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PoliticsRe: Plateau Attempted Jail Break: 7 Escapees Re-Arrested by ThinkSmarter: 10:33am On Nov 29, 2021
I thought these guys said that they secured the perimeter fence while the attackers were inside yesterday?
U can never distort the truth, cuz truth is coherent and logical
PoliticsRe: Twitter Ban: FG Develops Code Of Conduct For Facebook, Instagram by ThinkSmarter: 11:16pm On Nov 28, 2021
I stand with federal govt, imagine if terrorists, criminal gangs, rebels, revolutionists etc are allowed to have a social media group where they can champion their ideology, they can be formidable.
They can pull down a government.
They can trigger chaos.
They can do the unimaginable.
U got to control fundamental human rights to avoid abuse.
Freedom of movement doesn't equal to u going around in the city in the middle of the night.
Freedom of information doesn't amount to you abusing your lecture or leader or calling to pull down a sitting goverment.
PoliticsRe: NANS Threatens To Shut Down Nigeria Over FG's Planned Subsidy Removal by ThinkSmarter: 6:40am On Nov 27, 2021
NANS leaders are looking for Roja from FG #lol
Let the subsidy be removed I beg.
Subsidy have been blamed by the government for lack of infrastructures, jobs, electricity, low wages/salaries
Christianity EtcRe: Nigeria’s Growing Atheist Community by ThinkSmarter: 6:32am On Nov 27, 2021
This is how some of us that were born in into Christianity have started to reason of recent

