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cococandy:
When people are married, the finances belong to both of them, whether the man makes the money and woman is a stay at home mom or the woman makes the money and the man is a stay at home dad And nowhere in Nigeria does it happen that a man gets dispossessed of his marital property because his dead wife was the one who made the money. Y’all got jokes.

For all we know, one person made the sacrifice to be home and take care of the home while the other person earns the income. Now to classify that as not contributing anything to the home is just a way to demean the contributions of the stay home parent. Which in itself is gender discriminatory because if men traditionally are the home keepers, that role wouldn’t be undermined. People wouldn’t look down on it.

You’re the ones arguing when there shouldn’t be an argument. So because someone wasn’t the financial contributor in the marriage, they deserve to live on the street when the bread winner dies? And By gold digger you mean the person they built a family with?. Unbelievable!

Why isn’t a married person entitled to the property that their partners acquired while married to them? So who’s entitled to it then? The siblings who didn’t build the family with them. Please stop talking/typing.

P.S you don’t have to like every opinion of mine. Stating it here is irrelevant. Focus on the specific topic. Thanks

The bottom line is that the unwillingness to embrace gender equality is the cause of things like these. All of you can go argue with your phones.

This post lacks reasoning abilities. I won’t respond to the next one. Move on please.

If the bold is true why are more and more oyinbo people signing prenups before marriage

Never mind.

Don't bother answering.

cococandy:
You saying that an industrious woman should also have a back up plan against things like this or go the legal route is just you shooting yourself in the foot and making my point for me.

Let it be known that you've not shown how feminism or the absence of it is the problem here.

Why doesn’t a man need that back up to protect him against his in-laws in the case of his wife’s death?

How many women more properties than their husbands? In most cases it's the man who owns everything so why he would he need a safeguard? Do you know of any marriage where the woman owns everything and goes to marry a man with nothing?

I don’t have to force anyone to agree with me. But the majority of you look dumb when you fight the system that’s growing to help women but then when it happens to someone close to you, you come to the internet to cry about the same thing the system is growing to overcome.

Make a valid point and anyone would see reason. So far you are just dreaming up hypothetical scenarios. Once again, why would men need back up plans when they are usually the owners of the property.

Your hate for women will get the better of y’all. In one way or the other because it’s vicious cycle.

No need to get emotional. Answer the questions.

Chubhie:
Gambling should be for entrainment. More like putting your money where your mouth is. Yours truly played Aguero as anytime scorer in the just ended match. And Aguero had the guts to miss a penalty. The rule is to always play with what you can afford to lose.

For you to truly profit in gambling, you've got to see it as an investment and enter it big. Imagine staking a million naira to win 1.1 million. Do you have the heart and patience? Imagine the risk involved? Is it worth it?Absolutely NO!

You no slap am through your TV!

yehmy:
Better days ahead, if you had cashout and the game later scale through all people forming know it all, will be the 1 shouting you shouldn't have cashout. Always trust your judgment. WHAT WILL BE WILL SURELY BE. wishing you luck with Chelsea match tomorrow. (If not for Aguero missing pk) we won't be here.

Na so na. Hindsight is always 20/20

Seeth thou a man diligent in his work...

MuttleyLaff:
"Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply your sorrow and your conception; in sorrow you shall bring forth children;
and your desire shall be to your husband, and he shall rule over you."
- Genesis 3:16

"¹⁰When Jesus had lifted himself up, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her,
Woman, where are those your accusers? has no man condemned you?
¹¹She said, No man, Lord.
And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn you: go, and sin no more."
- John 8:10-11

My thoughts are about the male chauvinism on the third mountain. That means when you do get to do this tourism experience, your missus will have to wait behind and not be by your side as only you is allowed to climb, all by yourself, alone.

People havent cop on to John 8:11b above, but las las, we will get there nwanne ThothHermes

Only priests are allowed there. I think they don't have female priests do they?

The Catholic church also does not have female priests. Is that chauvinism



I want you to comment on the anointing that he said prevented him from accessing the third mountain.

Wetin you dey talk

cococandy:
The fact that when a man loses his wife to death, his in-laws do not go after him to dispossess him of the property he accumulated with his wife, highlights the basic inequality between genders

Do you have any example of a man and woman both acquiring properties and the family coming after her after the man's death? I bet you don't. It's another fabrication from your misandrist mind. Create a false hypothetical scenario so you can counter it.

Wetin dey worry you that you have refused to use your god-given reasoning ability?

My reasoning tells me that it's lack of laws and an efficient judiciary that makes this possible. You have not shown otherwise.

Asking me what feminism has to do with it. Just say you don’t understand what feminism means and call it a day.

And you have not answered. Feigning exasperation is an escape tactic. It is not an answer.
Do you really think that a woman who is smart and industrious enough to build with a man would not have a backup plan or would not be confident enough to seek legal redress??

Nice. Should probably add it to my bucket list of places to visit.

Muttleylaff what are your thoughts?

The OP said he fell under the anointing when he tried to reach the third mountain.

cococandy:
“But Nigeria doesn’t need feminism”

Nigeria needs laws and a functional judiciary. Any decent lawyer would get a judgement in the favour of the woman.
What has feminism got to do with this. You think if the kids were male the family members would not grab the properties if they so desired?

Is it because of feminism that things like this these do not happen in America or is it because they have an effective legal system

Wetin dey worry una self

Lol.
Funny comments.

Na wetin person wan take paper do
So you come after three months say dem don thief the motor abi.
You try well well.

Hermionegranger:
@Gaspardd She's a glutton?! Because she bought something and paid with it for her own money? She was even trying to make things 50-50 by buying food while you buy drinks. All you had to do was reimburse her for the cost of the drinks after the date since she gave the waiter enough money to cover everything. The problem here is that You're a f***ing cheapskate! And an entitled idiot. Your stinginess is so bad that you cant even spend on yourself and that's why you're busy borrowing clothes upandan. And you're here shouting that you're keeping it real when you're really just a miser. If you don't have money for dates then don't ask people out. If you insist on taking someone then save up for one. I just wish she could have seen the post where you called her a glutton and that would blow the chance you had with her. Nonsense!

Lol.

Your username got me.

This mumu boy don give all of una mouth.

For the first time I have nothing to say.

Una don win this time around.

Tell your parents everything you've said here. Promise not to do it again and the need to not disappoint them a second time will keep you from doing it again.


It will be hard but it's the best course of action for you I think.

PastorAIO:
Isaac Newton's translation of the Smaragdina:



This true without lying, certain and most true.
That which is below is like that which is above and that which is above is like that which is below to do the miracles of one only thing
And as all things have been and arose from one by the meditation of one: so all things have their birth from this one thing by adaptation.
The Sun is its father, the moon its mother, the wind hath carried it in its belly, the earth is its nurse.
The father of all perfection in the whole world is here.
Its force or power is entire if it be converted into earth.
Separate thou the earth from the fire, the subtle from the gross sweetly with great industry.
It ascends from the earth to the heaven and again it descends to the earth and receives the force of things superior & inferior.
By this means you shall have the glory of the whole world
and thereby all obscurity shall fly from you.
Its force is above all force. For it vanquishes every subtle thing and penetrates every solid thing.
So was the world created.
From this are and do come admirable adaptations whereof the means (or process) is here in this. Hence I am called Hermes Trismegist, having the three parts of the philosophy of the whole world
That which I have said of the operation of the Sun is accomplished & ended.

The Emerald Tablet of Hermes.

PastorAIO:
You speak of that Stone.
Oyigiyigi, ota inu omi.

What stone do you speak of
Is it another perception of the Great Animating Force?

200k pere!!!