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Chiamaka01:
Osanobua! Did they send you to me? Did God give you any man for me?? Okay, oh, continue.

Hehehehe......God has a man for you alright. The fact that you're feeling nervous about it suggets you already fear is's true the boy is going to be in OAU.

Chiamaka01:
Don't curse me, oh, I take God beg you. Is it your lifetime mission to get on my nerves? Enough derailing, this is an educational thread, not 'Chiamaka's love life' thread.

All na education now. We are discussing what plagues the students of OAU.

I'm getting on your nerves again?
Which ones now?

Timmytimmy:
Are you kidding me? Who is "they"? When I have important things to do, it's to brag about how I subdue my wife? Are you serious? Who are the married men you know?

See why I said you unmarried women blow this thing out of proportion?

Lemme even say something self. The reason why I don't like some feminism crusaders is this thing you're doing; you're goading and encouraging yourself with so much generalisation of the men folk that there will no longer be a middle ground for what you're fighting for. The danger isn't very conspicuous; your feminism simply slips unnoticed into sexism. That's one of the psychological issues I talked about. You'll build a sub-conscious need to compete with men to prove your point.

I know many a lady who only want to be successful to put men in their places. The biggest problem is that they will not admit it to save their lives; second psychological problem.

You girls should chant on your war songs but please tread carefully.

My feminist aunties, please read this.

babysmart:
uuuuu? feminist? chai!!!
u knw wat...I comment my reserve.

I stand for moderation.

Misogynist2014:
You don't understand satire when you see it.

Oh....my bad sir. That's the first time I've been blinded to such apt use of literary device. It's probably the tense atmosphere around me. These girls are befuddling my reasoning.

I like your moniker, it's part of the irony I presume.

Chiamaka01:
Is that a curse? God forbid. They can come in numbers but they'll leave in disappointment, that's a definite.

After you find the will to compose yourself, that's sure; they would certainly leave in disappointment.

But there shall be a special one. His name ________

dejii01:
@ the bolded, some can't help it

So you agree with me that once the hormones kick in, the idea of feminism becomes non-existent?

And African women can love ehn.
They can love for Africa

Chiamaka01:
I'm impressed. Too bad i'm already married.

No wahala......Ever heard of coup d'etats ?

Chiamaka01:
It's a dead end, and you know why.

Lol......never say never my dear. They will come in numbers like the locusts in the plague of Egypt, believe me and your heart will curl like a Lizard around your oesophagus

I can bet money on that.

Chiamaka01:
So, you'd object if your wife brought a maid to do some domestic duties?

Definitely not. If I had my way, my wife won't lift a finger. God willing, i'll super-pamper her.

I'll also have my share of domestic duties. The more energetic duties of course. Marriage should be a matter of love and compromise. That's the way I see it oh.
Kai.....I can't wait.

Ladokun12:
hummm hapi people's list good anyway sori wat course are u in for

Ladokun12 ma main man.

Chemical engineering ni o. Do you have a sister in the department?

Chiamaka01:
I've had serious and not-too-serious ones, i've had all those 'butterflies' and felt jealous at some point, but i was never a lovestruck idiot.

Wait naa.....shebi na we dey tell you.
OAU guys will give your heart a run for it's money.

dejii01:
So, you're saying that the majority of females are ruled by their emotions and will succumb to their man when in love
Society 1 - 0 Feminists

I don't disprove that you're a thinker, but I doubt you've loved someone so much that it got to the obsession stage. At that stage, you would become a feeler, trust me, I've seen this happen a lot. Estrogen is a really powerful hormone.

Hehehehehe......this Deji is a funny clown

Chiamaka has a lot of "feeling" to do. Experience is the best teacher. You'll understand when "he" comes around.

Chiamaka01:
@bolded, that's the case, and no offence, but you're not God, so you don't know what he wants me to be.

No, i won't.

I'll give you a book after stalking you.

Chiamaka01:
It's my turn to say, "guilty conscience!". I knew you'd catch the bait. You're not a sexist or a misogynist, you're more of a 'traditionalist'. Your interest is the preservation of your culture, which is

Nah. I'm not a traditionalist as such. My argument is for a middle ground. Our African culture too has a lot of barbaric and dehumanising practices.

Feminism however, has more dangerous pits than our culture. The countries that have it in full swing have the highest rates of divorce but then a very large number of our young women are swallowing what they hear without thinking about why our fathers and mothers did it like this or like that. They are practicing an illegitimate revolution.

I am one of the men who still believes my wife should cook 80 percent of the time depending on how free she is. I've been called old fashioned and a lot of names but I don't really care. My mum did it and if only you knew her; she is a choleric person,a natural leader but she is equally a wise woman.

I believe in feeling (love) and thinking (logic). Is that too much to ask?

Chiamaka01:
Humans are either majorly thinkers or feelers. It just so happens that most thinkers are males and most feelers are females. There are some female thinkers and some male feelers. I'm a thinker.

Why not be a thinker and feeler?

Or you so much don't want to be seen as a feeler that the thought of it appalls you?

Is this how you would behave when we get married?

