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LMAO.... was never allowed to play outdoors but managed to do these
1) Set sharp pencil or biro for your seatmate
2) Sommersault from school hall stage to the lower level
3) Compete to see who can jump from highest flight of stairs
4) Jump off that swing that goes back and forth
5) Play football with bare feet so as not to destroy your shoes
6) Light match stick and close your mouth over it in the name of trying to smoke
7) Pour chalk dust inside paper, then roll up and inhale
Drop hot pot from fire with bare tender hands
9) Using rubber band and paper as catapult, and hiding stick in the paper to harden (an innocent girl almost lost her eye in my pry school)
10) Suck up ink from your bic biro so it will look full
... and the list goes on...

I'm 25th nov. Does anyone share the date?

Sisi_Kill: Oh! Oh! Can I get in on that? Please!!

Do you think we should include a coupon for therapy sessions? Dude must be so traumatized!!




Dude, please don't mind me. . .was just messing with you.

I would say let's hug it out but I don't want you thinking this is a play at vegeance. . .you know like I would pretend to hug you but as soon as you got close I'll stab you in the back with the largest butcher knife . . .so let's shake hands. Deal?

I'll pass on the hands shakig, lets just wave at each other from afar

Sisi_Kill: Oh! Oh! Can I get in on that? Please!!

Do you think we should include a coupon for therapy sessions? Dude must be so traumatized!!




Dude, please don't mind me. . .was just messing with you.

I would say let's hug it out but I don't want you thinking this is a play at vegeance. . .you know like I would pretend to hug you but as soon as you got close I'll stab you in the back with the largest butcher knife . . .so let's shake hands. Deal?

I'll pass on the hands shakig, lets just wave at each other from afar

@sisi_kill alright... but thats not my own first post on this thread.

As a person, i'm blaming the lady cause she has more at stake than the man, I GUESS she indulged in it for so long thinking its a shortcut to 'the top' for her, now she's at a place much lower than she was before the incest started.
I hate being cliché, but the best way to put it is that- The man destroyed her life and she was a party to the destruction process which took four years.
I feel sympathy for her yet i laugh at her.

*on a lighter note* Why can't we just put the fault on the usual guy and say- "its the work of the devil"

Sisi_Kill: Dude I was responding to the post where you said this Will you say you have never done a thing for vengeance and get hurt the more on the long run?

You were no doubt expecting a yes to that question which means doing things for vengeance is an everyday thing to you. . .hence my question.

Wow... good to hear you tell me i'm a vengeful person, i'll keep that in mind.
Also it was a rhetirical question... that means i expected you to keep the answer to yourself (seems i have to explain everything i say because you keep misinterpreting me)

Sisi_Kill: Oh! Oh! Is there something you'd like to tell the house?

Seeing as this vengeance thing doesn't seem so far-fetched to you, do you mind if I asked how often do you do it, how long does planning take and what kinda circumstances calls for what type "vengeancing" method you use(I'm assuming you have different type, please feel free to correct me if I am wrong)

Do tell, we are all ears.

LQCINFEFMTLOL- Laughing quietly cause its not funny enough for me to laugh out loud.
I capitalised 'IF' in the post i talked about vengeance just because of people like you.

What i said was not inspired by Nollywood... Will you say you have never done a thing for vengeance and get hurt the more on the long run?

what @sis_kill said made something occur to me, IF she was being treated as a second class citizen by the wife, she could have seen being with the man as a way of getting back at the wife.
#justsaying

Mrs.Chima:
Basically what you are saying...she was enjoying that inhouse condo?

She needed a man in her life, here he was ready to do anything for a permit, she got what she needs from him already (children), now she can do all she wants since his job for her is done, i wont be surprised if the European woman lets out his secret claiming that he didn't inform her (about the Naigeria based family) before they got married.

abiL: There's no correlation between personality and the act of incèst.

According to my dictionary, personality is (1) the quality or way of being of a person
(3) the complex characteristics that distinguish an individual or goup....
How does this not affect the reason the uncle and lady's commiting incest?

coogar: at 17, most girls i know would slap the uncle.....
uncle?? not just any random man - her uncleeeee? bloody hell, are we taking about ruminant animals here?

Impossible is nothing!

abiL: There is no age. Development don't stop until death. The rate of it might decline or increase depending on age, individual differences etc.

