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FamilyRe: Should I Leave Or Endure Till May? by Themarkethere: 8:41pm On Feb 06, 2020
Keypazwad:
I want out.
Already planning my exit. I’m just worried for my kids.
I don’t have the finances to cater for them yet. Don’t know if their dad would still be up to his responsibilities when I separate from him
Madam wait a little and see how things are unfolding, in the meantime avoid those things that trigger him but still have your exit plan as back up just in case he supposed you.
TravelRe: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by Themarkethere: 12:19pm On Feb 06, 2020
tresbel:
Having gained from the thread, I guess I should share my experience for others to benefit.
Mine was a renewal; my passport will expire in April 2020. I wanted the 10 year validity passport; this is only available in 64 pages and is N70,000. I filled the form online, chose Ikoyi office and paid in Zenith bank. I tried to pay with my card but it took long for the OTP to arrive on several occasions; hence I decided to go to the bank. I paid N70,500.

Required documents
Old passport booklet (They will sight and return to you)
2 passport photos on white background
Copy of NIN slip
Letter of application for renewal (handwritten)
Copies of old passport data page
Printed online form
Acknowledgement slip
Payment slip
2 forms you'd be given at the servicom desk.

For renewal, you DO NOT need:
-guarantor
-state of origin confirmation
-birth certificate
-court affidavit

After the filling the forms, I checked and rechecked all information for correctness before proceeding to pay. Once you request to pay, you'll see a lot of payment channels, I chose Sanaa pay and got a print out which I took to the bank and paid.
I returned and checked my profile and noticed a capturing date had been assigned: 31st Dec. 2019.
Dday, I arrived the Ikoyi office at about 9am with all my documents and proceeded to the servicom office. I was given two new forms to photocopy and fill. Photocopies cost N50 per page; N100 for 3 pages.
Returned and filled out the forms; the officer brought out a file jacket and enclosed all the documents, itemized the stages and sent me off to the next desk at servicom. Here, the file was reviewed again, the officer signed did some registration in a book and sent me off to the long room. One of the officers at servicom took the files (there were two others guys DIYing like me; just three of us  at the time and our files were different from the ones being assisted by NIS officials), she handed it to the guys at the long room (verification I guess) and ensured they attended to the files and even proceeded with them to the capture room for enrolment. She enrolled us whilst we joined the queue for biometrics. The queue moved quickly and I was done in no time. They printed a form with an enrolment I.D and other details; collection date printed on the form was 3rd January 2020. I returned to servicom with my file and the form, the officer at servicom took the file and advised me to check in two weeks because they didn't have booklets for the 10 year at the time. Can't remember precisely but I think I left the NIS office at about 10.30am.

I returned to passport office on Friday, 17th January, went with the enrolment form I was given on the day of capturing. I went to the servicom desk first, the lady took my form and typed something in the computer and told me it was ready. She ticked on the form and told me go to the collection room for pick up. I got there and it was crowded. I was told to drop the form in a basket and wait for the officers to pick up and go retrieve the passport. 15 minutes from when I dropped my slip an officer came out and packed all the slips in the basket. From then, I waited for 1 hour 30 mins; the officers came out severally but I still didn't hear my name. I got uncomfortable and as I stood up to go complain, I saw the lady that had attended to me and confirmed my passport was ready; she was walking towards the collection room, I ran after her and told her I was still waiting, she told me to rewrite my name on a piece of paper and give her. She went into the office with it and reemerged with my passport. I joined the queue for activation; this took another 30 minute wait. The entire collection process took 2 hours as I arrived at 11.50am and left at about 1.50pm.
Overall, I think it's a worthwhile experience except for how long collection took; my passport expires in 2030 grin, so mission accomplished...everyone should DIY!!!
I hope this helps someone.
Hello can an electronic version of the old passport be presented where the physical is not available or lost?
TravelRe: Cost Of A Nigeria International Passport by Themarkethere:
Innunique:
my bad...
well I just hope it gets resolved.
Please has anyone here done online registration successfully using Abuja office for capturing and all because all stories so far seem ok in Lagos as opposed to the information passed about the process in FCT?
FamilyRe: Wicked Married Man Messed Up My Life And Refuse To Take Responsibility by Themarkethere: 12:12pm On Feb 04, 2020
Mummiesgirls4:
I didn’t scatter her home because am not the one that made the vow with her , it’s was her husband that came after me and took advantages of me because I was hopeless. She is wicked because she aware of my child but she don’t want her husband to help his own daughter which it is not fair
Madam you are the one that took advantage of the man's money and as if that was not enough went ahead to get pregnant because you want to birth a son for him. Do you want to tell me other poor men haven't made a pass at you before this man? Why didn't you give them a chance? You knew a woman like yourself has three girls like you but you promised yourself to be the one to birth a son for another woman's husband even with your history, infact you took advantage of the man's money and wife's situation, you are the very wicked one. If you were just hopeless as you claimed you would have eaten his money and cleaned mouth but your lazy foolish you wanted a poverty alleviation scheme.

