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It also sounds like a case of, 'wanting what you cant have'!!! More than love!

If you walk away you deserve every good thing, if you stay to pursue him then you deserve all the bad coming your way! He doesnt belong to you so it doesnt matter how hard it is, its a non issue cos he is with someone else, end of story!

If you take him off this girlfriend then how will you feel when another girl comes and takes him off you?? He is NOT yours!!!

viva is speaking truth, you would be wise to take her advice on board, As with any guy, just watch, listen and see what happens. Be smart girl. You are so young and at his age he would have a lot more 'world' experience than you. Good luck to you!

Dont search for it. Relax and enjoy everything and you will fall over the top of it, until then, have a blast!!!

Poster, wow!!! It must be rough being this bitter and twisted!!! And some guys wonder why they cant find a decent woman with this attitude! What a lot of dribble!!!

Just a tip, us women have a way to make you think you are in control but we are the ones pulling the strings, lol!!!! The joke is on you!!!

She isnt telling you the truth! You CAN NOT catch anything from a toilet seat, thats a ridiculous lie made by people who are trying to screw you over!!! Honestly, check it out. Ask a doctor, its rubbish. Regardless of the 'virgin' thing she is lying to you about everything else. So i would be asking why she is lying, what is she hiding!!!

You are a much stronger women than me sista-jay! I wish you all the happiness you deserve!

, and your still with him sista-jay

Good for you!! she is out there and she does exist and she is just for you only! Dont listen to the friends they will be so jealous when you introduce her to them. Good luck!

Nope!!!!!!!!

Excuse me guys, i just wanted to tell you that i'm lovin reading your stuff!!! Very entertaining, keep it coming!! Thats all, leave you to it, Enjoy!!!

Huh??

Absolutely there is, maybe your looking in the wrong place. Never settle for anything other than what you want! I just hope you have your eyes open and treat her right when you find her.

Soooooo funny, Ive laughed 128 or 129 times!!!

Everyone is telling you that you cant quit and NOT hurt her!!! You wanted advice so listen to them. YOU WILL HURT HER!! Thats a fact of life.

Just one more chance!!! Personally i believe once a cheater always a cheater but he may of made one mistake so up to you. But definately if he does it again and you will know this time before he tells you.

As far as them saying what if the next guy could cheat on you then i would keep dumping their butts! It is such a BS cop out for a guy to say , oh i couldnt help it, im a man!!! There is a thing called self control!!!

You absolutely reap what you sow, which is the same as karma. It may not look like people get theirs but they will. Maybe not straight away but definately, and its usually worse when it comes back to you. And for all those that think it doesnt, just keep thinking that!!

tell her to buy it herself!!! Or ask her what she will give you in return, lol!!

Hahahah!!! Sooooo funny!!! Of course she knows exactly when she was disvirgined!! Its not something you wouldnt notice happening! Cracks me up!!! She is spinning you a story, dont be fooled!

why would the ladies put their pics up here so you guys can rip them apart and rate them?? They deserve much better than that.

as the others here have said, after four years she will be hurt, no way around that. Thats a huge peice of her life given to you. Be a man, grow a pair and tell her. Dont slink away like a snake. After four years she deserves better than that. I am also wondering how you love someone for four years then you just dont. I think there is more to it.

Ojigho:
Thanks everyone for at least trying in your little ways 2 brighten my mood.All u saying i should have had a spare tyre,i appreciate your comments,but i guess i just couldn't bring myself to sweetalking 2 women at the same time.U might call me old fashioned,some might even call me a mugu,but i date only one woman at a time.Maybe i inherited 2much of my mom's hormones ie being diplomatic and loving 2much,but i still believe that it should be one man and one woman.I might be hurting now,but some day,somehow,somewhere i'd meet someone who'd love me 4me.

Do NOT change a thing about yourself. The world needs men like you! There are enough players out there. Please take care of yourself and allow yourself time.

Let me put it this way, I never have and i never will!! Plenty of other girls are willing to give it up on a first date so no need for me to!

snowdrops:
Says who? With your holier than thou attitude

Well said!!!!

hell to the NO!!!!

Why not, if you truly love her you wont care. The divorce may not of been her choice. And a real man could handle babies daddy! Maybe she wasnt meant to be with her ex. If she chose to divorce him i would be asking why.

No! We are obviously ex for a reason. The special day in my life and i would want to be surrounded buy family and friends that i care for. The past should stay in the past.

Sorry for your pain but breaking up hurts. It will suck for a while but you will get past it! It does pay to be faithful cos one day when you have the right girl it will all of been worth it.

four years is a long time and people change and grow up, mature, etc! Wow you must be so tense hanging on to all these grudges! Let it go, unless your perfect and have never done wrong by anyone.

Valentines day is a crock. Girls that dont get anything whine and complain. No need to buy, just do something nice for each other, doesnt cost anything but i agree with everyone here, it shouldnt be just one day and cos you feel you have to cos its val day, silly!!