. And it's not even technical

asobo1:
Are you trying to say the salary would still be 100k in years to come?

It can't be match the rising inflation in years to come whatsoever the increment is

Reeb2244:
And you think there's nothing like salary increment?

No Salary increment will rival the rate of inflation these days.

Business always. 100k will be lesser than its worth in a few years due to its value being eroded by inflation.

But a good manager can transcend a business to be worth more and more over the years and therefore increasing the possibilities of earning more from the business

Udapod:
I have sent you a DM

Okay. I'll respond to it

Good day everyone. Trust you are all doing great.

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*Not to worry, the job won't take a toll on your schedule and time (I promise). What is most required is for you to have the above knowledge of NFTs and then be an active NFT trader/WL hunter*

*I'll discuss details about the job further when you DM me*

� *And the pay is decent too.*

If you don't meet the above requirement, please don't bother to contact me.

Just send me a DM, and I'll respond as soon as I see it.
*Ciao*

ENG0701:
For me the biggest con is starting afresh. It took me a while to make up my mind because of that about relocating to Canada because of that, but thank God I did. I got my license in about a year and half and now I'm practicing as a pharmacist.

The other issues people complain of are mostly personal. You can overcome loneliness if you are ready to socialize and make new friends.

Weather is bearable, just 2 months of bad weather (depending on province)

Chief, Good day

I'm a Pharmacy student here in Nigeria, and Canada has always been my dream country. I'll like to ask you some questions regarding migrating to Canada. Please can I send you a PM?

onilanre:
Oga, it's not all Yoruba guys that behave like that.

I was the first set of people that introduced Vehicle tracker to Abuja market back in 2012. Though the business was my side hustle, so I was transferred to cross river state.

Then I employed a guy from Enugu state and I taught him how to install the trackers. The guy sold all my trackers, kept the money for the installation to himself and lied to me that other engineers bought the tracker and install it themselves.

He went further to import trackers behind me using my company. In short, he recked my business and travelled out.

Why are you like this?

Why the hasty assumptions?
Have you have business dealings with all Yoruba guys?

This should not be up for debate in the first place,wtf!

She loves both of you "yen yen yen"

Ejiod:
Will be needing a blockchain/crypto writer in writing at most 4 articles per month.
Such article will cover both upcoming and already established projects.
I really don't have much time for this hence pushing it out for anyone interested.
The pay is 30k or 52USDT for the 4 articles. if interested send a message via my Twitter @ejiod2012. or send a PM
Note this will be a deep dive research article.
Also, it's not a one-time thing.

Sent you a PM Ser. Kindly respond

HenryDion:
You spoiled your post with this. It's a cheap tactic. Now tell me, what have YOU done to someone that they can never repay you?

I tell you. That line was not necessary.

Iambangasoup:
Wow please introduce me to him,

Your music is lit by the way, it's just that it's too short

Why?

What do you want to offer him?

...

backbencher:
Join a party or form one.

Good afternoon.

If I decided to join APC, of what import will that be to my career?
Will that change the fact that Tinubu is the party's preferred choice?

backbencher:
Because most of you don't use it.

Care to explain how?

backbencher:
That is why we have democracy

Use it. Stop whining

Wrong again, democracy won't solve our problem in Nigeria.

If care is not taken, post-election after 2023 will be worse off. We have been practising democracy before now and see where it has gotten us.

backbencher:
All because we bring in fuel at N282 and sell it at N162 per liter

And the n282 is not static . Rising oil prices means it can pass 300 naira or more. Meanwhile we sell the crude at 162.

And subsidy costs don't cover the resulting loss

So prices have to go up or it would become too costly to keep fuel at N162 per liter.

And yes, the money that could have been used for refineries goes to paying for that subsidy. That is part of why we don't have refineries

Wrong, it will be looted

Descottes:
You're just making a mountain out of a mole hill

I dey tell you. Focus on your life and attract. It works every single time. Don't go and meet and talk to them, accept you get deal together wey you suppose run. If not... Jakpa

kponkedenge:
I'm only wondering why they didn't leave when other countries were evacuating and telling their citizens to leave.

How will they leave? Everywhere is clogged. Most of them can't leave without intervention from authorities

Omo