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Strongsoul:
Helo all.I been with my Nigerian ex husband for 3 years in my country in Europe.He was here ilegaly he didnt work.I wqs providing for everything.He never apreciated anything i did for him.He wil tel me.i did nothing for him coz i didnt buy him car or apartment.Also he was always pushing me to fix his documents which i couldnt do.Not that i didnt want.At the end i got pregnant and he was treating me that if i dont fix his documents he wil leave me and child and go back.to Nigeria.After that treating i removed his child.He was very angry and then he divorced me went back to Nigeria and married woman that is 30 years older then him.She came from US to mary him...And also he blocked me.Is there anything i did wrong or should I blame him?And how could he mary that.woman so fast?

I knew ur story is fake when I saw the part that you said u aborted ur baby... Is that possible?


If u r not fake, bring me to Europe or invest in my life here in Nigeria and I will marry you... Men are different, he was probably using u as a sure paper obtainer...

Besides what's ur age?

Jollof123:
Try to have time for other important good things too. Second class upper is enough to get a lecturing job.

I graduated with 4.48 and my only regret in school then is that I didn't use my time for more other important things.

It's not written on my certificate that I have 4.48 but rather second class upper. Same written for someone with 3.5 . Am doing businesses and am living comfortably.

I Never applied for any white collar job in my life.

Pls sir what kinda business are you into sir? I wana learn too..

kulionam:
Hello People,

Please, I am very confused right now, I just came home and met my wife watching porn comfortably in the living room, I walked in and she acted as if nobody entered, she was feeling completely relaxed.

However, for the past three years, we have been having one misunderstanding or the other, each time I am the one that initiates the settlement- And in most of the cases, she never allow me close to her or sleep together in our room, I always go to the other room to avoid trouble. We live in Europe.

Three weeks ago she started again, and she repeated send me to the single room, I left her, and I did not try to settle unlike before.

I came back home now to meet her watching porn.
I don't even know if it is her right, or I should ask why or just ignore her.

Thanks

Bro you rich ooo.. U stay In far Europe.. Anyway I'm chatting here from Africa, naija precisely. I hope God favours me too and I travel out.


Back to ur matter, sir.. I never marry but I fit advise u if u no underrate me.

Firstly u no who ur wife is and was before u got married. She probably one of those ladies that has I don't care attitude. I'm sure u knew that before marrying her and she is not changing soon.

Secondly why have u guys not given birth in 3 years?
She is ur wife, sit her down and talk to her like a gentleman and a dearly husband wud. Since u love ur wife, Pls just talk to her, take her out and let her be free like a bird then move close to her and get her to tell her about what u like and don't like...


I pray God makes things right between you guys... I no there are some issues in marriage and I don't pray to be overcomed by any of it.. I want a happy and comfortable marriage


God bless sir.... European... I still dey for naija ooo

Guys, brothers and sisters, happy new month.
If you know you were born in the month of June,
you got married in the month of June,
You gave birth in the month of June or,
You got a job in the month of June.
Bliv me, June is a lucky month..


Oya all June celebrants, check in and share what happen to you in the month of June that is so special to you....

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Suelove:
The post is really nice. However, this is one of the issues he pointed at (unnecessary abbreviation). In the same Urban Dictionary where shud stands for should, it also means shut up.

I believe we can still educate ourselves even if the university system fails. In addition, I believe in God but the statement "God should help us" has been overused. It seems we are just too lazy to leave our comfort zone.

Lastly, I believe we can make good use of social media to develop our writing skill.

Please, don't be offended.

Thanks but this is just a social stuff

Mind if we exchange contacts

Suelove:
The post is really nice. However, this is one of the issues he pointed at (unnecessary abbreviation). In the same Urban Dictionary where shud stands for should, it also means shut up.

I believe we can still educate ourselves even if the university system fails. In addition, I believe in God but the statement "God should help us" has been overused. It seems we are just too lazy to leave our comfort zone.

Lastly, I believe we can make good use of social media to develop our writing skill.

Please, don't be offended.

Anti, ahn ahn.. This one na just online stuff na.


Anyway thanks

Mind if we share contacts??

MorufuAtanda:
Final year student no mean o. Even in 200L you can start business. I started doing welcome back for colleagues who lost their phones and sims while in school, I also found out that people loved my porridge yam whenever I cooked, so I borrowed one small space in mama Rebecca's joint to sell my own porridge. No other person dey sell juicy porridge for school then. I insisted in making the food at home because I wanted to protect my recipe. Make the food and carry it to joint to sell. Soon I started making for other restaurants. Guy I Don hustle o but God has been benevolent. God love me die!