You like this will do worse than that woman. Not like he lied to you that he wasn't married, so you think the woman is foolish as you to let her husband get you pregnant again in the name of taking care of your child.
FamilyRe: Wicked Married Man Messed Up My Life And Refuse To Take Responsibility by Themarkethere: 10:02am On Feb 04, 2020
As much as the man should take care of his responsibility you seem not to have cut off any bit of your greedy self. You want to use the child to cash out on the man, you have been yapping on he is a rich man. Suddenly the child from the rich man could be maltreated but the two you left behind you are so sure no one is maltreating them.

You still have the nerve to call a woman you have never lived with wicked when you are the one who scattered her home. Have you ever stopped to think of the trouble you have caused her? Do you even know if she contributed to the man's wealth?

You deserve to suffer some more perhaps the one you have suffered is yet to make you human and have sense.
FamilyRe: My Egusi Soup Smell Really Bad. Even From A Distance by Themarkethere:
fineboynl:
I believe the Gallic also contributes
Ginger ncur, You no add am?
FamilyRe: I'm Back With Another Wahala.... Please I Need Your Input... by Themarkethere: 9:23pm On Jan 15, 2020
bryanarchie:
I'm thinking of telling him i'll stay at the family house and if he says no, I'll call his mother to inform her of his decision...

what do you think
Don't try this, if they still haven't accepted you, their son would never share in your blame.
FamilyRe: I'm Back With Another Wahala.... Please I Need Your Input... by Themarkethere: 9:19pm On Jan 15, 2020
Because your husband who just came from there is still not comfortable with you staying with them for two days, then he probably knows much before things end up getting messy.

I would say book an hotel then go from there but tell them you came from your aunty's. If they didn't receive you well stay till evening and tell them you didn't tell your aunty you would be staying back then go to the hotel and go back the following day. But if they recieve you well join them in the preparation till next day and forfeit your hotel money meaning you have to pay for a day first. Also carry only a bag containing what you may need if you have to sleep over.
FamilyRe: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Themarkethere: 9:36pm On Jan 08, 2020
Ifyjos:
The problem is that I don’t think my guy , his friends and the 2 girls will be ready to open up , honestly haven’t told my guy about this because he just hates everything about my sister, he get so angry anytime I mentioned her name and I am the only one who want to say the truth . I just don’t know what else to do
Go and sleep for today, you can continue tomorrow. Don't respond again, just log put. Pray ehn and think on the things you have heard today till you fall sleep, tomorrow is another day to make things right.
FamilyRe: The Real Meaning Of Iyawo, Yoruba Word For Wife by Themarkethere: 6:12pm On Jan 03, 2020
MZrapper:
Orunmila and it's unending tales.

I stopped reading immediately i spotted its name.
grin
FoodRe: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Themarkethere: 11:09pm On Dec 30, 2019
sassysure:
To prestonn and mariaAngle, sorry kiss
It is fact, more than 20 people enjoyed your matchmaking vibes. It's fondly to the � and beyond it, it revealed your joyful heart.