The man/deity called God.
First of all, let's list the attributes of the Biblical God called Yahweh, Elohim or Jehovah
God is a man according to the Bible.
God is always ascribed with the masculine personal pronoun HE.
The Bible says that God is omnipotent, omniscient and omnipresent.
The Bible and Quran described God as the most compassionate or most merciful.
But, as they say action speaks louder than voice.
Right from the garden of Eden.
God have proved otherwise and in many other scenarios in the Bible.
From the creation story in the Bible.
God is not the most powerful.
Angel Lucifer outsmarted God.
God lied to Adam and Eve that they will definitely die when they eat of the fruit of good, knowledge and evil.
God said to his fellow Gods, let's drive man away from the garden of Eden because he has eaten the fruit and have become wise like us (gods)
So that he will not eat from the tree of life and live forever.
God never had good intentions for mankind with those statements attributed to him.
God is not everywhere, God is not all powerful, God is not all knowing.
Cuz if he is, he should have known ahead of time what Angel Lucifer could do.
He should have stopped him if he is all powerful.
He shouldn't have left the garden of Eden since he is every where.
Common!, the Bible stories are just but a fairy tale that can only be taken seriously by sheeples.
God of the Bible is a blood thirsty deity that is hot tempered and kills at little provocation.
He is a dictator.
It takes a mere human like Moses to persuade the angry God to come down in his show of anger and brutality.
He ordered the killing, maiming of vulnerable people like the aged, women, children and physically challenged.
He encouraged rape and violence against women.
Read the Book of Numbers if you think that I am lying.
God of the Bible used venomous snakes to torment and kill people.
He strikes people that try to challenge his authority with illness and death.
Why am I writing this?
Do I intend to spite any one or group of people by doing this?
No, I am constrained by an inner force to write to my generation.
And to that, I appeal to my family and friends to forgive me for not living up to their expectations.
It's not my doing, that despite my strong Christian background, I still deviated and speak against what majority of the populace hold of high esteem.
I also want to use this medium to implore to all and sundry to take cognizance of my freedom of thoughts and beliefs as enshrined in the universal fundamental human rights.
The Bible actually contributed to my spiritual awakening.
Know that the Bible is a collection of Religious myths, history, religious rituals, hallucinations and magic.
Lucifer is described as the most beautiful and intelligent of God's creations but when the white man brought religion to you, they depicted Lucifer as a Black horned monster just to ridicule Black people.
U got the racism inspired Christianity?
I know that God is a figure invented to solve the mystery behind creations.
But invoking God as central figure behind the creations will lead to another intelligent questions like :
Who created God?
Where did God come from?
Who have ever seen God?
Can God come out of nothing?
Is God really in Charge?
Or that natural forces are behind all the weather, climate changes we witness in our planet?
How can the tower of Babel be real?
How many meters of structure can humans be able to raise?
With what technology was the tower of Babel built with?
Where are the ruins of such magnificent structure?
Remember, when the Bible was written, they were no telescope, no spaceship, no cars, no aeroplane, no idea of space, other planet/ planetary bodies .
People had always thought that the sky is made of crystal stones until science discovered that it was really empty.
First of all, what supports life here on earth.
Soil, air, water, sun, force of gravity and other invisible forces are the physical conditions necessary for life to thrive here.
Get rid of water from the planet and life will cease to exist, same applies to air.
U see, we can't really explain as to how intelligent life, flowers, plants, animals of different varieties started from scratch, but invoking an invisible creator deity won't solve the mystery.
So, the Yahweh of the Bible is not different from any other gods found in all regions of the world.
Superstition begot myth and myth begot religion.
Nothing is really hidden.
Nature didn't conceal anything.
It's just that we have little understanding.
We truly have eyes but can't see, we have ears but can't hear.
My people perish for lack of knowledge.
Let me burst your bubble.
Jesus Christ tried to liberate his people from religious grips.
The Elites (Roman Rulers, scribes and the Pharisees) used religion to instil fear and control the masses.
But when Jesus Christ returned from India at the age of 30, remember he left around age 12 after the passover.
He is an ascended master
He joined group of merchants and traveled East to Nepal and India where he got more educated on Eastern philosophy.
Remember Sadhauta Gautama (Buddha) was born in India many years before the birth of Jesus Christ.
And Buddhism have spread wide in the South East Asia.
Jesus Christ got so much infuriated about the way the people were burdened with heavy religious rules and rituals.
Today, bring pigeon, tomorrow bring a bull, next other time bring your 1st son and first born animals.
Jesus Christ really liberated the people but they twisted his message in order for them to continue enslaving the people through religion.
He tried to enlighten them and liberate them, this got the Pharisees infuriated and they used his frequent saying that he is a God to accuse him of blasphemy.
Just so you know, Jesus Christ was a Jewish by religion/tradition
Though his teachings slightly deviated from the Fundamental doctrines of Judaism.
Hence, was asked severally by the scribes and Pharisees "Whether he came to uphold the law or condemn it"
He tried to separate the people from Religious yokes.
He told the people that they don't need the priests or any rituals but a pure heart to access the cosmic energy.
And that was when he mandated people to go into their houses, lock it up and pray silently (meditation) not shouting in the market places like the Pharisees (Religious show offs)
Jesus Christ was actually a Jewish man by tradition/religion.
But he is an enlightened being, he got extra sensory perceptions and powers.
His teachings contradicted that of Judaism, hence the contradiction between the Old and the New Testaments of the Bible.
And that's why many passages of the old testament are not read in the church.
The truth is that the God of the Bible that is good some cases and evil in some cases is not the God that most Christians believe today.
The God that most Christian believe is a perfect God, that is all good, with no evil.
This is just but a mental construct of God in our heads which is nothing but a mere fiction.
And if you look deeply with unbiased mind, you will realize that man actually invented God after his own image and likeness.
Having realized that he, man is the only dominant creature in the world in times of intelligence which have made him to develop languages/writings, build civilizations, invent technologies.
All these advantages over other creatures made man to conclude that God is likely like him.
In my next write up, " The Religion Shield"
I will explain how people have been compelled not to ask questions concerning Religion as a way to Shield it from Scrutiny.
Religion is built on falsehood, Conspiracy and ignorance.
Truth is coherent and logical.
U don't struggle to defend the Truth.
Cuz the truth is always convincing
The universe is orderly.
The Universe is Conscious
Nothing is Concealed.
Seek, you will find.
Ask, and you shall be given.
Open your mind to nothing but the truth.
Get rid of emotions and sentiments.
And you will be close to enlightenment.
No tragedy will befall you for asking curious questions concerning your faith.
The same way that God lied to Adam and Eve that they will die is the same way that Religion lie and threaten you not to ask questions for fear of tragedy or misfortune befalling you.
The truth is that you, asking thought provoking questions about religion will awaken you to the truth and religion will lose its value and grip on you.
Know the truth and truth shall set you free.
#CuriousMind #Revealing the #Truthfulness in #OurPlanet
PoliticsRe: ESN beheads two men roast their heads in fire VERY DISTURBING VIDEO by ThinkSmarter: 6:22am On Nov 27, 2021
GodIsBiafran:
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May the Universe reward you according to your mindset.
Let me hear you say amen.
Your conscience is the God that will judge you 1st.
PoliticsRe: ESN beheads two men roast their heads in fire VERY DISTURBING VIDEO by ThinkSmarter: 11:01pm On Nov 26, 2021
Savages ,tribal bigots calling themselves Biafran agitators .
Spits!
May the Universe judge you all according to your deeds.
Ndi ara!
Ndi nzunzu
Ndi ogbu mmadu
Ndi ihe ojo na amasi
Tufiakwa!
Aru!
PoliticsRe: Amuda Massacre : Group Calls For Immediate Arrest Of 6 Bandits by ThinkSmarter: 4:56pm On Nov 25, 2021
Ezza people should stop this salvage act.
U left your ancestral home in Ezza north and Ezza south and went up north to drag lands with minority clans of Ezillo in Ishielu lga and Effium in Ohaukwu lga.
Just because their ancestors gave ur own ancestors little land to live and farm, now that u have grown in population, u want to overshadow your host communities
FamilyRe: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by ThinkSmarter: 4:30pm On Nov 25, 2021
Fiscus105:
I'm trying to tell you that, you shouldn't be gender bias in ur opinions.

