₦airaland Forum

Rgade:
Well I blame Nigerians that keep going there.
Are you trying to reason with them? Telling them that their problem is themselves and their leaders.
Did they tell you they don't know what their problem is?
They hate everything that is not themselves.
It's not just Nigerians. Nigeria is simply the face at which they direct all their hate.
When the government screws you and leaves you hopeless, you start running around the hood looking for soft targets to blame all your problems on and attack.

I did my A levels in joburg, typical south Africans are actually nice people, but they are some bunch of lazy persons that feel threatened when they see people from other countries succeeding in a country they couldn't, black Americans have this same feeling towards Nigerians, hence the xenophobia.

hollah123:
These people are not far from d truth, yesterday I checked crime section n one Nigerian in South Africa posted a picture of a cultist that was killed by another cultist n he vowed to revenge.

just imagine what they are doing in another man's land,to those reading this "will u b comfortable with it if foreigners are creating nuisance in your country?.....so I really don't blame South Africans

this is such a myopic point of view sir, if we look at it this way, then immigration to most countries from most countries would be a No

Clicked:
You know the funny thing, it is always Nigerian men who left to live in western countries that complain about our women and not those born there. The problem is that Nigerian men expect to treat Nigerian women the same way you treat them back at home and you guys are usually surprised when that doesn't fly over there.

Can you honestly tell yourself that the behaviour, the treatment, the same mannerisms you showed your foreign girlfriends was what you showed the Nigerian girls? Did you have the same expectations of them that you had of the foreign girls?

Anyway, you're still young and except you're looking to get married real soon, you have enough time to find yourself a spouse. If Nigerian girls are not for you, stick to other nationalities, after all everyone has their type.

https://twitter.com/mrodanz/status/1304690107321114624?s=21

Read this.

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Shey you see ehn, its a personality something. My step dad is abroad, 2 aunties and and an uncle is abroad, my sister is abroad. Those two aunties plus my sister, I talk to Them well even there husbands and fiancee are all my gees, we talk well, I talk to my step dad on a regular more than my mom sef, but shey you see that my uncle, once he traveled he cut everyone off, and he was actually the first to travel way back as 2003, but he cut every person off. Even his mother and sisters that where feeding him in naija before he traveled, he wanted them to serve him like a god, but when us gan no dey hungry, the u.s is not a big deal. Most of those people that stop talking to you immediately they traveled, either you have a big problem or they are the one with inferiority complex, because there is absolutely nothing stopping them from making a little time to just say hello hello to friends. But you cant blame them too sha, some Nigerians too dey beg, ordinary sey one of my friends made money from bitcoin, if you see how people started surrounding him like ants, but he knows his real people. He changes number on a regular, because he doesn’t know how to say No, so shey you see sey no be about travel alone. Maybe hopefully when i finally migrate, which would be soon, I’ll understand what diaspora people are talking about. But from what i have seen when i was in Chicago for a visit, most Nigerians there have personal problems. Just leave them and do your thing, they would come around.

BelieverDE:
Telling the girl you want her to sign a prenuptial agreement can make her call the marriage thing off. Most ladies are against that idea.

lmao, a prenup doesn’t state that should would not take anything, it can even be 50/50 arrangement, any babe that doesn’t agree, i would be skeptical about her.

With all the nonsense wey i dey see, for example look at dr dre’s wife she filed for divorce and still wanted if not all of his property, if not that dre proved they signed a prenup, omo my guy would be in trouble like this ooo. Upon the pre nup, she still wants a $2 million monthly, spousal support fee. So guys try and expect the unexpected oooo. No go dey overtrust.

Clicked:
You know the funny thing, it is always Nigerian men who left to live in western countries that complain about our women and not those born there. The problem is that Nigerian men expect to treat Nigerian women the same way you treat them back at home and you guys are usually surprised when that doesn't fly over there.

Can you honestly tell yourself that the behaviour, the treatment, the same mannerisms you showed your foreign girlfriends was what you showed the Nigerian girls? Did you have the same expectations of them that you had of the foreign girls?

