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Business / Re: HELP! How Do I Stop Okash From Calling Me? by TheVictorious(m): 7:28pm On Jul 28 |
I've been experiencing the same thing. About to send an email to NCC and other relevant parties, reporting them. Please accept my request to email you, so I will forward my email to you. If many of us could send similar emails to relevant bodies they might take action. |
Food / Re: See 1000 Naira Tomato I Bought In Abuja Today: Photo by TheVictorious(m): 5:07pm On May 28 |
Mom007: Lol, Nigerian "experts" sef |
Family / Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by TheVictorious(m): 1:30pm On Nov 23, 2023 |
Ginaz: I've read the most recent comments and I'm really excited. You are a kind person, but you're also very emotionally sensitive - that in itself is good if you learn to apply it intentionally (I'd recommend Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman) And may God bless you abundantly for all you do ma'am, pls don't relent. |
Family / Re: was I Wrong In Wanting To End Friendship With My Friend? by TheVictorious(m): 1:05pm On Nov 23, 2023 |
I was enjoying your narration until I read the part where you blocked her, you were very emotionally aware until then. You should have reached out to discuss, so that even if it'd lead to ending the friendship, you'd have been certain that that's exactly what she was trying to communicate indirectly. You didn't try at all. Please unblock her and still reach out, tell her you took the action of seeking to let her be in a bid to empathize with her because you infact thought she wasn't too comfortable with your closeness, and then hear what she'd say. |
Family / Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by TheVictorious(m): 1:25pm On Aug 25, 2023 |
AllBlack: You still don't get the drift. The majority of those in poor countries are stuck below the bottom of Maslow's hierarchy, and hence interpret everything in life in terms of its ability to meet their existential needs (food, shelter, and clothing). And yes there are people who are that poor in developed countries too, but they are not a good representation of the bigger population at all. Now to strike the balance between you and the other commenter, I have dated someone before who did everything possible to prove she "loved" me and won me over. I would soon realize deep into our commitment that she was leaving the option open, hoping that any random "richer" dude could come to take my place. Of course, this hurt me and I had to remove myself, as I didn't want to be one of her options, or bring myself down to being judged by material things that just anyone can get. That saved the friendship, and as we remained friends and continued to interact over time, I would later understand where she stands from a point of empathy... this person came from a village in Imo state (as a nurse) to hustle in Lagos and uplift the condition of her family - who (unreasonably) depended on her for almost everything. And so LOVE in its real meaning hardly existed in her reality. In fact, something as basic as the love of parenting (where children should find their first real love) was never experienced by people like her. Most of the care they got from their very own parents was bargained, and it's especially worse for female children in such a situation, as they are warned every day from an early age while being "cared-for" that they are a commodity which a future male suitor will buy and payback for. Albeit, these things are never said directly. On this realization, I continued to support her with food (as much as I had, whenever I did have) - what she needed the relationship for. She, on the other hand, I noticed that she continued to "love" and accept "love" from everywhere she could find it. A year down the line, she got pregnant for someone and confided in a mutual (female) friend of ours whom she was at the time close to that she wasn't sure whether it was the guy who sponsored her to Lagos or someone else who flew her for a trip to PH that was responsible, but she settled for someone sha. And lol, that was when I further realized that it was even another man who promised her (and her family) marriage that even sponsored her to Lagos in the first place. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Why Do Most Nigerian Women Think This is The Only Way To Express Love by TheVictorious(m): 10:22am On Aug 25, 2023 |
AllBlack: The other guy was right. Do you know what Maslow's hierarchy is? |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Job Hunting In The City Of Abuja by TheVictorious(m): 11:16am On Jul 03, 2023 |