That the smaller portion of those who don't understand the beauty of the matchmaking art, those a lil jealous and those who choose the way showed up didn't mean it wasn't worthy.
TravelRe: A Nairalander's Trip To London, Abu Dhabi & Lagos by Themarkethere: 5:10pm On Dec 24, 2019
pocohantas:
Walahi, someone like Philip0906 will die of we even date, let alone marry. grin
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When I opened this thread because of the title, I said I was going to stop at page 2 but when I saw your first shot, knowing what you are capable of, I followed till now not because of Alex but you.

Your boldness and intelligence is legendary. You are a pace setter. Know this girl, more are for you than against you... Please do me this one favour, don't respond to any idiot again they are almost succeeding in dragging you to their gutter life. Fret not, soon nairaland world go clear road for the girl wey Sabi.

Pocohantas see why I followed the thread no you, it stopped being about the travel, it revolves around you because gold fishes can't hide.
FoodRe: How To Make Eba That Is Elastic As Starch, But Firm Like Eba by Themarkethere: 4:40pm On Nov 30, 2019
jemigold:
I don't think it has a name, no idea about jumia. I just know you can get that type of garri in delta state.
Here is your answer. Also after making the garri cover it for 5-10mins before turning..try this with the garri you have and see the difference then imagine with the effect with the right Delta garri.
CrimeFct Express by Themarkethere(op):
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FamilyFct Express by Themarkethere(op):
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Are you looking for a reliable some one to quickly help you do or get or buy something for you without having to go through the financial, phisical stress and risks?

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FamilyRe: Fellow Introverts I Have A Question For You by Themarkethere: 7:58pm On Oct 13, 2019
Yes too much loneliness is the reason, yes also it is an introvert thing. You loose interest easily because the first sight of failure reminds you of the past failures and then you quit because you are not ready for another heartache. As such you only want to lunch again when you are � sure it will work and that might take eternity consequently delay. But if you lunch into something and it works you stick on and give out of the world's best right?

An extrovert on the other side just lunch out without thinking about the pit falls, he only realised he should have thought about it first before after failure but he may have struck on success as well, also he forgets quickly and thus doesn't recall the last failure when he wants to repeat a challenge.

It is the singular reason most extroverts would make it big first before their introverted counterparts even though the introverted one hass the best methods.

Solution is to go out there and stuck it out there even if the comfort of your home calls you because that loneness that gives that comfort is the same prison wasting your years.
FamilyRe: I’m Suspecting My Wife by Themarkethere: 9:03pm On Sep 22, 2019
When you turn a blind eye to the looks that will look back at you only for the looks every one see only to realise that the eyes you used in seeing the looks is same the looks stares back at.
FamilyRe: Market Here by Themarkethere(op): 6:55pm On Sep 20, 2019
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FamilyRe: Market Here by Themarkethere(op): 6:22pm On Sep 20, 2019
What is that issue in your relationship that worries you so much, you want good counsel for?

You want advice on something in your relationship but you feel it is not so big to disturb nairaland for yet it disturb you so much.

You have gotten advice but you still want to go deeper and bare it or with a knowledgeable one for counsel.

Or you just need to talk to someone to ease the pain in you.

Send a mail to marketthe1960@gmail.com
FamilyRe: Market Here by Themarkethere(op): 6:20pm On Sep 20, 2019
Your child perceives your love from his primary love language. Although he benefits from the other love languages you speak, the primary language speaks louder than the others. Primary love language may change over time as your child grows, identifying and speaking your child's own is most important. It takes less than 5years to figure a child's love language so use all as they grow, the one the child craves more than others is their love language.


