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My advice to you is this
1. Just marry the girl, don't turn her into a baby mama just because she can't cook. Cooking can be improved, that's why we have catering school here and there.
2. Love her and she will love you back, then sit back and watch the love grow. That time you want to use to start something new with someone else, dedicate it to her.
3. Too many baby mama's walking the streets, we don't need more. You have been advised.

What a scam. Who are they trying to deceive? Nigerians been scamming fellow Nigerians since time immemorial .

My fiance came to my house based on the fact that she was having her monthly visitor which is usually a painful experience for her, so she needed me to see her through it. But now the visitor has gone and she's finding it hard to go back to her sisters place where she stays and I really need her to go so I can have some "me time" to hustle. How do I tell her she needs to go without making it sound like I don't want her around anymore?

At least a b.low job is better than no job

It’s a pity but true that most men think of women as beasts, without soul or feelings, just meant for abuse and insolence. They think that women are created to be seen and not heard. They are meant as play things set apart to meet the needs of men. They are zombies meant to cater for every whim and caprice of men.

It is for this reason that men often express surprise when women revolt and match their male chauvinism word for word.

It is necessary to recall that woman was not created as an afterthought. She was made in God’s perfect plan and timing and the first man was in his right senses when he woke up and exclaimed, “This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called woman, because she was taken out of man.” Genesis 2:23

1. Women hate wicked and ostentatious men who use them and do not love them. Every time a little demand is made of his time and substance, he reacts with disdain.
2. Women hate men who abuse them physically. No woman wants to be beaten up or turned into a punching bag by any man. God naturally made the woman romantic and loving but brutality turns love sore. Some men are abusive as well as physically brutal and yet turnaround later in the day to demand love.
3. Women hate men who are incapable of romance, appreciating and affirming the best in them. They want their men to notice their dressing, latest hair styles and other things that may seem minor to them but that indicate that they matter and are making efforts to look after themselves for the happiness of their men.
4. Women hate it when men are crude in their lovemaking. This affects their lovemaking and manners. If a man does not know how to please his woman in this department he should procure one of many literature around the issue. A woman will respect a man that satisfies her all-round desires.
5. Women hate men who are in the habit of constantly comparing them with other women, who of course they are seeing and admiring from a distance. It is disheartening when these men refuse to provide the resources to help their women dress like the women of their dreams.
6. Women hate men who are lazy drones, men who love to sleep, drink and idle away. Such men are not breadwinners and are irresponsible.
7. Women hate men who keep bad company.
8. Women hate men who take over friendship with their women friends.
9. Women hate selfish men who are always angling for advantages over their women. They do not show genuine love but are always looking for one form of advantage or the other from them.
10. Women hate men who are carefree about their personal hygiene. When a man has body odor, bad breath, poor shaving habits, he can’t expect to be cuddled by his woman. One of the joys of women is the clean and tidy outlook of their men. If a man is a bad dresser, he embarrasses his woman.
11. Women hate men who do not give them a listening ear. Some men are known to be irritable and impatient especially with their partners. Everything they say is nonsense.
12. Women hate men who are not sensitive to their emotions and feelings. Some men are really callous, not bothering what their women go through even in times of sickness.
Love in any relationship is not built in a day. It is an accumulation of conscientious, honest hard work that makes relationships stand the test of time.

There are many things women hate, the above are about the most common. Note them and steer clear of them and the undying love of your woman will forever be yours

There, much better. Thank me later

All above is predictable. Me I'm gonna just place an order for a ring on Konga and have it delivered to her.
They'll call her and say we have a package for you and when she opens it she'll be like wow.

So he wants to help and still had time to take pictures. Now that's what we PR stunt

Same thing happened to me the other day, she gave it to me to wash and I passed it over to the washing machine. Problem solved, I didn't need to create a useless thread to rant about it

Same reason guys love blue boxers duh

Where do I sign up

"I don't like sex" is code word for "go fuc.k yourself"
So literally go fuc.k yourself thank me later

Yes she did the right thing. But what if after the 5 years she abandoned the guy and she's still hustling for a husband while the guy is now made and ready to settle down.
Now that's a though question
Who loose

At least it's not the worst place to start. I see it as the lesser of all evils.

Why for God's sake will anybody use a child as a next of kin. Have you people forgotten so soon the story of the prodigal son? I just wonder how you expect a child to manage an empire or an estate. Why not make it an adult like your spouse? SMH

Kondomatic:
I have no problem with people that decide to stay single, it is none of my boring business but I have a problem with them owning pets. I mean if you cannot find a good man among all these many people on earth then why own a pet? Huh? Because the poor thing has no choice?

They will claim they are looking for the perfect partner, as if the pet is

Round tummy? So what, she even likes it when I rub the tummy.

Mindependent:
You dont need a prophet to tell you relationships that are going to lead to marriage, those married couples, did they not court first before marriage? Charity begins at home, what he does in courting, he does in marriage

See this thread is not made for YOU, kindly step out of your egoistic self and leave peacefully if you have nothing sensible to contribute regarding the topic

Almost married not same as Just married. My God you must be delusional.
BTW you didn't answer my question, has he given you an engagement ring? A girl on this same nairaland was complaining about how she has become Lord of the Rings because even after receiving 3 rings of power or should I say marriage, the guys still bailed out on her.
*Walking out of thread*

Mindependent:
Was just waiting for some geek to come say something as silly as this. Does your father not pay your mother allowance? Does that make her a 'business' woman? Stupid idiots on nairaland smdh

See your head, are you married to the guy? Has he even given you an engagement ring? Why compare your situation to that of a married couple?
My advice to you is this, face your work of enjoying your BFs money and stop worrying about me or if others are getting the same treatment as you.

STOP picking up "Hood rats", you will not agree. Now see the consequences, only God knows what you have contacted by now

SSTOP picking up "Hood rats", you will not agree. Now see the consequences, only God knows what you have contacted by now

A girl who needs her BF to pay her for her service is not a GF to the boy but a common call girl. An Ashi, a prostitute not girlfriend. Don't confuse the two, they're not the same thing. Good luck with your business.

For opening this thread because of that, then you are not serious

Asaib:
I learnt sex is so sweet when u had it with the love of ur life and he loves u back, it's better experience than imagine. Shikena

Thank you, in other words "earth shattering"

cruzita:
i don't think so,i have always hated sex

My guess is this, you only hate something that is wrong or done for the wrong reasons.
There's nothing wrong about s3x because God made it for a reason. So maybe when you have it with the right person for the right reasons, maybe then your perceptive about it willwill change. But you must understand that there's nothing wrong about s3x, just do it right.

cruzita:
I'm not really into sex,so I can stay without it till Jesus comes

That's only because you've not had good s3x yet
Your life will change I swear

True but no amount of preaching can stop people from doing it these days. The world is far gone, and it'll only get worse.

Useless excuse for those who can't maintain a normal relationship with a their fellow human beings

Please which course would you advise some one to study or think is best currently,
1. Cyber Security
2. Information Technology

Hi there all
Please I just got an offer to study in three schools and can't decide which is best, so hence I need your opinion on the following below;
1. University of Plymouth
2. University of Central Lancaster
3. Northumbria university (London campus)
Thanks a bunch

The first Val gift I gave was an iPad
I no try
I received an orgasm

Guys have been suffering since 10,000 BC

Make I park well