The way female disappointed is the same way guys do. Try to learn how to balance ur opinions on issue raised.
Common! what is fvcking wrong with u?
i clearly told u that i wrote on the context of sexual relationship which is inline with op's topic and you are telling me to balance...
Or do i have sexual relationship with men? Or are we talking business here?
FamilyRe: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by ThinkSmarter: 1:40pm On Nov 25, 2021
Fiscus105:
Are u putting ur trust on ur gender? With my experience in life, friends, I mean male friends have disappointed me far more than female
i am speaking on the context of sexual relationship
FamilyRe: I Am Confused As A Father And As Husband by ThinkSmarter: 10:00am On Nov 25, 2021
hashbag1:
Nlanders,
I have been married for 9 years now, amidst several incidences that gave me suspicions over my wife's infidelity. The one that happened of recent gave me nothing more than great suspicion over any other.

My daughter and son got infection, they were admitted into the hospital. On this faithful day, I was there with them and I left the hospital in the afternoon to get something for them to eat, I got back with the food and quickly rushed down to my office to tidy some work. I felt hungry and decided to drive out, on my way to the restaurant leads to the hospital, I was in traffic when I put a call through to my wife whom I asked how she was coping and how the kids were doing, while on call with her, I heard sounds of car horns so I asked if she was out, she said yes that she was going to get water across the stree, so i was like you shouldnt have stressed yourself since
the house maid was with her, next thing she yelled at me saying why am I making ascertion as to who should go get the water or not, I was like but that isnt a big deal to ask, she was like well the house girl have been the one running errands all day, I responded saying instead of yelling at me, you would have just responded by saying the above.

As a responsible and concerned father, I decided to suspend dinner and branch at the hospital which took me 8 mins to get there because of traffic. On getting to the hospital, lo and behold, my wife was not there, just the kids and the house maid. I asked the house maid where madam was, she said she stepped out without saying where she was going. I immediately put a call through to her. "Babes where are you at, just got here now and you are not here". She immediately hung up on me, I called back, she didnt pick, called her again didn't pick, waited few mins and called, she picked and yelled "why are you looking for me" I was like but you claimed you went to
go get water but its been up to 15mins and you are not here yet, next thing she said was I'm in a uber car, Wow uber car when you just said you went across the street to get water, how does being in uber car relate to that. I requested a video call, I hung up the normal call and called her on whatsapp call, she didn't pick, I called her back again on normal call and said you aren't picking, she responded saying am in uber car now, call me on video again, I did but she still didnt pick. So I decided not to bother since declaring her whereabout seems frutile. She called back on normal call saying she was on her way home to pick some her items to quickly do an advertising shoot to model to her customers in the hospital room, that she didnt want me to get mad at her reason why she didn't tell me before she left, I was like its not a big deal telling me that after which I have found out she never did go out there to buy water.