Anyway, you're still young and except you're looking to get married real soon, you have enough time to find yourself a spouse. If Nigerian girls are not for you, stick to other nationalities, after all everyone has their type.

Lmao, big joke. Seems you have not had discussions with people other than Nigerians that are abroad. Generally, Naija babes want the feminism of the west and also want men to do the conservative things we do in Naija, how does that fly? an average Naija babe wants a guy to make meals, do house chores and still want you to take care of all the bills the way our fathers do, and plenty go still dey threaten you untop your own money, though, to be sincere they are good Naija babes too oooh, but make we no lie nothing to write home about them. Op go for east Africa babes or south African babes since you said you dont like caucasian babes. I’ll advice you sef, if you are friends or dated any babe in naija before you travelled try rekindling things with her thats if you’re are that high into naija babes sha. And as my popular saying, never go into any marriage without a prenup, in this present age,no matter how gentle and nice the babe is, 10 years from now she can decide to part ways due to Irreconcilable differences, its no ones fault , but dont loose out and regret. We are both young and if you look at the world from my perspective maybe you would get my point. Just my 2cents sha.

SkyOne11:
Trust me. marrying oyinbo ladies will come at a price. We should focus on naija ladies rather than chasing foreigners.

what price? ���

I keep saying it, it is a contract, you married her for greenie and she married you for your fat long cucumber if things go, the opposite direction move on with what you have gained and thank God for the gift of life. there is more to life than green card oooo

Changeofscene:
I feel you bro,na just to go lodge for hotel for Owerri for 2weeks.Imagine the cost effective butchering.

I don't even have any idea about owerri, but Lagos, budget like 30k per night for standard hotel.

bulalakoboko:
What is the rule that applies for someone that want to spend only 5 days in Nigeria. I have a program to attend in Nigeria for just 5 days in November. Traveling from the US. Thank you in advance.

i think you should wait till like October ending for more information, the guildlines would have been updated by then, thats like 45days plus from today, so calm down, anything can happen.

Yeah i got you, me just dey talk my 2cents, nii.

okuta007:
my brother - naija women do worse than the AA or American born women in matters like that - If shame go let me talk how much bs (although once in a while) that my AA wife takes from me without even reacting negatively or telling her bestie or mama or siblings about it - you will be amazed!!!! - NOT THAT SHE IS UGLY OOOO OR A PARASITE OOOO OR BECAUSE MY CUCUMBER IS MADE OF GOLD OOOO - she is just who she is - Lovely and Affectionate and we make up like nothing ever happened and we learn the lessons quietly and move on.

If I try that to a naija woman, na sorry be my name - If you know how many naija guys I know personally and those I heard about who I do not know directly that are paying alimony and child support with Domestic violence records from naija women - you will shed hot tears. Nothing makes some naija women happier than calling the police for their husband when they have a misunderstanding at home - it is like a badge of honor for them!

The anger inside an average naija women is a lot. 4 those who can deal with it - goodluck to them, I can not - NEVER - I do not want to die of BP

Ahmed4002:
Base on experience. I left yesterday

what airline abeg, and what country.

Can you see how he made his point, matured AA, educated ladies are such darlings, too be sincere, but I wouldn’t recommend the younger ones ooo. But if you can get a matured, educated one, you would surely enjoy yourself, you would be treated like a king and also be happy when you treat her like a queen. But still get a prenup, make you no go cry in 20 years time.

okuta007:
here you go using derogatory terms to disrespect your betters

I am married to an African American woman NOT an akata

She supports me - she is caring - she is polished in terms of her public behavior and she is a darling in the bedroom and a lovely mother to my kids




HOW IS SHE DIFFERENT FROM THE AVERAGE NAIJA WOMAN ?



