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Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:19pm On Aug 30, 2009
tubabie:
Its been a long time I heard this phrase grin.
I just hope you're ready to tell her the meaning when she asks you. . . yes, she will ask you because you highlighted it grin grin
Romance › Re: Would You Trade Your Religious And Cultural Beliefs For Love by TheSeeker(m): 11:16pm On Aug 30, 2009
I don't get it. First you mentioned yourself and again your mate -- which one?

That lady is dictatorial and in the wrongest of ways. In her family, did they give her mom's last name as hers and his siblings'? That's stupidly taking you/your mate for granted and for a cheap ride too. Give the child her parents' last name my black foot. Some of these white people can't stop getting you furious.

As for circumcision, I think the both of you have to sit down and talk it out but as for the name, don't ever let it happen. If she needed to give her child her parents' last name, she could have just gone for surrogation. angry
Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 11:02pm On Aug 30, 2009
And as usual, you'll be the wedding planner? cheesy
Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 10:58pm On Aug 30, 2009
[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=261058.msg4453027#msg4453027 date=1251669305]tell your brother there is a way to differentiate between guys and girls. lollol unless you're intentionally picking on him
I hope he took the advice to stop using lip gloss.[/quote]So off point! You don't know who I'm talking about wink
Forum Games › Re: Answer The Question Above U And Ask Yours by TheSeeker(m): 10:55pm On Aug 30, 2009
No.
What is it?
Romance › Re: My Husband Sent A "can We Be Friends" Text To A Lady by TheSeeker(m): 10:54pm On Aug 30, 2009
C2H5OH:
lmao no. i'd rather be the good boy type. don't worry, i am certain kunbee will love you for better or worse.
Oh! You mentioned if you had the balls so I thought you'd like the offer. But be a good boy, it goes a long way. According to a joke I heard from a Nigerian comedian, he said, "Naija babes heart no dey break again, their heart compress and inflate because it's now made of ponmo," So beware.
Kunbee told you that or is that one of your numerous assumptions (like the one you said about McCain winning the election)? LOL
Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 10:48pm On Aug 30, 2009
Kunbee:
your broda and one girl dat her name sounds like being united lol

I no harsh me sef i know and its oyekunbi kiss
My brother, N2D, can flirt with anyone that walks in skirts or female jeans, even if it's a guy angry And who is the united trying to snatch?
Romance › Re: Your Bf Lets His Friends Hears Your Teleconversation All The Time! Why? by TheSeeker(m): 10:45pm On Aug 30, 2009
@Waxxy: You're so right about best friends taking over their friends' girlfriends. It's happened a lot of times with people close to me and still is happening.

Gabry, there's a limit to what a guy should divulge about his relationship to his friends (I don't know how it works in the female world). Most discussions in a relationship should be your business, and for a guy to run his mouth telling his friends stuffs about his discussions with his girlfriend is just insipid.
When friends know almost everything or at minimum, important facts about your relationship, they practically know your weak point and if they don't know it they can tug it and find a weakening spot. It's just so unhealthy.

For guys, some supposed best friends had better not be in close relationship with your girlfriend or she'll be hearing things she's not supposed to hear -- most of which might be untrue or true but twisted and laced with some pure lies. It's really complicated.
Romance › Re: My Husband Sent A "can We Be Friends" Text To A Lady by TheSeeker(m): 10:22pm On Aug 30, 2009
C2H5OH:
lol if i had the balls i would be able to easily treat girls like that.
but i'm too nice, i can't. conscience won't fit allow me rest
I know this conscience that can let you rest for the rest of your life. Do you want to trade? grin
Forum Games › Re: Answer The Question Above U And Ask Yours by TheSeeker(m): 10:16pm On Aug 30, 2009
Don't know what you're talking about

