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andromida:
The woman should go mad?

Nah.You know how people practice CPR using a mannequin.....just like that.

Ewuro4:
BINGO!!

@bold though

Abi now,if the kissing hungry am like that.

Is her breath okay?
Age should not be a reason to stop kissing.Some elderly people still do.
There must be something the hubby is not telling her.If he won't budge,she should get a doll to kiss.

jummiedel:
I wish i could report him to our area pastor but i dont him to loose the respect they have for him considering that hes an assistant pastor of a church.

Don't protect him............else you will have to live with him this way.
As an assistant pastor,he does wrong,won't apologise and he won't talk to you for a month?Don't let him go on with this kind of behaviour.
Confront him again about the incident and let him know you won't tolerate it anymore.Let him know the church is going to hear about it should it continue.

Ewuro4:
Okay sir. But There're other possible ways to get a FREE sitter besides thrifting a 3yr old (girl) around the block. Just saying ni, not judging anyone here coz I'm a parent too so I get the struggles fitting everybody in a tight schedule.

Actually,any responsible parent should be able to arrange that without having the kids just roam about on their own.

You were not wrong with your actions.A married man should not be exchanging love/romantics messages with an ex.
I expect you as a couple to have someone you both can look up to to intercede in this matter......a pastor,a trusted elder or counsellor.
I wouldn't say you didn't know the kind of man you were getting married to but probably hoped to live with it.
In all you do,don't let him bully you.He is responsible to you as a husband.

The man is to blame 100%.If he feels uncomfortable around a maid in his house,he can send her away.
Men should have control.

Ewuro4:
But I grew up in Nigeria and we aren't allowed to roam the front lawn not to talk of neighbour's house unmonitored, ordinary tenten sef , my brothers must be out there playing soccer with their boys. Our Dad watched us like a hawk. I only have a mental layout of my neighbours house as described by them. Even when invited to birthday parties, I dare not peek in their homes. so are they. This was late 80s/90s up. Till we all flew the nest. this is the same parenting pattern I chose to follow. My eldest kid always give me heck for that but I don't care. My house my rules.

So the sudden nonchalant attitude we read on NL are just unimaginable to take in. I mean how could a mother swallow even her spit without knowing her kids whereabout & wellbeign?? A 3 year old inside one random guys apartment. I just can't phantom it. #deep sigh#

Unfortunately,a lot of parents are running around for one thing or the other trying to make ends meet probably.It's a kind of relief if they can get someone's flat to hang in for some hours while they sort out other things.
I don't know if to call it poverty or just carelessness.

Pineapp:
Will you marry her??

Hypocrite!!!!!

Madam, assess yourself and find out what you do that pisses him off..
If he was like this before you married him, then you saw fire and jumped into it.

One sided stories touch the heart.

No matter what she says,he could walk away.Moreover,the beating is consistent so it's an issue more with the husband.


@Op,I think you should let his famiy know what is going on and also make arrangements to stay separated from him in the interim.
Do you people have kids?

^^^because they lack the understanding to know he spoke figuratively.

lanrexlan:
Off the thread, you have nothing reasonable to say sir.
Bye

They say you have nothing reasonable to say to hide their ignorance.

'...having eyes but would not see...'(Mark 8:18).

lanrexlan:
How does this correlates to what is posted? And if it does in your reasoning, explain the parable to us.

The passage you quoted speaks of your ignorance.I'll give you the assignment of finding out what it means.

Time dey go..............It's time to grow up D'Banj.

The police should investigate this.It's disgusting what teenagers are exposed to nowadays.

limolalikamaila:
hmmmm

Still wish we can always think outside d box.

which is better ?

a man with two wife
a man with one wife and one concubine

There's nothing to think outside of the box for.You should have added what of a man and one wife who stays faithful to his wife. some men do stay faithful.

Jeffboi:
I think the answer is NO


But what if a Christian wife die. Is it proper for him to remarry??

Of course,he can remarry if his wife dies.He is only bound as long as his wife is alive.

oloriooko:
Why do you guys keep saying this?
Your explanation is quite unconvincing and lacks persuasive content. Please let us talk from the bible.

And you can't see the scripture I quoted to show you my reference was from the bible.
If you don't understand it doesn't make it false.God said,...... in all thy getting,get understanding(Proverbs 4).

The prophets before Jesus were not Christians,they were religious people and some lived by the law.Christianity(which is not a religion)started with the coming and finished works of Jesus Christ.

No,a born again Christian cannot marry more than one wife.
Those examples of Abraham,David etc your mentioned were not Christians.They were people under a period where grace and truth had not come and God permitted then because it had not yet become possible to take on the nature of the recreated man which happened by the redemptive works of Jesus Christ.

Jesus said,......from the beginning,male and female created He them(Matt.19:4-9).Which means God's design was a man and one wife in the first place.

Carelessness and stupidity.
You don't keep things like that within the reach of kids.

You can but just pick up your documents after and leave the interview.

Nice365:
See your mouth/lips. Master!

Do you mean your lips/mouth is not clean?Cleanliness is essential in this matter.

Why the threat?
Op,why don't you initiate it and give?He should reciprocate.
It doesn't kill,you just learn and after some time you get used to it.

Good old petroleum jelly for the body and natural products(coconut oil or olive oil) for the hair.
Johnson's products are not the best(ask any good paediatrician)

Babies don't need all that designers' products.

Ignorance of the Op and his associates.

The disciples asked him why he spoke to the people in parables.He said that it might be fulfilled in them that which was spoken by the prophet Esais,that they having eyes should not see and having ears should not understand.For the heart of these people is waxed gross lest they be converted and I should heal them.

Of course.
The fact that they won't have to work in the same office makes it easy.The guy could even get another job in another company with time.
The most important thing here is for the lady to take him as her husband and they share love and mutual respect for each other.

If indeed he made that comment,then he was being arrogant and stupid.
Was Goodluck Jonathan not a deputy governor while some were governors?Didn't he become their president?
He doesn't deserve to be a senate president with such attitude.

ahnie:
It wasnt Easy,but it was worth it.lord i commit myself and my child unto thy hands.

Have you had your baby?

Develop yourself spiritually.Healing is spiritual and that's the only way to deal with it.
If you can meet with the person like coogar said,then do.However,you can still overcome this even without meeting him.
Forgive him and most especially,don't carry any guilt like it was your fault.
Use the internet.There are support groups out there and you can learn from the experiences of others.

I suspect he must have been a medial student who didn't complete his program.
How do you want to live a lie as a civil servant?

The quran says Jesus was not born of human sexual relations,that His birth was by the Spirit of the Almighty.
This question comes from people who have this thing written in their books and yet can't understand the divinity.

bukatyne:
It is just the angle of the picture

Lara is not near Dele...

She is not cozy to her hubby too

Or Does she belong to everybody and belong to nobody

This is the 2nd pix I have seen Osho sleeping after his marriage .

A much older man has to do more work to satisfy and impress a young bride.It makes men exhausted.

You actually think most men don't cheat?