1. she does not fabricate problems from her family in naija so that I can spend my money to support her family like most naija woman do here

2. She is confident, knows how to socialize without having a chip on her shoulder like some of you naija women are, who are easily intimidated

3. She is not loud when making phone calls in public places, unlike naija women - heck you need to see naija ladies at USPS making calls - hmmmm

4. She does not use sex as a weapon to settle scores in our marriage - she initiates sex 60% of the time - even in US naija women deny sex 2 hubby

5. She is not aggressive - as most naija women are - whether educated or not - naija women are very aggressive like they have PTSD

6. She does not have her own project without my knowledge like some naija women will be building houses secretly in naija without hubby knowing

7. She is not sucked into all that naija women association where they gossip and compete needlessly - she is cool and independent minded

8. She is very straight forward, no pretense - naija women pretend a lot - they are not loyal and they talk from both sides of their mouth

9. She is very supportive - the land I bought in Lagos, her money in it was 70% and she has never been to naija before - naija wife do that? I pray o

10. Most importantly - she never nags me - she can be very firm BUT she never raises her voice against me - Try naija woman - they wil nag u 2 death



--- many more reasons I love my AA wife and even if I am given $5million (with no option for divorce for life) - I will never marry a naija woman in America if I was still a bachelor because of the report card of naija women below (my views - you do not have to believe it, may God help you not to experience it in America)


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Changeofscene:
I agree with you �. The Naija girls back home would immediately say yes to your proposal even though you're not her type.Using you as a means to leave Naija and dumping you after she gets her PR.

lmao, na why i dey tell my gees wey dey that side, if na naija babe you wan marry abeg try your old ex girlfriend that you ended things with in maybe a good level, because picking new naija patner is like stabbing in the dark, omo you go injure your self ooo.

Petyprincess:
lol you have a point,i am not biased honestly.

All my comments here have been what i have noticed about men on this forum,its totally okay to marry someone for green card but why putting your women down to praise these women? You can praise your foreign gf/wife without comparing or bashing Nigerian women!

It has become a norm here to bash Nigerian ladies which i thought only happens on romance section but it seems travel section is taking over.

I always thought rose was a gold digger until he put Ed in his rightful place nd broke up with him after that my perception about her changed!!

Please Nigerian men it's okay to date a foreign girl but please we don't need comparison! Many girls here are dating foreign guys including me, hw many did you see bringing y'all down to praise a white guy? I know the attack and insults i got on a thread for saying i prefer a white guy nd many guys here have trolled me for my choice but when it's your turn you don't want us to talk abi?

okay i feel you, maybe from perception... you might not be biased. You can bash Nigerian guys no problem, they are actually guys that when their wives carry them finish them dey mess up, na normal thing. But why guys keep comparing naija babes to AA and oyinbo is because those ones are the pioneers of feminism but Nigerian girls con rubbish am pass oyinbo, oyinbo ladies want equal rights and equal responsibilities, which actually it's to men favour because we benefit what women benefit to, it's a win-win for both genders if you look it at well, but most Nigerian babes want more rights and benefits, lesser responsibilities, not reasonable, and many of these ladies are always arrogant when they travel finish to Naija men that can understand them, at the end they end up with who doesn't appreciate them at all, na why guys dey bash them on a regular, the bashing is a kind of catalyst to make them look at there attitude and try to level up.

Petyprincess:
lol it is real but i think they might just decided to add some drama to make it more interesting,rose and no neck Ed have broken up which i am extremely happy! These pervert men prey on young girls from poor country to explore sexually nd manipulate them.
Rose is a YouTuber now with over 600k subscribers and she's doing fine,it is better than been with a pervert, ugly,short,gross no neck Ed
He embarrassed her badly on the show,i really felt bad, he is also a liar,he lied about his height,he never told her he wanted no kids until they had s*x,he is a manipulator!

