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Is it only Atiku that is the only available alternative,Op?Are there not other alternatives?

That shortage of breath will keep killing them one by one.Wicked souls.

Give your child time.I believe he will get over this especially when his other sibling comes.A boy child usually is more attached to the mother at the initial stage though your son's case seems to be hyper.

This love of money eh....

Keep up with your work and hope.Keep the faith and keep pushing.
There are your mates who are in worse positions,some even dealing with health issues.

I wonder why the guy came back.You obviously didn't really want him when all those richer suitors started coming.

Left to him, I'll say you should forget about the relationship.He really won't forgive your mum and somehow I feel the hatred will spill into your relationship with him.

You should know Glutha white will bleach your skin na.A lot of women always get tempted to bleach or tone as they call it.

Vaseline will do in most cases or you could get the Cocoa butter cream

Naija........how does such a murder end up with suspects escaping and not found?

He tried.....in fact all of you tried.

Ishilove:
What the fvck did i just read?

This is definitely fiction. Smh

I don't know if this one is fiction but I can tell you there are quite a no of men whose marriages are like this.

You say she's a good woman.............I think she is unreasonable.
Her attitude may be borne out of having a low sex drive but she's not making an effort to work on herself.

It's your fault though.You saw it before marriage and still put your head.

His life will never be the same even when he comes out of prison.Wicked soul.

Some people have human bodies but their minds are something else.

Na wa o.Wetin we go call this one?

Klass99:
Some years ago my boss told me about a married couple in Lagos who have this sort of arrangement you want.

The man had his house, the woman had her's too. Both had been previously married but were divorced from their former spouses when they met and when they decided to marry they worked out an agreement.

She lives in her house and he lives in his, they spend mostly weekends together, alternating between each other's place. If she goes over this weekend, next weekend he will go over to her's. They attend social events together and when in-laws visit, her people stay at her house, his people stay at his house.

I thought that was a very cool and mature arrangement between two reasonable adults, bold enough to make their own rules and choose a path which works for them, without following societal rules/expectations. After all their choice is not hurting anyone, is it? Neither are they doing something fundamentally wrong, but trust ITK people to think or say otherwise.

Your problem is that you didn't have a two way conversation about this prior to marriage and now you want to impose/implement your desires. You for follow the babe talk all this one before marriage na. Since you didn't do that, abeg listen to her and find a way to make this work.

What is it with people marrying when they don't feel like it or marrying just to please parents?

This could work because they had both been married before.Na second hand be their own.

People need to take care of their kidneys more.Too much alcohol especially spirits and all kinds of drugs(concoctions)are not good.

Mindlog:
If he is earning less than her and she is the one picking the bulk of the bills, why does he want another child with her?

Good question.

Kaiair:
I don't think you should demand much unless you're earning less than him, working multiple shifts in a foreign country is frustrating he's not yet used to that kind of life unlike nigeria were as a civil servant you get paid even without coming to work ...so he's earnings might really be less plus his working long hours so.... just pity him, it's not easy

@bolded,please don't create an erroneous impression on international space that this is the norm.That it happens does not mean it's a normal thing.You won't get paid in most places if you don't come to work.

You're co-habiting with him and usually one person gets used in most cases and in this case it is you.
Sit him down and have a serious talk with him.Ask him what the relationship is about and what the future holds.Make a demand that he contributes more to the running of the home or you kick him out.
Don't get pregnant just yet.If he really wants to marry you,let him show the commitment.

Your boyfriend may be remitting money home for his family or his projects in Nigeria and that explains where his money is going.Let him be in and in or you show him the door.

Sat in the friend zone for 25yrs?Waiting patiently?True love?

He's simply a death row simp.

Rev King people.

KemeticPrince:
You could say anything about me and be right, but unworthiness? I doubt bro.

You're an introvert no doubt but introverts warm their way with familiar friends.
Were you friendly with your siblings?

Jbriel has given up a perfect expose.Rickpat has added something brilliant too.

Your desire to be alone has underlying roots bordering on insecurity,fear,selfishness, unworthiness etc.You will need to deal with it.
Marriage isn't a bad thing.A good marriage does more good than being single.

Odiegwu.
The Lagos State Government did well.

Which one is the Jezebel instruments? Microphone dey there?

The imagination of some people's minds sef.

Yawa

I hope issues like this don't make it more difficult for foreign trained doctors to practise.

When she noticed a car following her she should have dashed off to where there is a crowd?
i pray she is found hale and hearty soon.

meobizy:
It wasn’t by force to visit the venue.

She had to kill two birds with one stone.

Being a paedophile is a psychiatric disorder but I still can't fathom what attraction a full grown adult will have towards a baby.

She must be insane.How far will she get with the car before she is apprehended?
She's lucky she is in America.If she was in Nigeria,her bum for know koboko.

Sometimes anger or frustration can lead to psychiatric disorders.
How do you set your house ablaze because you are angry with your wife even when your kids are in the house?