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Mailthaddeus:
And to think that u posted this on Science and Technology section.....OP what technology did u use in killing this snake?

He used a plank which serves as an instrument.He then applied force making use of the law of motion.

TrumXray:
Building our own House

Buying a car is the realistic thing now.You need the car now.You will build the house as time goes.

Op,are you talking about building or renting the apartment?
You guys are not married yet but if you are thinking about where to live when you settle,I'll say you should get an apartment first and let it not be too far from her place of work.

Narcissism.That's what it's called.

Wife brandishing knives and bottles?This one na Omo ita.

MMM don cause enough gobe.

They can't be fashionable except they expose the breas.t.smh

You want a man that is spiritual but in your 3 years with him,you KNOW he's just playing church.
I don't think disciplined is a word to describe him.You say he does 'follow follow'.Disciplined people are not 'follow follow' people.
You say he's humble but you say he picks offense and ignores you when you try to correct or show him his wrongs?Humility and malice/offense don't go together.
You say he's not sensitive to your needs?In marriage,being sensitive to each other's needs is a big deal or else it will get frustrating.

I know you want marriage this year but you should accept this only IF wanting marriage this year is the most important thing for you.

SirJeffry:
So, coming to America is her day of glory?smh. The media has really overhyped this country as if it's heaven.
Rip to the deceased.

Not coming to America,making advancement more of.
If I go to America,I'll advance in my career and earn better pay.That's glorious to me.
It depends on individuals I guess.

Lol,which kain night pictures be dis?

Village people.Abasi akan.
I guess she(with the driver) was in a rush
May we never be found wanting on our day of glory.

sandeiwhite:
A guy 4yrs younger than my friend is in love with her. He has a very good job in an oil firm, very intelligent (a first class graduate), very God fearing and handsome too Infact he's full package and very serious with her. She only gave it a try for fun and now he has popped the question 'will you marry me'. The problem is she is four years older though she loves him but what will people say?? She has tried dissuading him but he's adamant, he always tries giving her everything but she always turns it down because she still don't know if it will work. It was never about the money because it was after he met her he got the job. To me 4yrs difference is too much I have talked her out but want other people opinion.

my friend my friend my friend

There's a proverb that says what you won't eat,don't bring it near your nose.Now you she got the boy hooked you she wants to back out?

She should do what will make her happy.There are some ladies who will never take the younger than option.

Greenbullet:
please tell her the truth,polio is a very powerful virus,to say it can be treated completely is to ignore its effect,it doesn't even have a cure,it only has a VACCINE ,to prevent it not to destroy it, even when it attacks ,it is virtually
impossible to stop,it will damage a human before it can be managed.get your facts right.

Guy,polio is not a genetic disease,it is acquired.This man in question suffered from polio but it was years ago.
You are talking about polio being contagious in the active stage.The man in question IS NOT undergoing the infeection now,he has passed it.He can only suffer what is called post-polio syndromes,not infect the wife or pass it to the children.

Hahahan.Odi too much.
What's with all these beatings?

The woman had probably been fasting and she gets beaten on top,na die na.

An autopsy will reveal cause of death.

Greenbullet:
I did not state that its hereditary,I only stated that the possibility of her children having is as high as their father's.

There's really no correlation.It just depends on if they are exposed to polio and if they are not properly immunized.

Greenbullet:
op,I Dont want to spoil your relationship but the truth is there is a higher chance your offsprings will be infected with polio than the rest of the other children. if you are willing to risk your children's future for him ,Go Ahead!
if not save your children the pain of polio!

Where did you get your info from that polio can be hereditary?

That small boy sef don born?smh

It might be tough but I'll advise you stand your ground.I'll only disqualify the guy based on character.
You seem to know him well enough about his character.Don't worry about your mum and her opinion of her friends.She'll learn to deal with it.
How long have you known this guy?

Dead pose.Why should that be fun?

You can accept their requests and keep conversations simple just for the sake of the kids.
If anyone tries to get unduly friendly or harsh,you just block them.
Live your life.Nobody deserves ill treatment from in-laws.

Joavid:
and don't you think it's a habit he adopted from his father?

Every child with a healthy relationship with their parents learns to do things like them. It's something they learn without knowing they learnt it.

I use to walk like my dad till I got teased in secondary school that I walk like a man, I had to adjust.
and I think the reason why I walked like my dad is because he is my only parent.

My point is, you can't judge the Paternity of a child with things like that.
It's not plausible.

This child in question never lived with his dad.The mother got pregnant and relocated so he didn't learn it.Every mallam with him kettle sha.
That woman that will bring a child and say I'm the dad will try.

Joavid:
okay. maybe you look like your dad.

Everyone doesnt.

Yea,I know the mother's genes may be dominant but the child must pick some things from you as the father that you can tell.
I know someone who doesn't look like his father but walks like him.

It's wickedness to give a man's child to another man.
A lot of men are unknowingly raising another man's child.

Maybe because I have strong genes,I can't understand how people will look at a child for many years and not 'figure' this child may not be theirs.

Happy he eventually earned himself a degree and is following his passion.

Immorttal:
dont be hasty in conclusion

Didn't you see the marriage list?

A 47yr old bride?
The bride's family is obviously a bad and a greedy family.

6 months is too early,not because of what the society feels or that he must have been cheating while the wife was sick but because his mind might still be hazy.
Trying to marry another woman quickly just to fill up the void might be a big mistake.The lady might be a wrong choice.
If it's about getting someone to care for the baby,the paternal MIL or maternal MIL can handle that.

The evil spirits will support you in court.
Crazy man.

Which one be no joystick?

Loisemm:
But Nairaland can hide these threads and investigate them offline as soon as they pop up na. Stella dimokokorkus blog does not even allow any help or begging posts to show on their comments sections. ( I didn't say scam posts o. That one na no go area sef) They delete it immediately. Nairaland can borrow a leaf from them. Treat these threads offline and only release to the public if genuine and worthy of consideration. Nairaland is becoming saturated by scam and 'pity me' threads.

cc: Seun and Oga Thorpido

Yes,a lot of scamming threads keep popping up.I believe such threads should be properly investigated before anyone offers help and the scam ones should be shut down.
I'm not against anyone genuinely asking for help online as I've seen people who can't get such help even from those around them but the fake ones have dimmed the chances of the genuine ones.

SuperSuave:
I honestly thought his wife would be older than this pretty lady I'm seeing

He married her when she was 18yrs.

Preetiex:
yes he is much older

We're not wrong afterall.
He's shown you who he really is,especially that aspect of the man taking control and being the decision maker in the home.It's left to you to begin to learn to cope with it(I'm assuming you will marry him).

Preetiex:
wat with dis uncle stuff,do u xpect me 2 date sum1 younger than me?

He sounds like he is much older than you.