Misogynist2014:
Don't mind the dude jawe, only God knows why men don't think like me. 50:50 is what men should be thinking of exploiting now. It gives men the chance to save their money while doing some over hyped home chores, out of which they can hire a temporary house help till the kids mature enough. I still wonder why men still think its their job to provide for a dull, passive element. Mthcheew

Cool, it's a free world. You are free to hold whatever worldview you want as far as it's not against the Law. Goodluck.

dejii01:
But when you see a female truly in love, she's constantly ruled by her emotions which makes her succumb to the will of her man

Feel free to correct me.

Deji.....leave them oh. I didn't even want to go there yet.

we go attend una wedding na, we go see idobale and kneeling down.

babysmart:
my sister, chop knuckle jare.
yea exactly, nd dey like to brag to deir fellow men aw much dey subjugate deir women

Are you kidding me? Who is "they"? When I have important things to do, it's to brag about how I subdue my wife? Are you serious? Who are the married men you know?

See why I said you unmarried women blow this thing out of proportion?

Lemme even say something self. The reason why I don't like some feminism crusaders is this thing you're doing; you're goading and encouraging yourself with so much generalisation of the men folk that there will no longer be a middle ground for what you're fighting for. The danger isn't very conspicuous; your feminism simply slips unnoticed into sexism. That's one of the psychological issues I talked about. You'll build a sub-conscious need to compete with men to prove your point.

I know many a lady who only want to be successful to put men in their places. The biggest problem is that they will not admit it to save their lives; second psychological problem.

You girls should chant on your war songs but please tread carefully.

Chiamaka01:
Seems like i'm not the only one who observed this. The bible says,'God's strength is made perfect in our weakness'. It seems like their strength is made perfect in subjugation of women.

Nooooooooooooooooo

Chai.....I don't even know where to start from. It's not a competition now. I'm feminist in a lot of ways self.
Ayaf tire jare

Chiamaka01:
@bolded, that's the case, and no offence, but you're not God, so you don't know what he wants me to be.

No, i won't.

I like it when you go all feisty and aggressive.

I am definitely not God and I am only too glad to agree with this your poignant and important observation but do you think God wants us handling things with force everytime?

Btw, maybe I have a fairly good idea of what God wants. Maybe

Marry me na

babysmart:
lol...we've had dis kinda conversation b4.
wat makes u so sure dat dats wat dey intend to do
besides, y do u keep referring to chimamanda, pls free dat woman o

ALL THE ABLE AUNTY! !!!

Na you oh. All this accusations you're dispensing as if you're father Christmas. Diariz God oh

I haven't accused Chimmamnda of anything on this thread yet.

Anyway,that our conversation was about her person and not really about feminism.

You can't change the fact that I don't really care much for her. I'm prejudiced and I'm admitting it

babysmart:
U ar d one blowing it out of proportion, u seem to b under d impression dat feminists ar out to belittle male gender or something.

Aunty mi the Barrister, temper justice with mercy now.
I haven't said very much about feminism on this thread. What fueled your presumption?

Btw, do you know the minds of all the "so-called feminists". How can you be so sure that's not what they want to do? I haven't made any statements here yet. I'm still asking questions.

Chiamaka01:
I can't be diplomatic, it's just me.

*in Chris Brown's voice* I didn't wanna go there

Anyway,

"A gentle answer defuses anger while a sharp tongue kindles a temper fire"

Forget the issue on ground, but sometimes, diplomacy is synonymous to wisdom. I've seen that re-inforced over and over again.

And stop saying you aren't capable of possessing a virtue. We might be products of our environments or have fixed temperamental traits biologically. It never stops us from learning and becoming what God expects us to be.

Will you marry me?

Chiamaka01:
Okay, so you see it as a means of enriching one's self or family?

An igbo girl in predegree once accused Yoruba people for giving out their daughters for meagre amounts. She said and I quote" my neighbour's daughters in-laws came to "carry her" with one crate of soft drinks.

No offence, educate some of your people. They need it.

Chiamaka01:
Do you want me to lie to him?

Diplomacy 101....

An antagonist approach will only ensure his becoming more prejudiced. Just wait and see

Chiamaka01, the old soul I saw has a good meaning oh. Thanks dear

But Stefan has an old soul? I thought the clown was just a confused heart-broken fella
I dunno sha, it's being a while.
Elaborate na

dejii01:
What if he really meant it?

Pervalert in that case.

I don't believe he meant it though.

dejii01:
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Wrong choice of words bro.

I wonder oh....

He's from the Western part of Yaba...hehehehehe

Ladokun12:
hmm hapi about oda people succes gud tin ama hv to remove u frm my sadist list i actualy hv dis wrong thinking about u bt am changin it anyway gud luk cetipes hop to meet u der soon

Sadist list?
Are you kidding me??

Well, I have the school of thought that only sadists have sadist lists.

You're in my happy people's list sha

MissMobayo:
Thank you sir...Yes,I know who you are.

Cool......


Everybody, one of my aunties has come. Don't mess around with me unless you want her trouble

Welcome ma

efyzhi:
Wow welcome mate........................
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Timmy Lolz #open yansh for u#

Open wah??