I know why i pointed it to you, I knew you would play this same card, to you every man is a predator ���, if it was a man that goes into a relationship with that kind of ugly man, but this time a woman, you would say he trapped and enticed her, now for rose you are setting double standards like rose didn't have what to gain from the relationship if it worked out. You are biased and sentimental. One thing you need to know is legally, marriage is a contract. You are both gaining something, if i marry a fat and ugly white woman for green card, she married for good knacking, we are both exploiting each other abeg, so if i come and say my grievances about Nigerian woman, you shouldn’t assume immediately that it’s because Nigerian women knows that its for green card. Up till this day upon all the bad attitude and screening Nigerian women in the u.s put up towards naija men, when they eventually marry a white man and he dumps them, they claim he is still the one with issues, abeg make una dey accept the truth, Nigeria ladies have fundamental issues, they want too be treated like queens and dont want to treat there patrners like kings.

quickly:
In the west marriage is a punishment for man and the woman has nothing to lose because she can create lies on you and the court will favor her and send u packing.
No more marriage - life partner.

By the time u reach old age the government in the west pay for ppl to take care of you.

Na Wetin some naija boys Dey do for UK. They take care of old ppl

i keep saying it, make sure you discuss with your partner, and sign a prenup or else Oyo is your case.

Petyprincess:
Why feeling bad? Michael is example of greedy Nigerian man that is ready to loose his honour for green card!! These men even go for obese, ugly,entitled,abusive,old white women!!
These women have the worst attitude and treat them like trash because they know how desperate they are!! Imagine Michael wants children which this old woman can't give him yet he's still enduring this abusive and entitled old granny!! These are the kind of men that we have here also,I wnt be surprised most are like michael.

This is another green card hustler, the worst is they go for the ugly,jealous,entitled and abusive white/AA women,none of them are proud to show their partner off on social media nd they will still come online to bash Nigerian women!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pUZQ71b2_S4

you do know this thing is a show right?, I don't believe everything I see on it, it could be made interesting to drive up ratings, for example look at Big Ed and Rosemarie, does that relationship look normal?

EmperorMaria:
Some1 on this thread fits into this. Married to an obese AA dat he married 4 papers & deceivin gullible Naija men. I don’t like d way Naija girls behave,,,but I hate lies 2

Guy, whats your problem ? If someone married an obese AA for papers how hin take concern you, do you know if he actually loves her ?, una wey never step out of your street before, go just dey assume wetin you no sabii. You think its easy to marry for papers abii, uscis smart pass all this ones wey you dey yarn, one small wiff of illegality, and they would deny your application, No dey assume, if you wan die for Nigerian women, do that at your own peril, no dey attack person wife.

Changeofscene:
Awesome �. Spend your vacation in Nigeria if you're searching for a Naija partner. But this maybe difficult because vacation in Nigeria doesn't seem attractive after getting used to living in a sane society like Canada/US/UK them.

No reason am ooo, if you get money you go enjoy vacation for naija, apart from ticket and gifts for people at home, just budget 5-6k dollars for a month holiday, omo you go enjoy am pah

trilobite:
Madagascar girls are the last hope in Africa. Please if you meet one and she is singke, try your luck with all your might!!

southy girls too dey okay ooo, and them get big booty sef . I had a thing with one long ago, she was okay, but there was no future in it, me i cant live in southy and she cant live in naija, we are still friends sha, but she is good. Needless to say, if you want a good idea about Nigerian babes, date outside Nigeria. Then you would see that most Nigerian ladies are batshit crazy.

Changeofscene:
Exactly what I have found out.My boss recently told me that she sees no reason in people getting married these days,she told me how she tried to discourage her son from tieing the knots with his baby mama.Why bring the government into your love life when you can have it all and catch more fun.

In most cases the marriage thing destroys the romance,making it too serious. Na P Diddy way win am jare.

you can always sign a prenup sha, if I eventually plan to marry, ill be marrying someone with a higher iq than mine, because i want “Einstien kids” and i believe the woman would beat me hands down when it comes to divorce issues, so I’ll surely be signing a prenup, home or abroad. Divorce na very normal thing this days sha, no be big deal.