Can you explain?
Romance › Re: My Husband Sent A "can We Be Friends" Text To A Lady by TheSeeker(m): 10:05pm On Aug 30, 2009
C2H5OH:
lol your husband wants to be friends with another breezy he met at the bank.
how about a dinner date next
Is that what you did to that girl you told me about? grin
Romance › Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by TheSeeker(m): 9:59pm On Aug 30, 2009
[quote author=EDO/YORUBA link=topic=313164.msg4452799#msg4452799 date=1251665681]@ the seeker. yes pls wat are u seeking sir?. is anybody chasing you? or are u chasing anybody?, lol[/quote]
tithe:
@Theseeker, and wat ar you seeking.
You can't help me find what I seek grin
Romance › Re: Yoruba Girls Love Igbo Guys A Lot by TheSeeker(m): 9:53pm On Aug 30, 2009
[quote author=EDO/YORUBA link=topic=316919.msg4452729#msg4452729 date=1251664849]@ TheSeeker. Whao Dude Seems like my comment offended you a bit. I sincerely apologise. Didnt mean no harm. In re-phrasing my statement. I should have said." THE FEW IGBO GUYS IM CLOSE TO, ARE'NT THE BEST AT TALKING TO LADIES"

Im the least tribalistic person ever. and im infact married to an IGBO GAL.

All we,r saying is that statistically igbo gals date yoruba guy, much more than yoruba gals date igbo guys.

Rgds[/quote]That's more like it. Offended? No, I don't think I was. I just expected a more logical statement -- or an exact but true assertion wink But it's OK though.[quote author=EDO/YORUBA link=topic=316919.msg4452736#msg4452736 date=1251664927]Heavy artillery , lol, maybe the guy nah village warrior, lol[/quote]ROFLMAO grin grin grin I'm trying to picture what state and/or position she was when he was saying those things? Was she laying on the floor and the hewas kicking her like Iranian police did those protesters? grin
Romance › Re: Can You Date A 16 Year Old Girl? by TheSeeker(m): 9:47pm On Aug 30, 2009
~Coughs~ Am I interrupting? grin
Fashion › Re: Keeping Your Lotion Refrigerated Gives Better Result! True Or False? by TheSeeker(m): 9:13pm On Aug 30, 2009
[quote author=na2day? link=topic=314268.msg4448018#msg4448018 date=1251571600]wetin bi lotion oo? shocked shocked shocked


chei! ! ! so that drink i gave our neighbor to drink was your urine? shocked shocked shocked poor guy, i told him it was advanced lemonade with cherry flavor grin grin[/quote]How did you know the taste? grin
Romance › Re: Yoruba Girls Love Igbo Guys A Lot by TheSeeker(m): 8:54pm On Aug 30, 2009
[quote author=EDO/YORUBA link=topic=316919.msg4452365#msg4452365 date=1251659896]@olusolami . Wow . Sorry for your experience. Absolutely despise and detest any man raising hands on their woman. What I certainly know is that igbo guys aren't the best at talking to a lady nicely and respectfully or knowing the nice things to say to a gal. . But then Il say its not good to generalise. I mean im sure there are some good igbo guys out there.[/quote]You wish that in your dreams. How can you be so sure? There you're saying it's not good to generalize but you actually are doing just that. If Igbos are disrespectful to women, what importance do you think is attached to the high bride price? That depicts what value and respect they accord their women. Stop trying to be ignorant.

@Olusolami, sorry about the situation you found yourself in. You see, you took the bullshit for a year, no one forced you to stay but it was your decision to do so. However, I'm sorry to hear that.