I will really appreciate it if you could share what skills you learned from that lab you talked about. Also, did you pay or was it on a scholarship basis... What were the selection criteria? Also, have you now gotten a job with it, and tell us about it? This could be of help to other people here in your situation seeking to transition too. While trusting the lord in faith, and praying, I'm sure there are one or two right steps they can learn to start taking from your experience, and mistakes to avoid too. Thanks and may God bless you. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: Photos And Videos Of The Lagos Reception For President Tinubu by TheVictorious(m): 10:45am On Jun 30, 2023 |
Angelfrost: TRUE. |
Religion / Re: The High Rate Of Immoral Sex Amongst Young People Today by TheVictorious(m): 11:59am On Jun 27, 2023 |
Monzze: Or do you mean, why am I having victory over sin daily? |
Religion / Re: The High Rate Of Immoral Sex Amongst Young People Today by TheVictorious(m): 11:33am On Jun 26, 2023 |
Monzze: Yes, by God's grace |
Religion / Re: The High Rate Of Immoral Sex Amongst Young People Today by TheVictorious(m): 1:55pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Monzze: Don't let your experience deceive you of the saving power of Christ bro. Run to Christ. He will save you to the uttermost |
Religion / Re: The High Rate Of Immoral Sex Amongst Young People Today by TheVictorious(m): 1:51pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Likoya: If this is your heart convicting you of the sin of immortality then repent when you still have the opportunity to. Christ will forgive you and set you free from this sin, bro. Stop hardening your heart or seeking to fight the vessel through which Gid is bringing your sins to your attention. May the lord help you, bro. Amen. |
Properties / Re: Help My Landlady Is Frustrating Me. by TheVictorious(m): 5:32am On Jun 20, 2023 |
OP is my bro and this issue has not been easy at all. Pls can the moderators push this to fp for more suggestions. Seun, Dominique, mynd44, lalasticlala. 🙏🏽🙏🏽 |
Politics / Re: Court Admits Evidence Showing INEC Server Had No Glitches On Election Day by TheVictorious(m): 9:40pm On Jun 19, 2023 |
goziem1982:He's challenging both actually. Without proving the compromise I'm the process, it might be difficult for him to argue the results. |
Politics / Re: Court Admits Evidence Showing INEC Server Had No Glitches On Election Day by TheVictorious(m): 9:36pm On Jun 19, 2023 |
9jatriot: A reasonable response here but you don't seem to be getting the point. The point of bvas is to ensure that accredited voters are authentic, and the point of irev is to ensure realtime uploading from the polling units, which in turn is meant to prevent alteration. Inec adopted this to reduce the possibility of changed results. Now Peter Obi's team Seema to be arguing that that process did not work (the second part of it) and against that backdrop, the results in a lot of polling units were altered to either favour other candidates (like the eventually declared winner) and/or reduce his own votes alongside. This is what he wants to use the certified tru copies of electoral materials from polling unit in kogi, venue, rivers, Lagos, etc. to argue, and he wants to prove that these discrepancies were substantial enough to overturn the election. You get? 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Girl Is Stressing Me. What Should I Do Please? (photo) by TheVictorious(m): 1:01pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
From the way I'm seeing you I don't even think quitting the relationship is the main issue here. I can deduce that if you even go into another relationship the same thing will still happen. That girl (and ladies generally) won't do such for someone they respect. For some reason, you don't seem to have any iota of respect for yourself. Do you care to discuss this? 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Girl Is Stressing Me. What Should I Do Please? (photo) by TheVictorious(m): 12:53pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Bro, you write like an educated person. I think you should respect yourself a lot more. If I may also ask, what do you really stand to benefit from this association or relationship? What's really at stake for her here? 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Girl Is Stressing Me. What Should I Do Please? (photo) by TheVictorious(m): 12:48pm On Jun 09, 2023 |
Even the screenshots too you posted didn't contradict your fears at all. She's using you. It's as clear as daylight. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Please I Need A Romantic Name To Call My Husband. by TheVictorious(m): 1:31pm On Jun 06, 2023 |
Goodlady: These are very derogatory |
