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The two verses show that you need wisdom to know when to apply each one. Just like the bible says there is a time to talk and a time to be quiet.
There is a time to answer a fool and a time to ignore him.

Men do it because they feel the woman will be hurt by rejecting what she laboured to prepare.Some women do get hurt sha.
It's useless to me sha.I'm angry and I will still go hungry?Taaaa

newguy1:
Imagine her leaning down infront of her pastor for prayer not knowing all the pastor was thinking about is how to get into her pants.
Praying by oneself is way better than asking someone else to prayer for you u might even be closer to God than dan the man praying for u

So true.She's kneeling down for prayers while the man is looking at cleavage.

diviniti:
Congratulations

How are you now?

zainyrazzy:
alo dr am also havin d same feelin it was so severe dnt i cnt move.

How many weeks pregnant are you?If you are advanced in your pregnancy then it might be the pressure.Your doctor can place you on some medication to relieve you of the pains.

Lizboh:
Pls house, my cousin said she is suffering from serious back pains at a pregnancy of less than 4 weeks, please has anybody ever experience such. Also she said the back pains is so serous that she can barely move about, even to go to bathroom is always hard for her.

Just saw ur post.I don't think pregnancy is the reason for the back pain.She needs to investigate further.Let her see a doctor who will investigate further and place her on medication as necessary.

Pelupelu:
Goodmorning dr,my prince and princess came on 1st of julY..thanks 4 d care and advice

Congrats on your double blessings.

ahnie:
Gudnoon Doc thorpido...my child hardly sleeps in the nyt.pls any suggestion?

Welcome to motherhood.Babies are usually nocturnal.They sleep more during the day and rarely sleep at night.What you do is catch up on sleep during the day while your baby sleeps.

afeezmore:
they can never, ever in anyway be the same, y'all are confused, comedians even crack joke with the way pastors preaches, u all laugh at ur religion, is that not stupidity, wetin make pastor chris dey beg say make comedians no dey use men of god play, unah never know anything mtcheww... pastor dey fly with jet, church member dey wear rag, infact church to me is business, not the other way round...i pray oo. new testament, old testament GOD send unah message, nah unah sin pass, only the way girls dress to church like say them dey go allen with mini skirt, mtchew how pastor no go dey confused, cd diff 4rm CD peace..

sheer ranting!

IBB has always had this air surrounding him.Though he messed up the country economically and otherwise,he has always been a man for the top.

hayor93:
whreas xstianity has brainwashed u wif d fake gospel of Jesus

Dey dia dey misyarn.Why didn't Allah through Muhammed or Muhammed through Allah preserve the original gospel?

Let me tell you the truth.Stop trying to save what is dying and is comatose.The trust between you and your guy is dead and you will just both be patching if you force it.
A lot of ladies in your shoes have forced the relationship only for them to regret it because the guy just plays the field.
Move on.Look forward to a new relationship and make sure you have ended your revenge game before you start.

Oturugbeke !

Lots of fake pastors taking advantage of the flock.

If you don't understand,why don't you stick with what you know instead of just showing public ignorance?Who ever told you Christians believe in three Gods?
Let me ask you a question;is the light of the sun and the heat of the sun the same?If your answer is no,then the next question for you is;is the heat and the light of the same sun?

Weah96:
Freewill implies that the God is lacking the power to know the future. For someone who claims to exist outside of time and know people before they're born, I don't think that there's a lot of freewill going on. In fact, freewill contradicts the existence of the God because we've been told that everything happens according to his will.

Eg. Permission was required to punish Job who was a Christian in his own time. Satan and Job couldn't do anything, they both needed approval. Not only that, but the God ALREADY knew the outcome of the horrible game. It was Satan who didn't know.

Everything does not happen according to God's will.Well,He didn't create man to function that way.
The story of Job requires spiritual insight to understand it.I don't have the time to explain now.
You're an atheist so probably will not understand.God's ways are beyond logic.

Weah96:
Later you will say that the same person was the creator of all hearts, ears, and eyes. How can a creator not know how to operate his own product?

When He created man,He created him with a free will because he was made in His own image.He does not control man even though He created man.
If He wanted robots,then they would have had total control.
Knowledge is key.

How can you marry a man you have no idea how many kids he wants or his desire for children?
I think you should let his family know about this especially his mother.I'm sure she'll give him hell.

When last did u see your period?