@OP
I don't think anyone has the right stats to measure up if Yoruba girls love Igbo guys more or Igbo girls love Yoruba guys more or vice versa. I'm not a big fan of tribalism. A man is a man when it all comes down to being distinctive but the environmental influence matters though; nonetheless, a man will be who he wants to be regardless of where he is from.
Personally, all my ex girlfriends are Yoruba girls --- no Hausa, no Igbo. All of them have their differences and my tribe never had anything to do with my relationships with them. . . . I still never disrespected any of them, neither did I hit any or yelled at any at any point in time. So who's coming up with that fake theory that Igbo guys don't know how to treat women?
Fashion › Re: Adidas Or Nike Sneakz by TheSeeker(m): 8:35pm On Aug 30, 2009
Nike's got name, Adidas got quality. I'd rather get value for my money than a name; so I go with Adidas. I currently have 12 sneakers from them and still counting. wink
Romance › Re: Can You Spot A Cheater? by TheSeeker(m): 8:22pm On Aug 30, 2009
Secretz:
Unless you witness the person with your 2 eyes cheating, I don't see how you can 'spot' a cheater, but you can most certainly 'spot' a bullSHITTER! grin
Very correct!
Romance › Re: Can You Spot A Cheater? by TheSeeker(m): 7:02pm On Aug 30, 2009
Oyinda, your ideas are so 90% spot off! No one can exactly tell who a cheat is until he acts it. BTW, who says only men are cheats? Give some signs of female cheaters too and let's see what's up with that.
Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 6:56pm On Aug 30, 2009
Kunbee, who's the adulterer and the husband snatcher?
Culture › Re: Juju: When Will Someone Give Us A Demonstration? by TheSeeker(m): 6:39pm On Aug 30, 2009
Juju? Can you wait for the demonstration?
Romance › Re: Please Write An Open Letter To Your Ex by TheSeeker(m): 6:03pm On Aug 30, 2009
How and why does my name keep popping up in your discussions?
Romance › Re: My Husband Sent A "can We Be Friends" Text To A Lady by TheSeeker(m): 5:59pm On Aug 30, 2009
Trust is one thing you're lacking in your marriage. Until you work on that, I have nothing to say.
Culture › Re: Scotland Put Map Of Nigeria In Their Currency by TheSeeker(m): 5:53pm On Aug 30, 2009
spikedcylinder:
Why didn't they just put Mary Slessor's darn picture on it?
Must you rake over the coals on this? Huh?

@OP

It's interesting that despite most countries find Nigeria embarrassing, a country such as Scotland has taken that national pride to put a part of Nigeria's map on their currency. What more can I say?! Only if those glutton leaders will see and act better.
Culture › Re: The Population Of Males Exceeds Females by TheSeeker(m): 4:46pm On Aug 30, 2009
Seun:
And how many of the women they are chasing are the real wife materials? It works both ways man.
Yes, it works both ways but not in the same proportion. Line up ten people from both genders -- you'll find more wife materials in ten than you'd find husband materials in ten.

The truth is good men are not in abundance as much as good women are.
Culture › Re: Why Do Africans Like To To Imitate The Western Culture? by TheSeeker(m): 10:07am On Aug 30, 2009
Finally from Wikipedia


Tattooing has been a Eurasian practice at least since around Neolithic times. Ötzi the Iceman, dating from the fourth to fifth millennium BC, was found in the Ötz valley in the Alps and had approximately 57 carbon tattoos consisting of simple dots and lines on his lower spine, behind his left knee, and on his right ankle. Other mummies bearing tattoos and dating from the end of the second millennium BC have been discovered, such as the Mummy of Amunet from Ancient Egypt and the mummies at Pazyryk on the Ukok Plateau.

Pre-Christian Germanic, Celtic and other central and northern European tribes were often heavily tattooed, according to surviving accounts. The Picts were famously tattooed (or scarified) with elaborate dark blue woad (or possibly copper for the blue tone) designs. Julius Caesar described these tattoos in Book V of his Gallic Wars (54 BC).

Tattooing in Japan is thought to go back to the Paleolithic era, some ten thousand years ago.[citation needed] Various other cultures have had their own tattoo traditions, ranging from rubbing cuts and other wounds with ashes, to hand-pricking the skin to insert dyes.

