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IntelChief:
Truth is that, there are a lot of skeletons insides my Facebook account that I really don't want my girl to ever see. You know, as a guy, apart from my babe, I have other ongoing projects inside that my Facebook account. (a man shouldn't put all his eggs in one basket)

Don't get me wrong, It's not that my girl ain't the number one or anything, and it's not that am technically cheating on her, but like I said earlier, a man shouldn't test the dept of a river with both legs.

So recently, she had been nursing the idea of both of us sharing each other's Facebook accounts, (she is willing to grant me access to hers and all).
Frankly, am not willing to grant her access to mine and had been avoiding that topic like Tinubu avoiding interviews. Why? I don't see any point in partners sharing their social media accounts.

you can have aternative account to give her it's password,so that she can trust you because if you refuse to give her,she will think you are cheating on her,hence she won't trust you anymore besides you also will be able to have access to her own too

Preciousgirl:
What is wrong with men?
Can't believe that my ex guy whom I broke up with years ago is asking me out again
Knowing very well that I am married
Should I tell my husband?
Should I block him?
Please how do I handle it?

I am never interested in him

just tell him you are married and you are no longer interested in him and if he refuse block all his contact and inform your husband because he may want to blackmail you with your past with him.

Ebenman:
I meant a lady 3 months ago. After we talked, she began to show interest in me, but she wasn't my standard, so I wasn't feeling the same way.

My standards are:
1. At least she must be a graduate
2. She should be self-sufficient (earning something reasonable)
3. At most 5-6 age difference between us
4. Looking calm and understandable
5. She must be an average-height lady

This lady, in particular, is an NCE holder, working as a teacher, earning little because of her level of education. She is just in her early 20s, and I am almost 8 yrs older than her. She is from a poor background and has 2 other younger siblings. She is also not tall and looks like an average girl.

She is very decent (a virgin) and loyal to me. I have told her severally that she is not my standard and I wasn't interested in her, but she refused to listen and began to feel very insecure. Maybe because I earn well and she knows I will soon get married.

She now comes to my house almost every weekend because I am very accommodating. Recently she has been telling me to delete the pictures of other females friends, in which I asked her on what grounds I should do that.

Note: I don't want to invest in a lady that is not my wife, and I am afraid her family will see me as a rich guy from which her other siblings can benefit if I proceed with her.

Should I block every contact with her, or should I forget about standards and risk and look at the good side?

Please advice

since you have sent standard of yourself and you have meet you own, please don't change that for your woman, you can marry from your from class,your working place or class that bigger than your level, don't marry woman out of pity because when the marriage reality comes up you will regret it of Carry all your family and her family bundens alone,if you want to help her you can help her in other means either by setting business for her or help her to find better job with her qualifications but not with marriage, there are many good woman outside that meet your standards just look for one.

emmy512:
my Situation now.
I give a lot, people take advantage of that but i don't even think too much about it until when i give hoping you will be different from the rest and pay up then u give me a reason not to do it again.

this girl asked for money to fix her phone 15k,

i gave her 10k, 5k dash, 5k to return by 3rd week of September.
gave her beginning of September and just 2 days ago she's giving stories.

That's how they normally do,what you can't afford to dash them don't borrow them because they won't return the money

Kealmin:
Good evening nairalanders please I have known this girl for more than 5 years now and 2 years ago I opened up to her about my intention to marry her at first we didn't really took things serious but later that year we got serious with each other and started planning ohhh, but few months ago she told me both of us can no longer work out due to somethings beyond her control, I beg her to stay but she just couldn't heed to my plea, it wasn't easy at first but with the help of God and close friends I was able to move on, though she still check on me sometimes but I noticed that anytime I see her with the guy she is Currently dating I feel bad and pained and sometimes I just feel downcast and may not be able to work that day.

Note that she said I didn't do anything wrong to her because several times I asked her why she left she told me it's beyond her control

Please I don't like sinking into depression and I don't like see myself wallowing over a lady that decided to leave me on her terms, please how do I move on without having to feel bad whenever I see her with her current guy.

Thank you
Good evening

Mod I would appreciate if you can move this to FP.

