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How come you havent found the right girl?? It may help if you tell NLs what you are looking for so you get the right one, Good luck.

Strange post! There is good and bad in both! If a man treats a woman badly and she doesnt deserve it then she will say men are worse. But some women can be plain evil to men who dont deserve it (some do deserve it, lol!!) he will say women are worse, lol! We just have to be the exeption

huh?? It can be either or both. Depends on the situation and the personalities of both parties.

ebonyeyes, You rock girl!! Still cant breath from laughing so much!

Ebonyeyes:
The 6th century called, they said they want a guy called "SMOOOOOOTH" back.

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minute, your so funny!!! You can not be serious. How boring if we all looked the same. It shows your ignorance if you think all fat people eat too much. Each to their own. Everyone prefers different things.

You cant do anything, she has to choose to do it herself. Encourage her but dont push her if she is not ready, it will only make it worse.

Some of us do!!!

Not sure what the 'really?' means but, No it wont be easy, you will more then likely get slammed for your comments but it will be fun, lol!!

Hey 3rnest! Welcome. Hope you enjoy!

I'm just wondering how she proves to the buyer that she is a virgin, medical certificate?? I am sure they are easier enough to fake online, Hummm! Just a thought

So Jack, i can gather by your comment that you are perfect in every way? Gods gift to womankind Whatever!!!!

Poster, Be patient and communicate with her. You didnt say why she thinks 5 years is a big difference and what exactly would be the problem. If you dont know then talk to her and find out. 5 years is no big deal. My parents are 11 years apart but it makes no difference cos they are both on the same level mentally and physically and very happy. I wish you both peace and understanding.

oh i so feel for you sophy!! What a horror to walk in on them, i cant even imagine! Yes i have been cheated on before so am very suspect especially when i see his friends openly coming over with their mistresses. I told him i cant be in the same room as these people without saying something so get me out of there. I dont get it either, i wonder why they get married or have girlfriends if they want to sleep around. I am with you girl. I have been single for 5 years by choice cos i didnt want the drama, til now. But now i just cant be bothered with the game. I am happier on my own! Take care of you! You seem like a really sweet person and i am so grateful you took the time to give me advice. I really hope one day you are treated like a queen as you deserve!!!

Poster, I would be very careful who you are calling a scumbag my dear. Afterall it is you that is messing with what doesnt belong to you. There is no excuse for messing with a married man! Your being selfish by thinking of how hard it would be for you, what about his wife to be. Do women like you have no respect for other women or just want to help themselves to what is not theirs! Walk away!!! Its the only answer!

Get a job loser!!!

cos men always want what they cant have. They cheat cos they are insecure little men who needs to cheat to get their ego stroked and make them feel worthy!!

Thanks lots sophy09, appreciate your time. I agree, better to cut my losses now than to wait for comformation on my gut feeling . Im not a big risk taker, lol!!

Wow ladies, thank you so much for your honesty. I really appreciate your advice and i am taking it on board, ive been feeling i should respect my gut but i have no proof that anything untoward is happening, only a feeling something doesnt add up. I dont want to mess with this thread but am desperate to learn.

He loves spending money on himself, but i dont like him spending it on me. I am not a material person. He spends heaps on his clothes and jewellery but i am not a spender. We are in different countries and visit every few months. I dont even know how to 'play the game', lol!! I am very new at this, lol!! We are long distance so i have no idea if he is telling me the truth and there is no way of me 'catching' him cos he knows when i am arriving but some little things have made me wonder. Plus i have met some of his friends that have wives and girlfriends in other places and are full on cheating and not even trying to hide it. Of course he says he is not like that but i just dont know. I am an aussie and he is a nigerian yoruba guy. I would value any other advice you have for me if you have had experience or know Yoruba men.

Please DO NOT convert!! To put a man before God is a bigger mistake! Be the perfect wife then he has no complaints and if he wants out cos of your faith then it will be on his head not yours. Stand firm in your faith!! If has changed his mind about your faith then he can feel free to leave at any time.