You can spot a child's love language from words like
"I know my parents love me because they always hug and kiss me"
"I feel loved because my parents always tells me positive things about me and encourage me to do better"



The love languages are:
A. Physical touch
B. Words of affirmation
C. Quality time
D. Gifts
E. Acts of service


A. Physical touch is not only in hugs and kisses but pat on the back, head, arm, holding hands etc
Most parents think a touch for boys will effeminate them but rather it will build their emotional tanks, build healthier self esteem and sex identity. Boys tend to resist hugs and kisses affection in adolescent but they need touch on back, arm etc and it should be used alot in time of sickness, hurt, funny circumstances they should be touched as girls. Boys shouldn't be hugged in public or presence of friends.
Touch should be spontaneous not forced. It can be done during
_praying by holding hands
_kisses even if your child feels old
_Group hug
_Games that requires touch like singing, clapping, jumping, spinning
_ Have tickle fights, give high five
_ Snuggle closely together when watching movies
_Hug after discipline
_ Stroke hand or rub back when they tell you about a difficult day



B. Words of affirmation, it includes:
_Words of endearment like I love you, your hair is beautiful

_Words of praise like that was a great act. It shouldn't be too often so as not to expect it and feel something wrong when not used. It should be rightly used because they know when you are lying

_words of encouragement like I noticed the way you shared your snacks, it is good to share; it encourages inner motivation to share against natural desire to board.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Themarkethere: 7:28pm On Sep 18, 2019
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HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Themarkethere: 7:25pm On Sep 18, 2019
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HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Themarkethere: 7:20pm On Sep 18, 2019
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HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Themarkethere: 7:17pm On Sep 18, 2019
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FamilyRe: Help My 13year Old Daughter Life Revolves Around Cardi B by Themarkethere:
bugativeron:
This is wonderful, thanks for the insight and nugget sharing. Regards
You are welcome. I forgot to add start introducing them to adult responsibilities. They enjoy it when you or wife allow them be in charge occasionally, it makes them feel respected, like the adult they think they now are, what you will gain here is that with time they will become responsible because they are already taking responsibility. It should be introduced occasionally till they master it not full responsibility. Let them be incharge of the devotion, plan, cook and serve meals, do for the younger ones somethings your you or your wife do for the younger ones or how you run somethings in the house, try not to be judgemental when they don't do it perfectly, but guide and encourage, trust me they will become better. Also start with things that won't cause you too much heartache if they don't do it well.

Let them learn new languages, skills, if your son is older take to driving school. When you buy the kind of books I mentioned in my last comment, let them review it for you in writing and orally. I wish you grace with grooming these funny beings.
FamilyRe: Help My 13year Old Daughter Life Revolves Around Cardi B by Themarkethere: 10:30pm On Sep 15, 2019
Try to be careful with your words with her when you are angry, if it is you who ask about Cardi B next time, she would say she doesn't know.

Your son's addiction should also be checked, at this stage they are bored by a lot of things so if you don't engage them on time with things that interest them, when they find one they become hooked on it. This means you have to scout for other interesting things that also catches their fancy to share the time and energy given to their addictions and possibly distract them.

Firstly, I hope your wife doesn't watch entertainment too much as well. Find out her close friends, they may also be hooked on entertainment news mainly and it possibly takes 90percent of their conversation.

You can start to diversify her channels, when watching TV together, you can see some entertainment news not about CardiB to get glued to the same TV with you, after a while switch to news or something more educating yet entertaining and stay longer. While at it try not to comment, trust me they HATE it when parents make comments like what did you learn? what happened in a scene you both watch, interpretating characters or comparing them to their time etc you can watch their reactions with side eyes. Engage them in entertaining books reading, sports like basket ball, swimming etc allow them have their friends over so that you can spot and fish out negative influencing ones, you can also do this through your wife who can ask question about her friends and what they talk about.

More importantly, find out their primary love language and use it often. Build their self esteem with words, books. Children with esteem issues easily fall into the path that leads to addiction.
HealthRe: NEW BORN BABIES! Are U A New Mum? Then Lets Discuss Babies Here!!!!! by Themarkethere: 9:42pm On Sep 13, 2019
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