Husbands and fathers in the house, in this kind of situation, what could have been your thought? As for me, something was not just right, and the most damning part of all these is leaving the kids at the mercy of just the house maid, I feel if there is something she is hiding from me and leaving the kids like that is what
the issue of trust has led us to, I am left in amazement and total disappointment.
I'm not a married man but from my experience with the opposite sex so far, I have learnt not to put my trust in any woman, even my future wife.
I have configured my mind that my girlfriend or wife may cheat on me.
No matter how rich, handsome or good in bed you are, a cheat will always cheat.
You can't change that, it's a basic animal instinct.
I hope you are not that family oriented man.
Because most responsible fathers, husbands are the worst treated people.
This is because, women are animalistically (permit me to use that word) wired to assume a caring, responsible, home-oriented man as a weakling.
Women tend to respect and impress irresponsible men that doesn't give much Bleep about their lives.
Women respect men that doesn't give them attention.
Women love men that make them feel less insecure about their looks.
Women love men that bleeps them like a stallion.
My advice: Ignore her suspicious moves.
Stop stalking her.
Don't be emotional attached to her.
Don't beg her for sex.
Instead of you to beg for sex, you masturbate in your privacy.
Treat yourself right, wear good clothes, nice perfume.
Eat good meals groom yourself.
Act like you don't fancy her beauty again.
Provide the home basic needs like foods stuffs, house rents, light bills, etc.
Stop! giving your kids too much attention( over pampering)
This is a motherly instinct.
A man that does that is not an alpha.
But still be a responsible man, not a weakling.
Stop! Attaching emotions to relationships.
It is unmanly to attach emotions to a relationship.
Stop alcohol consumption, include fruits in your daily diet.
Reduce ur sugar consumption.
Bleep her like stallion.
Be an alpha, be in charge.
Build your self confidence.
Stop making yourself so insecure in the presence of a woman.
Good luck.
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram Fighters Surrender Weapons At Gwoza As Troops Fight ISWAP by ThinkSmarter: 5:16am On Nov 25, 2021
17,000 that's a whole lot of islamic fighters. Does that mean that about 80% of Kanuri boys are jihadists?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Is there embargo on recruitment in Fed. Universities and Poly In Nigeria ? by ThinkSmarter: 1:05pm On Nov 24, 2021
Dem dey recruit codedly
PoliticsRe: *** by ThinkSmarter: 8:53pm On Nov 23, 2021
Igbo Clans like Ngwa, Mbaise, Aro, Abakaliki, Nsukka, are the most populated Igbo clans
I think they are envied cuz of their political influence due to their numbers in their respective states.
CrimeRe: Why Can't Scammers Be Tracked Down By Their Phone Numbers ? by ThinkSmarter: 8:27pm On Nov 23, 2021
othermen:
On Zenith Bank official page on social media (Facebook especially) you have loads of fraudsters using the name of the bank. A naive or distraught customer making a complaint is sometimes not responded to by the bank, but then a fraudster with the name of the bank contacts you or responds. I don’t know why the bank allows this on their official page.