I don't know if what I'm going through is normal after breakup or is just me that doesn't know what to do after breakup

Just accept the fate that that is how nature wants it to be and there's nothing you can do about it, what of if you were married and something bad happens to you?it might be why God don't want you to be together, always remember breakage in courtship is better than breakage in marriage, don't force anybody that doesn't want to be with you to be with you is very dangerous, hadn't meet she love you and deserve you she won't have left you, find a new relationship and you'll be fine

Nelsonprince1230:
What do you think a man who can't

go 3 round should do so that his baby won't be chopping outside?

The prolong round will just be endangering your life,do want you can do and leave the rest,there is no medal for it,to avoid gone to soon, it's for fun and pleasure not for the competition

Fineman2:
The girl you meet for the first time is already asking you for money, this is a big societal problem.

I met this young lady inside the bank, I talked to her and asked for her phone number which she gave me.

When I got home, I called her and asked when we could see and she was like "see ke

The following day she started telling me she was not okay, that she was sick and she didn't have money to buy drugs, but I told her bluntly that I can't be played that way, that I mean business with her if she's serious.

I ask this girl to come to my house which she refused, but that doesn't bother me

Days after I called again and she gave me a location where she will meet me, I agreed, but she went further and suggested that we go to chicken republic in her choosen area.

That was how I deleted her number.


Another story

I've been talking to this girl since December last year, we met on Facebook, she was in Abuja then.

We even attended the same school and we were both having some issues then, so I asked her to help me out because I was far away and working as well and she was closer to school.

Sincerely she did tried her best even though it didn't work out for me, but the stupid male lecturer addressed her own issue.

That day she asked me to transfer small money to give the man which I did.

Weeks after we became very close and she started telling me all her plans and asked for my advise, she later said she was broke that day and had nothing to eat so I sent her 2k even though she didn't ask me. She thanked me.

After that period she went incommunicado for months and reappear just last month, she now told me that she was coming to Lagos for job interview and that we might see this time, I said no problem.

Two days later she said she was in Lagos and wasn't too bouyant, she asked me for 1500 naira and I sent her 2k, she said she would see me the following day before going back to Abuja.

The following day,she sent me a voice message on WhatsApp saying she can't come to my house, that I should wait for her at a road junction where we can see, and that I should arrange a bus for her to take off after seeing me.

I politely advised her to go straight to her destination without stopping to see me and wished her safe trip, that was the end of it, she was surprised, but I kept my respect.

Sex is the cheapest thing in town today, i don't know why some ladies keep playing games, saying they can't come to a guy's house.

The wahala of getting a naija girl to come to your house and the money you will spend isn't worth it. I will send the money to my mum instead

Happy Sunday.





Mynd44

many are actually broke, especially those that are in school,the day they'll ask for airtime, data, money to clear little things at school and money for feeding,the worst part if them said you should borrow them money they won't pay, the money you ask them to repay money you borrowed them, they'll start fighting you as if you having do them anything before.

Agozskey:
I met this girl 5months ago... We are currently dating, buh the problem is dat we argue alot, really, my friends don't like her too because they claim they know her more than I do, she even admitted that one of my friends have sucked her breast before we started dating, she has an ugly past... She told me her first boyfriend raped her and got her pregnant buh she terminated the pregnancy, her current ex came into the picture and she keeps telling me dat her ex accepted her like dat and so she offered her body to her ex just 4 months of relationship... Well I met her and fell in love with her and we started dating, buh I found out that she chats her ex, there was a time she even posted him on her WhatsApp status... She loves his posts and still her ex tags her... We quarrelled about dat, we played a game about who is more between us and our exes... She said
*Her ex kisses better*
*Her ex spends more on her*
*Her ex is more serious minded*
It got me upset like WTF... She apologized, I waved it sha
She makes time to see me sha, I won't lie buh these past few days, if we are chatting she will tell me she's tired she wants to sleep, around 8pm buh her last seen will be 10pm... I quarrelled her about it
Just yesterday we didn't speak to each other through out, I called her buh she was saying I did her bad... I got angry with it... She now told me I'm childish and immature, and I'm making tinz difficult for the relationship, and I'm boring �... And I told her dat I need space abeg, so guys I need ur say on this... And pls I'm not a simp... B4 una go dey form grab grab 4 me.... Thank you

you'll sit her down and talk to her how you really love her, and how you really want the relationship to work and that she has her own part to play too, and if she doesn't want to be with you anymore, you find another good and decent girl this time around.