Things are kinda different from ur time sir... I school in the north..... So I just need things to do to increase my 20k.. It's been there for long... I'm not a lazy guy, I dey hustle if na hustle.. So Pls share me more insight....

MorufuAtanda:
Most times is not about how much you have, but how much you know, your interest and how ready you are to grind dirty.
An Igbo adage says, a man whose hand is always busy and grinding will also have an oily mouth (food). That is, hardwork can make one belleful.

I remember entering Alaba market with zero naira a certain day about 8 years ago, told one Oga that I will bring customers/referals for him for a percentage, that day I went home with N40,000. The thing shock me sef.

Why not keep that N20,000 somewhere safe and find something to do with your energy and time (which I also consider a valuable currency). Go into computer villa, Ladipo, Alaba, Onitsha market, Aba and make deals. You will come home to find the 20,000 smiling at you as you come home double it.

Hmm thanks sir. But currently a final year student.....

Fear of Tinubu, the beginning of wisdom

Hotfreezers:
Bro, don't look at it like that. The fact that you're reading this shows you're very lucky to know what is expected and how to improve.

I just edited it.. Pls kindly Unquote me.. Plsssss

Hotfreezers:
Bro, don't look at it like that. The fact that you're reading this shows you're very lucky to know what is expected and how to improve.

Pls Unquote me.. I wana edit it.. I just read it and I feel sorry for the economy and youths.. Pls Unquote me. Pls i wana edit my statement

The post is useful


i just learnt alot from this.... God shud help us in this nation... I really learnt a lot.. Thanks so much sir

MorufuAtanda:
The moral of the lesson I take from this thread is what I have always been harping about. No matter how good a business might sound,never invest all your saving in it. Start with 30% of your savings. I remember when I put in about 3.7 million in a failed venture, I felt like dying but the lesson I learnt from there made me 10 times richer than that amount within 4 years.

Too bad, but OP should come out of this much more financially sensible.

If the guy has valuables that can be confiscated, go to SIB unit, Zone 9, Umuahia and plead with police officers, just budget like 150K. Make sure they confiscate every valuable he has. If he has cars, they should tow the cars down to Umuahia. Let him also feel pains.

What can I do with 20k,i mean 20k to make me earn more? Seems u r a business oriented person

Leo ooo, tunzzy ooo, nina ooo, impotent prick oo, stench vagina oo, Instagram ooo. All of them are mad



Leo problem


I have my own here... Oshiiiii

That north Korea president, na Nigeria he go stil end Las Las..

Infact I no go give am any of my rooms to stay. Too wicked

Phenomenal16:
...accurate time keeper..lol

I take that as a yes Abi??

ImaIma1:

I am fine...lol

Mind if I send u a pm?

falcon01:
Honestly.. Yes! depending on her character and what tha other hand could do *wink*

Yes the other hand can kill you


Ashawo.. Like the other shud be doing wat sef

Deepfeel:
As long as she has a wonderful personality that suits me why not, just that I prefer dark brown skin girls

It is now u prefer dark brown.. If to say na dark brown she be, u go prefer Navy yellow lady

U shall want to fly over her sha. No way, she must be ur wife. Amen

FEGEITOK:
Is it right to tell a lady that you are dating when you hit it big contract wise?

Or do you hide the news?


When the millions come in, do you say it or do you show it or hide it?


Is it ok to give her blow by blow accounts of the progress of your deals?

Or keep giving her money on normally as if nothing has changed?

Backstory:

You date her, she likes you, you are not yet there financially, but you hustle real hard, you are in business not employment.

You can survive but you can't be extravagant.



Argue for and against with experiences.

Don't tell. Her but treat her more specially... Invest more with that money... When it's time, make her ur wife and then u can start telling her everything.... But for now, just treat specially than before and don't use that to cheat on her coz u Don arrive.

Prepare for life after marriage... Very important

What are my chances of getting lagos or abuja or delta?

Will be joining you guys next year by God grace

I'm from ogun state, abeokuta
I reside in lagos
I school currently in BUK, kano

South south : Delta (I want oil producing local govt)
South West : lagos (get some side hustle )
North West : Kano (I don't pray to come back here Cox I schooled here already, so possibility is zero)
North Central : Abuja (rich man place)

I know i will be favoured in Jesus name..