Tattooing in the Western world today has its origins in Polynesia, and in the discovery of tatau by eighteenth century explorers. The Polynesian practice became popular among European sailors, before spreading to Western societies generally.
Bottom line: I certainly agree with the book I read that tattoo originated from Africa.
Culture › Re: Why Do Africans Like To To Imitate The Western Culture? by TheSeeker(m): 9:52am On Aug 30, 2009
Body decoration has a very long and strong tradition for the African people dating back almost 6000 years to the pharaohs of egypt and many of the body painting and tatauing rituals have still survived over the centuries. On the one hand it survived in some regions because the natives were, and still are, making their living serving tourists as photo models. On the other hand because civilization didn't advance to many parts of the third world countries yet, especially in the southern regions. In those from civilization untouched regions it survived because the natives, bushmen and pygmies are still carrying out their rituals like their forefathers did thousands of years ago. In some tribes of norther Africa the art of tatauing is still left from mothers to their daughters. The images on the skin, climbing work of points, straight lines, crosses and triangles, work as amulet. They illustrate the fertility of a woman, enure her health, wealth and repel transcendental forces. And because the natives believe those forces are entering the body through it's holes, the women mostly apply the patterns on their face and parts on the body that can not constantly protected with clothes.

The Scar tatau has survived until today with some tribes of black Africa, the so called ethiopic race. Therefor the skin is pulled up with a thorn, some tribes use a fishing hook, and incisions are made with a sharp knife or a razor blade sometimes cutting out the skin part completely. To ease the pain oil, flour and healing herbs are applied. The results of this procedure are small scars decorating the skin with diversified patterns. The scar decoration tells about the social standing of someone since not everybody can afford an extensive scarification because the procedure is performed by specialists and is very complex and expensive. The more complex the scars are the higher is the social standing of the carrier.

Adorning scars also characterize a certain age class. In some places the first incisions are already made after birth and more scars follow in continuous intervals. At women, for instance, scars are applied after the first menstruation, after child birth or after the breastfeeding period. At the same time the scarifications are considered as a beautification since they ensure success with the other sex. The scars show overcome diseases, physical qualities and awards of personal achievements and you only become a real men or women with the scars.

Scar designs also simply characterize a tribal designation. A simple sign of local and related groups but no matter which tribe or which region, people without any scars are treated as misfits and cowards. Many African governments have made scar decorations illegal by law nowadays but those practices are still carried out secretly in most of those countries.

To get an overview of the art of the body painting in Africa is an almost impossible venture. Each region had, and sometimes still has, their own motives which could vary from family to tribe. In the Republic of Niger, for instance, the man used to painted themselves for hours for the groom exhibition. In southern Ethiopia again, tribes would use body paintings as a designation of ancestry and affiliation when going to battle. In neighboring Kenya the men painted themselves according to their age group and in Tanzania young men painted themselves to enhance their health and abilities for the transition into adults. On the contrary in Sudan body paintings were applied for big, social occasions and in Zaire, to display the social elite of a tribe, especially red colors were used. In south Africa the young men painted themselves, during the transition process to adulthood, extensively with the color white symbolizing their standing outside of society during this transition but at the same time getting closer to their ancestors.
The book may the right after all.
Romance › Re: Your Bf Lets His Friends Hears Your Teleconversation All The Time! Why? by TheSeeker(m): 9:41am On Aug 30, 2009
I guess it depends. Girls can do it sometimes for fun and that's understandable as long as she's not trying to mock the guy. wink
Culture › Re: Why Do Africans Like To To Imitate The Western Culture? by TheSeeker(m): 9:35am On Aug 30, 2009
Whether they are on arms, legs, ankles or buttocks, tattoos are painted all over our bodies by injecting ink into our skin.

A needle attached to a hand-held tool injects ink into the cells of the dermis-a section of our skin that keeps tattoos from fading and stretching. The tool moves the needle up and down at a rate of several hundred vibrations per minute and penetrates the skin by about one millimeter. The ink that is left in the skin after the injection process is the tattoo.