Jameszinchenkov:
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which country is bakassi penicula is located, it's not Cameroon again?

LilVast1:
I’m from Ogbomosho bro
I know Makinde’s political game is weak but Teslim is not a worthy challenger
Most people won’t leave Seyi and vote Teslim

I don't say seyi makinde will not win, both some of the candidates from his party will suffer his weak game.

Sheistoopretty:
Yoruba men are the dirtiest men I've ever come across all they know how to do is Gamble and drink kai-kai and ogogoro all day

not everybody,there are lost that are very responsible and don't do any of what you have mentioned,dirtest and waywardness don't have tribe peculiarities

Psych412:
Yoruba men can be annoying Sha... especially passing a road were some of them are by the side of the road drinking ogogoro, embarrassing and hissing on a lady you don't even know

because you meet some few people doing something doesn't implies that is what the whole tribe doing,we have good and bad people in every tribe and those you saw doesn't represent Yoruba people besides it might be the language barrier since you don't understand there language it might be they are making jest if you,they might just be cracking jokes and it collides with time that you are passing on

LilVast1:
Are you now saying APC is winning next year? Lol
The party is dead over here bro
Teslim is weak

;am not saying that, what I mean is makinde is playing atiku kind of politics of selling prominent people and not buying, which can give APC more opportunities I e Oyo North and central senator is sure for APC and ogbomoso rep member

LilVast1:
You go just open mouth dey talk sha
Last election PDP won almost everything in Oyo State
2023 governorship is going to PDP
While presidency goes to LP

as far as 2019 election is concern APC has 2 senator,9 out of 14 rep member,5 out of 32 state house of assembly members,the presidential results is almost the same, since the winner won with 1000 margin alone

nlreserve:
This girl is a nurse with nice character and beautiful but I'm a fan of moderate breast and moderate ass or curve.

The issue is that since we started our friendship, she uses this padded tight nickers that helps her look like she has ass and padded bra that makes her boob moderate.

It was later after like three months of meeting her, when we were making out I discovered that it was the padded undies that helped her looked like she had those moderate boobs and ass/curve.

Meanwhile, we were already talking about marriage but the thought of her small ass and small boob scares me as I wouldn't want to cheat on her after settling down.

My mind is telling me that she might add weight and the ass and boobs might add after childbirth since women tend to add weight then but I'm not sure.

Please, is it possible for the ass and boobs to add up after childbirth or I should just move on?

in relationship or marriage physical attraction is very important,if your personal is not sexually attractive to you,there will be issues in the middle of the marriage, but if you can look beyond the physical attraction and look at other virtue she process the better for you, because all those boobs and ass can faded away after childbirth and the boobs will no longer looking good as they were before, but other good virtue remains forever.

As the 2023 election is approaching,as the crises in PDP and wike is continuing which polical party is best for Governor wike to protest his polical relevant beyond 2023 election.

If he remains in the PDP and let go of all his grivance and work for the success of the party,he will likely be given one juicy position in the party like minister of petroleum or SSG and he will has great chance to deliver most of his candidates such as governor, senators,house of rep members and state House of assembly members, and still retails his national honors,he may likely win the presidential tickets others time,if he still has structure of the party in his hand.


If he remains in PDP and work for APC presidential candidate,if may likely not be able to convince all his loyalist to vote for APC in the federal and vote PDP at state level,hence most of his candidates may suffer defeat, APC government may give his juicy slot for minister appointment, slot for ambassador or give him the chance to produce Senate president or speaker depending on his contribution at the election, this will also give him chance of political relevant but not as PDP because this will be the longer root to his presidential ambition as he can not succeed asiwaju bola tinubu.