ziondaughter247:
The weird thing about this thread is that 99% of the guys here are in their face-me-I-face-you sheds in Ojuelegba typing rubbish and thirsting for things they will never have(white girls). The 'socalled' few abroad are either in Vietnam or India or somewhere remote also bashing Nigerian girls. Shame many of our men have condescended to this level. Honestly, from Nairaland posts, I can tell many Nigerian men suffer from extreme inferiority complex. You will think that their mothers and sisters are whites! No matter what you do, black men will continue to be at the lowest rung of the ladder....You are still a 'black monkey' to the average white man, unfortunately! Feel so ashamed reading some of these comments. I wonder how most black men married to whites truly feel. Imagine lying down next to your prized 'oyibo prized' wife and all she thinks in her heart is see this 'black monkey'. What a sad and condescending way to live your life. You will never be enough unfortunately. I have heard this conversations from white women themselves, who are married to black men. Imagine being ashamed to introduce you to family and the public. Unfortunately, white people generally are known to be polite no matter the situation and can hide what they truly think.....Black men that are supposed to be at the forefront of preserving heritage are willing to trade it for a morsel of bread today, just to impress your fellow blacks and villages people. Very sad.....lots of lost heritage! Shame


Don't be pissed off... I just said the truth and nothing but it! And before you come for me, I am very established where I am, not interested at all in lowlifes, especially those Nigerians living in their rat holes 'abroad'!�
So glad ladies on nairaland ignore you people most times. Very few ladies here and lots of inferior men on nairaland

Lmao, says the woman who doesn't have no particular idea about anyone called a black monkey, you better get a life and try to gain one or two things from these discussions.

Gamesmart:
With all you just said, Bleep NIGERIAN GIRLS!

I would not touch them with a barge-pole.

The quality difference vs AA is just clear!!!

my guy na lie oooo, if AA show you pepper... I believe the other guy is talking about the matured one's of like 40+, if you meet akata of 20+, she go finish you. If you are in your 20’s you fit still do Nigerian babe in her 20’s too na or rather Caucasian

AristocraticMe:
Lol........... truth be told ......... You are correct. ..... 100%...... though there are good Nigerian women but it is not too many... i think their over entitlement attitude is their problem.

exactly, my Aunty left naija when she was in her early 30’s just 10 years ago, she got married to a Nigerian man, They had a baby, she also finished med school all within this 10 years. The point is, how good is your character, hope you no carry feminism for head like scarf, because i think if you have a good attitude you would get a Nigerian man that would appreciate you.

antocreative:
All ye men here that I bashing Nigerian women make me laugh! I know must of you are washing pant of the so-called white women. Brothers, pls don't pay heed to them! It is far better to marry your fellow Nigerian, except you are not a real man who wants his posterity to live on forever. Checkout men on their old age who married whites back then, do they look happy to you? As for me, I will go back home and marry and I will commit it to the hands of GOD. I wnt my posterity to live on and I dont want to have children who might have identity crises. Most of you talking rubbish about the Nigerian women have never been outside the country before. You also suffer from serious inferiority complex! If you are a true son of the soil, marry from your heritage, it pays in the long run! Forget the flashy white women of the west!

stupid posterity, otedola did not marry a Nigerian, is he not happy? abi he looks sad too you? abeg if you like Naija woman, marry am, leave guys that like AA or caucasian alone, me I just believe marriage is not as important as we make it to seem, if you see who makes you happy regardless of race just marry. But it is not a big deal though.

Guruindahouse:
Hi sir,
Do you know how the situation at MMA for departure. Do we need to do covid19 test even if we are departing Nigeria for Europe?

yeah I think I read it somewhere here on nairaland, that they would be tests. Though I'm not sure at all about anything.

JoinMarco:
Woooooooooooo
Medical Illiterate. U have never read a single page of medical journal in ur life neither are u medical or health professional. If u are then shame .

Convid19 is a respiratory disease which means it affects d respiratory system. Unlike HIV which weakens d immune system making d body more susceptible to diseases convid attacks only d respiratory tract.
Both convid19 and HIV have symptoms which manifest but that isn't what kills them.

Lemme give an example so a thick head like u can get it.
Someone who has HIV and has injury in d hand which is infected may die from d infection even after administering antibiotics because d immune system is weak.
But someone who has has convid19 will barely die because his immune system is still intact.