Family / Re: Should I Meet Her Biological Father Before Paying Bride-Price To Her Step-father by TheVictorious(m): 7:46am On Jun 02, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Don't mind the guy, let him keep wallowing in the delusion of his dark ages "wisdom" in 2023. Like how do women even involve themselves with something so serious with people like that. Not even a single iota of respect for her and the loving family that raised her to become something in society today, baba wants to bring his own tradition and change theirs when they're not even married oh, what will now happened if they're now married? And I'm sure she will see this red flag and still continue. Later she would be the one to run to NL for advice. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Should I Meet Her Biological Father Before Paying Bride-Price To Her Step-father by TheVictorious(m): 7:37am On Jun 02, 2023 |
If I was in anyway related to that girl I would have advices her not to proceed with you because I'm sorry bro, you are not a reasonable person. 4 Likes |
Career / Re: Was I Wrong? by TheVictorious(m): 6:25pm On May 30, 2023 |
May God bless you, bro. Nigeria needs more people like you. |
Politics / Re: President Buhari Failed Woefully - Singer Lagbaja by TheVictorious(m): 12:07pm On May 29, 2023 |
MisterBanny: Maybe not express his disagreement harshly but I expected him (as a statesman) to have been constructively opposed to certain dangerous policies and/or measures taken by Buhari. On the contrary he passively and 'actively' supported them, including being on the side of hardline statist anti-market policies which Buhari continued to take... just for politics sake? It was sad. But like I said before I hope and pray that he represents a different worldview to Buhari and proves all detractors wrong for the better of Nigeria. Amen. |
Politics / Re: President Buhari Failed Woefully - Singer Lagbaja by TheVictorious(m): 7:03pm On May 28, 2023 |
MisterBanny: I don't understand it when you people say this thing about voting BAT for Buhari's maladministration bro, because Tinubu was on Buhari's team all along and never seemed to have even seen him as a failure... that alone scared me! That's the exact reason why me and many others supported Peter Obi. I just hope and pray that Tinubu proves us wrong though. 🙏🏽 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: INEC To Appeal Court's Decision On Temporary Voters Card by TheVictorious(m): 7:25am On Mar 10, 2023 |
I'm confused, in whose interest are they fighting for 1 Like |
Education / Re: Do You Need An Academic Research Writer? Here Is A Trusted One In Nigeria. by TheVictorious(m): 6:43am On Mar 02, 2023 |
telim: Are you seeking a research writer? |
Politics / Re: Peter Obi: Subsidy Must Go, I Will Remove It by TheVictorious(m): 7:49am On Jan 09, 2023 |
ganisucks: Who is your candidate? |
Education / Re: Covenant University To Build School Of Law & Medicine With N6 Billion - Oyedepo by TheVictorious(m): 9:16am On Jan 08, 2023 |
A good step in the right direction 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: Reno Omokri Reacts To Obasanjo Endorsement Of Peter Obi by TheVictorious(m): 4:52pm On Jan 02, 2023 |
lhordspy: I'm an Obi supporter but this is a wise statement. May God bless you and may God bless the Federal Republic of Nigeria. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia Blasted Ukraine Capital, Kyiv With Waves Of Kamakaze Drones by TheVictorious(m): 10:26am On Dec 20, 2022 |
Pierocash: This thing is not as straightforward as you think. With Russia, nukes are involved here, and that's the difference from the examples you cited. A hot-headed egomaniac is threatening the world with nuclear weapons if he doesn't get his way in Ukraine. And he would have a lot less to lose in the event that he is defeated in Ukraine and therefore resorts to nukes. That is why the US is treading carefully. It's like you're fighting a madman who has a gun but you have a more advanced gun, albeit guns have never been used before and this madman does not mind dying to prove his point, for as long as you go down with him. That is what is playing out. |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Campaigning In Lagos With Roads Built By Military Regime - Atiku PCC by TheVictorious(m): 12:53pm On Nov 29, 2022 |
Aufbauh: What is "modern Lagos" and what does pre-modern Lagos look like? |
Crime / Re: My Experience With Nairaland Logo Designer BAMIEDE by TheVictorious(m): 6:05pm On Nov 22, 2022 |
bamiede: Between 12:39 and 2.08 is "less than 30mins" every one can see through your lies. And how is that even the point? Did I tell you to proceed with that? I'm no more replying you, as I've said before go ahead and do whatever you want to do, and you'd see what I'd do I'm response. I'm only here to reply concerned NLers reading this thread. |
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