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LordReed:
Only one because only one can biologically. Doesn't still tell me there aren't multiple gods. In the old days there was a god for everything and that makes more sense than a single all powerful god. Our societies are based on cooperation so why can't a cooperative society of deities exist?

I like your words in bold......... and i say to you, 'because only One can 'spiritually'. There are indeed multiple gods and they play different roles The bible says in a great house there are many vessels., not only gold or silver but also wood .... 2 Timothy 2:20
Indeed there are multiple gods but like you said, only one can SPIRITUALLY.

LordReed:
Why can't there be multiple gods? You people like to use houses as an analogy for the universe and say that just as there is a builder of a house there is a creator of the universe. Well houses are built by more than 1 person yet they are able to do it in harmony so why can't there have been multiple gods working in harmony to build this universe?

There are indeed multiple gods, just as there are mulitiple fathers. I have a question for you. Which of the multiple fathers in the world fathered you?

There is only one God. There can't be two 'gods' because that will mean confusion.... and GOD is not a God of confusion.
The problem is how many 'KNOW' Him?
Jesus said, 'and this is life eternal, that they may know You and Jesus Christ Who Thou has sent'. John 17:3.
There is only One God... the Almighty. He sent Jesus. The question with doubters is, do they know This God Who sent Jesus?

Retiree........ yet he still dey run UFC cage fight.
He no know him level.

What do they men by this is the third time she is getting raped? By the same man or different men?

The rapist lecturer's cup is full.

If the pocket no ugly.......

petitejolie:
so because ure not a virgin, u don't have the right to make a decision for yourself that u don't want to have sex anymore. People decide to stop smoking, people decide to stop drugs, people decide to stop alcohol, but a non virgin cannot decide to be celibate? He or she doesn't have the right? It's an addiction so it's in impossible to stop it? Or every one who's a non virgin is a sex addict? [/b[You're very myopic and stagnant thinker. Shake u for wetin because u be milk shake? Abeg shift jaare u no follow.

Chai! You're just so dumb!
Who's talking about not having a right to decide to be celibate even if no longer a virgin? Is that what you interpreted from what i wrote?

Let me try to explain all over to you . I asked if she was a virgin which might be the reason why the wife is cold towards sex. You quoted me asking what is my business with that (obviously because you don't know anything about cause and effect).
You replied me saying if they didn't have sex then why i'm i still asking if she is a virgin and i replied you saying you can choose to be a non-virgin and have a no-sex relationship till marriage.
Where did you get your own understanding that i'm saying 'being a non-virgin means being a sex addict'?
If after all these explanation you still don't get it, then i can't help you further.

petitejolie:
wat sexual behavior are u looking for? Someone already said dey didn’t have sex because that was their agreement and ure asking if she was a virgin or not. Eku ise Owner of sense worldwide and beyond.

Awww, i expected you shake me up a bit but you just showed poor sense of judgement again. Is it possible to not be a virgin and yet decide to be celibate till wedding? Use that thing between your ears.

Why do they always blame the health institutions?I'm not saying they may not be culpable in this case.

Morningblues:
Prove the existence of God without using the Bible
Prove it to both, Atheist,Muslim,Hinduism,traditionalist without using your Bible

The proof is out there.......even in your heart!

“And even as they did not like to retain God in their knowledge, God gave them over to a reprobate mind, to do those things which are not convenient;'' Romans 1:28 KJV

DJInfluence:
what's the relevance of this question to the topic at hand?

Think!Think!Think!....lazy youths think!
If she was a virgin before marriage,it means she lacked experience.That may be the cause of why she is generally cold towards sex.
That was why I asked the question.

You need to pay me for thinking for you.

He must have been her course adviser or mentor.

Wait for another two weeks as you were advised.If after a second scan you still have the same result, then you may have had a miscarriage or what is called a blighted ovum.

petitejolie:
I don't think it should be your business. It's their decision wether they were virgins or not. Just give him d advice for the issue he's facing or just leave it.