Now it's still d same with malaria, rabies, insect bites etc. This is why HIV patients are put on immune boosters nd are advised never to knowingly fall sick.

HIV patients have a failed immune system.
Convid19 patients do not. ( only that d immune system needs to work to defeat a virus it's never encountered).

U have lost d debate. Learn and be wise.

planned not to answer you, but people like you are one of the reasons we have issues in this country, see the person claiming he knows a lot about “convid” dude its covid, not convid, and yeah it affects plenty parts of your body apart from your respiratory tract, which is mostly the lungs, it also affects the kidney, liver and also the heart. It can cause digestive issues and also increase the risk of blood clots. It weakens the immune system, by which the immune system tries to activate a defense mechanism for the body which pushes it to overdrive sometimes, which later cause it to have greater problems. Why do you think people are adviced to take vitamin c and zinc, to boost there immune system for more backup. People have lost there legs because of blood clots as a result of covid 19 an example is broadway actor Nick cordero, look it up. I keep replying you because you are one of the select individuals who think medical experts are conspiracy theorists. So stop pushing lies and read, and stop being insensitive, people have lost loved ones to this, stop downplaying it because you think its just like malaria. Now move along dingbat ✌️

fatboislim:
I pity for the first badge of passengers. All those Nigeria customs and immigration and drug enforcement that harass people and extort money from them Nd also ransack peoples luggages.

Those guys they disgrace us aje, they automatically think everyone is a jjc, billing like idiots.

JoinMarco:
Stop being sentimental. U are just twisting d facts to support ur narrative. There's no possible way for you to prove it was convid that killed them since there are those who had convid and recovered. But since those who had only convid as an illness means its definitely convid that killed them.

Use ur head.
Convid can aggravate a sickness(anoda ailment) and not still kill u.
Peace.

I had to use layman terms.

lmao you claim to use your head, and you asking me such a stupid question that since some people recovered from the virus that means it is not covid that killed people, don't people recover from malaria and it will kill some, don't people survive cancer and it will kill some, didnt people recover from ebola, and it killed many, hell even the flu kill people and most people recover, and as a matter of fact its actually covid not convid, and stop saying what you don’t know, and you are asking me how can i prove it was covid that killed them, can you prove it wasnt covid. Dude go get an education and a life and stop pushing conspiracy theories about what you have no basic idea about, every doctor around the world have said it repretedly that covid kills people with underlying diseases more, you are here trying to push the narrative that it was the underlying diseases that killed them, atleast read up on how viruses affect the immune system and I’m damn sure you also believe hydroxylchloroquine can cure COVID-19 yeah ?, since you obviously believe covid19 numbers are being inflated. I won't be replying you anymore but stop saying what you have no atom of idea about.

JoinMarco:
My word . I think maybe u have lost it.
Sir, the chat details out death of those who have contracted d virus.

That means those who died and didn't have any underlying illnesses died from convid 19.
Hope u get.

I don't think u would anyway

Exactly, it posted that only 6% who have died from covid didn't have an underlying illness, it isn't saying that the rest 96% died from the underlying diseases. They had underlying diseases which weakened there immune, prior to covid. Them covid killed them. Hope your head is open enough to understand that, and stop pushing conspiracy theories.

JoinMarco:
Lemme educate u sir.
U were so eager to counter my point nd denounce "right wing media" propaganda.
U even had d guts to ask me to quote reputable sources. Reputable sources like wat?? Tell me one. I digress.

I said looking at d table only about 6% of d total deaths were actually due to convid. There were people who died because of other ailments but had convid. (u actually inferred this urself, so I don't see d problem here)

D stats released by CDC nd all disease control agencies around d world must include everyone who dies and has contracted d virus, whether they die because of convid or not( provided is a health related problem not something like an accident).
They actually say dis themselves.

U must be dense
Free ur mind. I say this not as an insult pls.

cant you read?? The chat you posted said only 6% of the fatalities didn't have underlying illnesses, it never said only 6% have died from COVID. I think you need to go back to the 5th grade if you can't analyse chats and graphs well, claiming right when you know nothing.