For me to be able to understand you better, do you mean personality when you say character?

yea, i think so

This is just nemesis if you ask me, just that when sinners suffer, the innocent are affected.

Nothing can be done to make you eat your cake and have it, so just keep taking your responsibility on all the children and know that you do not have any wife because the woman here in Nigeria wont take you back and the European will send you packing when your job is done.

She was using you all along, yet you tought you were using her.

abiL: Human character is NOT formed by the age of 7. I'm a psychologist, I should know.

What age do you suggest?

coogar: how do you "force" someone to be an accomplice at 17?
christ - you guys should stop this feeble excuse - she was culpable! the op never mentioned the word "rapë"......this was purely consensual!

Impossible is nothing! You thinking it cant happen doesnt mean it cant (even the Wright brothers father said man can never fly in church on sunday and is sons made an airplane during the week) i suggest you talk to a 17 year old about this and see what she has tosay if she were in the girl's shoes, also remember i've been using words suggesting assumption, thats cause im not an eye witness, i'm just trying to be rational.

coogar: do you know what it takes for a 17 yr old to UnCloth in the presence of her friends let alone do it in the presence of her uncle? she's 17 for crying out loud not 7......that area of our life is almost sacred...even a child of 7 knows that part of her body no one is supposed to have free ac


human character is formed before age 7, says who?

She claims he came to him in her room, probably she was unclad before he came, also the story could be editted..

Psychologist make the character claim!

@coogar as far as iKm concerned this is as simple as the uncle committed a crime in which he forced her to be an accomplice the first time (lets assume) but she started aiding him with time because she got comfortable with it for reasons best known to her (i dont believe any sot of fear can make you do such evil for so long). So the man is guilty for introducing the act, the girl is guilty of maintaining/ keeping/ continuing the act.

@ coogar... The spectator knows whats best to do always... No one cam be sure of what he/ she would have done in her shoes.
Point of correction the human character is totally formed before the age 7, so you cant consider the 12 year old as an exemption.
And dont just blame the girl because the hardest thing in doing evil is the first time, all others which follow are much easier. The thing is you are judging her because you assume a 17 year old has the body of an adult as well as the mind which is not so.
(i also blame the girl)

CASE 1
This is a really dicey situation, common sense says to leave her, but that will be betraying and selfishness a second time, could lead to the girl taking her own life. (thats if she is really sorry). This uncle might be the first male she ever trusted and see what he did to her, now the other man she is trusting has to leave her in his own interest.

CASE 2
Also if she is still attached to this 'uncle' this guy is going headlong into an active volcano. She might just be informing him so when he catches them in the act she will be able to claim she slipped back into it....

what a long advert!

boron10: Choi! The guy for farabale write am in yoruba language na. I'm struggling to comprehend what he wrote up there. Headache oooooooooooooooo

wat makes u think he is yoruba?
smh

Mr. President could please choose a sector and do just one thing for which each and every Nigerian or resident of Nigeria will remember you for good? Instead of dabbling into every area to make them better and having them worse off at the end of the day.
Thank you sir.

He should have stated every of his secrets before marriage, so I think he married under false pretence. Also in a typical Nigerian society infertility is assumed to be the faulty of the wife. To save your skin I advice quitting soonest, to help the man- give some other excuse aside his impotence...

Sacrifice is also necessary. You sacrifice your sleep to talk late at night, time you want to spend elsewhere, money you can spend on other things, pride when there is a misunderstanding, safety when you travel to meet the other party....

acidtalk: No one ever said whites were holy, but unlike the average African, a white man wants his follow country man to progress ahead of another country or race unlike Africa were the opposite is the case.

Dude why not just say the word 'I' instead of generalising about a race, if thats what your own mind set is good for you. Just speak for yourself and not the whole African race.
Thanks and God bless!

thanks @aaronmilner.

acidtalk: Okay if we want to believe those where in the "archiac" times what about in this 21st century?

The unending war in the middle east, Taliban versus U.S troops in Afghanistan, killing of a 14 year old in an islamic country for supporting rap music or so just a few weeks ago, bombing of the World trade centre...

acidtalk: Black man is generally more wicked than any other race.
They hate seeing their fellow man progress and don't do much either to progress.

Have you ever heard about Hitler's genocide againt the Israeli's, how native Indians drink from the skull of strangers, How black slaves were treated during the colonial eraby stackin them in ships, branding them with hot metals...?