It's funny how some of you without sense come here saying something is not someone's business. What is the thread about in the first place and if the thread is not my business what the eff are you looking for here?!
if you had some understanding, you will have an idea why i asked that question. It was to know her sexual experience which may be playing a big role in the wife's behaviour.

KarinaLove:
Try and respect her decision. She said she is not the sex type. Then leave her.

Must marriage be all about sex?

I don tire.

Everytime Men And Sex....Tueeehhh

Can't men use their time for something more productive in life

Is it not the sex that produces a baby?

Octopusssy:
She is still learning after one whole year of marriage??

There is something called sexual dysfunction. Some people need more like therapy to overcome it.

DenreleDave:
Good day sir thorpido, how have u been doing

Good day DenreleDave. Nothing has come up yet that is why i haven't given you any feedback.

Solatium:
Still learning how to Bleep when the marriage is almost 2yrs?
Una funny for this forum

Some take longer. Not everybody jumps into the 'deep end' of sex quickly. You also need to understand there is something called sexual dysfunction.

DavidNative:
Yes Sir, she said she never had sex

You need to be patient with her. She is a 'learner' when it comes to sex. It's like just learning to ride a bicycle. It's rough initially and full of falls.
Keep doing what you're doing... pre-intimacy. It will help her become more receptive. You also need to make love to her mind. You keep talking to her.

DavidNative:
Pls i need an honest and kind advice . I will deeply appreciate

There was no pre-marital sex while you were dating, was she a virgin when you married her?

Greed. This get rich quick syndrome.

As much as she wants marriage, this man in question is not good for her.
She's not even a single mother,she's raising her neice who has noone else to care for her.
She's better off with being single and raising her daughter than being with that man.

She get mind bring the man come her matrimonial bed.......... and na she come dey on top.

If indeed your dad wants to do a DNA test, nothing will stop him.
You don't have to live in fear. As they say, there's nothing falling from the sky that the earth can't take.
Whatever the outcome(if indeed it's a DNA test),water will find its level.

Squeeze kwa? Afanyekwa si.

Kobojunkie:
is that woman a Nigerian woman or the law she took advantage of of Nigeria?

Nigeria has no such strong laws. I'm just talking about paternity fraud in general and not limiting to a Nigerian thing.

mariahAngel:
Have you ever met this her so-called pastor?
How come she has to travel (and stay up to 3-4days) to go see a pastor?
If the so-called pastor really means well, he’ll ask to see the both of you.

Hmmm the pastor matter get as e be.

You people and gender war threads
No one wants to be cheated on, whether male or female.
There are women who have never taken it lightly being cheated on and made the men pay heavily. An example is Tiger Wood's ex-wife. Some women have stabbed their husbands to death over infidelity.

The recent trend of paternity fraud is because of recent advancement in technology. It has been there for ages.

My hand no dey women vs men or vice versa.

What a sad story.

Sad story.
How do you accept to keep a bulldog(in this case a pitbull/bulldog mix) that you are not used to? Worst still she opened the door!

Safyqueen:
Well it is unacceptable but the true story are not always told.
This man killed is a known christain leader in that community. He is not a stranger but an indigene of that community.

There is a family unit in that community made up of christains and Muslims together. There arises a misunderstanding between the two brothers of that same family but different religious faith. The christain brother killed the wife of his Muslim brother who is also a Muslima. The community rises up to arrest the christain brother who killed a Muslim woman though his brothers wife, he ran to hide in this pastor's house. The Muslim youth now believe the pastor is hiding the boy from facing the wrath of his misdemeanor and after much persuasion and the pastor's unyeilding to their demand to bring out the boy, they begin to beat the pastor which lead to his death. The boy was later arrested and now with the police. So this is the true story though pathetic. The community is a quiet community with Muslims and christains living together in one of the remote villages in Kano.

Really sad.