Success to you guys.. Save ur money well 30k

Phenomenal16:
Love is blind...marriage is the opener n hypo that will open that ur blind eye,,,,,I wish I can get a man that will do this kind of thing for me....now tell me y would I cheat?
Guy u av tried anyway ....make more moni and give her high bp ...some gals are damn lucky
One thing about gals like this is that they tend to go back to guys who r worse like wtf
Now u know wat? Don't allow ur emotions cloud your thinking faculty ...don't allow it....the brain is for thinking
In conclusion.... Dump her.dump her...close ur eyes n dump the damn cheat...am a gal..but I don't support evil

Can I be that man u desire??

Rosarie:
honestly u lack mannerrs of talking.am I your daughter that you are questions like that?.for your information I am married with kids.if you want to make a point do so decently.u are asking me a question like who??.if I can ever bla bla.do u know my journey??the fact this is a social media does not mean you will not speak rightly.it is not madatory you quote me

Na question I ask ma. No vex

luminouz:
Shuuuuu...u don dey curse upon that small thing? Person no fit follow u play?

I no curse u.. I only want to know if u r not part of the wolves oo

luminouz:
Pele o...crusher!!!
Send her PM jor...now u have advertised her to wolves here!!

Wolves, if una no wan mad, no one shud send a pm to my crush oo ImaIma1


Thanks bro, wolves has been taken care of

I hope u r not part of the wolves oo Cox if u r, u go yawere ni ooo.. U go bugije ni ooo

luminouz:
Pele o...crusher!!!
Send her PM jor...now u have advertised her to wolves here!!

Wolves shey una dey mad ni.. Make una no touch my crush ImaIma1 ooo. Besides she is a mother ooooo, don't break her husband heart ooo. ImaIma1 don't be tempted oo, does wolves will do u bad, stay wit ur husband and be with me too. My crush

Rosarie:
For the first time nl did not see any fault in the woman.the woman is tired of oga.apologize.she is loosing interest in you.soon love will start fading.if you are not careful you will not know when you people will become living like strangers.women hate men who can not man up to their responsibilities

No fault coz the Op is being honest about the virtuous wife he has... She is a good wife material but do u think u can be like his wife with the way u girls live fake life?

I'm asking u a question, do u think u can ever be like his wife, like ever??

ImaIma1:
When someone says marrying on that kind of salary is not advisable, they will say we are materialistic.

Imagine if a child is involved. You will know that it's not about being prudent or being a wife material.

Meanwhile, on this forum, a guy has been urged on to get married on a 40k salary. You guys should tell yourself the truth and stop hiding under "a good woman will manage"

This is real life, real expenses.

Hy ImaIma1, how are you doing? Seriously update ur pic, just wana see u... U r my crush here on nairaland

delectablegyal:
cucumber? vibrator? or you just call him that you are h.orny? he visits your place to calm you.

U haf start ur mad post again

FuckBots:
Spend more time hustling and let your money accumulate.
She will be the one disturbing your phone and asking for advice on nairaland

Don't start with this.. I hustle on campus too when opportunity opens.. I'm not the idea type

How do I have a longer conversation with a lady?
She is not that kind of lively but she is good. I realized that ladies I don't like are always lively when it comes to gisting but the ladies i love are always boring.. Maybe it bcox of my feelings or some ladies are just like that...
How do I spent long time gisting with her? I just wana keep her company and sumtyms make her do things she doesn't really do. I want her to do things with me, like play, have fun, talk and talk together.

Ladies, how do I make her so use to me? She is this kinda lady that is boring. Although she's gat a couple of friends but she is kinda still boring.. She knows I really like her and I want her to do things she doesn't do whenever she is alone... Sumtyms I wana stress her n disturb her but I don't have any idea of what to do Cox I do really like this lady.

But when I'm with ladies I don't have feelings for, omo they get fed up with me.. A Lecturer even warned me to be careful of ladies but when it comes to me n this lady I like on campus, things are just boring.

Pls i school in the north, no chance to do any unreasonable thing openly like that coz of this perverts here that claims holiness but they are the worst

Ladies, any solution Pls...

Guys any help Pls. No insult

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kirkwood:
She looks quite cocky, even if she has studied in Harvard, and interned in Google and works at Goldman Sachs. Her mates are running successful businesses and she is here possessed by a wrong sense of self worth and such pettiness. Only a sack will correct her brain. I am not sexist or racist but let me just ask, can a male HR or a white female HR do this?

On the other hand, Most Nigerian HRs think they are gods.......American companies are begging folks to come work for them.

Unfortunately, Buhari has just been sworn in for the second time. So expect the worst, and lick asses to get work if you want it.

Expect the worst for ur family alone... Pls font generalize, if u can never be positive in ur life, limit it to ursef.. Don't generalize