If you check the screenshot, the name of the official page of the bank is very similar to the one responding to the customers complaint and the naive or distraught customer in the heat of resolving the issue, is taken advantage of. The second screenshot shows the misleading fake blue tick on such fraudulent account. I hope the banks follow up on such activities on their page and remove such fraudulent pages.
I don't think this a genuine Zenith bank official facebook page.
Because I used to chat with UBA, Access and MTN on their Official facebook pages.
Their official facebook page has a Blue ☑
PoliticsRe: Soldiers Burn Houses, Shops, Cars in Awo Omamma (Imo) In Retaliation by ThinkSmarter: 8:09pm On Nov 22, 2021
Igbo Commoners believe that the actualization of Biafra will bring their sufferings to a halt.
But elite Igbos know that Biafra won't be so easy to get and no body is ready to trade his present Comfort for the eventual chaos that comes with every war especially having learnt from the 1st civil war.
Or are you ready to sacrifice the comfort of your your beautiful one room apartment to go and stay in the bush/jungle where you will deprive yourself of the basics of life.
Get addicted to drugs, get malnourished and face death threats from the government forces?
Are you ready?
Are you ready to die at any moment?
War is a big deal.
You can't predict the aftermath .
It might be devastating.
Are you prepared for it?
Are you prepared to see women being raped by drug influenced rebels?
Are you ready to see education and business
activities grounded?
Are you ready to see beautiful structures bombed?
Are you ready to see children and your aged parents getting sick and starved?
Do you have enough resources like guns, bullets, bombs, aircrafts and combat trucks for war?
I ask again, are you ready?
Or should you embrace dialogue and go diplomatic.
The fantasy of Biafra is like the fantasy of heaven or paradise among believers
There was a country.
#ThinkAboutit
PoliticsRe: Soldiers Burn Houses, Shops, Cars in Awo Omamma (Imo) In Retaliation by ThinkSmarter: 8:08pm On Nov 22, 2021
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CrimeRe: Robbery Suspect Leads Policemen To Arrest 77-year-old Gunrunner In Delta (photos by ThinkSmarter: 7:57pm On Nov 22, 2021
WORLDISMYPARISH:
grin grin cheesy intelligent defense, he's not interested in whatever be the use.
Of course, black man doesn't know how to encourage ingenious people.
If the the Russian man that designed and crafted AK47 happened to be a Nigerian, they would have killed his dream.
PoliticsRe: Simon Ekpa To Take Over IPOB by ThinkSmarter: 7:34pm On Nov 22, 2021
Overtaking is allowed.
Like Overseas based Biafran handlers like Most Church GOs
Igbos Commoners believe that the actualization of Biafra will bring their sufferings to a halt.
But elite Igbos know that Biafra won't be so easy to get and no body is ready to trade his present Comfort for the eventual chaos that comes with every war especially having learnt from the 1st civil war.
Or are you ready to sacrifice the comfort of your your beautiful one room apartment to go and stay in the bush/jungle where you will deprive yourself of the basics of life.
Get addicted to drugs, get malnourished and face death threats from the government forces?
Are you ready?
Are you ready to die at any moment?
War is a big deal.
You can't predict the aftermath .
It might be devastating.
Are you prepared for it?
Are you prepared to see women being raped by drug influenced rebels?
Are you ready to see education and business activities grounded?
Are you ready to see beautiful structures bombed?
Are you ready to see children and your aged parents getting sick and starved?
Do you have enough resources like guns, bullets, bombs, aircrafts and combat trucks for war?
I ask again, are you ready?
Or should you embrace dialogue and go diplomatic.
The fantasy of Biafra is like the fantasy of heaven or paradise among believers
There was a country.
#ThinkAboutit
CrimeRe: SHOCKING!!!! Ebubeagu Security Members Arrest Two Child Traffickers In Ebonyi by ThinkSmarter: 7:23pm On Nov 22, 2021
So calabar women have joined I.... women in this dirty business of Human trade.
Christian/Western imposed monogamy is the cause of all these desperation.
If your wife is infertile, you marry another wife.
And if you are a husband that is medically confirmed to be impotent, kindly allow your wife to fling and born babies for you.
See as them just pack person pikin inside bagco bag like say na broiler dem carry.
CrimeRe: Robbery Suspect Leads Policemen To Arrest 77-year-old Gunrunner In Delta (photos by ThinkSmarter: 7:07pm On Nov 22, 2021
Just a craftsman
PoliticsRe: Umahi's Effect: Ebonyi Is The Only State In Nigeria With Digital State House. by ThinkSmarter: 1:04pm On Nov 21, 2021
We the Abakaliki subgroup of Igbo ethnicity have been politically,socially and economical defranchised by our very own tribesmen for a very long time, until 1996 when the military regime of Gen Sani Abacha created a new state called Ebonyi.
And here we are with so much accomplishments, especially in the infrastructural and human capital development.
may the soul of Sani Abacha continue to rest in peace, despite his shortcomings.
Of a truth, Ebonyi have been blessed with good leadership from Sam Egwu to Martin Elechi to Dave Umahi.
PoliticsRe: Digital Literacy: FG To Facilitate Exchange Program For Professional Teachers by ThinkSmarter: 9:09pm On Nov 20, 2021
It is a good development, but how will teachers in rural areas be able to charge the laptops?
I suggest you pilot the scheme with urban teachers 1st.
i suggest the government should start equiping students in the higher institutions or corp members with laptops after fuel subsidy removal
PoliticsRe: Satanic Agents Everywhere, IMF Asking FG To Remove Fuel Subsidy by ThinkSmarter: 8:58pm On Nov 20, 2021
i am a common man that got no job, but removal of subsidy on fuel and electricity will bring a bountiful economic turn up in the future.
=More revenue to build infrastructure(roads, rail, housing, agricu, health,education and create jobs
=more investors in the power sector= more electricity=no more generator=more savings(all the money u spend daily for ur generator fuel] and output
CrimeRe: Missing Young Boy Found Strangled To Death In Ebonyi State (Disturbing Photos) by ThinkSmarter: 10:07am On Nov 17, 2021
When you killed an innocent kid that is not aware of the feud existing between his parents and you, just to spite the father.
You have murdered an angel and have provoked heavens .
The universe will be so awaken to avenge the death of this innocent, harmless kid.
For what is bounded on earth is bounded in heaven.
And vice versa.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Npower: Reason Why Your Npower Payroll Status Says "Failed" by ThinkSmarter: 5:24pm On Nov 16, 2021
NASIMS back-end database mgt system doesn't really permit the update of applicants details despite providing a room for update at the client-end.
So, insincere of you.
or that u guys are test_running prototype model of ur system.
Christianity EtcRe: The Man/deity Called God by ThinkSmarter(op): 4:45pm On Nov 16, 2021
kmcutez:
Thoughts, Camera, Action aka TCA on YouTube is a very good teacher. He goes into the history of religion and has several several videos up. You should take your time to watch those videos. One particular favorite of mine is how all the world religions come from just one source. You will learn how the world operates, who is really in charge etc etc. I wanted to share a video of his but YouTube has removed the share button, but the ones below are not too bad.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nQfn3N05HYY