Some people just have evil running in their blood.

MarvellousGod:
So when you get your wife pregnant, you leave her at home everyday cos of some behaviours she has no power over?
Na you give am belle so you should be ready for the consequences

However, we ain't sure what causes Op husband's behaviour. . May not be pregnancy...

I don't think it's pregnancy.The Op's husband is just not ready for responsibilities.

Naija oil money.

Sorry Op,you married a boy who isn't ready for marriage.I believe you dated him but chose to marry him even though you must have seen this.
I wouldn't want you to start thinking of divorce just yet.However,his situation will require a lot of patience from you.Some men like him change over time but some don't and only get worse.
Keep talking with him about this and also involve his parents.Let them know the kind of lifestyle he is living.
Pray about this also(I know the world is turning from God),but prayer works.Ask God to distance him from friends who are not helping him keep his home.

She obviously grew without knowing her real father as her father.In such a situation,whoever raised her is her father and should be the one to accept the bride price.

If she wants to talk about her situation,then let her do it on her own accord.Don't try to force her.You have to make the choice to accept her the way she is.She already told you she doesn't 'have' a biological father.

If things are tough for you now(I.e.joblessness and lack of finances),I will say you should accept the offer.However,have it at the back of your mind that it's a temporary solution and you work towards moving out soon.

The Nigerian parliament and the government should look at ways to enact laws to better punish rapists.

Sorry young girl but taking your life was a bad end to it all.

The story is concluded already.
Her ex-boyfriend has found himself a lady to marry.
She's single again and has to search.

damiso:
Not necessarily though I agree that for customer facing roles its a bit more tricky. Even with those its just to do with scheduling and employing excellent time management skills.

And the single men do not necessarily have to cover up or pick up all the slack.Flexiblity here is not just on the part of the employer but on the part of the employee.

I will use my own team as an example. I am the only parent with young children with the only other parent a mother to grown kids.The others are young single men and women. We are sble to get in anytime from 8 (or 7.30) am up until 10am and can leave from 3.30 to 4.30 pm onwards. I tend to get in around the 8 (sometimes 7.30 if hubby is dropping the kids) 8.30 mark and leave at 4 or 3.30 with a 30 min lunch break . Sometimes sef that lunch us eaten on my desk when I am too busy. As long as I work my contractual 35 hours its all good.Any time over that can be taken as TOIL (time off in lieu) and that helps with emergencies without having to take annual leave.

Now you would think I would be the only person it helps. One of my young single male colleagues comes in at 10am and leaves at 6.00 everyday because he prefers going to the gym in the mornings . Another is doing his masters and so does not work Thursdays when he is at Uni. So mon tue wed fri he works 8.30 to 6 so he can have that day off to go to Uni.This means he compresses his hours so he can have that one day to improve himself professionally and academically.

So I leave at 4 they are there till 6 but I am there 2 hrs before the person who gets in at 10.Sometimes if need be like next friday, hubby will stay with the kids while I go in 8 and leave 5.30pm.Thats cos we have a deadline to meet.

I know it takes a bit of getting used to but it helps staff morale and also reduces staff attrition when enployers prioritise work life balance.

Hmmm,your experience is practical.I don't know how it can work in a place like Lagos sha.If people have that flexibility,Much of the work will definitely not get done on time or at all.

Balkan:
I m beginning to doubt this Goliath and David Fight.
how can someone bring this fake news up.
so that stone is a magnet to have been on Goliath head for that long.
Christians are gullible

You didn't show intelligence with this statement of yours.Who says this newspaper report has been accepted by christiandom?

Not saying the report is true but are u saying a stone can't be lodged in a bone/skull?

Hmmm,i'm afraid not very feasible.Most jobs even with technology demand that you are present.
If it will work at all,it will mean that those who are not getting the flexibility at work are the ones who have to do more,cover up for the working mum................the men,especially single men.

spectroscopic:
Dude! This guy wants both: work in Nigeria and earn the good pay for immediate and short-term ''flenjoring'' as well as being able to be a US citizen for future purposes (you know na)

How can he have both?Can a man be in heaven and be on earth at the same time?

Op starts by saying christians and muslims believe in one God and then begins to talk about Christians believing in multiple Gods.Are you confused?

By the way Op,if the gospel in the bible is adulterated as muslims claim,why couldn't Allah preserve a copy of the original?