If he works for labour party candidates to victory this will not affect most of his state candidates as he can easily tell his supporters to vote for labour party at national level and PDP at state level,and this will earn him more political relevant as asiwaju bola tinubu that the one who singlehandedly brought someone to power and give him many slot of many juicy position as asiwaju bola tinubu is currently enjoying, but it will be the longest routes to his presidential ambition.

If he work for nnpp to victory it won't be different from that of labour party, but only difference is he can negotiate for vp slot pending the inec deadline and he has the high chance to succeed him after his tenure ends.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Like my Mum will say

Over 100 men can pursue a woman but only one will marry her

Out of the 100 men they will want to sex you whether old and young or married or single

But a Good Character and Intelligence supercede Beauty

Have good attitude and develop your self


Copyright Digital Bimpe The Coach

As a young age, ladies always look very beautiful and attractive,at that time many men will want to associate themselves with them,even if you send a girl on Hawking and boy on Hawking,girl will sell pass due to many men of I want to marry you,even when they seek for employment,they will pick lady over guy, that's why they said that, even some men will even be spending there Money on her until she will personally decide who will be her spouse.

Darren95:
I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.

There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused.
Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life.

Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.

Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).

The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.

But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself!
Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.

It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!

I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking.
Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this.
I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!!
To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!!

sit the lady down and ask her, what she think you can use to repay her for all her caring for you, from her response you will know what she is truly want,if she said she want you tell her you have someone in your life, pay her up with money and gifts,she may become emotional but with time she will be fine.

Period007:
You are his paid urchin, find it for him

I don't know where he keeps it and am not his paid urchin.

Felimax:
If Tinubu was 30 when he got married his wife Remi will be 22.

These are the kind of people you find that want to rescue Nigeria.
Na wa!

the thing shock me

oyebanji44:
62 and 70 it doesn't imply tinubu married remi at the age of 8yr old


You might be 28 and dating someone at the age of 20

the thing shock me too.

Will you help him to find it? Since when having certificate become issue in Nigerian politics.[quote author=Period007 post=116913998]Wheres Thiefnibus Primary school certificate
Wheres Thiefnibus secondary school certificate

Do you know Thiefnibu is the only presidential candidate without a primary and secondary school certificate?

I saw this hilarious post and I can't store laughing, please educate this obidient.

As we are approaching 2023 general election it's becoming necessary for all APC candidates starting from state to the national level should come together to address the issue of insecurities and bad economy ravaging our country,if not it will affect there chances at the election because there will be a protest votes against them in which PDP and LP will be the beneficiary of that protest votes.

We cannot say because APC use Muslim Muslim tickets or because APC candidates is from Yoruba tribe that automatically people from South West will vote for him or northerners will use religion sentiment to vote for him,did northerners don't know the difference between been alive and been under the grave ?or living in peace to siege ? Or living in the house to being in kidnappers den ? Or who doesn't want better life.

Although APC presidential flagbear is a good man but there's is need for them to address this issue with immediate effect so that it will not be use against them,they should try and think about it if they really serious about this election .

emeernest:
If Man City no win this match, I go dash 100k to 10 of my friends for Nairaland. Quote me if u be one of them.

Make i quote with my account details

Johnny147147:
Check dem on twitter

please i don't have twitter,help check for it.

Johnny147147:
They can exchange information. Just write EFCC

please did you have efcc contact, because I don't have it.

Johnny147147:
Get the police involved...

will police go from oyo state to benue state to go and arrest him?

Ifakiland:
If mmm no fit teach you lesson e mean say you no fit wise again....if you get anoda 200k send to me, you go get 5m in one month.....

efcc has arrested the man, but I don't know how that can help us?

Johnny147147:
I think so. Cos they should have operatives that are close

please what advise did you have for me concerning this?

Johnny147147:
I think so

but what of people that are far, because is people that they are living in makurdi together that use efcc to arrest him, Will they retrieve for me too that am living at oyo state, that what I don't know?

Johnny147147:
Reasonable and realistic virtual investment u meant? Learn how to walk from any investment you're not directly involved

lesson learnt, but how to come out of this, someone told me others investors use efcc arrest him, please does efcc help in retrieve the money?