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aUJxDvSIy8Q

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YpMd_mkO80Y
Tnx dear for the links, i will definitely download and watch them offline
PoliticsRe: Unknown Gunmen Set Oru-west Magistrate Court Ablaze by ThinkSmarter: 3:39pm On Nov 16, 2021
IPOB are weaklings.
they should learn from Ethiopian Tigrays on how to fight for secession, else they should stop this cowardice display and employ diplomacy
PoliticsRe: Selfish, Visionless Leaders Made North Nigeria’s Region Of Poverty- Jega by ThinkSmarter: 3:32pm On Nov 16, 2021
Islam influenced conservative culture.
early marriage
polygamy.
high birth rate
high illiteracy rate
negligence of the ruling class/elites to drastically address the negative implication of overpopulation and lack of education
PoliticsRe: Military Enforces Curfew In Askira Uba As ISWAP Strikes Again by ThinkSmarter: 8:52am On Nov 16, 2021
The airforce should use that tucano aircrafts to deciminate those guys na!
Can the airforce detect iswap camps with the aid of prism binocular in order to launch offensives against them
Christianity EtcRe: Can You Cancel Marriage Because Of Church Denominations Difference? by ThinkSmarter: 8:39pm On Nov 14, 2021
It's a religious extremist that does that.
Me that won't mind wedding in a mosque, any church as far as I love the lady.
I will always compromise for her.
But come and force my brain to believe in the existence of middle East medieval age creator deity na.
RomanceRe: She Is Into Runs Should I Still Marry Her? by ThinkSmarter: 2:05pm On Nov 14, 2021
bigpriik:
I brought up this topic two years ago, it was about a girl i loved so much we were good friends, but she is Just into a kinda flashy lifestyle funded by runs. She always posts twerk videos on her Instagram and whatssap status and of course she is very beautiful and the kind of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with.

Hoestly I don't know why I love her, it's just crazy. Last year I deleted her number and pictures from my phone, because we had a fight over the tatoo she drew on her upper arm so I avoided her..

But yesterday I saw her in my street, meeen this girl don fine scatter and she is looking so fresh like those men are really paying her well. She called me and I answered we talked and believe me all the nuts in my head was loose because I talked to her.. embarassed,i felt all the old emotions back again and it was so strong again. I immediately collected her number and she sent me a hi on WhatsApp so we begin talking again, we chatted all Night and she told me how she missed me so much and all.

Is it sensible iI take her in, i am 29 now and rounding up for marriage and she is the only one i see but i am afraid because i feel runs girls don't really retire even after marriage..

Elders please i need your help..
I need
In life, I have seen sexually active girls in my neighborhood that became so faithful to their partner after marriage.
And I have seen sexually less active girls, cheating on their partners while pretending to be a descent wife.
The promiscuity of most women starts to wear off in their late 20s.
Most of them due realise how society treats promiscuous people, especially if you're not yet married in your late 20s while most of your age mates are married.
Some people don't really change after marriage though.
But the fear and shame of being caught in adulterous scandals do tame most women in marriage.
Follow your instincts bro
RomanceRe: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by ThinkSmarter: 1:55pm On Nov 14, 2021
DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be undecided undecided
Don't tell him, it's one of your life ugly secrets.
You both will a times steal a romantic smile at each other after your brother might have gotten married to him, but don't ever yield to the temptation of engaging in romantic move with her again, never!, except your want to attract your brothers fury and be shamed by everyone who might have heard about it.
Now, you are an innocent man that only had romance with his single girlfriend once upon a time who happens to become the brothers fiance later in life.
Such is life!
Such is Romance!
Life is a play, and we are all but characters.
But try not to play a bad role in this act/play called life.

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