Decorating our bodies with tattoos is a popular fad among many people.

The word, tattoo originates from the Tahitian word tattau, which means "to mark" and was first mentioned in explorer James Cook's records from his 1769 expedition to the South Pacific. [b]However, some scientists believe that the earliest known evidence of tattooing dates back to markings found on the skin of the Iceman, a mummified human body that dates as far back as 3300 B.C.

More widely recognized are tattoos found on Egyptian and Nubian mummies dating from about 2000 B.C.
[/b]Classical authors mention the use of tattoos in connection with Greeks, ancient Germans, Gauls, Thracians and ancient Britons.

Tattooing was rediscovered by Europeans when they came into contact with Polynesians and American Indians through their explorations. Because tattoos were considered so exotic in European and U.S. societies, tattooed Indians and Polynesians amazed crowds at circuses and fairs during the 18th and 19th centuries.

The practice of tattooing has different meanings to various cultures. Decoration was the most common motive for tattooing and that still holds true today.

In some cultures, tattoos served as identification of the wearer's rank or status within a group. For instance, the early Romans tattooed slaves and criminals. Tahitian tattoos served as rites of passage, telling the history of the wearer's life.
Culture › Re: Why Do Africans Like To To Imitate The Western Culture? by TheSeeker(m): 9:29am On Aug 30, 2009
[Quote][b]The origin from tattoos isn't really known. It's said that the art of tattooing first started in about 12,000 BC. In recorded history, tattoos began in Egypt during the time of the construction of the great pyramids. [/b]Other countries like Greece, Crete, Persia, and Arabia picked up on tattooing around the same time. Later on, around 2,000 BC, tattooing spread to China.Tattooing did get to the West for a while after than, but was banned in 787 AD by a pope. It then reappeared in the early 18th century by a sailor who traveled throughout the South Seas and brought back a Polynesian who was covered in tattoos. He became an attraction for London. Even with this attraction, tattoos didn't make their mark in the west until about a hundred years later. Then in the late 1700's, another sailor brought another heavily tattooed man, another Polynesian, this man stuck with the British public and soon people were getting tattoos, but in very discreet areas. At last, the art of tattooing finally came to America in the early 1900's in New York. After the depression on the late 1920's and early 1930's, the center for tattooing was in New Jersey in Coney Island. Now in our day of age, tattooing is everywhere and is rapidly gaining speed for being an actual artform.[/Quote]
Culture › Re: Why Do Africans Like To To Imitate The Western Culture? by TheSeeker(m): 9:21am On Aug 30, 2009
eddy1977:
i would have to respectfully disagree with you here dear. mayas and incas had tatoes as well, did they copy that from africans?

also, i have never heard of any westerner claiming that tatooes originated from them, not in a book not on tv not anywhere. so, would you kindly tell me where you learned your wonderfull infos from? i would be very honored to double check. thank you.
[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=293110.msg4450175#msg4450175 date=1251616236]lipsrsealed ummm tattooing is practiced world wide and is not native to any particular place
it's practiced all over asia, europe etc. from years BC lol

even on the topic we were both on recently, the nazis marked the jews with identification tattoos in the concentration camps. don't think that idea came from africa either lol[/quote]I read a book that said something about that. I'll have to remember the title or the author and get back to you. I don't know where the author got that information from but for the most part of the book, everything is informative. I'll try if I can remember the book; but I am very sure it was first found in Africa, and its origin is from there --- I was just stating that the book had some great facts apart from it stipulating tattoo was from Africa.

There are facts which I can't verify to be true but still makes a lot of sense. Like there's an article I read last year that mentioned that people were black before and they migrated from Africa (I don't know how true that is) but Egypt did exist in the Bible and it sure is an African country.
Nairaland General › Re: Who Are The Top Ten Most Popular People On Nairaland? by TheSeeker(m): 9:16am On Aug 30, 2009
I no fit shout grin

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