₦airaland Forum

Churchill have finally decide.and the child is here,toton decay is now a first wife.where she should have endure and make her marriage work,she’s busy causing drama.

A man is a man they have to make a decision no matter what,and he did that.

Nigeria self decide suicide army recruitment

[quote author=Lawdis post=98981993].....most of those cars will soon find their ways to naija awa corntree after auction export had visited

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I wanted to say exactly the same lol

Most of our ladies don’t even have 2k or Airtel yet they have multiple boyfriends,because she has small money now,she will just be saying rubbish to intimidate our local girls.

Zimbabwe women and their marrying of more than 1 husband na 5 and 6, this one no be the first news for nairaland.

fuckingAyaya:
Ur dad is daft

But him and the other governors are daft and dubious.

Omode olowo,small boy with big money.30bg gang

Awesome,May God continue to bless your good work.the area really need it.

Nice one this are the news I want to hear about Nigeria in diaspora.

Kindly go and do a letter of administration,it is not expensive,it will only take time,if you are in Lagos you can do your later of admistration in high court ikeja old secretarial,don’t make use of a lawyer because he will take some percentage from the money,your and your siblings can do it alone by yourself,it is. It hard,it take between 3 to 8 months before the letter of administration will be out,after then you will take the letter of administration to the bank and the bank will open a bank account for you and those at the next of kings in the bank and he money will be disbursed to them according to the agreement y’all decide.the letter of administration is a process,that’s while it will take his long,and the name of your dad will be out in ye newspaper too.#note:is it only the letter of administration you can use to claim all your dads benefit from the government.and personal company he do with anyone.

MrBrownJay1:
look so fake.....

BTW: this is not proposing, this is BEGGING LIKE A RAT!!!!
what a shameful specimen of a human being... no wonder she said NO!

The idiot actually make the girl feel so beautiful and important,to me the girl no fine one kobo,she just wear glass for eyes like wealder.watin annoyed me passed he go de sleep for ground,mumu man.

loneprof:
My dear, I hope all you wrote is true and I genuinely feel bad for you. What the guy wrote about seeking God is true and I also understand that due to your situation, you feel abandoned and alone, but it doesn't negate the fact that what he said is true.

Since this your baby daddy denied the child, have you reported to the police? You can also contact human rights/welfare agency to take up the case with him cos he doesn't have a right to deny his child's paternity. Don't sit down and be looking, contact the nearest police station and explain your situation, they will drag the guy to welfare and force him to pay for the child's upkeep, after all, you didn't impregnate yourself.

This is the only advice I can ask you to follow,you don’t need to go to a police station,go to any of your local government secretaries explain everything that happen between you and the man,they will invite him over,if he deny the child that he is not sure he is the father,he will be forced to do a dna � text Nd if he is the father he will be paying your monthly for the child warfare and you can look for other means to survive,if you are in Lagos there are so many things you can do and history will not repeat itself(kindly go and learn a hand work like tailor,it will help you a lot and your daughter)don’t ever give your daughter for adoption she might be abuse too.the only reason you were in this pains was because you where lose from the mistake of your parent,it affected you too,you can end it all be still,strong,fight and never give up,the lord will be your strength.

Abuja top table today,thats good

Not all that glitter is GOLD.just stay with you boyfriend and forget any distractions.

thesicilian:
I already feel closing a bridge of such importance for 6 whole months for repairs is a big mistake. If they work night and day in shifts with high tech equipment, they should be able to finish it under 2 - 3 months.

It not a mistake but a big problem

The only advice I will give you is that, I that your brother wife sisters be playing with then don’t always get angry with them,if she do rubbish just look at her and smile and tell her no worry na your husband go suffer ham,if she is angry let her,tell but her things like suya sometimes buy her recharge card,tel her she is very beautiful and a good girl,if she always frown when she sees you tell her to smile na haba.just be free with her no drag matter with them at all and keep your cool,you see women in general them be wahala if you drag things with them,with time the problem won’t be the women it will Ben your brother he might suspect you sleeping with them,just ignore all their attitude and be very friendly with them,sometimes gossip with them.na women palaba be that.you see when a man get married the wife family is more of is priority then his immediate family.think about it.

He want to vomit suicide and he still has his phone and money with him,why can’t he keep them with his family instead.

What should we do now ?

By the time you spend money for hospital no one will tell you,Mumu man �.you better wise up

That’s good,the are thieves and they kill destroyed and rape people,have you ever wonder how many harms they have caused innocent people,this perplexed are very wicked,I no pity them at all,they can do more,years back some thief’s rob the luxurious I was traveling with the the east,they robbed everyone and burn the bus and the driver alive because he refuse to wait for them,when they try to stop him and they had to used force.

He wasn’t voted in,he rigged his way to become a president.

They need them for elections,why deployment,2023,you will go get them again to win election.

GraGra247:
No new look there. She just removed her make up.

You just spoke my mind.�

There is nothing wrong with it,some traditions give their wife’s to the family to retain the wife,as long as the husband is dead you can marry her as second wife,just only if you want.

All progressive thief (apt)that’s the new name.

abbasajao:
Only God knows number of relationships Nairalander comments have scattered.

Honestly some people advice will just make you laugh �,wait una de take snuff before una advice or una go fist go smoke marijuana?

Run for boko haram you jam Fulani herdsman,run for corona virus you jam hunger.

Good deed

Nonso92:
1 stomach, yet they're still competing for food.

Good food taste better in the mouth not the stomach

noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.

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Bro you better no kill yourself early,I had the same wife,her character was the same when we are dating or courtship,she never change even after marriage ,when ever I woke up from sleep I feel this sign of blood in my mouth in the morning,i am the only son of my parent,I took a decision to let her go,we had a son together,ever since then my heart has never been heavy as the whole time I was with her,now I am free,could you believe we are not together but I still take care of our son,we still argue,baba I tire for some kind woman,see now when I am dating any girl and I find such character and I dump them I feel pity for them,its better than frustrating my small life,I dated my wife for 6 month boom We did marriage for that sex month of courtship I love this woman more than anything we always qurrel and fight,I ignore all when we are finally married,I see the consequences,everyday quarrel and fight,now I am at peace she is at peace.no fight no querel no fight.and I have my peace of mind back.

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